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Arnold's obsessive calculations... What? Why are you so upset? The earliest friend of mine to have sex was 18, the oldest 26, and they are completely normal well adjusted people. If you are an otherwise pretty normal person, no one worth knowing is going to give a gently caress that you're a virgin. Once you actually do it a couple times, you'll realize your fears and weird expectations were unfounded. If you work on your confidence and anxiety and talk to dateable people, it'll happen. Like someone else said, most sexually active people have had enough lovely sex in their lives that you'd have to do something outrageously wrong for them to find it noteworthy. I'm wondering if the virgins in this thread are drinkers. I have no experience dating in the sober world, but I imagine it would add some awkwardness to the whole thing.
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I feel that female is weird to use as a noun, but there's nothing wrong with saying 'female colleagues'. It's nice that most of you virgin dudes don't seem resentful toward women. I hope you can find fulfillment in your lives, whether or not that involves sex.
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Jesus, you are not expected or obligated to do anything on any date. You go, do whatever activity you planned, talk to each other. If you hit it off, good. If both parties want to hug or kiss it should be fairly obvious. If not then no big deal. And that doesn't necessarily mean they don't like you. Some people just need a little longer to get to that point.
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I want to shove everyone who says toasties in a wheelie bin. If your grilled cheese is just toast with melted cheese then you're loving fooling yourselves and no wonder you can't get laid.
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Feb 26, 2014 22:31
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It is mandatory that the outsides be buttered. I have heard it's good lightly mayoed on the outside too. It can't just be plain toast though.
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That's weird. Grilled and toasted apparently have opposite meanings in different places. Toasties is still a dumb word though, I'm sorry.
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If you get married before being intimate with someone, it seems like there's a good chance you're going to lock yourself into a situation where you never get to experience a healthy sexual relationship in your life. To each their own I guess. I guess a hot plate is probably your most versatile choice if you're only going to own one sad cooking device. Hot plate + toaster oven and you're gold. And a wrap is not a sandwich. Please see the gbs open face sandwich thread for more information.
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An artist's depiction of the struggle to lose his virginity: 
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I too share no information about my life with my close friends. drat that guy sounds nuts. And good luck on your date, Pinball. I get really nervous beforehand too, but once you talk for a few minutes it should get easier. It's normal and not a dealbreaker to be a bit nervous. There is nothing you are expected or obligated to do other than get to know this person. I hope you have a good time!
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Hahaha, I will never get tired of hearing that bullshit. Keep telling yourself most women are shallow bitches instead of putting any effort into making yourself a more likeable person. It'll work out real well for you, I'm sure.
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Most women I know are totally turned off by men who talk about their material wealth, cars, how often they work out, etc. If you are financially well-off, that's great but there's nothing interesting about it. Just makes you seem arrogant. Being an interesting, cool person has nothing to do with money. Being poor isn't a dealbreaker if you can take care of yourself. Women are struggling financially just as much. We get it.
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With a defeatist attitude and very warped views of what women are like, then yeah, you're probably going to end up alone. If you work on your confidence and self-esteem and actually get to know some women by dating or just casually making friends, then you will find someone.
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I don't know. I wouldn't want to be with someone in a much higher financial class. I don't know how I could respect myself if I was being taken care of and not having to work for anything. I've also rarely met a rich person who didn't get there by loving others over. Also yeah if someone only wants you for your money, is that someone you want to be with?
