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The old sex questions megathread has come to a close (or will shortly) as it's grown once again to ridiculous proportions. Here we've compiled much of the old thread and condensed it down to the often repeated questions. Please read this OP before posting or risk ridicule and public humiliation. (With MOD approval) There are several goons who are fairly knowledgeable about sex related things, and have shown themselves more than happy to help answer questions. I consider myself one of those people and as such will monitor this thread often. Should you have a question you feel uncomfortable about posting you are more than welcome to PM me. If you don't have a platinum account then feel free to post a reply in the thread and I'll give you an email address I can be reach by. That being said, there's no substitute for a real professional. Should any of your questions be a serious health risk nature, please do us all a favor. Don't bother asking your questions here, seek the help of a professional. No one's well being should be decided by internet users. You know we're mostly a bunch of assholes right? Lastly, save the bullshit. People need to feel comfortable to talk about this subject, and as such we'd like to provide at least a modicum of respect and civility. If you can't be respectful to posters, then you had better be hilarious in your disrespect. Related Threads as of 5.21.11: Birth Control Megathread - Compare notes and maybe even girlie parts with other users to find the best BC option for you and your love oven. This is also where you can go to ask if you are pregnant. Ask me about Getting a Vasectomy! - For those who may be interested in what this entails... OK Cupid thread in E/N - Get your Internet dating life on track. Get your hair cut, stop using overly powerful cologne or perfume, and receive a verbal beating about how terribly awkward you are, especially when you try to be funny... all for FREE. The BSDM Club - Fulfill your kinkier side here. Learn the ropes of well... using rope. A comprehensive guide to the act of gaping one's anus - Read up on the proper ins and outs to putting things in peoples butts. FREQUENT ISSUES: Condoms We all dislike them, and we all know why we should use them. The good news is they’re not inch-thick rubber socks anymore. You can get brands that are thin and still reliable, such as Crown and Kimono. Even if you have a micro penis or a dick like Sarah Jessica Parker (So HUGE!), there are condoms for you. Several companies even offer custom sized condoms, or specific fitting kits. Google custom fit condoms for more info. If you’re allergic to latex, there are great new options like Lifestyles Skyn. Just remember to note: You can’t combine oil-based lube with latex condoms and goatskin condoms don’t prevent STDs. Should you need further assistance with picking out the best brand for your needs, mention where you live (generally speaking) as some brands are only sold in certain countries. Also, Conveniently, here is a ton of info. Lube There are a ton of good options for lube out there. Using it is normal and doesn't mean there is something wrong with either you or your SO. Here's a general run down of lube types, issues, and uses: Water-based lube is safe with condoms, but watch out for anything that contains glycerin, which can cause yeast infections if it goes near a vulva. Oil-based lubes aren’t a great idea since they can’t be used with condoms. Silicone lubes can’t be used with silicone toys, but are a good (and very slippery) option for almost anything else. We get a lot of recommendations for Maximus (which is thicker and ideal for anal), Liquid Silk (thinner version of the same), and Gun Oil. Several other goons have also recommended Swiss Navy and Pjur for general use. (Is that the correct spelling?) ”I am a virgin. Should I tell him/her?” DO NOT POST THIS. It always starts a ridiculous debate that ends up saying the same thing over and over again. In order to skip that circlejerk here’s a simple form to let you know how to handle this situation. Step 1: Did they ask? NO: Keep your mouth shut. YES: Be honest. Step 2: Do you have a good reason to tell them? NO: Keep your mouth shut. YES: Be honest. Example of a good reason to tell them: “I’m an extreme hemophiliac and my hymen is thicker than the hull of the USS Nimitz. There will be blood.” “I come too quickly!” (male) ”Trans-Angeles” posted:Depending on the reason for your premature rocket saucing, the options available for you to try can range from ‘Just have more sex’ to ‘Desensitizing products’ to ‘Dying alone for fear of never satisfying a woman’. It’s all about what works best for you, and what your situation is. I want to try anal sex! What should I know? - First, the receptive partner should empty their bowels and then clean up until s/he feels comfortable. Showering is fine. Some people use warm-water enemas, which is also