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Shifty Pony
Dec 28, 2004

Up ta somethin'


I got my yard sign for the NC vote, woo! That's really about the most I can do (besides give money, which has already happened) because I'm subject to the Hatch Act and I don't trust the bigots to not harass anyone they can.

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Technogeek
Sep 9, 2002

by FactsAreUseless

CaptBubba posted:

I got my yard sign for the NC vote, woo! That's really about the most I can do (besides give money, which has already happened) because I'm subject to the Hatch Act and I don't trust the bigots to not harass anyone they can.



Pretty sure the Hatch Act only applies to partisan elections -- even those subject to the most restrictions under it are allowed to "campaign for or against referendum questions, constitutional amendments, or municipal ordinances", according to the Office of Special Counsel.

Shifty Pony
Dec 28, 2004

Up ta somethin'


Technogeek posted:

Pretty sure the Hatch Act only applies to partisan elections -- even those subject to the most restrictions under it are allowed to "campaign for or against referendum questions, constitutional amendments, or municipal ordinances", according to the Office of Special Counsel.

I can campaign for or against it, however due to the extremely partisan nature of the issue I am concerned that the prohibitions on collecting money would kick in, and as I work from home I worry that someone would attempt to argue that I'm not allowed to do anything in the house because it became a "government office". In reality I don't think they would be successful at all, however I am not in any way interested in being a test case on the issue so I'm just avoiding it while being as vocal as possible in my views on the amendment.

UltimoDragonQuest
Oct 5, 2011



The Massachusetts-based cases against DOMA Section 3 (federal refusal to recognize same sex marriages) will be argued April 4th in the 1st Circuit Court of Appeals.

In the California based case (against DOMA, not Prop 8), Dept. of Justice has asked for an 11 judge en banc review from the 9th Circuit. Rather than going the slow route (3 judge judge->11 judge panel->SCOTUS) with arguments relying on High Tech Gays vs. DISCO (the most amazingly named case ever) which is kind of outdated in light of Romer and Lawrence they want the 9th Circuit to "directly consider afresh whether, as the government argues, heightened scrutiny applies to classifications based on sexual orientation".

I don't know if they'll speed the process along but we'll surely win because there's no legitimate state interest in refusing federal recognition.

Mr Ice Cream Glove
Apr 22, 2007

UltimoDragonQuest posted:

The Massachusetts-based cases against DOMA Section 3 (federal refusal to recognize same sex marriages) will be argued April 4th in the 1st Circuit Court of Appeals.

In the California based case (against DOMA, not Prop 8), Dept. of Justice has asked for an 11 judge en banc review from the 9th Circuit. Rather than going the slow route (3 judge judge->11 judge panel->SCOTUS) with arguments relying on High Tech Gays vs. DISCO (the most amazingly named case ever) which is kind of outdated in light of Romer and Lawrence they want the 9th Circuit to "directly consider afresh whether, as the government argues, heightened scrutiny applies to classifications based on sexual orientation".

I don't know if they'll speed the process along but we'll surely win because there's no legitimate state interest in refusing federal recognition.

And in related DOMA news

quote:

Ever since House Speaker John Boehner (R-Ohio) signed on last year to defend the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) in court, it's been a mystery trying to figure out where, exactly, he was getting the taxpayer funds to pay for it.

But those numbers became clear Tuesday as lawmakers sparred over the point, and the costs, of the House hiring outside attorneys to defend the federal ban on gay marriage at a time when money is tight and when various courts -- but not the U.S. Supreme Court -- have ruled that the law is unconstitutional.

Boehner so far has collected $742,000 to defend DOMA, and that money was skimmed from funds that would normally go toward House officer and employee salaries, Chief Administrative Officer Dan Strodel told members of a House Appropriations subcommittee. Strodel said none of that money came out of the budget of the Justice Department, which dropped its defense of DOMA in February 2011 after Attorney General Eric Holder determined it to be unconstitutional. Boehner, in his authority as speaker, has been defending the law on behalf of the federal government ever since.

