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Carmant posted:Guy in BYOB used to post about sticking his finger up his newborn kids rear end every night
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what about that couple that was all about spanking their kids? They even had a book about it. They'd just be spanking 'em all the time. They didn't even have to do anything wrong, they'd just spank them to remind them that life was cruel or something. Oh yeah, here it is: https://www.amazon.com/Train-Up-Child-Michael-Pearl/dp/1892112000 I'd suggest not doing that, personally. And if I ever catch an adult or other authority figure smacking my kid I'll lose my loving mind.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:34
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Spanking is just fine. Make sure to use only the right hand when spanking a child. Spanking with the left hand only beats more evil into the brat.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:34
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none of my siblings got spanked more than twice in our whole childhood. it was seen as the Ultimate Punishment, and we were never repeat offenders because of that. We knew that if a spanking was in order, we royally hosed up. Like when I encouraged my best friend to pump hose water into the AC outlet pipe on his house, flooding his basement. Actually I didn't even get spanked for that, because I didn't know any better. But had I, that would have been a spanking offense. Spanking is bad when it is done for any offense at all. Because kids then learn to associate authority with pain, I think, and it damages them psychologically. You can let a kid learn a lesson by letting them touch the hot stove, or spank them for trying to touch the hot stove even when you tell them not to. Some kids do not learn not to do a thing even when forcefully told not to. Obviously, this has its limits. You could, after all, let a kid learn not to jump off the loving roof like a pro wrestler by letting them do it and potentially dying.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:37
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mostlygray posted:Your kid isn't an animal Well this explains your position. If my kid was vegetable or mineral, I don't think she'd act up much either.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:38
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if you're spanking an adult how could that be child abuse op furthermore, children are planet abuse
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Jul 7, 2016 03:43
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symbolic posted:why were you combing the ends of the earth for snakes Pre-Internet Goons were into some weird poo poo. See also: the porn fairy/woods porn
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Jul 7, 2016 03:43
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Edgar Allan Pwned posted:I dont think spanking is inherently bad, but it seems like a lot of people just inflict pain out of fear/anger and not describe why the child deserves physical punishment? This is because there is no justifiable reason to strike a child. Shouting "YOU DESERVE TO BE HIT BECAUSE YOU TOOK TOO LONG TO EAT YOUR PEAS" just sounds silly, even to people that love beating children.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:47
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My old roommate used to mercilessly spank (beat?) his son behind closed doors That kid always messed with my cat though so gently caress him
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Jul 7, 2016 03:48
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an abortion is the ultimate in preemptive spanking
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Jul 7, 2016 03:50
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spanking is from a bygone era when children were objects born to aid parents in their elder years, or to replace a sickly/dead child that could no longer milk a cow or tend a field. there are about a billion ways to communicate your intent to a youngling without going full primate on them.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:51
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Wrath of the Bitch King posted:spanking is from a bygone era when children were objects born to aid parents in their elder years, or to replace a sickly/dead child that could no longer milk a cow or tend a field. like what
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Jul 7, 2016 03:52
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words mostly.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:53
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Just because you spanked your child doesn't necessarily mean that they're messed up today because of it, but it's completely unnecessary and your a lazy poo poo-for-brains. Seriously, if you can't discipline a child without spanking them, you're a loving moron and an rear end in a top hat. gently caress you.
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Jul 7, 2016 03:54
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i also think people shouldnt hit dogs! i dont hit dogs and those who do sure are assholes! here is a list of other acts of violence i am against: (list) im so good and wise
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Jul 7, 2016 03:57
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the only time I'm really alright with spanking is if you're one of those nutjob parents that decides to have like 9 kids. with that kind of parent to kid ratio the only real way to get the point across efficiently is through some kind of negative reinforcement or threat.
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Jul 7, 2016 04:00
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reallivedinosaur posted:i also think people shouldnt hit dogs! i dont hit dogs and those who do sure are assholes!
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Jul 7, 2016 04:04
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Lowtax posted:Hitting other living creatures, in general, isn't a good thing. I learned that from Uwe Boll. words hurt too, i think he learned that from you maybe
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Jul 7, 2016 04:08
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reallivedinosaur posted:words hurt too, i think he learned that from you maybe
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Jul 7, 2016 04:10
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There's a whole lot of academic research on negative reinforcement and the sort of decision making that happens on a unconscious level. Most parents are idiots though, so the only thing they can communicate to their kids on that level is to be afraid of them when they're angry.