okay. Do NOT use Fleet enemas, purchased enemas, or anything else with anything but water. - Lots of lube should be used; thicker lubes are usually recommended. A good amount of time should be spent warming up the anus. This means working up slowly with one lubed finger, and slowly adding fingers until your partner is loosened up enough. Finally, insertion should be very slow. Take your time and don’t rush anything. The receiving party should be in control of the insertion as they are best equipped to know how their rear end in a top hat is handling it. - Don’t put any pressure or heavy expectations on this -- it’s not necessarily a one-hour or one-day project. If it takes weeks to work up from fingers to toys to a penis, that’s totally fine. “How can I have multiple orgasms?” (male) Lowen SoDium posted:Basically, once I get to the point of no return, I keep going until I am ready to cum. Then I pull my skin tight to the base of my dick and squeeze my PC muscle as hard as I can until I ejaculate. It will be a pretty strong ejaculation, but it will not be a very strong orgasm. Then I wait a little bit (about 10 to 20 seconds) and then I can continue. I can repeat this 2 to 4 more times. Each time, the ejaculation is less, but the orgasm is stronger. “I can’t come during vaginal sex” (male) Stop masturbating and watching porn. If you have been jerking off regularly for a while, you may have desensitized your penis. Your hand can give a lot more pressure/force/speed than anything else. The good news is that if you cut out masturbation and porn for a couple of weeks, your penis will regain its sensitivity. If you’ve already tried that, try it for longer. Seriously. “I can’t come from vaginal sex” (female) Are you comfortable? Mentally calm? Have you ever come from vaginal stimulation on your own? Everyone comes differently and in different ways; it’s normal to need something specific, and it’s normal for penis-in-vagina sex not to work on its own. If you don’t come from vaginal penetration alone, that’s incredibly normal and totally okay. While having PIV sex, you can always rub your clit, use a toy, or whatever else at the same time -- or beforehand or afterward! Communicate with your partner about what feels good, how you usually come, etc. Try not to stress. “I can’t come from oral sex” (male or female) Lots of people have difficulty orgasming from oral sex, especially at first. First, you have to be able to provide your partner with feedback about what is working and what is not. If something feels good, be sure to give some kind of feed back. Likewise, if you need your partner to do less of something or go softer, tell them. Communication is the most important part of sex. Finally, relax. You really have to let yourself go and not worry about anything, including taking too long to cum. What are some good tips for giving oral sex to a woman? Communication! Be sure to ask if you don't have a clue as to what to do... and perhaps even if you think you do. That being said, here's a few guidelines: - Start slow. The clitoris is generally pretty sensitive. If you jump right in like it's your penis you're going to overwhelm her. - Many women enjoy penetration while being eaten out. If your SO is that type it may be rather pleasurable to finger her vagina or rear end in a top hat. - Don't prescribe to a methodology. There is no specific set of buttons to press, knobs to turn, or any other reference to getting a woman off by following some IKEA instruction pamphlet. Do what is natural. Lick and suckle. Vary speed and duration. Pressure and movement. Until... - Once she starts to move, breath heavily, flush, arch her back, flex her abdominal muscles, and/or moan you know you've got it right and stick with what's working. What are some good tips for giving oral sex to a man? Communicate! Many guys have differing taste in what they like when it comes to bj’s. There’s nothing wrong with asking what he’s into. Here’s some general guidelines: - If using your hands to complement the blow job, take a firm but gentle grip. You should be moving the skin of the shaft but not turning his dick red/blue. - NO TEETH (Unless agreed upon before hand) - Common areas of focus are the head, the underside of the shaft, the testes and gooch. Each of these places is higher in sensitivity that the rest of the male organ. - Be clear with what’s acceptable and what’s not, before you get down to it. If you’re not comfortable with something he’s going to notice and there’s nothing that kills the moment more than seeing you unhappy about doing something he wants. Be honest. What is the best way to get rid of hair on my junk? Shaving/waxing/creams etc. - Shaving can be tricky. Some people swear by it, some people swear at it. Go slowly, use a mirror or a partner, and have plenty of shaving cream and ingrown-prevention lotion (they make genital-specific versions that may be more helpful). If you’re just starting out, shave