Shalebridge Cradle
Apr 23, 2008


I think this is the best place to post this considering how influential NOM is in the gay marriage debates.

http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5ggVIwPUsnDkAiTRJcC46mTqYoFMQ?docId=36fa8ba7239147d2836de6dfe1aac0ac

Gay-marriage foes sought to split gays and blacks posted:

The leading national organization opposing same-sex marriage has sought to split the Democratic Party base by pitting African-Americans and Hispanics against gay-rights groups, according to confidential strategy memos made public by court officials in Maine.
"The strategic goal of this project is to drive a wedge between gays and blacks — two key Democratic constituencies," says one of the memos. It also suggests "interrupting" the process of cultural assimilation for Hispanics in hopes of curtailing support for same-sex marriage.
The documents, dating from 2009, were written by the National Organization for Marriage and had been kept from the public until Monday, when they were unsealed by court officials in Maine.
They were part of a two-pronged legal challenge of Maine's financial disclosure laws. Still unresolved is whether the NOM will have to release the names of donors to its successful 2009 campaign to ban same-sex marriage in Maine.
The Human Rights Campaign, a major gay-rights organization, first circulated the documents Monday night, and its president, Joe Solmonese, assailed the strategies that they detailed.
"With the veil lifted, Americans everywhere can now see the ugly politics that the National Organization for Marriage traffics in every day," Solmonese said. "While loving gay and lesbian couples seek to make lifelong commitments, NOM plays racial politics, tries to hide donors and makes up lies about people of faith."
Through the Human Rights Campaign, veteran civil rights leader Julian Bond also condemned the NOM strategy.
"NOM's underhanded attempts to divide will not succeed if Black Americans remember their own history of discrimination," said the statement from Bond, a former chairman of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People. "Pitting bigotry's victims against other victims is reprehensible; the defenders of justice must stand together."
NOM's president, Brian Brown, was unapologetic, issuing a brief statement hailing his organization's collaboration with other black and Hispanic leaders, including Bishop Harry Jackson, a Maryland church pastor, and New York state Sen. Ruben Diaz Sr.
"Gay marriage advocates have attempted to portray same-sex marriage as a civil right, but the voices of these and many other leaders have provided powerful witness that this claim is patently false," Brown said.
"Gay marriage is not a civil right, and we will continue to point this out in written materials such as those released in Maine," Brown added. "We proudly bring together people of different races, creeds and colors to fight for our most fundamental institution: marriage."
The NOM documents depicted Democratic Party leaders as "increasingly inclined to privilege the concerns of gay rights groups over the values of African-Americans."
"Find, equip, energize and connect African-American spokespeople for marriage; develop a media campaign around their objections to gay marriage as a civil right; provoke the gay marriage base into responding by denouncing these spokesmen and women as bigots," one memo said.
The memos stressed the pivotal political role of Latinos as a swing constituency.
"Will the process of assimilation to the dominant Anglo culture lead Hispanics to abandon traditional family values?" one NOM memo asked. "We must interrupt this process of assimilation by making support for marriage a key badge of Latino identity ... a symbol of resistance to inappropriate assimilation."
The NOM strategy also called for portraying President Barack Obama as a "social radical" and seeking to cast same-sex marriage in a negative light by linking it to other issues, such as pornography and sexualizing of children.

Evan Wolfson of Freedom to Marry, a national advocacy group supporting same-sex marriage, said the memos suggest the NOM "will stop at nothing to push its agenda, pitting American against American, minority against minority, family members against family members."
"These smoking-gun documents show how NOM has sought, in the most cynical ways imaginable, to bait the gay community in hopes of provoking a hurt response that would further divide," he said.
The NOM is playing an active role this year as battles over same-sex marriage unfold in several states.
In Maryland and Washington, the organization and its allies are gathering signatures to place measures on the Nov. 6 ballot that would overturn recently passed same-sex marriage laws.
In Maine, it will be seeking defeat of a measure already placed on the November ballot that would legalize same-sex marriage. In North Carolina and Minnesota, the NOM is supporting ballot measures that would amend the state constitutions to define marriage as only between a man and woman.
The unsealed court documents illustrated that the NOM sometimes falls short of its goals. The memos said a priority for 2010 was to repeal gay-marriage laws in New Hampshire, Iowa, and Washington, D.C. But same-sex marriage remains in effect in those three jurisdictions along with Massachusetts, Connecticut, Vermont and New York.
The memos contained extensive details about NOM's finances, but they do not identify individual donors, including three who had given more than $1 million apiece as of late 2009.
In Maine, the group leading the campaign to legalize same-sex marriage — Mainers United for Marriage — announced the appointment of Matt McTighe as campaign manager. He had been the state public education director for Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, a Boston-based gay-rights law firm.
McTighe said he was reviewing the NOM documents Tuesday, but was troubled by what he saw on first take.
"We try to focus on telling the positive stories on why marriage matters to all committed loving couples in Maine, and here they are trying to use fear and scare tactics to turn people off," he said.
Crary reported from New York. Associated Press writer Clarke Canfield in Portland, Maine, contributed to this report. David Crary can be followed on Twitter at http://twitter.com/CraryAP.
On the Net:
One of the unsealed NOM memos: http://bit.ly/GUGMhZ

