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I have never been in a relationship, and never felt the need for one. There were guys who courted me, but I have only felt fearful, avoidant, and repulsed by such attempts. I have no problems being friends with males, but once they express a desire to move beyond a platonic relationship, I break off all ties. I do find some males attractive, and I had several crushes in high school, but never once have I felt the need to date, sleep with, or have any form of romantic relationship with anyone. I never accept invites by male friends, single or not, to any kind of engagement outside of school or work. Despite my resistance to rl guys, I have fantasies of being with fictional characters from anime, and I indulge in virtual games, manga, and anime to fulfil my need for intimacy. I have only ever imagined myself together with an anime character in romantic and sexual contexts, and real people just put me off. Now that I'm 25 and fast approaching an age when I should be looking towards a committed relationship and marriage, I'm frequently questioned by curious family, relatives, friends, acquaintances, and pure strangers about my single status. Do I share with them what I said here, or will I be judged harshly for being unconventional (if that's the word)? Plus I am wondering how common my situation is. Anyone else experiences the same thing? tl;dr: I am repulsed by real men, and only crave intimacy with fictional characters.
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Hi, I posted this over at /r/sex but I think maybe here might have some better input, its not really about the sex I guess. I was hoping some of you might give me your opinion on the situation I am currently presented with. I'm not sure how much info to include but I think its all relevant to get a full moral picture... My family and a few others in my extended family will be vacationing together this summer. My cousin (18m) who I am rather close with and I (21f) are the only ones in our age range and will probably spend most of the month together. Four years ago our families went on a similar vacation and he and I being young, stupid, of Irish-descent, and way further south than either of us had ever been burnt the absolute crap out of ourselves. We ended up spending a week basically incapacitated and caring for each other while our families went off and had fun. By the nature of the extent and severity of the sunburns, having our own hotel room and clothing being very painful to wear, we spent almost the entire time naked. It didn't feel inappropriate, being family, and honestly I was in too much pain and at first sick to care, I'm sure he was too. There was absolutely nothing sexual about it but we were very familiar with each other's body by the end. Contorting oneself to wash or rub aloe and lotion everywhere a half dozen times a day was drat painful so we did each other. We were always close, our families did a lot together before the last couple years and everyone else was either 15+ years younger or older so by default we just kinda paired up. I feel like an older sister kinda but also not really... almost more like a good friend. I think thats mutual but we hadn't really spoken in 2 years or so... he's going to the university Im just leaving though so in the last few months we've chatted quite a bit more, and because we are both adults now, its been a pretty flirty at times... I would like to hook up with him, I'm 99% sure he does too, we aren't even blood cousins, and hormones being what they are... us sharing a room again etc. But I've been having a bit of a think about it and second guessing if its completely morally ok... Being that I was the "responsible" one between us... I was never like babysitting but for awhile I think it was understood that was kinda what was going on... With him being a virgin I think it will be up to me to make the first moves, I really want to, but I'm having pretty serious negative thoughts about the whole thing considering the past. I guess my primary moral concern is about our closeness being developed when I was in some kind of pseudo authority position, and that closeness being the catalyst for current sexual activities.... Any thoughts positive or negative would be welcomed, thanks! tl;dr: Would like a vacation hookup with cousin but am having a moral conundrum, thoughts?
