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Coolie Ghost posted:Introvert/Extrovert is in the domain of psychology as much as the stuff in What the Bleep Do We Know is in the domain of physics i do remember the concept being brought up in my psych classes, but it was included in a grouping of malleable personality characteristics like conscientiousness, willingness to try new things, etc. but don't you dare suggest to introvert comic people that they can learn to be more outgoing
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it's amazing to me that internet shut-ins have basically developed a newage mythology involving metaphysical energy exchanges in order to ignore that thier youth, with poor socialization and potentially numerous traumatic incidents, resulted in crippling social anxiety that will take actual work to fix i am the life of the party! *plays twister alone and cries, makes tumblr comic to trick himself into thinking he is actually cool and rad*
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Jul 2, 2015 18:26
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It's just a bunch of loving fools that are using this as excuse for being lazy instead of admitting that they're lazy people. Introverts used to be called couch potatoes. I'm one, everybody that knows me knows I'm lazy. Nobody cares including me.
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Jul 2, 2015 18:27
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As a relatively introverted person myself I never understood why people crave attention or understanding online in the form of posting cartoons and poo poo. Its the loving internet, who cares? In my personal life I just made sure my friends understood that sometime I'm not in the mood to go out drinking. Good friends understand those things, and those that can't/wont you should not be friends with. Its pretty simple.
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Jul 2, 2015 18:31
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im so alone and i just poo poo my pants
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Jul 2, 2015 18:35
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how me a frog posted:I'm like you but better. Repost, but the likely other side of that convo  And both girls went home secure in the knowledge of their superiority to that stuck up bitch they kinda tried talking to.
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Jul 2, 2015 18:41
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how me a frog posted:Help society I'm a special snowflake, appease me! One of my friends posted that one. A couple of years later, she started running a bunch and lost a lot of wait. She continues excercising a bunch and is no longer posting introvert stuff. What I'm saying is that her "introversion" was caused by depression. Sure, she's still not super outgoing or anything, but she's stopped obsessing about how her lack of motivation to interact with other people is caused by it. Ocean Book posted:i think what the comics are suggesting is to recognize that some people get tired from having social interactions and need to take a break Darth123123 posted:too many words in those commics Bored fucked around with this message at 19:45 on Jul 2, 2015 |
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Jul 2, 2015 19:42
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i thought i was an introvert then i realized i just didn't like most people. now i'm as outgoing as i want to be which is hardly ever.
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Jul 2, 2015 19:43
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Some people don't like socializing as much as others or get exahusted by it. But outgoing people like the OP don't get this so they paint introverted people as being assholes. So some introvert went and made some comics saying 'This is how I feel. I'm not actually a monster for thinking this.' which is great because they're being brave and standing up for themselves. But giant assholes, such as the OP, can't tolerate this because how dare you try to defend yourself and be different and not let me poo poo all over you whenever I want. So then assholes, the OP being a prime example, continue to exist and make lovely threads and spew hatespeech and not realize they are pieces of poo poo that should kill themselves.
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Jul 2, 2015 19:57
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op needs to smoke a weed and relax
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Jul 2, 2015 19:59
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Maybe introverts should stop overthinking every basic interaction and just let it all hang out a bit with cool people who like having a great time
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Jul 2, 2015 20:14
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Pretty much all introverts will open up in the right setting, they're just socially anxious, overthink things, and hide behind books/games/media as a coping mechanism.
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Jul 2, 2015 20:16
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ArbitraryC posted:Pretty much all introverts will open up in the right setting, they're just socially anxious, overthink things, and hide behind books/games/media as a coping mechanism. its true and its sucky
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Jul 2, 2015 20:20
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i use to say i was an introvert then i realized i was a stupid fucker so yea its bullshit just be normal. sometimes i like being around people a bunch sometimes not crazy i know
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Jul 2, 2015 20:24
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Stuffguyman posted:Some people don't like socializing as much as others or get exahusted by it. But outgoing people like the OP don't get this so they paint introverted people as being assholes. Lol project harder!!!! Wats your tmblr oval office?
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Jul 2, 2015 20:25
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i'm the hermit crab except gay
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Jul 2, 2015 20:25
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After I'm done reading this Schopenhauer treatise on the mode of transcendence I'm going to sketch a few panels on that feeling I had
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Jul 2, 2015 20:26
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Seriously there's a reason why any self labeled introvert you talk to will have a huge online presence (whether it's a game, forum, or some other community) and a couple of really close friends, it's because they still desire a similar level of social interaction as everyone else they just have less options due to their own neurosis. You wouldn't spend all evening on chat programs with your guild or all weekend playing mtg with your tight nit friends group if social interaction itself was draining, you just start to panic at the prospect of going out into a group of strangers who might be judging* you (they aren't), catastrophize, then convince yourself you really just wanted to stay in and read/play games rather than admitting you were just anxious about going out. *notice how a lot of complaints in those list boil down to this? Don't criticize them or have them do things they're not good at in public. It's pretty classic social anxiety.