Zero VGS
Aug 16, 2002
ASK ME ABOUT HOW HUMAN LIVES THAT MADE VIDEO GAME CONTROLLERS ARE WORTH MORE
Lipstick Apathy
I was just about to post that and when I did a refresh you had beaten me. What a bombshell. I mean that's how I figure NOM types think but to see it all spelled out on a confidential paper is nauseating. Glad to see they're still intentionally conflating gays and child molesters in 2009.

Shalebridge Cradle
Apr 23, 2008


Zero VGS posted:

I was just about to post that and when I did a refresh you had beaten me. What a bombshell. I mean that's how I figure NOM types think but to see it all spelled out on a confidential paper is nauseating. Glad to see they're still intentionally conflating gays and child molesters in 2009.

The really funny thing about this is it gives the people who hate Dan Savage some heavy ammunition. I was pretty neutral about him before, but seeing how what people like him said following prop 8 become the NOM line of attack is really damning.

Mr Ice Cream Glove
Apr 22, 2007

Speaking of equal rights for all:

Meet the two newest ads for Prop 5 in Anchorage Alaska

John owns a gay bar and hires gays..."

TRANSGENDER DAYCARE WORKERS!!!!

WOMENS LOCKEROOMS FOR DUDES!

I thought the Pete Hoekstra ad was bad but these are reprehensible.

Why is Anchorage so upset?

quote:

Prop 5 is a proposed ordinance to extend anti-discrimination legal protections to gay and transgender citizens

ErIog
Jul 11, 2001

:nsacloud:
The best part of those ads is the end with, "Anchorage is already a tolerant community..." It gives the impression like, "Tolerance? We're all full up on that. If we had anymore tolerance we'd be bursting." Like we're all just supposed to hear that and go, "Oh, right! I see. Tolerance is something akin to garlic and having too much would spoil the whole dish. That makes complete sense."

I also love that no matter how "totally not bigoted" they swear they are up and down it comes out whenever they try to describe any scenario involving anyone in the LGBT community. Transgender becomes "transvestite" complete with a man-in-dress caricature. A gay bar owner becomes a rainbow-clad militant that refuses to hire straight people.

You can tell they really crafted these in such a way that they were trying really really hard to not let their bigotry show. Hence, they're lame in every possible respect and they try to frame it in terms of restricting the rights of LGBT business owners. Yet based on their choice of symbols the entire thing is just completely shot through with it.

It's quietly, and with an amazing lack of class, one of the most offensive things I've seen.

ErIog fucked around with this message at 10:23 on Mar 31, 2012

Megillah Gorilla
Sep 22, 2003

If only all of life's problems could be solved by smoking a professor of ancient evil texts.



Bread Liar

Shalebridge Cradle posted:

I think this is the best place to post this considering how influential NOM is in the gay marriage debates.

http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5ggVIwPUsnDkAiTRJcC46mTqYoFMQ?docId=36fa8ba7239147d2836de6dfe1aac0ac

To paraphrase someone in the GBS thread, it's like they're aware that the only way they could ever convince people of their position it to lie to them, but they're unwilling to take that final tiny step and consider what that actually means.

breaklaw
May 12, 2008
Anybody else think Obama might come out for marriage equality if he gets a second term? I think he might. Or at least something like not letting states ban civil unions. There's been rumors and hints and I think he'll do it.

Riptor
Apr 13, 2003

here's to feelin' good all the time
I wouldn't be surprised if he does once he wins a second term but I don't see him doing it one second earlier than that unfortunately

Loving Life Partner
Apr 17, 2003

breaklaw posted:

Anybody else think Obama might come out for marriage equality if he gets a second term? I think he might. Or at least something like not letting states ban civil unions. There's been rumors and hints and I think he'll do it.

I can see him supporting a constitutional measure to "one and done" the whole issue in his second term.

It's so lovely that the LGBT community has to have their rights suspended in the face of politics, but Obama is really their best shot for a decisive victory, so you just have to grin and bear it until the re-election, when it's "too late" and all the campaigning is done and it isn't a massive splinter issue that can cost him the general because of hateful bigoted poo poo heads.

