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Curdy Lemonstan posted:Is it even possible to live life as a somewhat healthy programmer who smokes some weed and enjoys life?? I dont even know how to talk to normal middle class people, who only seems to talk about their vacations and non offensive topics like elks or whatever instead of talking about the laundry list of drugs they took last week and complaining about their jobs and society. I'm jumping on the computer science bandwagon and am feeling pretty good about that. Maybe I work towards my grades and then take up blazeing in a while? Life is not that short, really. I'm having a hard time blowing off steam around these 'normals', feeling pent up and aggressive. No tasteful furniture is going to satisfy my need for decadence. Jesus Christ, just smoke less weed. Treat getting high like a vacation that you have to prepare for by getting all your work and chores and poo poo done. I assure you, it's entirely possible to ace your classes while still imbibing so long as you don't spend entire days in a drugged stupor like an idiot (hint: college is pretty loving easy and if you can't be responsible enough to get your work done, the problem is with you, not the drugs). Most people are boring, especially in affluent areas, so it's stupid to artificially deprive yourself of your fun-time/oh-god-I-need-to-forget-the-existential-horror-of-my-pointless-loving-life drugs. Instead of hanging around bougie assholes during your down time, go out and volunteer at a soup kitchen or help poor people fill out their taxes or something. It's bound to be more fulfilling than schmoozing with your rear end in a top hat acquaintances. And then go get high (after you've done your studying, you ne'er-do-well)
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my life revolves around smoking this plant. Everything else puts me on edge and bothers me
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Aug 30, 2015 19:08
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Op I quit smoking weed to clean out my piss and get a better job so I can pay my mortgage and still have some money left over to blow at Lowes. The day after I stopped smoking my closet filled up with Polo shirts and now I'm a republican.
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Aug 30, 2015 19:20
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The OP's story is like the reverse of an after-school special. Don't stop doing drugs or you'll become an angry person with a boring life and pretentious friends who can only talk about elk, vacations, and microbrews! In reality, it isn't an all-or-nothing thing. Just like some people can drink on the weekends, but some people become alcoholics drinking all day, there are some people who can handle occasional drug use. Whether you will let it take over your life and steal the gains you've made depends a lot on you as an individual as well as the types of drugs involved. Also, it sounds like your new friends aren't middle class but upper middle class / upper class. The middle class people I know are pretty down-to-earth and can't afford that many vacations to Europe.
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Aug 30, 2015 19:21
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Wampa Stompa posted:Jesus Christ, just smoke less weed. Treat getting high like a vacation that you have to prepare for by getting all your work and chores and poo poo done. I assure you, it's entirely possible to ace your classes while still imbibing so long as you don't spend entire days in a drugged stupor like an idiot (hint: college is pretty loving easy and if you can't be responsible enough to get your work done, the problem is with you, not the drugs). You know what, im gonna do just that, volunteer or something. Ive been in the social work business for a while, might as well do some of it without pay, since i dont even have a main cash costing hobby (weed) anymore, i dont even need all the money in the world atm.
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Aug 30, 2015 19:23
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January posted:The OP's story is like the reverse of an after-school special. Don't stop doing drugs or you'll become an angry person with a boring life and pretentious friends who can only talk about elk, vacations, and microbrews! Im from europe. But yes they (we) are pretty upper in the spectrum I guess, which makes it even worse some how. Volunteering is a really really good idea.
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Aug 30, 2015 19:32
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Zzulu posted:your new life sounds a lot better, mate
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:You know what, im gonna do just that, volunteer or something. Ive been in the social work business for a while, might as well do some of it without pay, since i dont even have a main cash costing hobby (weed) anymore, i dont even need all the money in the world atm. Good on you. You'll probably even meet some people who don't suck nearly as much as your current crop of "friends."
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Aug 30, 2015 19:43
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:Instagramming salads and eatin exciting new scandi-asian foods at brick/lightfixture/wood natural restaurants. I want to do programming and study maths but gf says I should care more about where in the kitchen to hang up our new black chalkboard. I drink beers for taste and sit around people who actually cares about different kinds of beer who also talks about their friend who started a micro brewery. literally three months ago I was programming at night, partying hard in the weekends and smoking weed like there was no tomorrow. dont worry op if your lifelong dream was to work in IT you weren't going to amount to much anyway
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Aug 30, 2015 19:44
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Robo Reagan posted:dont worry op if your lifelong dream was to work in IT you weren't going to amount to much anyway I never wanted to amount to anything, so it works out pretty good.
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Aug 30, 2015 19:48
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if you can't go through life without the sweet release of drugs maybe your life is what loving sucks and not being sober get a hobby or something gat dang
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Aug 30, 2015 19:48
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:I never wanted to amount to anything, so it works out pretty good. welcome to the forums
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Aug 30, 2015 19:48
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I took a marlboro NXT and filled it full of weed last night and popped the menthol and I got higher than ive ever gotten in like a year or more. im not sure wtf happened but ill try it again tonight and report back, hth
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Aug 30, 2015 19:50
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:Instagramming salads and eatin exciting new scandi-asian foods at brick/lightfixture/wood natural restaurants. I want to do programming and study maths but gf says I should care more about where in the kitchen to hang up our new black chalkboard. I drink beers for taste and sit around people who actually cares about different kinds of beer who also talks about their friend who started a micro brewery. literally three months ago I was programming at night, partying hard in the weekends and smoking weed like there was no tomorrow. okay trade lives with me please, that sounds pre swell.
