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EugeneJ posted:So wait you've been cheating on your spouse for 2 years? Married people separate, not sure if that is the case here though.
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Lichy posted:marriage is great if you trust each other absolutely and realise that it's the two of you against the rest of the gay uncaring world but that's really not what most marriages are yeah this is why marriages fail, unrealistic expectations
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Jan 22, 2015 22:00
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date somebody and don't live with them. Sex on the reg, they can sleep over when they want, you can sleep over there if you want, and you still get days during the week when you walk around the house naked eating cold hot dogs while watching Flapjack on your phone
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Jan 22, 2015 22:02
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Lol that someone who drinks and browses facebook while making you do chores is what some goons imagine marriage to be. Marriages involve a wife not your mom but i can see how some goons would mistake the two
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Jan 22, 2015 22:03
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death .cab for qt posted:date somebody and don't live with them. Sex on the reg, they can sleep over when they want, you can sleep over there if you want, and you still get days during the week when you walk around the house naked eating cold hot dogs while watching Flapjack on your phone living together means a more room and you split the rent & utility costs
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Jan 22, 2015 22:04
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Robo Reagan posted:Lol that someone who drinks and browses facebook while making you do chores is what some goons imagine marriage to be. Marriages involve a wife not your mom but i can see how some goons would mistake the two well....
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Jan 22, 2015 22:04
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ill suk ur dock
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Jan 22, 2015 22:05
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Dyna Soar posted:living together means a more room and you split the rent & utility costs And you're stuck together for the entire duration of the 30-year mortgage.
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Jan 22, 2015 22:05
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being married owns
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GORDON posted:I've gotten to experience pretty much every phase of life so I don't feel like I have missed out on anything. Death is certain XBox and weed every weekend
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Jan 22, 2015 22:06
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EugeneJ posted:And you're stuck together for the entire duration of the 30-year mortgage. thats a long mortgage
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Jan 22, 2015 22:07
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Dyna Soar posted:thats a long mortgage 
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EugeneJ posted:And you're stuck together for the entire duration of the 30-year mortgage. what do you think fishing trips are for?!?!?
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Jan 22, 2015 22:09
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Lichy posted:what do you think fishing trips are for?!?!? remember that married with children episode
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Jan 22, 2015 22:10
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EugeneJ posted:And you're stuck together for the entire duration of the 30-year mortgage. this is why moving in together is the bigger step, it's pretty hard to break up with someone when you realize your rent will go way up and you'll probably have to break a lease and move into a shittier apartment. also it's when you get used to each other's quirks and talk out the stuff that is actually going to be difficult. by the time you get married, all that's pretty much over and been working for awhile, so.
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Jan 22, 2015 22:10
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basically if you're having a big wedding wedding, planning the loving thing is the final exam for your relationship to make sure you are ready for the marriage itself
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Jan 22, 2015 22:11
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EugeneJ posted:So wait you've been cheating on your spouse for 2 years? You're required to be separated for a year before you can file for a divorce where I live. I left him in November of 2011 and filed the paperwork a year after that, but apparently I filed the wrong papers. We're both in relationships at the moment. Not legally nor technically cheating where I live.
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Jan 22, 2015 22:12
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Lived together for ten years prior to marriage. However that doesn't solve everything, people change over long periods of time, even after marriage.
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Darth123123 posted:Lived together for ten years prior to marriage. However that doesn't solve everything, people change over long periods of time, even after marriage. half my family is just common law seems if you find something that works you just leave it alone
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Jan 22, 2015 22:24
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yeah like the big party and being able to use the terms husband or wife are nice and all but if people just live together forever, it's not like civilization is going to collapse because they didn't sign a legal paper.
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Jan 22, 2015 22:25
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Bicyclops posted:yeah like the big party and being able to use the terms husband or wife are nice and all but if people just live together forever, it's not like civilization is going to collapse because they didn't sign a legal paper. Life's a bit cheaper and more convenient with that legal paper.
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we lived together for about a year and a half before tying the knot and i think it was helpful; learned each other's quirks etc. before going in for the long haul. being married does feel pretty nice though, idk what it is. something about it being official. also, taxes and spousal benefits
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and if you're gonna have kids, getting married before the little poo poo gets born saves you a lot of hassle
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Dyna Soar posted:and if you're gonna have kids, getting married before the little poo poo gets born saves you a lot of hassle why makes it harder to skip town
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Rando posted:Life's a bit cheaper and more convenient with that legal paper. yeah, i guess. i haven't done my taxes since getting married or applied for a credit card or anything but so far things seem p. much the same.
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Jan 22, 2015 22:29
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make enough money that putting money in your roth ira makes you on paper poor enough to not pay taxes
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Dyna Soar posted:you should only get married for tax reasons Children are good for that too. But lol they cost more than the credit. Same with the wife.
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Bicyclops posted:yeah, i guess. i haven't done my taxes since getting married or applied for a credit card or anything but so far things seem p. much the same. You might like it when you get to visit her in the hospital the day they remove the feeding tube or whatever.
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TOILETLORD posted:make enough money that putting money in your roth ira makes you on paper poor enough to not pay taxes Lol what? There's a 5500 limit on Roths
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Darth123123 posted:Children are good for that too. But lol they cost more than the credit. Same with the wife. you should get a cheaper wife
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Darth123123 posted:Lol what? There's a 5500 limit on Roths i'm poor
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Bicyclops posted:being with a married couple that bickers in front of company is definitely one of the most uncomfortable guest situations The first time I ever got to experience this was like the greatest moment of my life because I felt like such a grown-up. It was like 'oh look honey, those two seemed to be okay when they came in the restaurant with us but now they're having a meltdown and there's no escape! It's romantic though because we're in this ~together~'
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Rando posted:You might like it when you get to visit her in the hospital the day they remove the feeding tube or whatever. she's on immunosuppressants and i often worry so yeah 
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Bicyclops posted:she's on immunosuppressants and i often worry so yeah See? Marriage kicks rear end!
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i can't even decide what to order from the menu. lmao if you think i'm going to be able to correctly pick the one person out of billions who i'll be capable of spending the rest of my miserable life with
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Cnut the Great posted:i can't even decide what to order from the menu. lmao if you think i'm going to be able to correctly pick the one person out of billions who i'll be capable of spending the rest of my miserable life with who ever doesn't hate you when you talk to them is a easy way to narrow your choices
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Cnut the Great posted:i can't even decide what to order from the menu. lmao if you think i'm going to be able to correctly pick the one person out of billions who i'll be capable of spending the rest of my miserable life with how picky are you?
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TOILETLORD posted:who ever doesn't hate you when you talk to them is a easy way to narrow your choices but everyone hates me when i talk to them, on account of the smell
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Cnut the Great posted:but everyone hates me when i talk to them, on account of the smell hit up fet life
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