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I hope those of you with nasty souls full of hate can, one day, learn to love other people, and experience true happiness. 
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I'm prepared to love other people 
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Apr 17, 2015 23:25
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Liking others and liking yourself are important steps to become truly happy and fulfilled.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:25
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Apr 17, 2015 23:25
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nice love is great op and i love you
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Apr 17, 2015 23:25
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Nation posted:nice I feel like you're being sarcastic as a defence mechanism because you know deep in your soul that your heart is black and hardened.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:28
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Keg posted:I feel like you're being sarcastic as a defence mechanism because you know deep in your soul that your heart is black and hardened. nope, i think he is genuinely...full of love.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:29
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Keg posted:I feel like you're being sarcastic as a defence mechanism because you know deep in your soul that your heart is black and hardened. I hope this isn't the case. It would be very sad if that poster was another GBS sociopath.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:29
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Big Ol Marsh Pussy posted:I hope this isn't the case. It would be very sad if that poster was another GBS sociopath. most gbs sociopaths are actually gbs psychopaths, which is an important distinction.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:31
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how are we defining love in this instance?
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Apr 17, 2015 23:33
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Im gay
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Apr 17, 2015 23:36
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Keg posted:I feel like you're being sarcastic as a defence mechanism because you know deep in your soul that your heart is black and hardened. It's because nobody in the world has shown him any love or affection, probably for some time. But that time is over. Feel the love, friend
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Apr 17, 2015 23:40
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HITLER LOVED EVA SOOOO MUCH.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:41
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You're all just like my projections man. How I feel about you is how I feel about my own self, since you only exist in my mind man
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Apr 17, 2015 23:42
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i want to make love
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Apr 17, 2015 23:43
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Mange Mite posted:It's because nobody in the world has shown him any love or affection, probably for some time. But that time is over. Feel the love, friend its like im talking but nobody is really listening, not like she used to...
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Apr 17, 2015 23:45
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I used to be like this when I was younger and a lifetime of bad and unlucky experiences have made me hateful and small. I'm not the kind of guy to act on it but it really makes me sad how far I've sunk.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:45
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If anyone has any idea how I can fix myself, please tell me. I'm serious. I can't stand who I've become
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Apr 17, 2015 23:46
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eternalname posted:I used to be like this when I was younger and a lifetime of bad and unlucky experiences have made me hateful and small. I'm not the kind of guy to act on it but it really makes me sad how far I've sunk. You could start by changing your password.
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eternalname posted:I used to be like this when I was younger and a lifetime of bad and unlucky experiences have made me hateful and small. I'm not the kind of guy to act on it but it really makes me sad how far I've sunk. There are people out there with far less who somehow rISE above their circumstances. Embrace love, and be reborn as your better self
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Apr 17, 2015 23:47
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eternalname posted:If anyone has any idea how I can fix myself, please tell me. I'm serious. I can't stand who I've become the meaning of life is to live to enrich your soul this mostly involves loving everyone and everything hth
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Apr 17, 2015 23:48
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this sound suspiciously like pulling myself up by my bootstraps
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Apr 17, 2015 23:49
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That's the true path to neurosis. Be kind to yourself first.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:49
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Nation posted:its like im talking but nobody is really listening, not like she used to... i'm listening
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Apr 17, 2015 23:50
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key to happiness is all encompassing apathy toward your fellow man and woman
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Apr 17, 2015 23:50
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eternalname posted:this sound suspiciously like pulling myself up by my bootstraps full communism now would be a good way to explain it
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Apr 17, 2015 23:53
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eternalname posted:If anyone has any idea how I can fix myself, please tell me. I'm serious. I can't stand who I've become Bake cookies for some friends as an altruistic act of kindness, because making others feel happy feels really good.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:54
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try finding someone you feel safe with and just listening to their problems. try to cultivate empathy and feel their problems as if they are your own. don't talk too much, just tell them that you love them and wish teh best for them.