in the direction of the hair, and only do one pass per area; it won’t be perfectly smooth, but it’ll be a lot less irritated -- you can work up to doing more later. - Trimming is a convenient middle ground. If your hair is really long, use scissors to trim until it’s under an inch. Then you can use a small electric shaver with a short blade guard. No stubble, no red bumps, and no crazy itchy regrowth. - Waxing: someone else should write about this oh god. - Laser hair removal is the most expensive up-front, but also the most permanent. Go to a clinic (overseen by a doctor, please!) and get zapped. It hurts, and it’ll probably take about six sessions before being smooth for good, but the results should last for years, if not forever. If you have any more questions, there is a thread about it here. I want sex X times a week, but my partner only wants it X times a month. I love my partner, and they are perfect in every other way except that one. Am I unreasonable/crazy? - Talk to them! Everyone’s libido is different. Stress from school, work, moving, and large changes in your life really effect your libido and can take awhile to return to normal. If your sex life is getting slower and slower think about any stress issues that are affecting you or your partner. - If it’s not a minor difference, and it’s not temporary, it may not be something you can resolve. Anne Whateley posted:You probably aren't crazy and [s]he probably isn't a bitch. You're just not compatible. Break up and find people who are on closer wavelengths. Shopping Links: Amazon.com “Sexual Wellness” section: (sex toys etc. with discreet credit card listing & packaging) Condomania Babeland - Another suggested resource for sex toys and other supplies. Other sources: She Comes First The Guide to Getting it On Scarleteen Planned Parenthood Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross Addition thread notes: "I think I may have been assaulted." sporkupine posted:Sexual partners reserve the right to change their mind at any point during sexual activity. If one person says no, and the other does not listen, then it is assault. "I'm concerned about ordering condoms online. What will X think of me seeing condom boxes arrive at my home?" Sperg Victorious posted:Order from Amazon and it'll look like the regular Amazon box. Or have them tell UPS to hold the package and you'll pick it up as the delivery center. "I'm deeply concerned that my sacred temple has been infested with the HPV. Oh god help me!" sporkupine posted:Check out the Planned Parenthood website for accurate, up to date, and unbiased information about HPV in men and women: linky link. I suggest reading all the sections on that page, but "does HPV cause cancer" and "how can I prevent getting or spreading HPV" are the two most useful sections for those who don't know much about it. I have herpes. What Now? quote:The Herps International Has Some Thoughts For You To Consider Should you see anything in need of fixing in the OP please let me know. Thank you. RGBRIOT fucked around with this message at Jun 10, 2012 around 23:20 |
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I will inaugurate the new thread! Fellow sexhavers, I'm in a bind. When your SO's performance is, shall we say, less than stellar, discussion, sensitivity, understanding, patience and encouragement are key. This happened to me in the past and things improved tremendously with time. But what happens when it's a fuckbuddy? Is it kosher to sit someone down and say "listen dude, x, y, z is not working", or are low expectations part of the whole FWB deal and if you don't like it just move on?
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Bloody Mayhem posted:I will inaugurate the new thread! Hm, I'm not sure. I always assumed people only got into FWB situations with people that they enjoyed in the sack. Since you aren't really into having a relationship, wouldn't being good/compatible be the only criteria? I don't see why the discussion would be off-limits though, you'd just have to approach it slightly differently since the stakes aren't as high.
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khysanth posted:Hm, I'm not sure. I always assumed people only got into FWB situations with people that they enjoyed in the sack. Since you aren't really into having a relationship, wouldn't being good/compatible be the only criteria? The truth is I'm just a sucker for a pretty face  . He's hot, which is why I slept with him to begin with. The first few times were better, in the sense that they were up to par with what you would expect from a sexual relationship that's just forming (novelty excitement making up for lack of knowledge of each other). I guess he just hasn't kept up with a normal "learning curve" and his quarterly evaluation will reflect it .I guess I'll talk to him since I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If he doesn't improve, I kind just stop seeing him.
