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Lets say there is someone who wants to spend some time with you one on one and it is obvious that their intentions are to date you and probably to have sex with you as well. But the problem is, you just arent "feeling it". How do you let them know you are not into it in a way that will hurt their feelings as little as possible
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Nov 16, 2015 16:38
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tell them "I'm gay"
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Nov 16, 2015 16:39
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haymaker to the jaw
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Nov 16, 2015 16:39
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invite a bunch of other people along, then if she's like, "just you and me though" you should be like "what, like a date? LOL" she'll be crushed, but she'll get it
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Nov 16, 2015 16:40
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hang out, start watching swap.avi with her, but just stare at her the whole time. the kicker is if she doesn't leave and sits through the whole video, you have to marry her
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Nov 16, 2015 16:40
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creampie that bitch and tell her you want her to have your baby. she'll run. or not and you won't feel bad because she's insane.
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Nov 16, 2015 16:41
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ANIME IS BLOOD posted:tell them "I'm gay" That has a 50% chance of back firing I would think
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Nov 16, 2015 16:41
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Say "My parents wouldn't approve"
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Nov 16, 2015 16:41
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Yell "Y-you to" at them and jog away
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Nov 16, 2015 16:42
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"yeah sure, just as friends tho lol"
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Nov 16, 2015 16:43
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concerned mom posted:"yeah sure, just as friends tho lol" I think saying stuff like Yeah or Sure might be taken the wrong way
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Nov 16, 2015 16:44
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a bay posted:I think saying stuff like Yeah or Sure might be taken the wrong way
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Nov 16, 2015 16:45
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ANIME IS BLOOD posted:tell them "I'm gay" Used that one, but now I gotta keep up the facade. Romance in the work place can get complicated I tell ya.
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Nov 16, 2015 16:50
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shoot yourself in the head with a gun
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Nov 16, 2015 16:52
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Why not just wet it up?
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Nov 16, 2015 16:52
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symbolic posted:just gently caress them already Stop stringing them along. Pity gently caress.
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Nov 16, 2015 16:54
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"sorry i cant i loving hate your guts and would like it if i never ever saw you again"
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Nov 16, 2015 16:55
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Just say you don't feel like hanging out, or you're tired, or got poo poo to do. Eventually they may try to press it without the "hang out" pretext. Then shut them down with the "just friends."
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Nov 16, 2015 16:57
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Introduce them to your homely friend
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Nov 16, 2015 17:00
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Arian_Samurai posted:Introduce them to your homely friend
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Nov 16, 2015 17:01
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Just make up some bullshit if you want to be diplomatic about things. Say you don't date your friends because it turned out badly in the past, or coworkers, or whatever. Basically just say "No, but it's not you, it's me" using different words and you'll be fine. edit: do what wicker man said first and do this if you are put on the spot
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Nov 16, 2015 17:03
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"I'd like to, but I'm going to be loving other people that night." And if they suggest another night, "That night, too. So much loving. Specifically, of other people."
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Nov 16, 2015 17:04
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a bay posted:Lets say there is someone who wants to spend some time with you one on one and it is obvious that their intentions are to date you and probably to have sex with you as well. But the problem is, you just arent "feeling it". How do you let them know you are not into it in a way that will hurt their feelings as little as possible pretty weakly veiled brag there op also, send them a link to this thread
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Nov 16, 2015 17:04
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symbolic posted:how much did you donate for the fun shoe tag $20
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Nov 16, 2015 17:05
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"Not tonight, I'm still sore from all the loving I did done" They will get the message and also be repulsed by your horrible grammar.
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Nov 16, 2015 17:07
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Srry, busy masturbating 4 France.
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Nov 16, 2015 17:07
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Go on the date and bang them and then tell them you aren't feeling it. Claim rape. Get on Oprah. Make a poop swastika.
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Nov 16, 2015 17:09
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symbolic posted:just gently caress them already Dont wanna
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Nov 16, 2015 17:09
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One time there was this girl who was obviously really into me and she kept trying to hang out get me to go on dates with her. I finally ran out of excuses and agreed to have lunch with her, but I made it clear I wouldn't pay for her meal and refused to let her pay for mine. I also said "this isn't a date" and restricted the conversation to work related topics. She kept throwing herself at me anyway until I moved away. I could have boinked her if I wanted but I'm glad I didn't because I found out later she went blind and then I never would have been able to break up with her. Anyway, be polite, but firm and don't lead them on. If they keep asking you out anyway consider terminating contact with them.
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Nov 16, 2015 17:12
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Applewhite posted:I could have boinked her if I wanted but I'm glad I didn't because I found out later she went blind and then I never would have been able to break up with her. lol of course you could have, just walk out, she can't find you
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Nov 16, 2015 17:14
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Applewhite posted:One time there was this girl who was obviously really into me and she kept trying to hang out get me to go on dates with her. I finally ran out of excuses and agreed to have lunch with her, but I made it clear I wouldn't pay for her meal and refused to let her pay for mine. I also said "this isn't a date" and restricted the conversation to work related topics. lol
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Nov 16, 2015 17:17
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Just tell him &/or her you are in a long distance relationship.
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Nov 16, 2015 17:24
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how about get a real job or two already then you dont need a fake rear end excuse cause youre slaving your rear end off every day
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Nov 16, 2015 17:28
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Believe in the forum and cuck yourself
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Nov 16, 2015 17:28
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call the special victims unit and report them
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Nov 16, 2015 17:33
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If they like you, you should try to put out OP. You may never get another chance.
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Nov 16, 2015 17:36
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gently caress someone else, or lie about loving someone else. emotionally abuse this person until they leave you alone
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Nov 16, 2015 18:00
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Copious vomiting/pants pooping gets the message across
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Nov 16, 2015 18:07
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Go out with them but keep putting a coaster over your drink when you're at the table. If you go to the bathroom finish the whole glass and tell them, "I just don't trust you." At the end of the night break down and tell them you have HPV because of a bad experience.
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Nov 16, 2015 18:08
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Thank you for all of the suggestions so far but please keep in mind that I am looking for a way to say no thanks in a way that some one will not mind hearing so much, what I am not trying to do is "put out" or be super rude or lead them on
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Nov 16, 2015 18:09
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