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Jul 7, 2016 04:19
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My sisters got spanked way the hell less than me (because I wore my mom and dad clean out in just 9 years) and they are both better, happier, more successful people than I.
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Jul 7, 2016 04:24
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I got spanked a lot as a kid and I--- *sniffles*, now I, everyday--- *begins sobbing* I read and post in GBS! Did anyone make this joke yet?
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Jul 7, 2016 04:47
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MILLENIALS
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Jul 7, 2016 06:24
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haha if you ever violently strike a living creature incapable of defending itself you are filth
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Jul 7, 2016 06:42
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Physical discipline is good, and I can't stand seeing parents that refuse to do anything other than say "please don't do that, my dearest." to their children running around throwing forks and poo poo at the staff at a restaurant. I can't stand this no discipline thing. I agree there's a very clear line between what's okay and not with smacking some sense into a kid. But I am just so sick of this "That's just little [suburban christian, but super feminine because 20-year-old millennial parents, name] being himself." bullshit.
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Jul 7, 2016 06:52
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PIV is always rape.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:04
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On the one hand, smacking your kids is good because most kids are just horrible, terrible little lovely bastards. On the other hand, the occasional whippin' might help them to shut up and learn some respect. Not seeing any down sides here.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:07
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Is spanking much of a thing in the US? In the UK it's pretty much universally accepted that it's a super lovely and abusive thing to do, and while I'm sure some people still do it, I doubt they'd be happy to admit it in public.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:12
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Hrist posted:Physical discipline is good actually, it's not good and is a mark of a terrible parent. Do you deal with annoyances in other areas of your life by lashing out physically? Like, there's a middle ground between 'beating your child' and 'letting them do whatever they want.' Bardeh fucked around with this message at 07:15 on Jul 7, 2016 |
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Jul 7, 2016 07:13
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Bardeh posted:Is spanking much of a thing in the US? In the UK it's pretty much universally accepted that it's a super lovely and abusive thing to do, and while I'm sure some people still do it, I doubt they'd be happy to admit it in public. Lol yeah ok the nation that's the origin of the term 'Dickensian', whose default image in everyone's head is a bunch of nuns and headmasters beating and starving its filthy chimney-sweep orphans, is gonna tell the rest of the world about discipline.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:16
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instead of spanking your kids, how about planking? help em build their core strength.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:21
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Bardeh posted:actually, it's not good and is a mark of a terrible parent. Do you deal with annoyances in other areas of your life by lashing out physically? No. And you know why I don't? Because when I was little my parents disciplined me for doing dumb things like lashing out over nothing. Maybe it's just a generational difference. Every kid had the fear of god in them about pissing off their dad back in the 80's.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:21
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Hrist posted:No. And you know why I don't? Because when I was little my parents disciplined me for doing dumb things like lashing out over nothing. My parents disciplined me too. They didn't hit me though, because they're not garbage people.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:29
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dreezy posted:instead of spanking your kids, how about planking? help em build their core strength. Prank your kids. Whoopie cushion for fighting with your brother. Talking back? Go to your room and get a bucket of water that I balanced on your bedroom door dumped all over you.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:29
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Kids should be beaten and/or spanked and/or abused IMO
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Jul 7, 2016 07:36
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st1LL_51ngl3 posted:Prank your kids. Whoopie cushion for fighting with your brother. Talking back? Go to your room and get a bucket of water that I balanced on your bedroom door dumped all over you. chinese finger traps, there's the ticket.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:37
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Hrist posted:No. And you know why I don't? Because when I was little my parents disciplined me for doing dumb things like lashing out over nothing. lowtax is my dad and can confirm i am well behaved without the need of physical violence
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Jul 7, 2016 07:38
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kazr posted:lowtax is my dad and can confirm i am well behaved without the need of physical violence So, what? You just threaten to ban or prob your kids if they act up?
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Jul 7, 2016 07:42
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st1LL_51ngl3 posted:Talking back? Go to your room and get a bucket of water that I balanced on your bedroom door dumped all over you.
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Jul 7, 2016 07:43
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symbolic posted:here's the kicker: the kid has to fill up the bucket of water themselves, place it on the door, and then open the door and drench themselves. that'll show 'em who has true authority in the household. I like it a lot. The "go cut your own switch" version of getting pranked.
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