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i had this friend as a kid who's little brother wore long underwear all year round. like, in the summer he'd put then under shorts & a t-shirt turns out he had p. severe learning disabilities
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IronLawnmower posted:Wtf are long underwear? thermal underwear 
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Jan 28, 2015 17:55
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send him to fat camp
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Jan 28, 2015 17:58
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ok the dad probably doesn't want him to be alpha or "manly" he just want him not to be such a loving passive creep. i dont have kids but i can totally relate to that
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Jan 28, 2015 18:15
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GrrrlSweatshirt posted:oh word? al bundy is awesome and actually a pretty good representation of your average dad
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Jan 28, 2015 18:16
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Libelous Slander posted:al bundy makes jokes about fat people, do you not see how this is problematic? there's a designated fat joke thread on the front page of GBS right now
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Jan 28, 2015 18:18
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why is he a lovely dad exactly though for posting that poo poo online? maybe he just needs to vent
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Jan 28, 2015 19:11
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he's dissapointed that his son grew up to be a entitled little creep and is worried he won't grow out of it based on what he says, i dont blame him. he'll have that little poo poo stinking up the house until he dies
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Jan 28, 2015 19:12
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Dyna Soar posted:he's dissapointed that his son grew up to be a entitled little creep and is worried he won't grow out of it i mean i'm not surprised goons think he's a bad dad for thinking this. hits quite close to home doesn't it
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Jan 28, 2015 19:14
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Jan 28, 2015 19:20
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seriously tho if a 13-year old is fat there's something wrong with his life
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Jan 28, 2015 20:29
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Nuclearmonkee posted:This thing is called "parents" also "video games" and "lovely food in school" and "geek culture"
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Jan 28, 2015 20:31
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Nuclearmonkee posted:All of which parents have control of except possibly lovely school food if you are a poor. Like if one of my kids was getting fat I'd just make them come to the gym with me or do something else to keep active and if they don't want to then you just take the "video games" and "geek culture" away. Just passively letting them get fatter without doing anything meaningful about it is being a lovely parent. You can control what they eat, what they own and what they can do at 13. If they are making bad choices you are kind of obligated as a parent to help them correct it. reddit dad said his kid hates doing anything else than playing minecraft or w/e so uhhh whats your point exactly kids aren't machines you can make them do as you say but you can't make them enjoy it. honestly, if the ONLY thing that makes your kid happy is playing games with his creepy friend you'd be kind of disappointed too
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Jan 28, 2015 20:41
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reddit dad realised his son is an adolescent version of this dude: and is horrified, disappointed and saddened by it. do you blame him
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Jan 28, 2015 20:45
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CharlestonJew posted:Hanging out with reddit dad = Unhappy kid you should carefully re-read the op or maybe just stop posting
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Jan 28, 2015 20:47
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Nuclearmonkee posted:Not everything is fun or enjoyable. Sometimes you have to do things like laundry, clean up, and work on not being a depressed and miserable fat person. You job as a parent isn't to make a kid happy all the time it's to help them become a functional adult who is equipped to do things with their life beyond turning 40 in your basement. yeah i agree and reddit dad does too at least based on that thing he posted. the son has no interest in books, music, movies, the mechanical (whatever that means), his grades suck, he never goes out unless forced, he apparently doesn't enjoy going to amusement parks, nowhere his dad can think of that would be fun. he only likes playing minecraft with his creepy friend. dad says he's mostly disappointed in himself for not being abled to figure out a way to make anything else appealing to his son
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Jan 28, 2015 20:49
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Venom Snake posted:Yeah this kid who does what pretty much all guys in college do these days sure is a giant gently caress up. hey video game avatar dude this is totally not true
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Jan 28, 2015 20:57
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Fojar38 posted:it doesnt say he doesnt enjoy going to amusement parks, it says that he is scared of heights and the fast rides idk what crystal ball you got most of that poo poo from
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Jan 28, 2015 21:01
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Venom Snake posted:Eat junk food and play video games is pretty much par for the course in any college you go to. you need to re-read the op or just stop posting
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Jan 28, 2015 21:02
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Fojar38 posted:its all in the op it's not though, you're making pretty far out assumptions based on the op
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Jan 28, 2015 21:03
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Venom Snake posted:The dude literally says he thinks his kid is broken because he eats junk food and plays minecraft despite doing what ever his dad asks of him lmao. that's not what he says at all
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Jan 28, 2015 21:03
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Fojar38 posted:i suppose it could all be lies but nobody would lie on the internet least of all reddit no you read it how you want to and assume poo poo based on what he writes like his son likes being with his mom more and that he has autism or a similar disability.