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We should include a link to the BDSM/kink thread in A/T. Also, Babeland is a great, female-friendly resource for sex toys and supplies. It's as unscary and clean as possible. I'd really like to see something about not bragging. "I made my girl come 12 times last night with my 9" cock and 8" tongue" is both boring and bullshit. Similarly, I don't think we need to know details like location if you're condom shopping. There's this thing, it's called the internet, and it sells condoms to anywhere. I think we should also emphasize that "IS SHE PREGNANT" belongs in the Birth Control Megathread, where lots of people know lots of poo poo, and not here. And it would be rad if we can lose the "women are fickle" business and the "trannies." The "for oral sex with women, be receptive to communication; for oral sex with men, communicate" is pretty bogus -- this is 2011, there are actually girls and gay people on the internet and itt. Relationships and dynamics are all different; we should be encouraging everyone to communicate and to listen. v Yeah exactly. And I definitely agree we can/should still be answering condom questions; I just meant we could lose that weird, awkward, lengthy sentence about "geographic location." Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at May 24, 2011 around 18:28 |
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I vote we keep allowing the plugging of various locations people could buy condoms and other sexual accessories. Shy newbies who've never shopped for something like that before might not be comfortable just typing it into google and trusting one of the top results, plus they could also miss out on some of the sites with larger selections of goods. Your "trannies" comment was just to illustrate that we shouldn't have offensive terminology in this thread, correct?
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Bloody Mayhem posted:But what happens when it's a fuckbuddy? Is it kosher to sit someone down and say "listen dude, x, y, z is not working", or are low expectations part of the whole FWB deal and if you don't like it just move on? If you are actually friends with them, then saying that shouldn't be a big deal. If it's someone that you literally only associate with for sex, I can see how it might be more awkward. But in that case, you shouldn't worry too much about offending them.
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Has anyone noticed that Durex Avanti Bare condoms smell like Froot Loops, or am I just crazy?
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Mad Hamish posted:Has anyone noticed that Durex Avanti Bare condoms smell like Froot Loops, or am I just crazy? Noticed!
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Mad Hamish posted:Has anyone noticed that Durex Avanti Bare condoms smell like Froot Loops, or am I just crazy? Hadn't noticed, but I just ate a big bowl of Froot Loops in your honour.
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LOL a couple of things to note about the OP. I was not the only person who worked on it. I did edit some things out that were either unneeded or unwarranted. There was bound to be a mixture of jokes, bitterness, and good information. I've tried to get a good balance of all three in there. I'm sorry some of your parts were edited. E: Changes have been made. Thank you for the input! RGBRIOT fucked around with this message at May 24, 2011 around 19:18 |
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Does there exist a good condom that has no scent at all?
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| # ? May 24, 2011 20:47 |
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Trans-Angeles posted:Trojan Skyn  Also, they are pretty awesome as far as I am concerned 
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Thank you for the clarification.
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A note on sex toys: sometimes the most common one won't do it for you. When I started looking for one, everyone recommended a Rabbit bullet or X vibrator. Women love vibrators. Vibrator vibrator vibe vibe vibe. Every review online said how awesome vibrators were. The ladies at the sex toy shop showed me their favorites. But for some reason I couldn't get into it. I ended up with nearly five different kinds and all of them felt far too fake and hard. On a whim I ended up buying a 'jelly' dildo and that one didn't feel like I was trying to cram a fake arm up in me. In other words, shop around a bit.
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I shall ask again in this new incarnation! Any recommendations for dildos? Not looking for something that vibrates or has massive balls or is generally huge, but I'm not sure where to start. I just want an orgasm whilst he's going down on me, damnit. Also, the ones shaped to hit your g-spot seem like they'd be uncomfortable until you were worked up enough for that (it's surely not just me who gets this, right?), but are they really?
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Bollock Monkey posted:I shall ask again in this new incarnation! Any recommendations for dildos? Not looking for something that vibrates or has massive balls or is generally huge, but I'm not sure where to start. I just want an orgasm whilst he's going down on me, damnit. It really really depends on what you want and what you like. If you want something that will blow your boyfriends' mind, get a nice glass or pyrex dildo. Nothing like seeing exactly what's going on down there.  Obviously because it is glass/pyrex it will be really hard, so it's something to be careful of, especially if you have strong kegels. If you have good control over your kegels then they're super worth it. You can warm or cool them prior to use too! They're super easy to clean and are non-porous. Another option would be a jelly dildo like what Cowslips Warren has. There are tons of different kinds of those so you'll have to look around for something you like.