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I was under the impression that reddit threads were not wanted on SA but if they were we could post literally any subreddit it's all hilarious *posts a picture of a hamburger on /r/food, 5000+ karma and frontpage*
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I don't think a lot of you are going to think that great of me once I am done here. I am not exactly a model human being. I am trying to salvage a relationship with my daughter, and I am running my options with people online until the scheduled date for my first session with someone professional. I've always been a very sexual person. I messed around with my little sister and a younger cousin before. I never pushed them when they said no or were unsure, but I definitely took advantage of how shy and timid they both were. I was an rear end in a top hat, and it was very wrong of me. I have done a lot to have decent relationships with both of them, now. I had a lot of flings with shy, timid girls that were younger than me in high school. It usually ended in me cheating because the spark faded, or they realized all I wanted was kinky sex. I got one girl pregnant because sex was more important to me than protection. She was a Catholic girl with conservative parents, so she kept the kid. poo poo hit the fan, and they tried to force us to get married. They threatened to keep my daughter from my family if I didn't. Neither one of us wanted to get married, and her parents had adopted our daughter. My parents thankfully stepped up with my dad's union lawyer and made sure my daughter was a part of my life. I've gotten older, but my girlfriends have pretty much stayed the same age since after college. My parents and sister give me a lot of poo poo about that. I only get off doing daddy roleplay with younger women for the most part. I'm in my early thirties, and I don't think I've been with anyone old enough to legally drink when we started seeing each other. I have a huge hidden collection of daddy and daughter porn in my apartment and on my computers and phone. I have been careful to keep all of this away from my daughter. I usually lock poo poo up, and I don't bring girls home when I have her around. She's 17, so she has been old enough for a while for me to tell her I have girlfriends here and there, but I haven't felt comfortable having them around her. I recently got more serious with someone with potential to start living together. I was going to tell my daughter eventually. I just wanted everything figured out by then. This woman is only about 4 years older than my daughter and knows her. My daughter has always had problems with her mom and her mom's family, and she decided she needed to stay with me for a while. I had my phone on silent while I was involved with my girlfriend. We had porn and fetish stuff on and out about the house because we had the whole day to ourselves. My daughter had to listen to us for a while after she walked in without us hearing her, and there was a lot of vocal roleplay. My daughter was too embarrassed to interrupt us. My girlfriend was the first to leave the room, and both of them were pretty horrified. My girlfriend came back in, got dressed, told me my daughter was home and she would come back after I had a chance to talk with my daughter. I finally came out when I heard them say their good byes. I apologized, but my daughter kept saying it wasn't any of her business and shouldn't have come when I didn't answer my phone. It was late, and I told her we'd talk about it more after I got back from work the next day. I got home the next day, and I found my daughter sitting in the living room with all of my incest related materials out in the open that were not literally locked up. I forgot I gave her my password once to do an assignment for school when she forgot her laptop. My girlfriend has a similar look to my daughter, so my daughter blew up when she found everything. The previous night, she wanted to mind her own business, but she just couldn't resist looking into it. She asked me a ton of questions like if I looked at her that way, accusing me. I don't look at her that way. She doesn't believe me because of my girlfriend and some of the models in my porn. My daughter is very similar to a lot of them. She said she doesn't want her dad thinking about her in that way. I told her I don't, and I explained its just something I focus on with other women. She was frustrated, but she didn't want to go home either. She fought with me on it a few times over two days until I suggested I ask my parents if they'd like her to visit them for a few days. We settled on that, and I called my parents. My daughter is spending a few days with them. My sister still lives with my parents, so I talked to her to and warned her about what happened. My sister did accuse me of subconsciously leaving signals toward my daughter because of my past with my sister, but she came around when I explained a lot more. My sister lives with my parents because of mental health reasons, and she knew of someone that deals with family counseling where she sees someone. My sister pushed me to go talk to someone and eventually get my daughter to go too. My sister said she'd help smooth things over and told me I should date women my own age. I lurk incest all the time. I know a lot of people don't actually want to have sex with a lot of their family members. I've read comments with people saying that. I figure there has to be at least one other unlucky rear end in a top hat that got caught with incest porn and had to explain himself. I could use some advice on smoothing things over. I'm afraid my daughter might not trust me ever again.
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i never knew you could stream video from google drive, that's a p sweet subreddit. should be called Fullmoviesongoogledrive tho, probably
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please post more those were pretty good and its nice to have someone filter out the funnier ones and post them
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actually that last one is just disturbing. no more like that please.
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most of them aren't very funny unfortunately, gotta work with what I got
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:most of them aren't very funny unfortunately
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Dear Reddit, One of my toes is a little bit longer than my big toe. Is this normal? Any advice would be appreciated!
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I don't think a lot of you are going to think that great of me once I am done here. I am not exactly a model human being. I am trying to salvage a relationship with my daughter, and I am running my options with people online until the scheduled date for my first session with someone professional. Jesus loving christ this guy should be in jail or at least lose custody of his daughter
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Y-Hat posted:for the most popular message board on the internet, reddit is surprisingly low on hilarious posts, unintentionally or otherwise. they need to welcome more irony into their lives
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I've never had a SO but you don't see me writing essays about it.