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I can't imagine what a smug douchebag you would have to be to pride yourself on being more cultured because you've traveled. Holy poo poo do you guys ever need to talk to some actual women instead of assuming we like that crap. Having a good personality is hands down the most important thing and if you define yourself by your money, your car, the places you've been, how much you lift, etc. then you come across as having no personality besides self-absorbed. Edit: not that those things are bad or that you shouldn't be proud of them, but they are material things that people can learn about you on their own. Bragging about them or calling other people down for not having them is unattractive. lidnsya fucked around with this message at 01:01 on Mar 3, 2014 |
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Christ Forceholy how about reading what actual women are saying to you instead of ignoring it and believing whatever lovely loving media representation of women you're basing your beliefs on. I have seen more girls being leeched off by guys than the other way around. Different people find different things attractive. No one is going to date someone based solely on their accent. lidnsya fucked around with this message at 01:50 on Mar 3, 2014 |
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I've been saying these things in hopes that some of the guys with lovely confidence will start to realize they don't have to be this ideal rich perfect man for women to like them. Because that is the truth. Forceholy however you are a misogynist coward and no woman who doesn't have major mental health issues will be with someone like that.
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Virgoons please don't go down that crazy path. A little effort put into caring for yourself and meeting people and you will find someone.
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No one is refuting you because we have done so in countless previous threads. You will have a hard time finding anyone on these forums that sympathize with MRA bullshit.
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Spiffo posted:Jane Came By please get out Ohhh! I knew I'd read pretty much this exact wording before. The worth of human beings cannot be measured in a scale of 1 to 10 and I feel sorry for anyone so removed from actual human interaction that they think that way.
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Also Forceholy it brings me no joy that people are lonely. I want to encourage people because I know what it's like to feel lonely and unwanted and depressed and undeserving. It's an awful way to live. But the things you have been saying are not only self-defeating, but also hurtful to others who feel like you who do want to get better. And you have some very deplorable and unrealistic views on women that I really hope will change.
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ZergFluid posted:Hahahaahaha. Yeah well for a long time women were forced to. I sure as gently caress won't be reproducing if I can help it. Prostitution might not be legal but it's still very easy to obtain. Hell, go get drunk at a bar with other drunk people and you won't even have to resort to that. If someone is so hosed in the head, having sex is not going to solve their problems.
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And who is to say that if prostitution was completely legal, they wouldn't still be picking the "top men" as clients. Should women be forced to have sex with people that disgust them?
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ZergFluid posted:No it isn't, in the United States. Prohibition of prostitution has an effect on the quality of women who are willing to become prostitutes and on prices. The men who would need the services of prostitutes can't probably afford it on the illegal market, and that's exactly the point of legal prohibition -- not to stamp out the practice but to reduce the supply of sex workers as to make it hard/expensive/disgusting etc to seek out such services. Decriminalization would mean open competition between sex workers with resulting lower prices and a higher caliber of sex worker. It's you. You're the disgusting low caliber person. No one owes you anything. Why should "high caliber" sex workers have to have sex with your disgusting rear end?
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Mar 3, 2014 03:38
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You aren't new here. You've posted this bullshit many times and no matter how much you've been refuted, you don't listen. It's fun to laugh and cringe at but there is no point engaging this person. They are way too far gone. It would take a team of psychiatrists and therapists to begin to undo the brainwashing this guy has been subjected to by MRA communities. I say again to anyone feeling like they'll never have sex, please please do not start down this path. There is only misery and consuming hatred of women and society waiting for you. You are better than that.
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K that last video changed my mind, please have sex with me zerg. I'm at least a 6 but I'm willing to let myself go for a bit to a 3 or so for our better compatibility. For the good of society.
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Mar 3, 2014 04:28
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I want to be your toastiemaker. Want to press your limp bottom male dick between my hot plates until your putrid dick cheese oozes out. Please. For society.
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There is no such thing as top men or top women. People consider all kinds of different things attractive in a partner. You would see that very clearly if you had any kind of regular human interaction. There are just as many single women out there as men. Women are not nearly as shallow as you believe. It seems like you are the one with too high of standards because you feel women who are a 6 or less should just become nuns since even these poor grotesque bottom men won't be with them.
