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and while you're kickin' it and having a good time together, all of a sudden you think "what if this guy is a rapist?" this happens to me all the fuckin time. i try to push the thought out of my brain because it's hard to keep thinking it and still have a good conversation, even just a pleasant one i guess, but i mean, i just met this guy. he seems cool and i could see us being pals, heck, even the type of pals who go on vacations with each others' families (not big ones like visiting australia but like a little camping trip maybe etc.) but back in college i learned about things called statistics that basically says some people are just gonna be rapists, no ifs ands or buts, so how can you just assume that everyone YOU make friends with isn't one of those people? what if as soon as we friend each other on facebook so we can get together later in the week and jam and we bid each other a good night and leave the bar, he goes to the alley behind the supermarket and just starts raping? and then next time i see him he's just banging away on a djembe drum talking about how we really found a good groove but really he's just thinking about raping again. how can i ever be sure? can we ever really know anybody? it's heady poo poo but i think it's stuff we gotta consider sometimes. what stuff sometimes makes you nervous or uncomfortable when you're meeting new people? only serious replies please because i think we need a place to discuss this stuff because it's real stuff, man.
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# ? Mar 29, 2024 08:02 |
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Only peaceful rape. Like if she's passed out on drugs.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:03 |
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Gatekeeper posted:and while you're kickin' it and having a good time together, all of a sudden you think "what if this guy is a rapist?" i think you need to talk to someone more qualified than GBS.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:04 |
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100% of people are guaranteed to be raped at least 12 times in their lives.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:05 |
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yo op I met someone that, when she brought new people over, she would come up with some excuse to take their picture with her laptop so if they turned out to be an ax murderer the image would be in the aether. she was really cool and effortless about it and i admired it as such
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:07 |
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Mumpy Puffinz posted:i think you need to talk to someone more qualified than GBS.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:08 |
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OP, are you scared you might rape someone?
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:09 |
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Mumpy Puffinz posted:i think you need to talk to someone more qualified than GBS.
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Lawrence Gilchrist posted:yo op I met someone that, when she brought new people over, she would come up with some excuse to take their picture with her laptop so if they turned out to be an ax murderer the image would be in the aether. she was really cool and effortless about it and i admired it as such clever girl I.C. posted:OP, are you scared you might rape someone? no, just that a seemingly chill dude will turn out to be a raper of others. like i guess he could be a murderer too but rape seems more hosed up to me psychologically that murder i guess. like i found out someone i knew did a murder i'd be like "huh that's hosed up" but if i found out they did rapes i'd be like "drat that's hosed up" and there's a big difference between the two reactions. even worse i guess is stuff with kids but i think my mind won't even let me consider poo poo that dark because it's trying to save itself from that awful yucky feeling it would bring up, like the ones you get when you read go back and aatrek posts about that little girl from kick-rear end
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:14 |
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gatekeeper let's get drunk I "promise" I "won't" rape you
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:15 |
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You think rape is worse than murder?
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:16 |
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Blue Train posted:gatekeeper let's get drunk I "promise" I "won't" rape you see, this is actually a good example. you're the dude who asked me to paint eric dorner, mumia abu jamal, and ice-t standing on the mountain of dead cops with the "bring back lf" banner, right? that alone fits most of my criteria of "dude i'd probably get along with" but who knows what terrible things you've done
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:17 |
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Gatekeeper posted:clever girl dude. you need help
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:17 |
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I don't mean to be antagonistic. People do terrible things, and no one knows why. Probably terrible things happened to you and people you know. It's important to be nice is my point.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:18 |
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no worries bud, i think its good to have honest frank discussions about our thoughts and fears sometimesI.C. posted:You think rape is worse than murder? i didn't say worse, just spookier. its like a murder where the corpse is still alive and has to remember it afterwards
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:20 |
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The guy I hung out with in high school sexually assaulted a friend of mine a couple of years later so I feel your pain op the only solution is to hang out solely with women and even then if you get a bad vibe just shoot them
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:21 |
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Gatekeeper posted:see, this is actually a good example. you're the dude who asked me to paint eric dorner, mumia abu jamal, and ice-t standing on the mountain of dead cops with the "bring back lf" banner, right? that alone fits most of my criteria of "dude i'd probably get along with" but who knows what terrible things you've done lol yep that was me, and very very terrible
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:23 |
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I mean…some people just show you what they want you to see.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:27 |
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that's everyone. you just gotta have faith they're not hosed up or else yo on the news saying "I never thought he'd do something like this he was always so nice"
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:31 |
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point is you can never truly KNOW someone so no point in worrying
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:32 |
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I.C. posted:I mean…some people just show you what they want you to see. like there was a show called dexter that i found really spooky because this guy seemed like this super nice handsome cool dude who was a pretty good guy but no, it turns out he was just pretending so no one knew he murdered. he never raped though. the audience always rooted for him because he was a cool murderer but i bet if he raped people wouldn't have been so cool with him
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:33 |
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Blue Train posted:lol yep that was me, and very very terrible post the picture
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:34 |
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Blue Train posted:point is you can never truly KNOW someone so no point in worrying I used to think about this a lot and it'd bug me out a little. Then I stopped caring. Blue Train is smart.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:36 |
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posting to add to bookmarks
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:49 |
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you irl posted:post the picture
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:51 |
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high art
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:52 |
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yea its masterful
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:55 |
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Only Ice-T is frowning. Why?
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 22:57 |
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he's always frowning i guess whats scary isn't that anyone is capable of being a monster, it's just scary to think that you became buddies with one. your buddies should be far out, they shouldn't be monsters
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:00 |
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Gatekeeper posted:see, this is actually a good example. you're the dude who asked me to paint eric dorner, mumia abu jamal, and ice-t standing on the mountain of dead cops with the "bring back lf" banner, right? that alone fits most of my criteria of "dude i'd probably get along with" but who knows what terrible things you've done we need to see this picture now
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:07 |
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I.C. posted:Only Ice-T is frowning. Why? have you ever seen Ice-T smile. He's to busy being mad at cops
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:09 |
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He's so cold!
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:11 |
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Top City Homo posted:we need to see this picture now
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:12 |
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Gatekeeper posted:and while you're kickin' it and having a good time together, all of a sudden you think "what if this guy is a rapist?" I think the same thing while browsing the post your picture thread in pyf.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:14 |
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I meet cool dudes all the time and I never consider if they are rapists or not because I'm the rapist. See you around.
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:16 |
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I am Toni Lippi posted:I meet cool dudes all the time and I never consider if they are rapists or not because I'm the rapist. See you around. God I hope not
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# ? Mar 29, 2015 23:19 |
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he put his dick right in my butt yes op
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Noblesse Obliged posted:I think the same thing while browsing the post your picture thread in pyf. it's a head trip, right? the whole idea of talking to people over the internet is far loving out to me anyway, but when you notice one goon who has a good name and a cool av (like maybe a reference to a cool thing not a lot of people know about) and they post primo posts about good stuff that you like, sometimes you just gotta wonder: is this goon a rapist?
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Gatekeeper posted:it's a head trip, right? the whole idea of talking to people over the internet is far loving out to me anyway, but when you notice one goon who has a good name and a cool av (like maybe a reference to a cool thing not a lot of people know about) and they post primo posts about good stuff that you like, sometimes you just gotta wonder: is this goon a rapist? I don't have to wonder. I know.
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always check for a mod star
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