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What is any kind of touching about? Having a connection with someone you find interesting, you're curious about, people that look or appeal to you in some way. You want to touch and be touched. As a young adult, it almost happens automatically, you're all curious and often bored and in situations conducive to the exploration of contact with all the other strange entities you share the world and immediate experiences with. When you get older, and are exploring outside of a group with immediate context to your life and situation, you should strive for authenticity without being lazy. Be active and have at least some non-superfluous leisure that increases you as a person when you do it. That can be just about anything, but just sitting around doing nothing... that's a hard sell, basically.
If you have interests, passions, and friends, people who want to touch you will be found. If you don't have those things, that's something to work on. Maybe you feel like you don't really like anything? That happens to everybody. You should try to try more things. Even if you never find anything super amazing, continuing to try new things will grow you into someone more interesting than you are now. The worst thing you can do is just obsess over getting some kind of intimate contact. It just speaks of incredible desperation. Just establish your own self as an interesting, dynamic person, with at least enough stability to not make people worried about you, and find friends, people that you can relate to, talk to, get to know and understand on varying levels. I have no idea how to directly address people to get them to want to touch you, but it's just something that organically happens.
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