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I went to get a beer tonight at the store and saw a couple fighting as I left. I called 911 when I saw a 6 foot man pushing his small girlfriend who was trying to leave. She wanted to leave the area, and he was physically pushing her back and forcing her to stay. All I could think about was my own sister getting slapped around and how mad it made me that the people who saw it did nothing. The fight was getting more violent so it was either me intervening and telling him to stop or call the cops. Because I am chronically incapable of minding my own business. It seemed like the right thing to do, but I don't feel good about it. That man is going to jail tonight because of a phone call I made. That's really heavy. It doesn't excuse his behavior, but I really question if I made the right decision. I wanted him stopped but I don't know if he deserved jail. Thoughts? Opinions?
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Shoulda joined in. It was probably foreplay for some heavy DP action.
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May 30, 2014 07:43
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Should've offered to cuck him, op
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May 30, 2014 07:43
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Should be sleeping posted:when I saw a 6 foot man wait did he ACTUALLY HAVE 6 FEET  e: and anyone you got imprisoned is good news as the prison system is a hungry machine and if it's him it's not you a hole-y ghost fucked around with this message at 07:47 on May 30, 2014 |
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May 30, 2014 07:45
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a hole-y ghost posted:why does this bear mentioning? is 6 foot tall? I forgot to mention that she was barely 5 feet tall. He was using his size to intimidate her. That's why I mentioned that.
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May 30, 2014 07:47
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Should be sleeping posted:I forgot to mention that she was barely 5 feet tall. He was using his size to intimidate her. That's why I mentioned that.  e: just give him a call while he's in jail and say you're sorry for his loss. it's the best of both worlds, the one world being you got him put in jail and the other world being you intervened and he kicked your rear end
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May 30, 2014 07:48
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little females are people too
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May 30, 2014 07:50
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a hole-y ghost posted:hmm. if the heights were switched but the situtation was otherwise exactly the same would you have called I'm not sure. But I think the fact that he was towering over her and using it to scare her pissed me off even more. It seemed to exacerbate the situation a bit.
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May 30, 2014 07:50
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gary oldmans diary posted:little females are people too please cite your sources
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May 30, 2014 07:54
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a hole-y ghost posted:e: and anyone you got imprisoned is good news as the prison system is a hungry machine and if it's him it's not you No worries, plenty of room for everyone.
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May 30, 2014 07:54
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hm. find his girlfriend and see if you can get her shoes that will make her 1 ft. taller than him so when he gets out of the slammer you can follow them around and see
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May 30, 2014 07:54
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snitches get stitches op
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May 30, 2014 07:56
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Agree with the majority, could've spit roasted.
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May 30, 2014 07:57
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You did a misandry.
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May 30, 2014 07:58
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pff https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IgOKduU05t4
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May 30, 2014 07:58
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Kill him, gently caress her, kill her, then yourself. Situation resolved with no regrets.
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May 30, 2014 08:00
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Wow people need to learn to keep their domestic violence in doors. So you are looking for a good line to text her? Something like "u need a better man than that in yo life"
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May 30, 2014 08:03
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Should have pissed on him
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May 30, 2014 08:06
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yeah but did he say any swear words at you
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May 30, 2014 08:06
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roboshit posted:yeah but did he say any swear words at you He said: "Chad!! Tell them I didn't do anything, man!" My name is not Chad. I do not know that man. So there's that.
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May 30, 2014 08:07
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gj now hes gonna beat the poo poo out of her when he gets out
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May 30, 2014 08:08
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You shouldn't have called the cops OP, you should have stepped in and beat his loving rear end then you should have taken the bitch home with you and got laid!
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May 30, 2014 08:17
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Vargs posted:gj now hes gonna beat the poo poo out of her when he gets out
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May 30, 2014 08:18
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sounds like you should have intervened if it was bugging you so much because now you're a snitch
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May 30, 2014 08:19
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Cucking Mama posted:sounds like you should have intervened if it was bugging you so much because now you're a snitch
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May 30, 2014 08:24
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lol at asking goons about anything not relating to anime or poverty ghost
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May 30, 2014 08:25
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Dely Apple posted:lol at asking goons about anything not relating to anime or poverty ghost
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May 30, 2014 08:25
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Should be sleeping posted:That man is going to jail tonight because of a phone call I made. That's really heavy. Not really. If she wants to press charges he is in jail because of that. Congrats on not being a terrible human being.
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May 30, 2014 08:27
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He almost for sure won't be going to jail because it's extremely rare for domestic disputes to be tried or even followed up upon. Really OP, you probably just made her rear end beating a lot worse when he takes out the frustration of dealing with the cops on her.
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May 30, 2014 08:34
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So good job a making a dude beat a woman OP.
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May 30, 2014 08:35
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Should be sleeping posted:I went to get a beer tonight at the store and saw a couple fighting as I left. I called 911 when I saw a 6 foot man pushing his small girlfriend who was trying to leave. She wanted to leave the area, and he was physically pushing her back and forcing her to stay. All I could think about was my own sister getting slapped around and how mad it made me that the people who saw it did nothing. The fight was getting more violent so it was either me intervening and telling him to stop or call the cops. Because I am chronically incapable of minding my own business. everyone involved is a bitch imo
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May 30, 2014 08:37
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so op I think the real question is whether it's ethical for you to be spankin it to the thought of that guy and the girlfriend
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May 30, 2014 08:38
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You did the wrong thing, you know nothing about them or the situation they were in. You were too much of a pussy to ask what was actually going on, and instead you invited the most volatile element to that situation that you could outside of handing him a bottle of alcohol and a loaded pistol. And even if the guy was abusing her, what you did will, in all likelihood, not provide anything more than a catalyst to further trauma, as others have stated. Good job.
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May 30, 2014 08:44
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wtsnaename posted:You did the wrong thing, you know nothing about them or the situation they were in. You were too much of a pussy to ask what was actually going on, and instead you invited the most volatile element to that situation that you could outside of handing him a bottle of alcohol and a loaded pistol. And even if the guy was abusing her, what you did will, in all likelihood, not provide anything more than a catalyst to further trauma, as others have stated. Good job. No, I doubt it.
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May 30, 2014 08:47
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Pawn 17 posted:Not really. If she wants to press charges he is in jail because of that. See, i want to believe that. But the cop specifically said that all they have to arrest him is my testimony to prove a crime took place. They put him in a police car and drove him to jail. He's there now. He did say the DA may or may not end up pressing charges based on their findings.
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May 30, 2014 08:47
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narc means narcotics officer, don't got poo poo to do with domestic abuse, so no you ain't a narc and yes you did the right thing you ever actually narc tho snitches get stitches
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May 30, 2014 08:49
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What you do is get your fuckin phone out and immediately up load it to world wide hip hop star
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May 30, 2014 08:50
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devin2 posted:everyone involved is a bitch Hell, I am.
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May 30, 2014 08:50
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ShaunO posted:What you do is get your fuckin phone out and immediately up load it to world wide hip hop star
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I think you did the right thing, OP. gently caress the haters.
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