UltimoDragonQuest
Oct 5, 2011



breaklaw posted:

Anybody else think Obama might come out for marriage equality if he gets a second term? I think he might. Or at least something like not letting states ban civil unions. There's been rumors and hints and I think he'll do it.
It's possible, but it's not a big deal. His position is some combination of cynical, short-sighted, and cowardly, but I don't think changing it has practical effects. Too much is made of the power of a small endorsement. He's not going to find 60 Senators to repeal DOMA and I seriously doubt his policy shift is enough to sway legislators and voters in states we currently cannot win.

I would prefer a (much less likely) change in action to a change in policy. It would be great if he got serious about opposing anti-gay legislation. No more soulless press releases but instead videos explaining exactly why it is wrong to repeal or ban civil rights.

I think the tipping point on marriage is when Hawaii and probably Illinois legalize it the next 4 years. His position will be completely ridiculous and it's hard to believe there will be any internal polling showing it hurts the party to be the de jur party of marriage equality after 4+ years de facto.

If nobody dies/retires and they don't make a comically narrow decision, SCOTUS is ruling DOMA Section 3 unconstitutional in 2013 and we're getting federal recognition. I don't think an amendment is a good way to repeal Section 2, because it would take 60 Senators and 30+ states while giving federal courts a great excuse to ignore the issue for 10 years.

Ialdabaoth
Nov 3, 2006

East side, west side,
All around the block,
The Bootlegger's
rushin' bizness
At all hours
of the clock.

Loving Life Partner posted:

I can see him supporting a constitutional measure to "one and done" the whole issue in his second term.

It's so lovely that the LGBT community has to have their rights suspended in the face of politics, but Obama is really their best shot for a decisive victory, so you just have to grin and bear it until the re-election, when it's "too late" and all the campaigning is done and it isn't a massive splinter issue that can cost him the general because of hateful bigoted poo poo heads.

Obama isn't a 'best shot for a decisive victory' any more than the democratic party as a whole, which has at best been a opportunistic rhetorical supporter of lgbt rights (during election season) -- it's like referring to a mousetrap as a mouse's best shot at a decisive cheese. You might say Obama is our best shot for a mealymouthed campaign promise.

gohuskies
Oct 23, 2010

I spend a lot of time making posts to justify why I'm not a self centered shithead that just wants to act like COVID isn't a thing.

Ialdabaoth posted:

Obama isn't a 'best shot for a decisive victory' any more than the democratic party as a whole, which has at best been a opportunistic rhetorical supporter of lgbt rights (during election season) -- it's like referring to a mousetrap as a mouse's best shot at a decisive cheese. You might say Obama is our best shot for a mealymouthed campaign promise.

I agree, Democrats are total sell-outs on LGBT issues. Which is why it was some hypothetical third party, not Democrats, that passed marriage equality in Washington, Maryland, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont, and DC. Oh, wait.

Amused to Death
Aug 10, 2009

google "The Night Witches", and prepare for :stare:

gohuskies posted:

I agree, Democrats are total sell-outs on LGBT issues. Which is why it was some hypothetical third party, not Democrats, that passed marriage equality in Washington, Maryland, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont, and DC. Oh, wait.

To be fair it was the court here in CT, but at the same time that's because we had a Republican governor at the time who said she'd veto any gay marriage bill out of the Dem controlled assembly.

But yeah one party is considering this year as adding marriage quality to their national platform at their convention, one party runs on a platform of a constitutional amendment to ban same sex marriage. There's kind of a difference between the parties on this issue.

Also traditionally GOP dominated states aren't doing so great in employment protection either
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:LGBT_employment_discrimination_law_in_the_United_States.svg

Hell two southern states actually rescinded protections.

Ialdabaoth
Nov 3, 2006

East side, west side,
All around the block,
The Bootlegger's
rushin' bizness
At all hours
of the clock.

gohuskies posted:

I agree, Democrats are total sell-outs on LGBT issues. Which is why it was some hypothetical third party, not Democrats, that passed marriage equality in Washington, Maryland, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont, and DC. Oh, wait.

In some states public pressure has compelled them to enact overwhelming popular measures yet they are running behind the times. Look how swimmingly efforts in Illinois have turned out -- the democratic state government follows Obama's lead by rejecting equal marriage. In fact, they've been quashing same-sex marriage bills for over a decade and only passed civil unions to get folks to shut up. It is interesting that you bring up third parties, but I think you fail to develop the point. While there is no realistic alternative, democrats have nothing to lose by taking the politically expedient route of sidelining civil rights until they can no longer afford to ignore the issue.

