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InstantInfidel
Jan 8, 2010

BEST I EVER SPENT

Sullivan County is about an hour North of me. It's a pretty rural county, overall pretty poor, very white, and very "traditional". Now, to top all of that off, they're on a new race to the bottom as they attempt to keep THE GODDAMN GAYS out of their high school prom. Fair warning, that article is a shitpile written by a local news correspondent. Actually, everything on that site is pretty awful, they're local for a reason, after all. Anyway, here's the article for those who are afraid of a massive piece of Flash poo poo:

quote:


A team of Valley high schoolers and parents rally for a separate prom that bans gays.

NBC 2's Paige Preusse reports how Sullivan High School says there's nothing legally they can do to allow it... several students and parents are taking matters into their own hands.

Several parents, students, and others who believe gays should be banned from the Sullivan High School prom met Sunday at the Sullivan First Christian Church.

"We don't agree with it and it's offensive to us," said Diana Medley.

Their idea is to create their own separate...traditional prom. Students say there are several others from their high school who agree, but are afraid to take a stand.

"If we can get a good prom then we can convince more people to come and follow what they believe," said student Kynon Johnson.

And now they want everyone to know where they stand.

"We want to make the public see that we love the homosexuals, but we don't think it's right nor should it be accepted," said a local student.

But not all in the community think what they're doing is right.

"We shouldn't be condemning people, and that's what judgement is. Christ came to save the people not to condemn them."

Local man Jim Davis says we've all sinned...so why should gays be treated with less respect?

"Love them as a person. You don't have to love what they do, because the gays may not love all the mistakes you make," said Davis.

Diana Medley is a special education teacher in town. She doesn't believe anyone is born gay.

"I believe that it was life circumstances and they chose to be that way; God created everyone equal," said Medley.

"Homosexual students come to me with their problems, and I don't agree with them, but I care about them. It's the same thing with my special needs kids, I think God puts everyone in our lives for a reason," said Madley.

"'So the same goes for gays? Do you think they have a purpose in life?' No I honestly don't. Sorry, but I don't. I don't understand it. A gay person isn't going to come up and make some change unless it's to realize that it was a choice and they're choosing God," said Medley.

Several local pastors support the separate prom movement.

"Christians have always been prepared for a fight. Jesus gave us armor for the front, not the back; we're not running anymore," said Bill Phegley with Carlisle Church.

Others, on the other hand, think they're casting stones... instead of spreading love.

"The feeling of being loved and belonging is universal," said Davis.

tl;dr I am a motherfucking public school teacher and have gay friends and I like them, BUTTTTTT not at my prom because being gay is a choice and wrong! Also they are like my special needs students

That this kind of bigotry still exists is bad enough, but that this teacher is still employed is even worse. There are petitions to have her fired, but the administration of the county is equally bigoted and lovely. The community backlash from the surrounding urban counties is hilarious and massive, to the point where the police have stepped in because threats were made. I'll edit this post as the inevitable shitstorm continues to build.

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socialsecurity
Aug 30, 2003

The Heroic ideal

Everytime I hear the terms "states rights" or "smaller government" I am reminded of situations like this where the majority oppresses the minority because the federal laws aren't there to protect them.

Cantorsdust
Aug 9, 2008

Infinitely many points, but zero length.

I'm okay with this as long as there's a separate 100% Gay Prom. It would be better decorated and full of lesbians.

Divine Disclaimer
Jan 24, 2013

He hoped and prayed that there wasn't an afterlife.

Then he realized there was a contradiction involved here and merely hoped there wasn't an afterlife.

What I Learned:

Gays and retards are put into good Christian lives for the good Christian's benefit

Of course they still have to burn in hell for eternity afterwards because no exceptions.

quote:

"Jesus gave us armor for the front, not the back; we're not running anymore," said Bill Phegley with Carlisle Church.

Is this his version of "I'm ready for you"?

Divine Disclaimer fucked around with this message at Feb 11, 2013 around 18:28

President Kucinich
Feb 21, 2003

Wealth is the product of man's capacity to think.


