you were warned posted:

Panniculus Rift posted:

spreadin' & splainin' like a true man

LegoPirateNinja posted:

it starts with the word "actually" and ends with masturbating alone

Troposphere posted:

yeah it sounds dumb to men but this is a thing that is beat into our heads since we were born so it can be very hard to shake

I grew up in the Midwest and my mom was a proper Midwestern lady who taught me to always be painfully polite and cautious and it's taken me a very long time to break out of that and be the mean bitch I was destined to be

Halloween Jack posted:

I'm a man and my mom was terrified I'd get mugged every time I walked to my grandparents' house one block over. In a town with a population of 700. So this is more of a "mothers are ridiculous and annoying" thing.

ElGroucho posted:

This just in:

Women are their own worst enemy, but in a passive-aggressive manner

ElGroucho posted:

This just in:

Women are their own worst enemy, but in a passive-aggressive manner

ArbitraryC posted:

I saw a funny study where they used an actress dressing in various ways showing up to college classes with different demographics and they found that it was largely women not men that gossipped and slutshamed when they saw her wearing more revealing clothing and such.

Skylark posted:

Yeah, men don't actually beat or rape women.. Shut the gently caress up

ArbitraryC posted:

I saw a funny study where they used an actress dressing in various ways showing up to college classes with different demographics and they found that it was largely women not men that gossipped and slutshamed when they saw her wearing more revealing clothing and such.

ElGroucho posted:

Whoa, calm down

I don't know if you get this comedy website

DEAD MAN'S SHOE posted:

Seriously, this is such a big component in the whole dynamic that I wasn't taking into account.
It stands to reason that bullies will take advantage of this behavioural programming

CrashCat posted:

We're also fed the story that women like assertive men who take the initiative (hence that whole "beta" thing) but that doesn't magically make people good at it. So some people think they're being alpha and great while running their mouths off like total idiots.

Applewhite posted:

Hate to break it to you but the story is true.

Maoist Pussy posted:

BUT! they have to also not be total idiots for it to work, they don't tell you this.

CrashCat posted:

Well, the story includes the fantasy that they aren't idiot men who screw it up

Maoist Pussy posted:

Actually, dudes who cry alot, like constant deep blubbering with snot and tears and shuddering sobs, get all the bebes. BUT! they have to also not be total idiots for it to work, they don't tell you this.

ArbitraryC posted:

I saw a funny study where they used an actress dressing in various ways showing up to college classes with different demographics and they found that it was largely women not men that gossipped and slutshamed when they saw her wearing more revealing clothing and such.

Sam Pink posted:

Yeah, everything feminist rail against like rigid gender roles, and slut shaming are entirely promoted and enforced by them. Men act like violent thugs because that's what women respond to. It's a primal thing and they don't even realize it. How many men do you know that break down crying and refuse to fight all the time get pussy? NONE! Women do not change after high school. Every women still wants that star quaterback. Likewise slut shaming and prostitution prohibition comes entirely from women. I don't know one man that thinks prostitution should be outlawed. Every women I know thinks it's disgusting, should be made illegal, and that men who partake should be put under the jail. Women hate prostitution because it disrupts the natural order of things. The dozen or so guys that she has orbiting would be spending their money and most importantly their attention on someone else. If low smv men could find a safe legal place to get sexual release and a little intimacy than the friend zone would become a low populated area that's for sure! Also I know I this is controversial but a lot of women truly enjoy seeing low value men suffer and go without. Any guy that was an outcast in school will tell you that girls were the primary tormentors not boys. Most guys do not care how much or little sex another man is having but for most women that's all they care about because that's all a large portion of them have to offer. Sex is their only resource. That's also why I contend that women are much more homophobic than men on averqge.

EXTREME INSERTION posted:

Ah, my Jon pop summoning worked

Sam Pink posted:

Yeah, everything feminist rail against like rigid gender roles, and slut shaming are entirely promoted and enforced by them. Men act like violent thugs because that's what women respond to. It's a primal thing and they don't even realize it. How many men do you know that break down crying and refuse to fight all the time get pussy? NONE! Women do not change after high school. Every women still wants that star quaterback. Likewise slut shaming and prostitution prohibition comes entirely from women. I don't know one man that thinks prostitution should be outlawed. Every women I know thinks it's disgusting, should be made illegal, and that men who partake should be put under the jail. Women hate prostitution because it disrupts the natural order of things. The dozen or so guys that she has orbiting would be spending their money and most importantly their attention on someone else. If low smv men could find a safe legal place to get sexual release and a little intimacy than the friend zone would become a low populated area that's for sure! Also I know I this is controversial but a lot of women truly enjoy seeing low value men suffer and go without. Any guy that was an outcast in school will tell you that girls were the primary tormentors not boys. Most guys do not care how much or little sex another man is having but for most women that's all they care about because that's all a large portion of them have to offer. Sex is their only resource. That's also why I contend that women are much more homophobic than men on averqge.

Modest Mauser posted:

Go the gently caress away, you pitiful weirdo.
You must be single-handedly funding SA at this point.

Sam Pink posted:

Yeah, everything feminist rail against like rigid gender roles, and slut shaming are entirely promoted and enforced by them. Men act like violent thugs because that's what women respond to. It's a primal thing and they don't even realize it. How many men do you know that break down crying and refuse to fight all the time get pussy? NONE! Women do not change after high school. Every women still wants that star quaterback. Likewise slut shaming and prostitution prohibition comes entirely from women. I don't know one man that thinks prostitution should be outlawed. Every women I know thinks it's disgusting, should be made illegal, and that men who partake should be put under the jail. Women hate prostitution because it disrupts the natural order of things. The dozen or so guys that she has orbiting would be spending their money and most importantly their attention on someone else. If low smv men could find a safe legal place to get sexual release and a little intimacy than the friend zone would become a low populated area that's for sure! Also I know I this is controversial but a lot of women truly enjoy seeing low value men suffer and go without. Any guy that was an outcast in school will tell you that girls were the primary tormentors not boys. Most guys do not care how much or little sex another man is having but for most women that's all they care about because that's all a large portion of them have to offer. Sex is their only resource. That's also why I contend that women are much more homophobic than men on averqge.

ALL-PRO SEXMAN posted:

nomadologique posted:

while i don't necessarily disagree with this, there are two things:

one, you are privileging aggressive behavior.

two, if we want to privilege aggressive behavior across the board, that is a "problem" bc we teach men to be aggressive and women to be passive.

now we find ourselves in a complex situation, bc: either aggression/passion is , and by privileging aggression we are trying to encourage women to be something they are not; or these behaviors are not , and we need to ask why we are privileging aggression.

I am Toni Lippi posted:

Mansplant. Is that a word? I feel like it should be.

Skylark posted:

Yeah, men don't actually beat or rape women.. Shut the gently caress up

Sam Pink posted:

Every women I know thinks it's disgusting, should be made illegal, and that men who partake should be put under the jail. Women hate prostitution because it disrupts the natural order of things. The dozen or so guys that she has orbiting would be spending their money and most importantly their attention on someone else.

ALL-PRO SEXMAN posted: