glowing-fish posted:

See, this is the type of stuff that I am talking about. You might think this is all "fun and games", but the truth is these comments, whether made honestly or "ironically", perpetuate harmful stereotypes. Although, in fact, they even come short of those stereotypes because they ignore the positive stereotype that homosexuals are neat and well-appointed.

My objection is not that people wish to do these things. It is that they describe these erotic, scintillating acts in such crass term.

ilikedirt, instead of portraying the pleasures of self-insertion in such ungrammatical and slapdash turns, perhaps you couold say "Because I am able to penetrate my own anal orifice with my own phallus, forming a circuit of pleasure in which I am both the lover and the loved".

and Calvin Johnson Jr. , you could say "May I join you in such pleasures, metaphorically elicting a ring of resonance from you as a I strike the center of your ecstasy?"

Its really not that hard to put some effort into these things.