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Apr 17, 2015 23:56
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eternalname posted:If anyone has any idea how I can fix myself, please tell me. I'm serious. I can't stand who I've become same but I done't even care about getting back at all
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Apr 17, 2015 23:58
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everyone itt fill me up with your love juice
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Apr 17, 2015 23:59
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diabeetz posted:everyone itt fill me up with your love juice just lift the jug and fill your mouth with that thick sweet love juice
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Apr 18, 2015 00:01
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gbs <3.69: share your love with friends and soon to be very good friends, pm your favourite crush, buy a romantic avatar for a sweetheart - if only am i rite?!
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Apr 18, 2015 00:06
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Mange Mite posted:try finding someone you feel safe with and just listening to their problems. try to cultivate empathy and feel their problems as if they are your own. don't talk too much, just tell them that you love them and wish teh best for them. Tell me your problems. Any problem. All problem. I love you.
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Apr 18, 2015 00:25
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Nation posted:full communism now
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Apr 18, 2015 00:36
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which is more dysfunctional in your opinion op, people who generally can't feel anything towards random internet strangers or people who have genuine emotions for random internet strangers?
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Apr 18, 2015 00:40
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Poetic Justice posted:which is more dysfunctional in your opinion op, people who generally can't feel anything towards random internet strangers or people who have genuine emotions for random internet strangers? Jim Rustler.
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Apr 18, 2015 01:00
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I want to love myself through other people but GHB is illegal, OP. 
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Apr 18, 2015 01:00
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eternalname posted:If anyone has any idea how I can fix myself, please tell me. I'm serious. I can't stand who I've become i'll take a risk here and post seriously. i think therapy is probably a good answer if you have really bad self-esteem or self-loathing issues but i also think there's a lot you can do for yourself. i really turned around my self-esteem and general attitude toward life by employing some simple techniques over the last 6 months or so. i would go so far as to say i pulled myself out of a pretty bad depression. my advice is geared toward being self-hating more than hating others but i hope you will see how it can be adapted to your feelings about other people. it is possible that you are less willing to accept others because you don't accept yourself, though. what's funny is that i've seen you post that you lie to people that happiness is a choice, but i don't think that's so far from the truth in some cases. i was able to help myself by recognizing that not every thought that i have should be taken seriously. if i have a negative thought about myself that isn't constructive, i immediately reject it and concentrate on what i believe to be a rational and reasonable line of thought on the same subject. for instance, if i unjustly put myself down for something i did at work, i will reject that thought and instead think about the positive aspects, like what i learned from my mistake or what i'm going to do better in the future, or even just what i did right in that instance. it's important to understand that this isn't a rejection of self-criticism, just a way of mediating it through rational thought processes that give you a chance to be happy with yourself. these techniques apply to thoughts about others as well. after a time, i stopped having to do this, and in fact i have very few kneejerk negative thoughts about myself and others. i consider myself a much happier person, and while this may seem counterintuitive, i feel I am much better at being able to criticize myself and to improve myself in response to it. to make this work, you need a few things. 1. you need to convince yourself that it's forgivable to make mistakes, or even fail outright. 2. you need to be able to stop and think very clearly about what your expectations for yourself or others ought to be. realize that if you have formulated expectations that you can say for sure are reasonable and someone isn't meeting them, you should have a dialogue with them about it. 3. you need to work at it. it takes a while to even catch these kinds of thoughts when they're happening. it's important to do so because they insidiously infect your subconscious. 4. you need to be able to take pretending seriously. if you're like me, you probably will have to pretend to believe any of this will work. it turns out that if something is all in your head to start with, pretending can be a pretty effective tool. edit: lol sorry Fergus Mac Roich fucked around with this message at 01:31 on Apr 18, 2015 |
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Big Ol Marsh Pussy posted:Jim Rustler. that's a valid answer to the question, thanks!
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