Cantorsdust posted:

I'm okay with this as long as there's a separate 100% Gay Prom. It would be better decorated and full of lesbians.

"Separate but fabulous" still relies on prejudices against gay people, even if the prejudice displayed is that gay people have better fashion sense. Not all gay people have good fashion sense!

ImpAtom
May 24, 2007

Are you mocking me?

I have gay friends but really I think they're an abomination and need to be purged from the Earth. My friends are cool with that though. What, you want to meet them? They, uh, they live in Canada. You wouldn't know them.

Divine Disclaimer
Jan 24, 2013

He hoped and prayed that there wasn't an afterlife.

Then he realized there was a contradiction involved here and merely hoped there wasn't an afterlife.

ImpAtom posted:

I have gay friends but really I think they're an abomination and need to be purged from the Earth. My friends are cool with that though. What, you want to meet them? They, uh, they live in Canada. You wouldn't know them.

I love you man

Now

Wagoneer
Jul 16, 2006

hay there!

Might help if you put what state you hate in the OP. For everyone else, Sullivan County is in Indiana, apparently.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007


I love you, you're just an unacceptable aberration. It's nothing personal, you understand. I don't dislike you, per se, the way you are just makes my stomach roil!

Death Pits of Crap
Nov 6, 2007


Don't feel too bad, OP:



And the posts in the comments section are pretty encouraging.

Of course, 85% of the respondents are probably other well-educated yuppies from far outside Wabash Valley.

GlennBeckistan
Jun 2, 2009



quote:

"Jesus gave us armor for the front, not the back; we're not running anymore," said Bill Phegley with Carlisle Church.
Read: "My backside is totally undefended and I'm not gonna run, if you know what I mean. "

Three Olives
Apr 10, 2005

Go on daaaahhhhling...


ImpAtom posted:

I have gay friends but really I think they're an abomination and need to be purged from the Earth. My friends are cool with that though. What, you want to meet them? They, uh, they live in Canada. You wouldn't know them.

I love Dan Savage's response to the fact that this keeps coming up:

Dan Savage posted:

What really interests me about the HuffPo interview, however, is Elizabeth's claim to have gay friends. Elizabeth Santorum—follow her on Twitter @esantorum2012—has gay friends. Just like her father. And Rick Warren and Joel Osteen and Donny Osmond and Sarah Palin. All the high-profile homophobes seem to have gay friends. Or at least they claim to have gay friends. No one has ever met—and no reporter has ever asked to verify the existence of—one of Rick Santorum or Elizabeth Santorum or Rick Warren or Joel Osteen's gay friends.

Um... political reporters? Stop accepting homophobes' claims of gay friendship at face value. Elizabeth Santorum says she has gay friends who support her dad based on his family platform? That is an astonishing assertion. Who are these gay people who support Rick Santorum for president despite his having compared sex between consenting adults of the same sex to child surprise sex and dog loving? Who are these gay people who support Rick Santorum for president despite his having asserted that gay relationships are a threat to "homeland security"? Who are these gay people who support Rick Santorum for president despite his opposition not just to gay marriage, but to any legal recognition of same-sex relationships at all (no civil unions, no domestic partnerships)? Who are these gay people who support Rick Santorum for president despite his promise to write anti-gay bigotry into the US Constitution, forcibly divorce every same-sex couple that has gotten legally married in the US over the last decade, and reinstate DADT? Who are these gay people who support Rick Santorum for president despite his opposition to adoptions by same-sex couples?

Who are these faggots?

taupoke
Apr 26, 2008


HOLY SHIT I'M TRIPPING BALLS


The jokes on them, without gays their prom is going to consist of boredom and a lovely spotify playlist.

FinalGamer
Aug 30, 2012

BEHOLD!

AN ORDINARY MOTORIST!


MY Wabash Valley posted:

"Homosexual students come to me with their problems, and I don't agree with them, but I care about them. It's the same thing with my special needs kids, I think God puts everyone in our lives for a reason," said Madley.
Okay, hold the loving phone. Did this little bitch just compare a sexual orientation with loving mental disabilities?