A GIANT PARSNIP
Apr 13, 2010

Too much fuckin' eggnog


gohuskies posted:

I agree, Democrats are total sell-outs on LGBT issues. Which is why it was some hypothetical third party, not Democrats, that passed marriage equality in Washington, Maryland, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont, and DC. Oh, wait.

The Democratic President of the United States was against gay marriage when elected in 2008 and stated in 2010 that his views were "evolving". That's pretty much the definition of "opportunistic rhetorical supporter of lgbt rights".

gohuskies
Oct 23, 2010

I spend a lot of time making posts to justify why I'm not a self centered shithead that just wants to act like COVID isn't a thing.

A GIANT PARSNIP posted:

The Democratic President of the United States was against gay marriage when elected in 2008 and stated in 2010 that his views were "evolving". That's pretty much the definition of "opportunistic rhetorical supporter of lgbt rights".

Yes, if you ignore all the things that Democrats are doing for LGBT rights, then it looks like Democrats aren't doing anything for LGBT rights.

UltimoDragonQuest
Oct 5, 2011



^^^ Complaining about the Democrats in federal government is more than fair, but it's ridiculous to deny that Democrats in state government are the most effective force for LGBT rights.

Ialdabaoth posted:

In some states public pressure has compelled them to enact overwhelming popular measures yet they are running behind the times. Look how swimmingly efforts in Illinois have turned out -- the democratic state government follows Obama's lead by rejecting equal marriage. In fact, they've been quashing same-sex marriage bills for over a decade and only passed civil unions to get folks to shut up. It is interesting that you bring up third parties, but I think you fail to develop the point. While there is no realistic alternative, democrats have nothing to lose by taking the politically expedient route of sidelining civil rights until they can no longer afford to ignore the issue.
When Illinois passed civil unions in 2010, no state had ever passed a marriage law without a previously passing a civil unions law, and the year before New York failed to do exactly that. Legislated same sex marriage has only been a thing since 2009 excluding the California bill that everyone knew was symbolic and unconstitutional.

The voters of Illinois did not support marriage equality in 2010.
Survey of Chicago and suburbs
Do you support same sex marriage?
Yes-No-Don't know
42-42-14

Statewide survey
Which recognition of same sex couples would you prefer?
Marriage-Unions-Nothing-Don't know
33.6-33.9-26.5-6

The legislature has killed marriage bills for decades because there has never been public support until very recently.

UltimoDragonQuest fucked around with this message at 02:22 on Apr 1, 2012

sexpig by night
Sep 8, 2011

by Azathoth

gohuskies posted:

Yes, if you ignore all the things that Democrats are doing for LGBT rights, then it looks like Democrats aren't doing anything for LGBT rights.

:qq: guys you'll get your rights when we get around to iiiiiit

Mrit
Sep 26, 2007

by exmarx
Grimey Drawer
The Democrats care about 1 thing: getting elected. If they see pushing for/allowing gay rights to be a detriment to that, then they will squash it.
It is poo poo, but so is our system. And expecting anything else is dreaming.

gohuskies
Oct 23, 2010

I spend a lot of time making posts to justify why I'm not a self centered shithead that just wants to act like COVID isn't a thing.

Glitterbomber posted:

:qq: guys you'll get your rights when we get around to iiiiiit

:qq: yourself. I phonebanked for marriage equality in Washington, calling voters in the districts of swing legislators to tell them to contact their legislators with messages of support for the bill, at phone banks organized by our local Democratic party. What have you done for marriage equality lately?

duck monster
Dec 15, 2004

BattleMaster posted:

Well it looks like my idea is bunk anyways since it looks like any random person can gain the rights to make marriages official, not just priests. My idea was to make marriage "nothing special" by removing the legal rights from the religious organizations so that all they can perform are unofficial ceremonies but clearly I was confused about how things work.

I have this idea that what the government should do is actually remove the concept of marriage from government and replace it with a concept of dependency. That is, people are free to arange their families any drat way they want, and the government then recognizes that for the purposes of tax/inheritance/insurance/whatever. So gay dudes can start a gay family, mormons can have their silly polygamous marriages, people can have communal families, whatever rocks peoples socks. The govt just has to acknowledge it has no role in deciding peoples morality in this, and simply acknowledge peoples choices and support them.

Hieronymous Alloy
Jan 30, 2009


Why! Why!! Why must you refuse to accept that Dr. Hieronymous Alloy's Genetically Enhanced Cream Corn Is Superior to the Leading Brand on the Market!?!




