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pwnyXpress
Mar 28, 2007

fastest male in the west


So, this is a constant recurring issue with my girlfriend. All of her previous boyfriends were douchebags and made a point to make it clear to her that they wished her breasts were larger. Now she's got a complex about it, and doesn't believe that anyone could possibly think small breasts are attractive. Guys only like large ones, right? She's an A-cup, by the way, and I think her breasts suit her body incredibly well. Not only are they well proportioned to the rest of her, but I generally like smaller ones anyway. She doesn't believe that when I say it, since "guys like large boobs" is all she's ever experienced.

I'm looking for reasons that small breasts are wonderful, hopefully to eventually convince her that she's fine how she is, and that I am not, contrary to what she currently thinks, totally abnormal in my dislike of larger breasts. Any experiences or thoughts from either genders are probably applicable. Please no unhelpful posts i.e. "tell her to get implants," and please link NWS images if you absolutely must use them.

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Eat This Glob
Jan 14, 2008

my ice, my ass.

Off the top of my head:

"Anything more than a handful is a waste"
Easier to feel for cancerous lumps (in my family, that matters)
Wont sag later in life
They'll fill out when you nurse and wont hurt in a decade when you don't have a kid at the teat
Clothes are easier to find
Bikinis for the next 2 decades
Want 'em bigger? Great 1 grand
Want 'em smaller? Great 1 grand
Did I mention the easier mammograms/self exams?

F3lix
Mar 2, 2005
Da King of Swing


Firm and supple. Just like daddy likes em.

showbiz_liz
Jun 2, 2008


A lot of high-fashion models have very small breasts, and they look beautiful and sophisticated. Google image search 'couture'- not a giant pair of boobs in the bunch. You have so many more attractive clothing options, too. I know a few big-breasted women who covet plunging necklines or empire waists, but know they would look awful in them because their breasts would get in the way. She can also get away with not wearing a bra and not worry about sagging, which a bigger girl would NOT look sexy doing.

Also, many larger girls are equally self-conscious about their big breasts, since gross men are constantly leering at them no matter how much they cover up. You feel exposed. Your girl has more control over her sexual image- she can show as little or as much as she wants.

vas0line
Dec 23, 2005
happy endings. (i promise i'll be good this time)

Pierced nipples on small tits look a hell of a lot better than on big tits.

Hearts on Fire
Sep 29, 2008

Cheers!


I've heard the general rule is that bigger boobs look better in tops, and smaller boobs look better out of them. I enjoy being the second

FINALmasa
Feb 12, 2006

Ask me about how feminists are feminists because they can't get laid.

Don't worry, I'm not some sexist ass, MRAs are MRAs because they can't get laid either. By the way, I am totally an MRA!


"I care about the size of your breasts as much as you care about the size of my penis"

Of course, that could backfire. Really, since the breasts don't have much sexual function, it's basically appearance. You can show her some huge tits and explain that those aren't attractive to you, and she'll likely agree that they're not attractive.

cloudnine
Jul 13, 2007

by Peatpot


They're gorgeous and perky.

And don't need bras to look good.

geadhames
Dec 14, 2008

The head messer.


showbiz_liz posted:

A lot of high-fashion models have very small breasts, and they look beautiful and sophisticated. Google image search 'couture'- not a giant pair of boobs in the bunch. You have so many more attractive clothing options, too. I know a few big-breasted women who covet plunging necklines or empire waists, but know they would look awful in them because their breasts would get in the way. She can also get away with not wearing a bra and not worry about sagging, which a bigger girl would NOT look sexy doing.

Also, many larger girls are equally self-conscious about their big breasts, since gross men are constantly leering at them no matter how much they cover up. You feel exposed. Your girl has more control over her sexual image- she can show as little or as much as she wants.

Yes. Small boobs look so much classier, your girl never has to worry about looking like a whore whose boobs are hanging out for the world to see. Also seconding "anything more than a handful is a waste," but maybe I just have small hands.

Twisted Echidna
Apr 28, 2004

Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known.

She doens't have to wear a sports bra when going dancing (jiggling hurts quite a bit). Small cup size won't cause back troubles.