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Aug 30, 2015 19:51
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THE DOG HOUSE posted:I took a marlboro NXT and filled it full of weed last night and popped the menthol and I got higher than ive ever gotten in like a year or more. im not sure wtf happened but ill try it again tonight and report back, hth Great! Eagerly awaiting a follow up! Rakosi posted:okay trade lives with me please, that sounds pre swell. Start buiding towards a long term goal and stay on course as good as you can, i guess??
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Aug 30, 2015 19:55
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have you tried this thing called MLP, op its a game changer
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Aug 30, 2015 19:56
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Zzulu posted:have you tried this thing called MLP, op Sorry, tried it and liked how it brought some representations of personalities other than Bratz to young girls, but it didnt give me that chill rear end dank high, you know? Adventure time is clearly alot more bang for the buck
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Aug 30, 2015 19:58
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i chose the dank pill
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Aug 31, 2015 01:27
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you could use your newfound money to take up an expensive art like sculpting or something OP
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Aug 31, 2015 01:54
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Somewhat healthy programmer who smokes weed and enjoys life checking in, sorry you're so lame OP  (I also drink beer for taste)
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Aug 31, 2015 02:18
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Who doesn't like elk???
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Aug 31, 2015 02:28
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Find a crooked doctor who will tell your gf you have cancer. Be like all surprised and "oh no!" (u may have to rehearse this) Then say to your doc "what options do I have doc?" And your doc replies (he also rehearsed this) "well there have been massive breakthroughs in cancer treatment using ... I hope you're ok with this ... no stop crying .... marijuana"
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Aug 31, 2015 03:18
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check yourself into a better living facility and have another patient poo poo liquid stool at you blame his ethnicity for your problems kill yourself
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Aug 31, 2015 05:43
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:kids don't stop doing drugs.
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Aug 31, 2015 06:47
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Lichy posted:you could use your newfound money to take up an expensive art like sculpting or something OP make plaster casts of ladies vaginas and sell them on etsy as necklaces
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Aug 31, 2015 07:30
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why did you even stop smoking weed op did your gf make you
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Aug 31, 2015 07:37
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steal your girlfriends hair and trade it for peyote
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The Saurus posted:why did you even stop smoking weed op She didn't make me but she doesn't think smoking weed and being cool guy with chill day is impressive so she always makes sure to get some whining in when I smoke, so I stopped for a while. Now I myself doing the dishes and actually cooking food instead of buying terrible fast food which sucks. Being responsible is like realizing you've wasted your life and youth on video games and weed instead of just chilling out, smokig weed and playing video games. Curdy Lemonstan fucked around with this message at 07:53 on Aug 31, 2015 |
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Aug 31, 2015 07:50
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congrats on being pussy whipped
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are you gonna end up marrying her because you're too scared of being alone to risk leaving her and finding happiness and then realise you wasted your short time on this earth on your deathbed?
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Aug 31, 2015 08:00
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you can suck my balls OP I'll let you smoke all the weed you want do we have a deal
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The Saurus posted:are you gonna end up marrying her because you're too scared of being alone to risk leaving her and finding happiness and then realise you wasted your short time on this earth on your deathbed? Lol
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seriously OP I have no trouble whatsoever being a responsible adult all the time and then smoking weed with my fiancee a few times a month, this is eminently doable, sorry your GF is such a jerk I guess
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:She didn't make me but she doesn't think smoking weed and being cool guy with chill day is impressive so she always makes sure to get some whining in when I smoke, so I stopped for a while.
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Once upon a time I asked an older, married friend of mine what the secret to having a successful long term relationship with a woman was. He told me, find a girl that smokes weed. That way you know she won't be swayed by all the bullshit that most women come up with, because at the end of the day she will smoke a bowl and just BE with you, and that will be enough for her. So yeah I think maybe you might be a little tiny bit pussy whipped. also loquacius posted:seriously OP I have no trouble whatsoever being a responsible adult all the time and then smoking weed with my fiancee a few times a month, this is eminently doable, sorry your GF is such a jerk I guess responsible people don't have a problem smoking weed sometimes because they don't let it get in the way of their lives.
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Maybe she just wants you to be really miserable so that when she finally suggests that you commit suicide, you'll consider it as an option? I hear that's pretty popular these days.
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Aug 31, 2015 15:34
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i stopped smoking weed to get my life on track now i just drink every day and smoke cigarettes. Try taht instead
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Aug 31, 2015 15:35
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Bamford Brownstone posted:Maybe she just wants you to be really miserable so that when she finally suggests that you commit suicide, you'll consider it as an option? I hear that's pretty popular these days. 
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loquacius posted:seriously OP I have no trouble whatsoever being a responsible adult all the time and then smoking weed with my fiancee a few times a month, this is eminently doable, sorry your GF is such a jerk I guess wilfredmerriweathr posted:Once upon a time I asked an older, married friend of mine what the secret to having a successful long term relationship with a woman was.
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Isn't it weird how so many women will give you poo poo for smoking a bowl now and then, but see nothing wrong with going out with their friends a few times a week and just getting loving hammered? That always pissed me off since I have some friends that stay with these types of women and then sneak around behind their back to smoke some weed now and then. Its like drat, you gonna marry this bitch but you're sneaking around just to smoke a bowl? Gave a DD ride about a year ago to a friend's fiance and her sister, and they somehow got on the subject of how hilarious it was that he used to smoke weed. Two drunk women, in the back of my car, making fun their soon to be husband/brother in law because he used to smoke weed. Talking about how much more mature he is now that he doesnt, when he's been supporting his girl financially for like 6 years and they are only 24. I really wanted to make those bitches get out and walk their drunk rear end home. wilfredmerriweathr fucked around with this message at 15:47 on Aug 31, 2015 |
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