Morbid Hound

duck monster posted:

I have this idea that what the government should do is actually remove the concept of marriage from government and replace it with a concept of dependency. That is, people are free to arange their families any drat way they want, and the government then recognizes that for the purposes of tax/inheritance/insurance/whatever. So gay dudes can start a gay family, mormons can have their silly polygamous marriages, people can have communal families, whatever rocks peoples socks. The govt just has to acknowledge it has no role in deciding peoples morality in this, and simply acknowledge peoples choices and support them.

It's absolutely what should be done, EXCEPT it would involve re-writing too many other laws, starting with about half the tax code and moving through military regulations and probate & estate planning and so on down the line.

It won't happen until everything you're talking about becomes socially accepted as a form of "marriage" anyway.

Space Gopher
Jul 31, 2006

BLITHERING IDIOT AND HARDCORE DURIAN APOLOGIST. LET ME TELL YOU WHY THIS SHIT DON'T STINK EVEN THOUGH WE ALL KNOW IT DOES BECAUSE I'M SUPER CULTURED.

gohuskies posted:

:qq: yourself. I phonebanked for marriage equality in Washington, calling voters in the districts of swing legislators to tell them to contact their legislators with messages of support for the bill, at phone banks organized by our local Democratic party. What have you done for marriage equality lately?

Oh hey, I put a shitload of time into R-71, and have driven my rear end down to Olympia on more than one occasion to lobby Joe Fain face-to-face (oh hey, look how that turned out). Speaking as someone who's probably done more for marriage equality lately than you, the national Democratic party has been lukewarm at best on marriage equality, a lot of state-level Democratic parties have been absolutely shameful on marriage equality, and the fact that our state has been one of a handful of kickass exceptions still doesn't do much more than prove the rule.

breaklaw
May 12, 2008

Mrit posted:

The Democrats care about 1 thing: getting elected. If they see pushing for/allowing gay rights to be a detriment to that, then they will squash it.
It is poo poo, but so is our system. And expecting anything else is dreaming.

What else are they going to do? Just willingly become a minority party forever? It's not like President Romney would anything to further rights and would probably be persuaded to take rights away.

A GIANT PARSNIP
Apr 13, 2010

Too much fuckin' eggnog


gohuskies posted:

:qq: yourself. I phonebanked for marriage equality in Washington, calling voters in the districts of swing legislators to tell them to contact their legislators with messages of support for the bill, at phone banks organized by our local Democratic party. What have you done for marriage equality lately?

Log Cabin Republicans work their asses off for marriage equality too.

It's absolutely true that individual Democrats have paved the way for marriage equality on the state level (in some states), but that doesn't magically make the Democratic Party as an organization a serious force for LGBT rights.

The Democratic Party doctrine seems to be "Decide for yourself how you feel on this issue", which is certainly better than the Republican doctrine of "We hate gays and you better hate them too". But just because it's better than the alternative doesn't mean it's good.

A GIANT PARSNIP fucked around with this message at 14:55 on Apr 1, 2012

sexpig by night
Sep 8, 2011

by Azathoth

gohuskies posted:

:qq: yourself. I phonebanked for marriage equality in Washington, calling voters in the districts of swing legislators to tell them to contact their legislators with messages of support for the bill, at phone banks organized by our local Democratic party. What have you done for marriage equality lately?

I've done a lot of local activism, my biggest helps here in Texas were actually the Socialist and Green parties.

I'm not saying the democrats are as bad as the right, but yea pretending democrats inherently are best just by being democrats is childish. We right now have a democrat president who won the election saying 'marriage is between a man and a woman', when not throwing fundraisers for our sweet sweet gay money of course, and then later when even the famously lazy and downright vile Log Cabin Republicans were lapping him on equality he decided his view was 'evolving'. Yea, I'd rather have Obama than the dudes saying 'what, no, gently caress gays, Lawrence v Texas for life!' but I'm not going to pretend he's an ally to me either, he's just not an active enemy.

We shouldn't have to settle for passive enemies.

gohuskies
Oct 23, 2010

I spend a lot of time making posts to justify why I'm not a self centered shithead that just wants to act like COVID isn't a thing.

Space Gopher posted:

Oh hey, I put a shitload of time into R-71, and have driven my rear end down to Olympia on more than one occasion to lobby Joe Fain face-to-face (oh hey, look how that turned out). Speaking as someone who's probably done more for marriage equality lately than you, the national Democratic party has been lukewarm at best on marriage equality, a lot of state-level Democratic parties have been absolutely shameful on marriage equality, and the fact that our state has been one of a handful of kickass exceptions still doesn't do much more than prove the rule.