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Pitdragon posted:actually that last one is just disturbing. no more like that please. It got dark, but not as dark as I feared it would
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Pawn 17 posted:Dear Reddit, sever
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I'm super type A and she's Type B. It mostly works out fine but I sometimes we set out to do something grand and she under-prepares to a point of danger. We are both very active individuals. I do triathlons and long-distance cycling; she is doing 5 half-marathons this year (without me) along with hiking and cycling. She adequately prepares for the half-marathons but just barely (20 miles / week-ish) and never sets out to do more than complete the event (2:10 ish). An example of danger is we signed up for a 62 mile bike ride and she basically didn't train. It was a super casual ride with food every 10-15 miles. We had to bail at the 50 mile mark because she got knee pain from being undertrained. I was trying to get her to do a long ride a week building up to it but she would grumble and we never went more than 30 miles. Now, we've got a long hike planned in two months which is strenuous and will require a solid 3-4 hour hike every week building to 6-8 hour hikes to get into shape for. I warned her about what we needed to do but she's already starting to not do what's necessary to complete the hike. We already have our gear and hotel for the hike, total cost of ~$700 and we'll need to spend another 300 or so.
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I got probated for making this exact same thread a few months back.
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General Dog posted:It got dark, but not as dark as I feared it would
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Hi, been a lurker on this subreddit and didn't really have the courage to post, but I'm at my wits end with my girlfriend (let's call her Chris) and her immature behavior. Some background: So I first met Chris in a group of friends. She was fun, tomboyish, smart, and well-versed on the internet which I found particularly striking. She spends a lot of time on reddit, 4chan, and knowyourmeme. At first I found this hobby mutual as I'm a frequent internet user myself, except I started noticing that Chris would bring it into the real world. For example, Chris has an obsession with memes. She has memes posted all over her wall and is very active on meme based forums. I understand they make her laugh and that it's not too concerning, but she brings up memes ALL the time. And I mean all the time. Even when we first started talking and flirting she'd bring up socially awkward penguin. At first it was cute, but then it got annoying fast when I realized she did this constantly. My girlfriend doesn't abstain from meme usage, even when we're having sex. Whenever we spend this time together, she starts moaning doge memes like "such sex, wow" and it really kills the moment for me. Like really? Is that even close to appropriate? Maybe she wants to relieve the tension, but does she know when to draw the line? Even reading that over made me sick knowing that Chris is usually 100% serious about those things. I tried bringing up her inappropriate usage of memes after my father died and she literally sends me advice animal memes that say 'don't be sad' but my dad just loving died could you be more sensitive and not send me memes? I said that straight to her face yesterday and she started crying, and I feel awful but it was just really irritating for me. Basically, every time I bring up her habit, guess what- she just brings up memes! It's impossible to fight with her reasonably and I'd hate to end our year long relationship over something so trivial like this and I need advice. Do I stick with her or not? The reaction to my dad's death was the final straw for me and I've been ignoring her messages, texts, which yes, do contain memes. Sorry for making this long, I'm having a bit of catharsis here. I know Reddit loves its memes and I might get flamed for this, but it's an actual problem and I need help dealing with her. Throwaway because yes, she is on reddit. I'm thinking of showing her this board once I get enough advice to show her that her "harmless" jokes actually get on my nerves to a serious degree. tl;dr: Girlfriend uses memes in real life, acts immature about them, and doesn't understand context... I'm really at my wit's end and need advice on if I should break or try to work this out. Please help.
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Snatch Duster posted:I got probated for making this exact same thread a few months back.
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Beef Turret posted:"such sex, wow"
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i recently made a reddit account, but i only post on the subreddit for my favorite hockey team because the main fan blog for them is dull as gently caress. i do not intend to stray from there also did you know two worlds (the former goon, not the video game) has an account on reddit and posts there constantly?