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Jan 28, 2015 21:05
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a bone to pick posted:dad doesn't want his son to turn into a sensitive, antisocial goon and surprise surprise goons are up in arms about it lol hits too close to home yes
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Jan 28, 2015 21:05
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Venom Snake posted:What's wrong with being sensitive? Is being autistic and unable to read peoples emotions considered a good trait now? op doesn't say anything about that poo poo, it just says he cries over trivial poo poo and the dad says he's probably making a big deal out of nothing since he's old school or w/e
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Jan 28, 2015 21:13
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reddit dad is worried his kid is turning into this  goons think he's a monster
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Jan 28, 2015 21:16
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afeelgoodpoop posted:wow... its almost like the dad who said his kid does anything he ask him could easily direct him to some type of exercising. maybe even in some incredibly passive way like putting the computer on a standing desk. but naw its probably better to hate a core part of their personality. he doesn't hate his personality, he's worried about him. he says the kid is getting into taek wan do and feels bad about not making him do sports earlier, so according to op he's actively trying to make his son move more
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Jan 28, 2015 21:24
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seriously is your reading comprehension this bad
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Jan 28, 2015 21:25
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Fojar38 posted:he thought about punching his son and didnt instantly feel ashamed of himself for even letting the thought cross his mind he does though, he thinks his son crying over poo poo he thinks is trivial is a sign of weakness but at the same time admits that those thoughts are his own weakness. carefully read the op again or maybe stop posting
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Jan 28, 2015 21:28
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Fojar38 posted:no it says he thinks himself weak for NOT punching his loving son well poo poo, i guess you could read it like that. now that's p. hosed up. we need reddit dad to clarify this here
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Jan 28, 2015 21:32
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burritolingus posted:Basically. This Dad dropped the ball hard and now he's running to reddit to cry about how his son is a loving dork when it's entirely this dad's fault. Kid will probably turn out fine despite having poo poo parents though. Hang in there, little dude. it's a teensy bit the kids fault too
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Jan 28, 2015 21:35
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afeelgoodpoop posted:sensitivity and negative feelings towards being sensory overloaded is a core component of being a sensitive ie withdrawn/shy person.the child in the op is unable to overlook anxiety/fear to enjoy carnie rides which is a very good tell of it. its important to remember that this is a core aspect of 1 out of 5 people born in this world with only psycho substances like lsd or ssris and high social rank can change. imagine if nearly every new high sensory experience is overwhelmed by the negative feelings of anxiety, and overcolor whatever it is your experiencing? it should be easy, especially for goons. this also shows why parental direction towards adult life is very important, since anxiety colors nearly every experience negatively, how could you possibly know what you want to dedicate your times for? well, aside from your ritual (videogames) that is. time to clear out the basement
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Jan 28, 2015 21:37
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burritolingus posted:He didn't choose his dumbass dad though. are you saying you can raise up a kid to be anything you want because i assure you thats not the case
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Jan 28, 2015 21:42
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gigawhite posted:every 13 year old is a loser kid in the op sounds like the runt of the loser litter
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Jan 28, 2015 21:43
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burritolingus posted:No I'm saying this dude clearly hosed his up though. parenting isn't everything sometimes kids just grow up hosed you know
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Jan 28, 2015 21:45
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The Mad Archivist posted:if you're saying the son is somehow genetically predisposed to being a goon then this still isn't his fault well i've known brothers with one well adjusted, normal brother and one like described in the op so i guess sometimes ppl can just go wrong you know like, all serial killers didn't have a lovely childhood altho yeah it's more common that they did
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Jan 28, 2015 21:49
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a bone to pick posted:LMAO goons are literally diagnosing and agreeing on a kid's mental disorders through a short post the dad made. more like posting their own
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Jan 28, 2015 21:51
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gigawhite posted:when I was 13 a friend thought it would be funny to convince a girl to grind on me at a middle school dance. my reaction was to push her off and run away. nobody survives being 13 did it make you cry though
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Jan 28, 2015 21:53
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Fojar38 posted:if he forced him to turn off minecraft his son would eventually find some other form of escapism (after trying and failing to get over the fact that his dad forced him to cut off contact with what is probably his only friend) because minecraft is a symptom and not a cause as far as we know minecraft is the symptom of being a loving dork and nothing more
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Jan 28, 2015 22:37
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Zombies' Downfall posted:I'm pretty sure Minecraft now is like a kid of a prior generation playing Mario or Sonic or Pokemon back in the day, sitting inside doing nothing but playing those made you a loving dork, too
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