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TheSpiritFox posted:Being completely honest, she has done her research into why she personally would like to live there and decided this was the best decision our family could make and now she wants me to get behind it and I'm not going to. She doesn't know a thing about emigration or about the costs we would incurr or what NZ would actually want from us before they would allow us to move there with an eye towards permanent residency. My advice is to resolve this situation before your fiance becomes your wife. The worst-case scenario here is that one of you subordinates your feelings to the other's will and ends up resenting them for not/moving to New Zealand. (Well, I suppose a possibly worse scenario is that you agree to move to New Zealand, spend all this time and money to do it, and then she has a meltdown over culture shock and wants to go home.)
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