Wow, I have never seen that before and jesus gently caress that is a horrible thing to say as a school teacher. gently caress this place, gently caress Wabash Valley.

Samurai Sanders
Nov 4, 2003



FinalGamer posted:

Okay, hold the loving phone. Did this little bitch just compare a sexual orientation with loving mental disabilities?

Wow, I have never seen that before and jesus gently caress that is a horrible thing to say as a school teacher. gently caress this place, gently caress Wabash Valley.
Hey, it wasn't that long ago that that WAS the accepted position. If you missed the last say, 30 years of gay rights activities, that would be a normal thing to think. And clearly there are a lot of people out there who missed the last 30 years of societal change (looking at the TPC thread).

edit: in Japan it's still an accepted position today, it seems. Along with AIDS being a gay disease and so on.

Samurai Sanders fucked around with this message at Feb 11, 2013 around 19:05

bagshotrow
Apr 23, 2011


quote:

Local man Jim Davis says we've all sinned...so why should gays be treated with less respect?

Something here about God hating Mondays or something

Milky_Sauce
Dec 24, 2007
I want your sausage. Keep it up!

InstantInfidel posted:

being gay is a choice

I question any person who says this and I question their sexuality. If you seriously think you can force yourself to be attracted to something you actually aren't attracted to, it's you. You're the gay.


(PS: I actually am gay and recall when Bill O'Reilly compared to "kids thought James Dean smoking cigarettes looked cool so they tried it and now if kids think being gay is cool they will try that too" and my first legit thought was "you'd seriously have to be gay but in denial to be able to think that").

Do these people think the average straight man was taught to be attracted to large breasts? If they want to argue you that you are in fact "taught" that because of breastfeeding, wouldn't way more women who were breastfed be lesbians?

I...I just can't.

Hammerite
Mar 9, 2007

And you don't remember what I said here, either, but it was pompous and stupid.

quote:

"We want to make the public see that we love the homosexuals, but we don't think it's right nor should it be accepted," said a local student.

"We want the public to see that we can have our cake and eat it too", said a local redneck, who later said that he wasn't racist, but interracial marriages were sinful in the eyes of the Lord.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007


Milky_Sauce posted:

Bill O'Reilly

Don't bother trying to figure his logic out. That way lies madness.

Divine Disclaimer
Jan 24, 2013

He hoped and prayed that there wasn't an afterlife.

Then he realized there was a contradiction involved here and merely hoped there wasn't an afterlife.

Samurai Sanders posted:

Hey, it wasn't that long ago that that WAS the accepted position. If you missed the last say, 30 years of gay rights activities, that would be a normal thing to think. And clearly there are a lot of people out there who missed the last 30 years of societal change (looking at the TPC thread).

edit: in Japan it's still an accepted position today, it seems. Along with AIDS being a gay disease and so on.

That is unusual to me, Japan Guy. I would have thought the Japanese to be more progressive than us in this respect despite their strong conservatism and traditional family values.

Shimrra Jamaane
Aug 9, 2007

Remind me to work out until I also am buff and have to keep a pillow in front of my okay I'll be honest this is like the 50th custom title I've done tonight and I'm just phoning it in now.

Constance Goes to Prom 2: The Bigots Strike Back

Pope Mobile
Nov 12, 2006

Talked to Jesus lately? More bars in more churches, synagogues, mosques and all other places of worship, guaranteed.

Our God is an awesome spiteful God
He reigns smotes from Heaven above
With wisdom, pow'r and love bigotry, fear and hate
Our God is an awesome spiteful God

Samurai Sanders
Nov 4, 2003



Divine Disclaimer posted:

That is unusual to me, Japan Guy. I would have thought the Japanese to be more progressive than us in this respect despite their strong conservatism and traditional family values.
Well, unlike us they don't have a religious opposition to homosexuality, just a "look at those weirdos, they're gross" opposition.

edit: also they see it as a thing the West inflicted on them, even though like any society they have a tradition of homosexuality going far back into history.

Pope Mobile
Nov 12, 2006

Talked to Jesus lately? More bars in more churches, synagogues, mosques and all other places of worship, guaranteed.

