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I know people that are dating and some of them are in an open relationship and Im curious about how that works and what its like but I dont want to ask them because they will think I dont know anything about dating. If you who have been in one of these or know somebody who has then I would be interested to read about the experiences
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Sep 11, 2015 16:52
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Horniest Manticore posted:if you're a girl, awesome Thats a surprise to me because a lot of girls I know dont like it when their bf talks to other girls
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Sep 11, 2015 17:24
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Turmoil posted:I had a friend who was into the open relationship thing and she always seemed pretty miserable due to issues with her love life. Thats weird because people who arent in relationships and having sex are supposed to be unhappy but it doesnt sound like doing a lot of it makes people happy
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Sep 11, 2015 17:50
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Do you think she would be ok with it if you have another gf
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Sep 11, 2015 19:48
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For the guys that dont like open relationships, would you rather be in an open relationship or not in a relationship
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Sep 11, 2015 21:42
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Moridin920 posted:prolly not gonna work unless you get 1 in a million people. Isnt that what love is supposed to be though regardless of the sex rules of the relationship
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Sep 11, 2015 22:00
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ArbitraryC posted:I don't really think so. People absolutely do judge and look down on other people for that kind of thing. Not me
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Sep 11, 2015 22:07
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ArbitraryC posted:That was my point though, if absolutely everyone were onboard with open stuff I could vaguely see it working, but as long as that's not the case then the people in the position to fully monopolize a single partner, (or sleep around themsevles without their partners sleeping around on them) are going to have a higher status than the people who have to share. I think this is partly why when you look at reddit boards on poly (a gold mine of fantastic e/n style posts) it's always guys that are whining about having trouble coping with their gf sleeping around, there's uneven gender standards there and they subconsciously realize being in this situation devalues them socially. It says that they aren't good enough to be one of the guys who has a dedicated girlfriend. Thats kind of like the Ladder Theory
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Sep 11, 2015 22:26
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mind the walrus posted:It really isn't It kind of is dude
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Sep 11, 2015 22:39
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mind the walrus posted:Oh ok. I think your maybe not clear on what the Ladder Theory is but Google is your friend
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Sep 11, 2015 22:44
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ArbitraryC posted:What I mean is I'm monogamous and do not personally feel like my gf is controlling my genitals. I think trying to turn this into some sort of social equality issue to shame people who aren't comfortable with non-monogamy into something poly or open by implying unless they're willing to they're a misogynist is really gross and I absolutely hate when people make posts that imply that. It's borderline sexual abuse. I hate when that happens
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Sep 11, 2015 22:58
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mind the walrus posted:I am. Talking about nebulous notions of "status" is not the same as some creepy sadbrains theory that every woman has an automatic algorithm that sorts men into the friendzone or not. You cant fool me, you basically said notions of status twice but the second time you called it a creepy sadbrains friendzone algorithm
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Sep 11, 2015 23:02
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What did frank tell her
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Sep 12, 2015 06:09
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solaranus posted:but do you really get a significantly different experience with every dick or vagina? I want to know this
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Sep 12, 2015 06:52
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In a STEM major so I dont normally have to deal with libfarts bullshit like analogies
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Sep 12, 2015 08:35
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Monogamous men are the undisputed all time record havers for cheating on your gf
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Sep 12, 2015 15:52
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Nostratic posted:My best friend and his now-ex-wife tried this for a while. That obviously didn't work out. Isnt he right though
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Sep 14, 2015 19:09
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Nice statistics shitface
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Oct 8, 2015 15:45
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Counter point: its better to not be suspicious automatically but more on a case by case badis
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Oct 9, 2015 14:01
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Professor Shark posted:The goon who made this should have his name included to ensure he is properly shamed at every opportunity. What kind of stuff would you say to shame them
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Oct 11, 2015 16:56
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Oct 11, 2015 18:16
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You should of done that from the beginning
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Oct 11, 2015 18:25
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