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Jul 2, 2015 20:28
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you're insane if you think i'm reading any of that
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Jul 2, 2015 20:29
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lite frisk posted:i am PERverted, where PER is an acronym for Penetrate, Ejaculate, Reevaluate (your life choices). Sounds like some Jackie Chiles poo poo right there.
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Jul 2, 2015 23:06
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They're not fooling anyone with all of those "reading books" comics, they're either binging on video games or netflix.
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ArbitraryC posted:Seriously there's a reason why any self labeled introvert you talk to will have a huge online presence (whether it's a game, forum, or some other community) and a couple of really close friends, it's because they still desire a similar level of social interaction as everyone else they just have less options due to their own neurosis. You wouldn't spend all evening on chat programs with your guild or all weekend playing mtg with your tight nit friends group if social interaction itself was draining, you just start to panic at the prospect of going out into a group of strangers who might be judging* you (they aren't), catastrophize, then convince yourself you really just wanted to stay in and read/play games rather than admitting you were just anxious about going out. not really true. i like my friends but hanging out with them is draining because i find all social interactions taxing. many things in life worth doing take energy and effort, just because you like doing them doesnt negate that. i also think your characterization of every person who identifies with introverted characteristics as being in denial about social anxiety is unfounded.
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Jul 2, 2015 23:19
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You can like high brow stuff and also not be a drag to be around. For example I read most af the davinci code.
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Jul 2, 2015 23:21
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i didn't say anythign op
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Jul 2, 2015 23:24
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Ocean Book posted:i dont see whats so bad about understanding how other people feel about things
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Jul 2, 2015 23:35
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How to care for isis members, an comic
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Jul 2, 2015 23:37
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Kill all InCels
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Jul 2, 2015 23:41
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how me a frog posted:Help society I'm a special snowflake, appease me!
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Jul 2, 2015 23:51
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I scrolled through all that poo poo hoping for an 'Im gay' on the front page i was diasappointed
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Jul 2, 2015 23:54
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how me a frog posted:Help society I'm a special snowflake, appease me! So they want to be treated like cats?
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LeoMarr posted:I scrolled through all that poo poo hoping for an 'Im gay' on the front page There's a front page? opus111 posted:So they want to be treated like cats? gently caress I wanna be treated like cats. Am I on board with this? o_0
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Moridin920 posted:You know if you don't go specifically looking for poo poo on the internet that makes you angry there's like a .001% chance you'd ever see something like that right? i wish i was as cool and non-caring and edgy as yu
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how me a frog posted:Help society I'm a special snowflake, appease me! Laughing really hard that 2. is a picture of nerd crying about getting cucked by a black dude.
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REMINDER! THIS IS ALL FINE! Do not stand in the way of the pussyfication of the west, a grown rear end adult having the mental fortitude of a small child is something to be applauded.  GOOD!  A SIENCE MAN SAID A THING THAT I CAN TWIST INTO MEANING I AM BASICALLY A GENIUS, THIS IS UNLIKE ASPERGERS THOUGH.  PROUD CREATIVE INTROVERT MASTER RACE  PRIDE. LEGALIZE INTROVERT MARRIAGE!  I WISH IT WERE POSSIBLE NOT TO HAVE A SMARTPHONE?! BUT ALAS!!!!  YES COMICS! GOOD! COOL!
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recognizing your own needs and accommodating them is healthy, as is respectfully accommodating the needs of others.
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Ocean Book posted:recognizing your own needs and accommodating them is healthy, as is respectfully accommodating the needs of others. I really need you to A) STFU B) GTFO accomodate me. It's my thread after all, this is less insane than expecting society to recognize my personal little foibles as a social issue of any importance. edit: because my needs, show some respect you poo poo, there's plenty of other threads
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Jul 3, 2015 00:40
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Keep your loving hands off of the extrovert, too.
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Ocean Book posted:recognizing your own needs and accommodating them is healthy, as is respectfully accommodating the needs of others. what if other people need a load of total dumb bullshit, do i still have to accomodate them
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Jul 3, 2015 00:44
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Ensure the introvert has a fresh pile of newspaper strips for nesting.
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Tautologicus posted:what if other people need a load of total dumb bullshit, do i still have to accomodate them all of your actions are up for you to choose with absolute freedom. first determine your values and then act accordingly.
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