Good work, Fain was a big fish to land on that vote.

My point is this - marriage equality will happen because the Democratic party works to make it happen, or it won't happen. Does the party need to be pushed? Obviously yes. But pretending that some hypothetical third party is going to make this happen in any of our lifetimes is ridiculous, when we already have a proven path to victory from within the Democratic party that's already worked at the state level. It's slower than it should be, but at least it will work, as opposed to masturbating over third parties, which won't. Obama is not where he should be on LGBT issues, but he's still better than any President ever. The 2016 Democratic nominee will be better than Obama. The 202X nominees will be better than them. The change is happening, and to say things like ":qq: guys you'll get your rights when we get around to iiiiiit" I find ignorant and insulting.

sexpig by night
Sep 8, 2011

by Azathoth

gohuskies posted:

Good work, Fain was a big fish to land on that vote.

My point is this - marriage equality will happen because the Democratic party works to make it happen, or it won't happen. Does the party need to be pushed? Obviously yes. But pretending that some hypothetical third party is going to make this happen in any of our lifetimes is ridiculous, when we already have a proven path to victory from within the Democratic party that's already worked at the state level. It's slower than it should be, but at least it will work, as opposed to masturbating over third parties, which won't. Obama is not where he should be on LGBT issues, but he's still better than any President ever. The 2016 Democratic nominee will be better than Obama. The 202X nominees will be better than them. The change is happening, and to say things like ":qq: guys you'll get your rights when we get around to iiiiiit" I find ignorant and insulting.

"Obama's not good but don't worry the 202X guy will be better. Woah buddy don't you dare say I'm saying your rights will come when we get around to it!"

gohuskies
Oct 23, 2010

I spend a lot of time making posts to justify why I'm not a self centered shithead that just wants to act like COVID isn't a thing.

Glitterbomber posted:

"Obama's not good but don't worry the 202X guy will be better. Woah buddy don't you dare say I'm saying your rights will come when we get around to it!"

The Democratic Party is on a trajectory to equality. Third parties are on a trajectory to nowhere. Marriage equality has been enacted by the Democratic Party in several states. Marriage equality has not been enacted by any third party in any states. Pushing the Democratic Party to support marriage equality over time is a realistic strategy towards national marriage equality. Creating or promoting a third party that will support marriage equality is not a realistic strategy towards national marriage equality. I would rather have marriage equality actually happen. You would rather adopt a holier-than-thou attitude and look down your nose at those who are creating actual results.

KIM JONG TRILL
Nov 29, 2006

GIN AND JUCHE

gohuskies posted:

The Democratic Party is on a trajectory to equality. Third parties are on a trajectory to nowhere. Marriage equality has been enacted by the Democratic Party in several states. Marriage equality has not been enacted by any third party in any states. Pushing the Democratic Party to support marriage equality over time is a realistic strategy towards national marriage equality. Creating or promoting a third party that will support marriage equality is not a realistic strategy towards national marriage equality. I would rather have marriage equality actually happen. You would rather adopt a holier-than-thou attitude and look down your nose at those who are creating actual results.

Voting for a more liberal third party tells the Democratic Party that they need to shift left to get your vote. Voting for the Democratic Party unequivocally because they are better than the Republicans does nothing in the way of pushing them to champion an issue.

sexpig by night
Sep 8, 2011

by Azathoth

gohuskies posted:

The Democratic Party is on a trajectory to equality. Third parties are on a trajectory to nowhere. Marriage equality has been enacted by the Democratic Party in several states. Marriage equality has not been enacted by any third party in any states. Pushing the Democratic Party to support marriage equality over time is a realistic strategy towards national marriage equality. Creating or promoting a third party that will support marriage equality is not a realistic strategy towards national marriage equality. I would rather have marriage equality actually happen. You would rather adopt a holier-than-thou attitude and look down your nose at those who are creating actual results.

Gohuskies, I want to be super clear here. Are you tell me that because in a few states local level democrats have gotten things done, I as a gay man am in some sort of Wookie life debt with the Democrat party as a whole, and must only vote for them?

Obama, who I've always been talking about, has done nothing for gay rights. The Log Cabin Republicans, the guys who proudly vote for the party who has 'gays are second class citizens' in their platform, were able to scoop DADT's repeal from him and make him look like an idiot. Good for the state level people who have, but yea, I'm not gonna vote for the Democrats who do nothing just because they share a D.