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Bollock Monkey posted:I shall ask again in this new incarnation! Any recommendations for dildos? Not looking for something that vibrates or has massive balls or is generally huge, but I'm not sure where to start. I just want an orgasm whilst he's going down on me, damnit. Seconding this question except: I'm mostly reactive to clitoral stimulation, in that that's pretty much the only way I can get off on my own (or sometimes during vaginal sex, too). I'm looking for a toy of some sort that I can enjoy when my boyfriend is not having me, since our libidos are tres different. I'd be willing to try a vibrator, but I still feel as if I'll need clitoral stimulation. As for texture/feel I'd probably prefer something life-like, or rigid with a little bit of softness. The quieter the better.
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Also, want to add that every week tootimid.com has a free toy (well, pay shipping and handling). Pretty nice!
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trapt posted:Noticed! Oh thank God. I was worried there was something wrong with my nose. So I found out that outdoor sex is pretty frigging awesome the other day.
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cuntvalet posted:Seconding this question except: Sounds to me as if you're looking more for the rabbit style of vibe. If all you want is clitoral stimulation, don't worry about it having any kind of rotating parts on the shaft (although most do). If anything, look for one where the vibration of the rabbit ears and the rotation of the shaft are controlled separately... I use my rabbit ears all the time, but that other dial almost never gets touched! Obviously, that rabbits don't really look very life-like, but the shafts can do sometimes. Just try shopping around a bit. Oh, and I'm new to the thread (just started following the old one before you closed it), but thought I might be able to help out with stuff from time to time. I like sex, you see?  And if you really want someone to address the waxing part of the OP, I sing praises about waxing!
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cuntvalet posted:Seconding this question except: Take a look at the SaSi from Babeland, as well as the Delight also from babeland. Definately the Delight. http://store.babeland.com/vibrators...tor-by-babeland http://store.babeland.com/vibrators-premium/delight
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I'm sure this was asked in the last thread but drat that was long so here it is: Are there any ways to make sex more comfortable in a situation where the guy has a girth that is almost painfully large? At least if length was an issue we could just limit certain positions. The sex itself is great once my body adjusts but later I'm sore and uncomfortable for the next day.
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For toys, check out amazon for price comparison. Amazon has lots of great deals. edit: oops, see thats already in the OP.
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Subderisorious posted:I'm sure this was asked in the last thread but drat that was long so here it is:
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Korak posted:Woman on top, spooning type of position, some of the karma sutra lotus positions. Basically you have to have most of the control and he needs to not thrust(or learn to shallow thrust) so that you're getting really warmed up before he goes for the full monty. Every vagina is different but most can accommodate a large guy or toy if you take your time to relax, use good lube, and take it slow. The spooning position is kind of neat because you can both position yourselves so that he can do a full thrust but only say 4-5 inches are going inside you at one time. Girth, *not* length is the issue. I am interested in the answer because i have the same issue when i have sex with girls.
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Zero Gravitas posted:Girth, *not* length is the issue. I think the answer is similar because in those positions you are more spending time warming up before going nuts and warming up is a big part of the solution for both problems.
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Zero Gravitas posted:Girth, *not* length is the issue. Not much you can do for beer can dick. 
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I've got a condom problem. Whenever I wear them, I end up with my dick all smashed against the tip. Either because of that, or something else, I don't really feel much with a condom on. No the default advice would seem to be get a smaller condom (right?) but I guess I've quite a bit of girth in the middle compared to either end, so a "normal" condom is too tight. Are there condoms that would work better for my "shape" (if that's even the problem) or should I look at some custom condoms? It's a bummer, without a condom I last a few minutes, with a condom I don't feel anything and usually go soft. It's putting a bit of a crimp in my lifestyle.
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Are you pulling them on too-tightly at the tip? What do you mean by "smashed"? It's perfectly okay to have a little loose material around the tip. Not feeling much with the condom on is, sadly, part of the condom experience. You should look-into getting a thinner brand. You may also be overly-desensitized from masturbation to try cutting that down for the time-being. I used to completely lose my erection when I put a condom on. I'd had no problem with them before I graduated from college but I was in a 3-year relationship afterwards where we stopped using them. After we broke-up I discovered that I couldn't maintain an erection while wearing one because my penis just felt completely numb. My solution was switching from Trojan and finally finding out that Durex works great for me. After that I managed to overcome the performance anxiety that had built up over that period and it's been smooth sailing since.
