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Have any of you had a friend "with benefits" before? What are the upsides and downsides to this compared to a relationship? How do you know the difference between that and wanting to date somebody, is it less romantic or something? What about when you or them start dating somebody? It sounds like a simple concept but that it could get complicated to me
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:13 |
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# ? Mar 29, 2024 00:11 |
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I'm fwb with your mom, OP.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:14 |
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It's a lot like loving your mom, OP, because it is exactly like loving your mom because we are all loving your mom
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:15 |
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Whats it like to have friends?
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:17 |
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Someone will catch feelings(probably you)
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:17 |
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There are a lot of good feelings associated with it, because it is fun and exciting and sexual. There is also some sadness, just because of reasons that are pretty obvious. But less sadness than not being fun and exciting and sexual, so overall yay?
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:19 |
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It's exactly like being in a regular relationship except eventually you find out she had a boyfriend the whole time.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:20 |
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It's like a relationship except you don't need to say good morning every day. E: now that I think of it it's basically exactly the same thing as checking out of a relationship emotionally and going through the steps. FWB is like being married for 25 years
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:22 |
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I hear that kids today (MILLENIALS) only do FWB and don't have relationships and that's why the world is going to hell in a handbasket, ALSO rainbow parties and skinny jeans
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:24 |
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Smelly Bohemian posted:I hear that kids today (MILLENIALS) only do FWB and don't have relationships and that's why the world is going to hell in a handbasket, ALSO rainbow parties and skinny jeans
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:26 |
It's nice to have benefits because you can get better healthcare and dental and stuff without having to pay a bunch of extra money. Getting those benefits from a friend is really nice and it is good to have such a nice friend
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:26 |
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Arian_Samurai posted:It's exactly like being in a regular relationship except eventually you find out she had a boyfriend the whole time. You're triggering me.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:29 |
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Well, first of all, you're already attractive to have a chance of this(or they're really really ugly). So you could already have lots of sex if that's all you wanted.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:32 |
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Sam Pink posted:Whats it like to have friends? It's like being in a relationship with someone who you should never try to have sex with or molest a bay posted:
It's like being in a relationship with someone who you should try to have sex with or molest.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:33 |
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Sam Pink posted:Whats it like to have friends? It's like having a hooker you don't pay or gently caress.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:34 |
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I have many friends with benefits. It's a world of wild crazy sex. Throw some drugs into it and it's even better. Rock on
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:37 |
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CuRvY G0oNeTTe posted:I have many friends with benefits. It's a world of wild crazy sex. Throw some drugs into it and it's even better. Rock on how reckless
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:38 |
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CuRvY G0oNeTTe posted:I have many friends with benefits. It's a world of wild crazy sex. Throw some drugs into it and it's even better. Rock on That's so bad. I bet you even have piercings and black nail polish.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:39 |
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What are some of the benefits you can get
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:42 |
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I have a friend who works at Starbucks and if I press him he'll bring me back some NO2 canisters for their whipped cream dispensers and we can do whippets. Friends with benefits.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:43 |
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Baby Town Frolics posted:You're triggering me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ag1o3koTLWM
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:44 |
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Arian_Samurai posted:It's exactly like being in a regular relationship except eventually you find out she had a boyfriend the whole time. So exactly like a regular relationship? I don't understand.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 19:46 |
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it's loving awful, op
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:05 |
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Casual sex is actually pretty great as long as she doesn't try to make your care about the personal problems that keep her from being in a real relationship.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:07 |
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I have a FWB thing with a girl that has a brain tumor. She knows she is going to die younger than most and she doesn't want a relationship etc. It's worked for like 10ish years? P rad I guess
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:09 |
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I had a relationship where we were good friends and decided it would be fun to gently caress without romantic attachment and it was cool but it eventually turned to trying to be in a relationship which was terrible and in the end we could not be romatically involved and we couldn't go back to just being friends so it wasn't worth it. She had some big ol tittays though
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:11 |
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Eventually she starts flaking out and stops returning your calls and you find out a few weeks later she has a boyfriend which is alright because if you actually wanted to be together you would have made that clearer at some point I did this once, then when it looked like it was happening the second time I made it clear I wanted a relationship
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:16 |
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I get coverage through friendcare.gov.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:21 |
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I have one of these now, it kind of sucks. She's moving in a couple of months so a relationship is out but I really like her, she's loving another dude and it make me jealous and I get pissed thinking about it. I guess if I really loved her, I'd tell her I'd be willing to move but I'm older and realistic and I'm not moving for somebody that I might not like a year later. Benefits aren't bad though.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:24 |
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Friends With Benefits is a bad idea especially with good friends. Getting jealous because she's loving 5 guys on the side etc etc and destroying the friendship in the long run sucks and is not worth it. Acquaintances With Benefits on the other hand is loving awesome because you can just call if you want to gently caress, and if it gets to serious or the sex gets boring you can go 'gently caress It' and lose nothing worthy in your life.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:38 |
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Mad Monk posted:I have one of these now, it kind of sucks. She's moving in a couple of months so a relationship is out but I really like her, she's loving another dude and it make me jealous and I get pissed thinking about it. I guess if I really loved her, I'd tell her I'd be willing to move but I'm older and realistic and I'm not moving for somebody that I might not like a year later. lol why is she loving someone else fwb means if you need gently caress you come over, not flip a coin to see if you get gently caress somewhere else
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 20:57 |
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I thought FWBs were Fat White Bastards.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:04 |
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Fit white boys
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:05 |
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It's pretty good. It's like a low-intensity relationship but when you end off things it can feel like you're firing somebody. My best recommendation is that you keep it as infrequent and casual as possible to help stem any romantic feelings because one of you will eventually feel for the other. I did end up dating one of mine and we had a pretty good run. So I guess be open to that option because sometimes there really isn't any reason you're not in a relationship other than your fear of being committed or 'ruining' something good with a label.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:11 |
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Mad Monk posted:I have one of these now, it kind of sucks. She's moving in a couple of months so a relationship is out but I really like her, she's loving another dude and it make me jealous and I get pissed thinking about it. I guess if I really loved her, I'd tell her I'd be willing to move but I'm older and realistic and I'm not moving for somebody that I might not like a year later. lol look at this retard catching feelings for a prostitute
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:15 |
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Friendship is its own benefot, op.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:16 |
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Captain Yossarian posted:I have a FWB thing with a girl that has a brain tumor. She knows she is going to die younger than most and she doesn't want a relationship etc. It's worked for like 10ish years? P rad I guess that's really tragic and hosed up i bet the sex is amazing
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:21 |
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its good making sex until feelings are involved and then it is pain and sadness
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:26 |
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LegoPirateNinja posted:lol why is she loving someone else She moved here about a year ago, she has an old boyfriend that lives about 4 hours away and he comes up sometimes to spend the weekend with her every month or so. I fill in I guess. Like I said I do like her, just not enough to move away with her.
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# ? Nov 9, 2015 21:27 |
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Mad Monk posted:I fill in I guess. nice one
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