Also I have no reason to believe the Democratic Party as a whole is on a 'trajectory to equality', you're talking about theoretical maybe candidates, so far all we have is Obama, who we had to twist his arm to get 'eeeh I'll think about it' while happily taking our money.

Armyman25
Sep 6, 2005
Do you think that SCOTUS would have upheld the ruling that found DADT unconstitutional?

Do you think a Republican president would have signed the repeal of DADT?

gohuskies
Oct 23, 2010

I spend a lot of time making posts to justify why I'm not a self centered shithead that just wants to act like COVID isn't a thing.

Glitterbomber posted:

Gohuskies, I want to be super clear here. Are you tell me that because in a few states local level democrats have gotten things done, I as a gay man am in some sort of Wookie life debt with the Democrat party as a whole, and must only vote for them?

Obama, who I've always been talking about, has done nothing for gay rights. The Log Cabin Republicans, the guys who proudly vote for the party who has 'gays are second class citizens' in their platform, were able to scoop DADT's repeal from him and make him look like an idiot. Good for the state level people who have, but yea, I'm not gonna vote for the Democrats who do nothing just because they share a D.

Also I have no reason to believe the Democratic Party as a whole is on a 'trajectory to equality', you're talking about theoretical maybe candidates, so far all we have is Obama, who we had to twist his arm to get 'eeeh I'll think about it' while happily taking our money.

You're not in a life-debt to anyone. My point is simple: the best strategy to enacting marriage equality is pushing the Democratic party from within to support equality. My evidence to support this assertion is that this strategy has already worked in several states. It didn't work instantly, and activists time and time again had to settle for less than they wanted in the short-term, but bit by bit we got closer and closer and eventually marriage equality. You think this strategy is flawed - presumably you have a different strategy in mind, but it's not clear to me exactly what is it or what your evidence is that it will work. I'd be interested to hear what your strategy is and how it will get marriage equality enacted.

sexpig by night
Sep 8, 2011

by Azathoth
My 'strategy' is to vote based on the individual rather than party loyalty.

I have voted for democrats who are progressive (shock of shocks, in Texas that didn't end on my favor), and in the national race I voted for the SPUSA candidate because, along with agreeing with their economic and foreign relations views for gay rights their party platform says, among other things, that same-sex marriage is a goal they work for, while the Democrat platform says civil unions and vague 'federal rights equality'.

Also they've managed to put forth dudes who haven't said 'I believe marriage is between a man and a woman' while asking for my money, so that's always a plus.

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DivineCoffeeBinge
Mar 3, 2011

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gohuskies posted:

You're not in a life-debt to anyone. My point is simple: the best strategy to enacting marriage equality is pushing the Democratic party from within to support equality. My evidence to support this assertion is that this strategy has already worked in several states. It didn't work instantly, and activists time and time again had to settle for less than they wanted in the short-term, but bit by bit we got closer and closer and eventually marriage equality. You think this strategy is flawed - presumably you have a different strategy in mind, but it's not clear to me exactly what is it or what your evidence is that it will work. I'd be interested to hear what your strategy is and how it will get marriage equality enacted.

You appear to be operating under the assumption that people must hold a one-way-or-the-other-way, with-us-or-against-us strict dichotomy to heart here.

The Democratic party probably is our best shot at marriage equality, but that doesn't mean they're not, as an organization, terribly, terribly flawed. It doesn't mean that the Democratic party is somehow immune to criticism. And it doesn't mean that all Democrats are created equal - or that criticisms of Obama such as Glitterbomb are making are not completely true and justified.

The Democratic Party has a long history of telling GLBTQ folks "Stick with us, you'll get your equality" and then doing gently caress-all to follow through on that promise; they have remained the GLBTQ community's go-to party because the only other major party, the Republicans, are a thousand times worse. And the Dems know this, which is why they don't have to work very hard to keep the GLBTQ vote in their pocket; they can ignore us all they want knowing full well that we won't leave to vote for the other guy, and they don't have to take the risk of alienating anyone else by actually fighting for the equality they've been talking about.

Now, Democrats on the state level have recently done a hell of a lot more for equality than any of the national Democrats have, and that is laudable and awesome and hopefully some of those state-level officials make it up to the national level before too much longer so that hopefully the Democratic Party will actually follow up on equality for the GLBTQ community instead of just paying lip service to the notion... but that hasn't happened yet, and so it's hardly invalid to evince frustration with the Dems. If they can keep taking the GLBTQ vote for granted at the national level then nothing will change, and illustrating to them that they can't continue taking that vote for granted is one way to illustrate that point to those people who have been slow at learning it.

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