I had an ex that wanted me to dye my hair and get it permed a certain way, but I think complaining about someones physical body in that way is low. Tell her I said her ex's must have douchebags for saying that and good riddence to bad rubbish.

photinus
Apr 27, 2008


Number of nice bras you own >> your band size
Don't hurt if you run
Most clothes fit more nicely

Nessa
Dec 15, 2008



When I was a teenager, I felt very self-conscious about my chest, being an A-cup myself. Now I feel that my boobs are the best part of my body, cause I've had boyfriends that found them very attractive. I'm only 5'3" and under 100 lbs, so my boobs are proportionate with the rest of me.

I can also get away with not wearing a bra all the time, and small breasts look great and perky without any enhancing support.

Just keep telling your girlfriend all the things you like about her breasts, and why you think they're sexy. Hopefully, she'll start felling more comfortable with her body.

huplescat
Jun 8, 2005


I've never had anything but compliments about mine, in fact last one was yesterday from a married bloke As far as I'm concerned small boobs are awesome, they look great and will continue to for a long time, don't get in the way, don't cause me pain when I run and don't get in the way of wearing pretty clothing.

Sounds like she'll take a while to come round though, sucks that she's been put down so much about them.

RasputinsGhost
Mar 22, 2005
Russia's Greatest Spectral Love Machine

geadhames posted:

Yes. Small boobs look so much classier, your girl never has to worry about looking like a whore whose boobs are hanging out for the world to see.

You're going to have to do some explaining as to how the size of a mammary gland has 'class' attributed to it. You don't need to uplift one thing by making GBS threads all over another, you know.

quaint bucket
Nov 29, 2007



I had a similar problem with my girlfriend on this one. Basically just compliment her breasts, assure her that you like/love the size of her breasts, and pay some attention to them during sex (see: sucking/fondling her breasts).

Overtime, she'll be able to overcome her self issues. It took 6 months, I believe, before she finally became happy with her breasts (went through similar things as yours did). I also told her that she will most likely fill out more when she's nursing.

geadhames
Dec 14, 2008

The head messer.


RasputinsGhost posted:

You're going to have to do some explaining as to how the size of a mammary gland has 'class' attributed to it. You don't need to uplift one thing by making GBS threads all over another, you know.

I just find it trashy when some woman with gigantic fake knockers is going around parading the drat things like she and her two disproportionately large mammary glands are God's gift to man and acting like she and her appendages should constantly be the center of attention to every man in the room.

Maybe I phrased this badly. But let me put it to you this way: have you ever seen a small-breasted woman who looks like "a whore whose boobs are hanging out for the world to see" ?

Edit: It's not like I don't feel sympathy for those women who have back problems and other physical issues due to overlarge breasts. It's just that I don't like the look of them like I like the look of the smaller-breasted ones.

kelwen
Oct 24, 2004
fit

Rockwell posted:

I had a similar problem with my girlfriend on this one. Basically just compliment her breasts, assure her that you like/love the size of her breasts, and pay some attention to them during sex (see: sucking/fondling her breasts).

Overtime, she'll be able to overcome her self issues. It took 6 months, I believe, before she finally became happy with her breasts (went through similar things as yours did). I also told her that she will most likely fill out more when she's nursing.

"Once I impregnate you your breasts will most likely grow and your problems will be solved!!!"

pwnyXpress
Mar 28, 2007

fastest male in the west


kelwen posted:

"Once I impregnate you your breasts will most likely grow and your problems will be solved!!!"

This one will go over real well.

Seriously though, this is all good stuff, and I appreciate it. It all definitely rings true with me, and I've actually told her a lot of this stuff before. Perhaps I'll just show her this thread sometime and say "Look, other people too!"

fist4jesus
Nov 24, 2002


Thread needs pics.

Magic Hate Ball
May 6, 2007

Oh magic hate ball, is death really the answer?


I'm going to guess that less back pain is a big bonus, at least against huge boobs. One of my friends in high school had massive jugs and even in a sports bra the things went wild in PE. Always felt sorry for her back.