Samurai Sanders posted:

Well, unlike us they don't have a religious opposition to homosexuality, just a "look at those weirdos, they're gross" opposition.

A country full of tentacle surprise sex and gays are the weirdos.

Samurai Sanders
Nov 4, 2003



Pope Mobile posted:

A country full of tentacle surprise sex and gays are the weirdos.
Well I mean people who read tentacle surprise sex comics also get the "gross weirdos" thing directed at them, so that isn't much of an argument.

I said come in!
Jun 22, 2004



Everything from that school teacher follows the classic "i'm not a bigot, I even got gay friends, but..." defense.

Time_pants
Jun 25, 2012


quote:

"Jesus gave us armor for the front, not the back; we're not running anymore," said Bill Phegley with Carlisle Church.
Way to skimp on the armor, Jesus. What, you spend the last of the gold on resurrection?

quiggy
Aug 7, 2010

Oof.


Three Olives posted:

I love Dan Savage's response to the fact that this keeps coming up:

Oh neat, Dan Savage, now there's a well-rounded and totally accepting gay man and not at all a bigoted douche himself

mrae
Feb 6, 2013


The idea that homosexuality is "offensive to us" or "We don't think it's right or should be accepted" as a defense against this glaring example of bigotry underlines one of the failings of the religious. They can disrespect other groups but demand us to respect their beliefs or ideologies.

If you're "offended" boo loving hoo. You are entitled to an opinion but not entitled to respect for it.

I said come in!
Jun 22, 2004



mrae posted:

The idea that homosexuality is "offensive to us" or "We don't think it's right or should be accepted" as a defense against this glaring example of bigotry underlines one of the failings of the religious. They can disrespect other groups but demand us to respect their beliefs or ideologies.

If you're "offended" boo loving hoo. You are entitled to an opinion but not entitled to respect for it.

Religion is some scary poo poo, for this very reason. It teaches people that only their beliefs are right, and everyone else is inferior.

BAKA FLOCKA FLAME
Oct 9, 2012
If you see me posting in the trans megathread, report me so I can be banned! Thank you!

love, the management

I chose to have a mental disability because gently caress the police.

Spatule
Mar 18, 2003

I'M A WORTHLESS FAGGOT AND I HATE CANON.
SHOVEL HOT TAR INTO MY ANUS PLEASE.


FinalGamer posted:

Okay, hold the loving phone. Did this little bitch just compare a sexual orientation with loving mental disabilities?

Wow, I have never seen that before and jesus gently caress that is a horrible thing to say as a school teacher. gently caress this place, gently caress Wabash Valley.


Kids these days. Prepare to weep: http://www.lgbt-ep.eu/press-release...s-mentally-ill/

comes along bort
Sep 12, 2012



taupoke posted:

The jokes on them, without gays their prom is going to consist of boredom and a lovely spotify playlist.

Also the Electric Slide.

PBJ
Oct 10, 2012

Sic semper bananas

To be fair, this is in southwestern Indiana. It doesn't get much more conservative than that.

FinalGamer posted:

Okay, hold the loving phone. Did this little bitch just compare a sexual orientation with loving mental disabilities?

Wow, I have never seen that before and jesus gently caress that is a horrible thing to say as a school teacher. gently caress this place, gently caress Wabash Valley.

The irony is that she's a special ed teacher.

Frozen Horse
Aug 6, 2007
Just a humble wandering street philosopher.

Milky_Sauce posted:

I question any person who says this and I question their sexuality. If you seriously think you can force yourself to be attracted to something you actually aren't attracted to, it's you. You're the gay.


(PS: I actually am gay and recall when Bill O'Reilly compared to "kids thought James Dean smoking cigarettes looked cool so they tried it and now if kids think being gay is cool they will try that too" and my first legit thought was "you'd seriously have to be gay but in denial to be able to think that").

Do these people think the average straight man was taught to be attracted to large breasts? If they want to argue you that you are in fact "taught" that because of breastfeeding, wouldn't way more women who were breastfed be lesbians?