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I'm super type A and she's Type B. It mostly works out fine but I sometimes we set out to do something grand and she under-prepares to a point of danger. Yeah I know how that goes, my ex could only deadlift twice her body weight 
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Beef Turret posted:Hi, been a lurker on this subreddit and didn't really have the courage to post, but I'm at my wits end with my girlfriend (let's call her Chris) and her immature behavior. lol
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Y-Hat posted:i recently made a reddit account, but i only post on the subreddit for my favorite hockey team because the main fan blog for them is dull as gently caress. i do not intend to stray from there post the best two worlds quotes
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I don't think a lot of you are going to think that great of me once I am done here. I am not exactly a model human being. I am trying to salvage a relationship with my daughter, and I am running my options with people online until the scheduled date for my first session with someone professional. jesus
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:there are unfunny followups but the daughter and father reconciled and the girlfriend is moving in with the stipulation that she won't call him daddy in front of the daughter Yeah uh I know it's easy for me to say and etc etc but I personally feel like the dad using a ton of incest porn where the actresses look like his daughter, banging a woman who looks like his daughter, and having her call him "daddy" all kind of come together to form something she should be really concerned about  I guess it's a good thing his surrogate daughter doppelganger is in the picture to help get this out of his system, because otherwise yikes Beef Turret posted:My girlfriend doesn't abstain from meme usage, even when we're having sex. Whenever we spend this time together, she starts moaning doge memes like "such sex, wow" and it really kills the moment for me so wait is this not just what redditors are like all the time 
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wyntyr posted:post the best two worlds quotes
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I'm super type A and she's Type B. It mostly works out fine but I sometimes we set out to do something grand and she under-prepares to a point of danger. only managed 50 miles? what a loving fat lazy bitch
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Hi reddit, I have some questions about a recent situation in my life.. BACKGROUND: I coach basketball and have coached since I was 17. In 2007 I coached a girls team for my local elementary school. We did well and one of the moms, we'll call her April, asked if I would continue to coach for AAU (year round travel ball). I agreed and coached the majority of those girls for another 2 years. During this time April got divorced and during a night of midly inebriated texting she walked over to my house and we had sex. We didn't date and it only happened 2 times total. MODERN TIMES: I have moved on and live in a different city about 30 minutes away. I am a single man who does some light dating, no monogamous relationships though and have only slept with 3 women in the last 2 years. April's daughter Maria played for me 6-8th grade and is now 22 years old. She is a professional model and lives in her own place with a modeling friend. I have helped her with light toning and diet coaching once or twice in the last year. We are friends on social media as I keep up with most of my former players via various social media platforms. Randomly this week I received an IM from her stating that she "isn't a kid anymore. You should hit me up and take me out sometime, I think we'd have a great time." I asked her if she was serious and if this was really Maria. She then sent me a pic via IM that was of her scantily clad holding a paper saying "put me in coach." Reddit, this girl is a 10 and she was always one of my favorite players, very funny, smart and I think we actually would have a great time. I'm torn by the past and the age gap, what are your thoughts? Yes, no? Do I tell her about her mom and I first? Is the age gap or past relationship a trust violation? If her mom tries to hit me should I take it or run? TL;DR: former player (22f) is making advances at me. I had sex with her mom about 7 years ago. I'm 35, am I a creep if I do this?
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Y-Hat posted:i'm gonna let the OP rattle off his quotes first, it's his thread. but i have his post history bookmarked so i can get laughs from his post history
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Jul 6, 2016 19:12
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Hi reddit, I have some questions about a recent situation in my life.. this guy should totally go for it I mean maybe the Snapchat was just her trying to buy a plane ticket, he should look out for that, but otherwise, full speed ahead srsly though how many of these are "Reddit, a hot young girl is totally all up on me, a single thirty-something. Really, she is. Why would I make this up? Obviously this confuses and bewilders me. Please indulge me in my delusions by giving me advice w/r/t how to cope with this incredibly morally ambiguous and totally factual predicament."
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Bardeh posted:which one of you is this? I'm the mom, the brother, and the OP all in one 
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Hi reddit, I have some questions about a recent situation in my life.. I don't really understand why some dude would be all conflicted about consensually banging a 22 year old, but this is reddit, so naturally this is the biggest decision of his worthless life.
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