Nodrog
Apr 17, 2002

by angerbeet


small boobs can be nice if the girl is very slim/athletic and preferably tanned so if shes got that going then cool. Girls with big boobs can get away with being quite curvy but with small it isnt a good look.

Alao it will make it easier for her to find nice bras.

showbiz_liz posted:

A lot of high-fashion models have very small breasts, and they look beautiful and sophisticated. Google image search 'couture'- not a giant pair of boobs in the bunch. You have so many more attractive clothing options, too.
afaik fashion designers go for models with flat bodies because they want the attention to be focused on the clothes rather than on the model.

Nodrog fucked around with this message at Dec 22, 2008 around 11:14

somethingawesomer
Nov 16, 2005



As someone who has severe chronic neck and back pain due to big boobs (as in way too big for my frame), just be glad you dont have that!

MrMoo
Sep 14, 2000


You need small breasts for a boob tube, larger sizes tend to fall out.



vs.

http://www.titsintops.com/pics/gallery15_04.jpg

Comedy answer: you can travel to Asia and have no worries buying clothes as pretty much no one has big boobies here.

nondeviant
Mar 14, 2005

Life's not fair, but at least it has a sense of humor.

geadhames posted:

have you ever seen a small-breasted woman who looks like "a whore

Yes, many times. Keep the point of the thread on pros of the small, not the cons of something you personally don't like.

MrMoo
Sep 14, 2000


fist4jesus posted:

Thread needs pics.

Small breasts means micro bikini time: http://www.the-bikini.com/

swordfishtrombone
Dec 24, 2004

the violinist kept playing

Twisted Echidna posted:

Tell her I said her ex's must have douchebags for saying that and good riddence to bad rubbish.

Potential closet-cases whose views on women and beauty somehow never developed past the age of 14, when they borrowed their bro's dog-eared copy of FHM magazine.

Dumb as a bag of hammers, yet fit enough to trick some nice girl into going out with them for a while. Then the rest of us regular guys have to make up for the way they spent the whole relationship spouting their idiotic opinions on matters as diverse as as breast-size and why they're not voting for Obama.

Density
Nov 12, 2008


showbiz_liz posted:

A lot of high-fashion models have very small breasts, and they look beautiful and sophisticated. Google image search 'couture'- not a giant pair of boobs in the bunch. You have so many more attractive clothing options, too. I know a few big-breasted women who covet plunging necklines or empire waists, but know they would look awful in them because their breasts would get in the way. She can also get away with not wearing a bra and not worry about sagging, which a bigger girl would NOT look sexy doing.

Also, many larger girls are equally self-conscious about their big breasts, since gross men are constantly leering at them no matter how much they cover up. You feel exposed. Your girl has more control over her sexual image- she can show as little or as much as she wants.
Bringing up runway models is a gamble. Some people think that runway models are good looking, but the overwhelming majority find them too skinny etc... Runway models get their jobs from gay fashion designers who basically use them as 6' clothes hangers.

Russes Sister
May 27, 2007
Not her brother's keeper.

I've often wished my small Ds were small Bs instead. Like others have said, if I had smaller boobs:

Running wouldn't hurt (my boobs, at least)
I could buy/wear lower-cut things without having men leer at me
I could buy/wear a bikini, a tube top, a strapless dress
Guys would look at my face
Long necklaces wouldn't get stuck in my cleavage
I could sleep on my stomach
Going braless wouldn't hurt (or look ridiculous)
Shirts wouldn't have to be a size too big to fit me on top

I'm sure I would miss my boobs if they suddenly got smaller, but your girlfriend really doesn't know the great thing she's got going.

Lowness 72
Jul 19, 2006


Running/exercise is way easier
Finding a bra is way easier, especially one that fits well
You can fit into just about any dress you want - girls with big tits have a hell of a time trying to find decent dresses

They won't sag later in life
No back pain

Bloodie
Nov 24, 2008

carbs.


'Gravity-defying' is a nice way to compliment somebody's smaller-sized boobies. It's true, they are, and there's nothing worse than feeling your boobs jiggle around as if they're going to fall off when you try to do some vigorous exercise. Ow.

oRenj9
Aug 3, 2004

Who loves oRenj soda?!?