I...I just can't.

{clears throat} BISEXUALITY!

The gay/straight false dichotomy drives this line of thinking too. If you think about sexuality only in absolutes, then there will be awkward surprises since for many people it's fluid. Yes, there are actually straight men and they're usually the ones who go "Cock? Meh..." And there are gay men who have been unimpressed by feminine charms since kindergarten. But there are also a lot of people who think that if they get attracted to a person of the same sex that must mean that they're gay. Thus, you're on the right track, but it has also to do with bisexuals in a homophobic culture with a gay culture that sees them as invisible and what I'll dub the "one cock rule" of gayness. These people could really be honest about their susceptibility to attraction to both sexes, and unable to come up with terms for it that don't involve uncomfortable levels of self-hate.

Jet Set Jettison
Jan 8, 2009



I hate your state too.

quote:

"If we can get a good prom then we can convince more people to come and follow what they believe," said student Kyoon Johnson.

It all makes sense.

Devils Affricate
Jan 22, 2010

science unflinchingly pokes away at the unknown and corrects itself with what it sees while religion screams into the darkness and swears it hears an answer

How can homosexuality be a choice and a mental disability at the same time? At least choose one or the other, people.

Some Other Guy
Dec 30, 2004
Probation
Can't post for 53 minutes!


Milky_Sauce posted:

I question any person who says this and I question their sexuality. If you seriously think you can force yourself to be attracted to something you actually aren't attracted to, it's you. You're the gay.


(PS: I actually am gay and recall when Bill O'Reilly compared to "kids thought James Dean smoking cigarettes looked cool so they tried it and now if kids think being gay is cool they will try that too" and my first legit thought was "you'd seriously have to be gay but in denial to be able to think that").

Do these people think the average straight man was taught to be attracted to large breasts? If they want to argue you that you are in fact "taught" that because of breastfeeding, wouldn't way more women who were breastfed be lesbians?

I...I just can't.

The "gay is a choice" argument vs. "people are born gay" is a politicization of a much more complex empirical issue of nature vs. nurture. It's also a false dichotomy.

Gay as a choice essentially means sexual preference is a result of socialization, which, if you're stupid you'll distill down to "it's a choice." The things you internalize because of complex processes of socialization are generally beyond your control. Our culture tends to deny this, though, because we like to think we are all autonomous individuals with FREE CHOICE and we are not products of society.

The "born gay" argument is based on findings that show that a portion of the variance in explaining sexual preference can be explained by genetics. If you don't understand this research, you'll distill this finding down to "gay is in the genes," as if genetics can determine complex patterns of behavior. Saying being gay is in the genes is just as dumb as saying cheating on your spouse is because of a "cheating gene" or criminal behavior can be explained by a "crime gene."

Your example with breasts is problematic. Standards of beauty and what is deemed attractive does vary based on culture, and personal preference often is the result of internalized norms (i.e., socialization). A fetish over huge tits, for instance, is culturally relative and does vary based on time and place. If you look at the U.S. today, we certainly seem to place more emphasis on this today than other societies did in the past. The alternative explanation to what you present would be that straight men are born with an attraction to large breasts -- it's in the DNA or something. That's some biotruth poo poo right there.

DasReich
Mar 5, 2010


What I'm really tired of is people using Christianity to rationalize their own bigotry. I'm pretty sure that the command, "love one another" doesn't come with any stipulations. I mean drat, people deserve to be treated with respect as long as they're not actively harming you, and even then you're supposed to love and forgive. Hypocrisy is the absolute worst thing.

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NoneSuch
Jun 5, 2010

oh not this time.
your act of being the
goodguy is over


DasReich posted:

What I'm really tired of is people using Christianity to rationalize their own bigotry. I'm pretty sure that the command, "love one another" doesn't come with any stipulations. I mean drat, people deserve to be treated with respect as long as they're not actively harming you, and even then you're supposed to love and forgive. Hypocrisy is the absolute worst thing.

But gay people are actively harming them! It's icky watching two dudes kiss. We're also destroying marriages and families somehow, but it's never really explained.

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