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These motherfuckers right here are literally the best condoms I have ever tried. Unless I'm understanding that you're basically too big for normal/small condoms? Or something?
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I leave it loose at the top, but after not very much intercourse, the tip of the condom has been pulled tightly against my tip, and it looks like I've stuffed a sausage casing. From what I've heard "thin" condoms are usually a bit smaller than normal condoms. I think I'm kind of on the edge between normal and large size. Once upon a time I bought a Kimono sampler pack online, and only used the large one. Maybe I'll give the others a try sometime soon.
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FISHMANPET posted:I've got a condom problem. Whenever I wear them, I end up with my dick all smashed against the tip. Either because of that, or something else, I don't really feel much with a condom on. No the default advice would seem to be get a smaller condom (right?) but I guess I've quite a bit of girth in the middle compared to either end, so a "normal" condom is too tight. Are there condoms that would work better for my "shape" (if that's even the problem) or should I look at some custom condoms? The answer to your question was in the OP. Condoms can now be ordered in custom sizes. There are also sites that will send you a kit to measure your junk with to better find what kind of typical condom you could/should use. If your meatpole is really that different in size between base, shaft, and tip then I suggest you look into one of those options, as a standard condom may give you issues like you're talking about.
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I've got a bit of a problem with my girlfriend. She's is incredibly tight, so much so that it's painful for her when we start having sex. It's not a lack of foreplay, because no matter what I've done or how long I've done it, we still have a hard time at the beginning of sex. Additionally, sex only really works if I'm on top and thrusting down. If I change the angle at all, it's really painful for her again. Her opinion is that her pussy is broken, so she needs to grin and bear it for a minute until she can enjoy sex, which she does. My idea is that something else must be going on for insertion to be so difficult, and only one angle to be working. I'm looking for ideas as to what could be going on and what we could do to help smooth things out.
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My initial thought is more lube. Even if there's been plenty of foreplay, there may not be enough lubrication for a smooth entry. Also, does she have larger inner lips? Sometimes that has an effect on initial entry but after a minute or so is fine. She's not hurting during sex right, just the initial entry? Has she tried being on top at first? That seems to help me when I'm having trouble. I can control how it goes in that way, not him.
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Giant Metal Robot posted:I've got a bit of a problem with my girlfriend. She's is incredibly tight, so much so that it's painful for her when we start having sex. It's not a lack of foreplay, because no matter what I've done or how long I've done it, we still have a hard time at the beginning of sex. Additionally, sex only really works if I'm on top and thrusting down. If I change the angle at all, it's really painful for her again. Try using a toy that's big enough to stretch her out a little but small-enough where it doesn't hurt as much.
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BigLove posted:It really really depends on what you want and what you like. If you want something that will blow your boyfriends' mind, get a nice glass or pyrex dildo. Nothing like seeing exactly what's going on down there. How cold is pyrex before you warm it up? Is it much colder than a rubber one? And what's this about kegels, I would hope that a sex toy wouldn't break from contractions! So how common is this? I have a realskin vibrator and I quite like the texture of that, just not how bits of fluff seem to find their way onto it. Is there any material that's similar but somehow different/better? It's so frustrating that Ann Summers is the only sex shop you can actually look around, if I could see and feel these things I'd be much happier laying down my pennies.
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Bollock Monkey posted:
There are plenty around that aren't Ann Summers, just have a look. http://nicennaughty.co.uk/page.asp?id=stores
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ibroxmassive posted:There are plenty around that aren't Ann Summers, just have a look. Ah, the nearest one is Bristol, so maybe a daytrip is in order, thanks! What I really meant was 'it's a shame Ann Summers is the one that's on every high street, because it's a bit poo poo'. I miss the Netherlands.
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Bollock Monkey posted:Ah, the nearest one is Bristol, so maybe a daytrip is in order, thanks! What I really meant was 'it's a shame Ann Summers is the one that's on every high street, because it's a bit poo poo'. I miss the Netherlands. I've never been in one, but try Private Shops as well, you might have one nearer you than Bristol.
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