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ZergFluid posted:Not necessarily. It's possible that the number of singles in both genders is the same when you consider all age ranges, but the male peers of women in their 20s face pressure from men in their 30s and 40s for those same women, since, as I said before, younger women are seen as more attractive. The reverse is true as well though. Older women are hooking up with younger men. But that doesn't count to you since older or less physically attractive women don't count as potential sex partners. Which is not the case in the real world.
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ZergFluid posted:No, I most certainly do not think it would count if these virginal men who have posted in this thread had gotten laid by real 60 year old women (not that human nature is such that these grandmas wopuld want to be sleeping with youngsters anyway. These two groups repel each other sexually.) You cannot seriously believe this. These kinds of relationships have been becoming way more popular in recent years, especially as more older women are becoming independently wealthy and would like to be with men who have more sexual stamina than some of the men in their own age range.
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Ugly and socially retarded women in their 20s have just as hard a time attracting partners. If neither these women nor the grotesque men are willing to be with someone at their own "low level" then they either need to improve themselves or accept being alone. Oh and women are not programmed to be with older men either. What dumb biotruths sense does it make for a woman to be with someone who is less capable of giving her sperm and who will die way before her. lidnsya fucked around with this message at 05:52 on Mar 3, 2014 |
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ZergFluid posted:Women who have a hard time attracting partners are most likely women who are physically disfigured or mentally unstable in a substantial way This is the exact same thing for men. quote:There is no equivalence between a woman who has become infertile with age and an old man who still produces sperm and can still shoot it, however less virile he might be compared to his younger self. A grandpa can still easily impregnate a 20 year old woman. A 20 year old man cannot impregnate a 60 year old woman no matter how hard he tried. The thing is, this biotruth crap is full of poo poo since in reality many people don't want to reproduce. And even if women did just want that, they would not be going for someone who was less virile and more likely to die.
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I don't even think killing off all of the top men would work because the top women would rather be celibate or maybe even just start having sex with other top women and put more research into developing artificial sperm. I think the government is pretty much going to have to round up the top women and force them to have sex with bottom men for this to be a fair society.
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ZergFluid posted:It is most certainly is not, since female sexuality is worth more than male sexuality and men have a stronger sex drive. quote:You might not be interested in reproduction but reproduction is interested in you... And that's why humans have developed many many ways of sterilizing themselves and terminating pregnancy.
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The virgins in this thread are not on your side. They mostly sound like pretty normal people who just need help with their anxiety/health and need to get out more. If we are being overly lovely toward these bottom men you are talking about it's because they only exist in your head and you seem to think men who put no effort into taking care of themselves deserve to be with super hot women but not vice versa because unattractive women don't count as people. How are you in any position to have an opinion on human interaction when you do not interact with humans?
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ZergFluid posted:Better not complain, male virgins, and blame anything other than yourselves for your plight. Of course they are allowed to complain and no one has said differently. There is a difference between complaining about how difficulties in your life have held you back from sexual relationships and blaming everything on the shallowness of women or some weird sex marketplace theory with no basis in reality. I'm too lazy to quote but you did straight up say that sex with an older or unattractive woman doesn't count.
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This ranking system does not exist. This marketplace poo poo does not exist. It's in your head and the heads of all of the other socially maladjusted men who refuse to take any responsibility for their failures. You stew together and reinforce each others' whining uneducated theories while becoming more and more detached from reality and more frustrated and angry until you end up killing yourself or other people. You have been brainwashed by some very sick people (I don't blame you for this) and you need serious help. I hope you get help and find happiness some day.
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Was she supplied by your government or is there just a lower market value for top women there?
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EXTREME INSERTION posted:If you're ugly, go find another ugly person and have sex, lots of ugly people have sex, look at the Midwest, WHY IS THIS SO DIFFICULT FOR YOU ZERG MAN Pretty sure we also deduced that hot young but infertile women are tricking men with their marketing. All of you picture virgoons are cuties.  Keith Mars you get extra points for being a VMars fan.
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You are not sharing truths, just uneducated opinions. You are not sharing observations because you do not observe real human beings interacting.
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