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Dr. Snuggles
Dec 3, 2012

Tbh some of us (Pick) use this website more than others and I feel that I am unfairly subsidizing picks posting. Unless some kind of fee by post usage is enabled were basically instituting a forced welfare state of posting.

Benny Harvey posted:

I am comfortable by myself. I'm just worried what people will think of me if they find out what I'm really like: depressed, spineless and with no interest in anything except food and porn.

e: And I'm afraid I might get bullied.

I have gotten to know people as friends. And although I'm not a social person, how attracted I am to a woman does sometimes change over time.

I wouldn't worry too much about relationship advice from people on the internet.

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Taffer
Oct 15, 2010


Benny Harvey posted:

I am comfortable by myself. I'm just worried what people will think of me if they find out what I'm really like: depressed, spineless and with no interest in anything except food and porn.

e: And I'm afraid I might get bullied.

I have gotten to know people as friends. And although I'm not a social person, how attracted I am to a woman does sometimes change over time.

This is pretty much textbook "not comfortable with yourself". You may have tricked yourself into thinking you're fine with it all, but if you're worried about how other people are judging you all the time then you are clearly not comfortable with it.

Ego Death
Sep 15, 2012

by Ralp
i only want bjork

Benny Harvey
Nov 24, 2012

Taffer posted:

This is pretty much textbook "not comfortable with yourself". You may have tricked yourself into thinking you're fine with it all, but if you're worried about how other people are judging you all the time then you are clearly not comfortable with it.

I'm fine by myself, it's other people that make me feel on edge.

Harakiri Potter
Oct 18, 2004

REACH HEAVEN THROUGH VIOLENCE BABY
i was with this chick for like a few decades and then i was like nah

I am Toni Lippi
Aug 16, 2004

Ego Death posted:

i only want bjork

ashgromnies
Jun 19, 2004

Benny Harvey posted:

I'm fine by myself, it's other people that make me feel on edge.

Impulse is not the same as reaction; reaction is the internal process resulting from impulse filtered through preference and predilection.

Deep Thought
Mar 7, 2005
Oh man this forum is sad sometimes. I bet other forums aren't this self-hating.

The schizotypal-loner guys don't need a girlfriend. The ugly and fat guys can't get a girlfriend. The insecure guys who don't have the girlfriend they want but feel better for having one are a bunch of gay asses.

I am Toni Lippi
Aug 16, 2004
That's deep bro

Deep Thought
Mar 7, 2005
i'm 2deep4u

nomadologique
Mar 9, 2011

DUNK A DILL PICKLE REALDO

LethalGeek posted:

even then I don't try but so hard

since you apparently don't know the key to your own success i'm just pointing it out for you

now you know

skeletonotherkin
Sep 26, 2014

Deep Thought posted:

Oh man this forum is sad sometimes. I bet other forums aren't this self-hating.

The schizotypal-loner guys don't need a girlfriend. The ugly and fat guys can't get a girlfriend. The insecure guys who don't have the girlfriend they want but feel better for having one are a bunch of gay asses.

I'm hoping I'm the szhizotypal-loner kind.

Benny Harvey
Nov 24, 2012

ashgromnies posted:

Impulse is not the same as reaction; reaction is the internal process resulting from impulse filtered through preference and predilection.

So what you're saying is that I feel bad around other people because I have no sense of self-esteem to fall back on?

LethalGeek
Nov 4, 2009

nomadologique posted:

since you apparently don't know the key to your own success i'm just pointing it out for you

now you know

Less that and more if I strike out who cares there's already someone at home. Win win

toggle
Nov 7, 2005

bjork is life

Jellidelic
Nov 28, 2011

Taffer posted:

This is pretty much textbook "not comfortable with yourself". You may have tricked yourself into thinking you're fine with it all, but if you're worried about how other people are judging you all the time then you are clearly not comfortable with it.

It's weird how people can identify these flaws in themselves like lacking in interests or something like that, and then they just kinda live in spite of it instead of doing anything about it.

Or maybe he is just actually comfortable with these issues who knows.

Benny Harvey
Nov 24, 2012

Jellidelic posted:

It's weird how people can identify these flaws in themselves like lacking in interests or something like that, and then they just kinda live in spite of it instead of doing anything about it.

Or maybe he is just actually comfortable with these issues who knows.

I don't even know anymore.

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Luvcow
Jul 1, 2007

One day nearer spring

Ego Death posted:

i only want bjork

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