Click here for the full 480x634 image.


One of the most attractive women in the world, and she has small breasts.

Zachsta
Jun 13, 2007

by T. Fine


They can easily be expanded into large breasts with a simple surgery.

Emo.fm
Jan 2, 2007


I think you're missing the point, OP. She knows all the practical reasons that her small boobs are great -- she's concerned that they're not pleasing to you, or men in general. I don't think an itemized list is going to work here... just put her on a steady diet of genuine but not over the top compliments and spontaneous fondlings and eventually she'll get there. Also don't let her catch you looking at Jugs or something.

Fremry
Nov 4, 2003


Look at popular media. Hot girls with small boobs are at the top of celebrity and have all the best acting and musical careers, and girls with big boobs are all the putzes with reality shows about how many people they can bang before the season is up.

Hot girls with big boobs are viewed as sex objects, but hot girls with small boobs are viewed as sexy and respectable.

Big boobs: Anna Nicole Smith, Pamela Anderson, Jenny McCarthy

Small boobs: Nicole Kidman, Jennifer Aniston, Kiera Knightley

moana
Jun 18, 2005

one of the more intellectual satire communities on the web


http://www.condenast.co.uk/ImageLib...arlaBruni_b.jpg
http://www.celeb-porn.info/carla-bruni-nude-01.jpg


Carla Bruni is so sexy.

I love my little boobs, I can wear just about anything I want and they're still happy and perky. When I was younger it was hard because all the naked women I saw were in Playboy and they aren't the most small-boob-friendly magazine. Seconding the fact that no amount of logic will work, she will have to come to terms with it herself and you can help only by lovin' dem titties.

razz
Dec 26, 2005

Queen of Maceration


I've always been self conscious about my A-cups as well. It didn't help that my last boyfriend was incredibly mean to me about the way I looked and often said unkind things about the size of my breasts. Also I had some self-image problems before he came around so he didn't really help matters any.

I've heard nothing but positive comments from the guy I'm seeing now. He's never said one negative thing to me, ever. And slowly but surely I am feeling better about myself. Actually I think I feel better about myself than I ever have, though I can still find ways to pick myself apart. It did take almost a year though before I got over the trauma of ex-boyfriend meanness.

Just say nice things without being over-the-top and for the love of god don't make unkind comments about her breasts even if you say "I was just joking". I put up with that poo poo for two years and it stops being "funny" after about 17000 times. Some girls are way sensitive about their breasts. I used to wish mine were bigger but I am happy with myself now.

Farewell Horizon
Sep 12, 2005

by Fistgrrl


My sister has huuuge boobs and she HATES them. She always feels like guys are staring at her chest, and she has a hard time finding flattering tops. She can't wear anything too low cut, and she has a hard time finding cute bras. All the F sized bras are boring.

I was a 32D, but recently went off hormonal birth control and lost weight, and now I am down to a small C / large B cup. At first I was sad, but I have nice, perky boobs that suit my body well. My boyfriend loves them, and they fit nicely under shirts. I am realy confident about them now.

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blue_kameleon
Sep 3, 2007


The trick to helping her is repetition, repetition, repetition. And sincerity. I had a similar (sort of) problem. I used to be quite large (as in fat), and although I'm not anymore, I still had a 'fat complex' I was unable to shake until my current boyfriend came along. You can say all this stuff, but its hearing it over and over is going to be what makes it sink in. Whenever shes topless in front of you, make a point to specifically compliment her boobs. If shes wearing a cute shirt that makes them look nice, be sure to take an extra-long look at them so she knows you're noticing them and appreciating them. Every now and then spend an excessive amount of time on them during sex, so much that in her head shes probably going 'come on, get on with it!', when you reach this point, apologize and say you just couldn't help yourself because her boobs are so nice, and then get on with business.

Basically, just lay it on thick, but make sure everything you say is sincere, because she'll know if you're just saying it to make her feel better. Shes had years and years of douchebags telling her shes not good enough, so its going to take a lot of time and work to reverse that.

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