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A friend from a former job is getting married in a few weeks and I dont really want to go. It'll kill a whole goddamn weekend and I'll probably have to buy some bullshit wedding gift. Now I realize not attending is considered "bad" but how bad? Like, "wish you could have made it" bad? Or "gently caress you bitch" bad? Goons, what do you think?
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Jul 14, 2016 21:09
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The only reason I ask is because everyone complains about having to go to weddings when they have the option of skipping .... it seems like skipping a wedding is a grave insult otherwise more people would do it??? IDK , goons please advise
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Jul 14, 2016 21:10
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depends if theres an open bar or not
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Jul 14, 2016 21:10
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jackyl posted:depends if theres an open bar or not There will be but it's like a 2 hour drive
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Jul 14, 2016 21:11
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you're missing out if you skip a wedding. they always have free food and good chances to get laid.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:11
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Unless someone's a regular part of your life it's nbd to stick a couple twenties in a card and call it a day (sending them the card is optional but generally considered polite)
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Jul 14, 2016 21:12
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I do everything in my power to skip weddings. 99% of the time I'd rather hit the ceremony and skip the reception because no one needs to do the loving chicken dance or electric slide with a stranger and I can afford my own meal/drinks. I would have skipped my own wedding but we kept it super small and I probably would have been missed.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:13
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BIG-DICK-BUTT-gently caress posted:A friend from a former job Using the qualifier "from a former job" with friend would seem to indicate you're not very close with this person and you should feel no obligation to attend their wedding.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:13
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related question: i got invited to a baby shower but i have no idea what it is
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Jul 14, 2016 21:13
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If you're single maybe you can gently caress a bridesmaid or two
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Jul 14, 2016 21:14
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BIG-DICK-BUTT-gently caress posted:A friend from a former job is getting married in a few weeks and I dont really want to go. It'll kill a whole goddamn weekend and I'll probably have to buy some bullshit wedding gift. You didn't RSVP already did you? If not you can get out of it, just send a gift if you want to remain "friends" with this person (if you can take advantage of that friendship for your career or something in the future) its always a good idea to be polite to old work friends
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Jul 14, 2016 21:14
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Did you RSVP? Cause if you did and you bail, doesn't the overpriced food they paid for you go to waste?
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Jul 14, 2016 21:14
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Go you basement dwelling shitlord.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:14
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lol its the first time the OP has ever been invited to anything in his life what a stupid rear end in a top hat
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Jul 14, 2016 21:14
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the ceremony's always boring as poo poo, but it pays off in the end when everyone parties and get fat.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:14
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Enfield posted:related question: i got invited to a baby shower but i have no idea what it is its like a golden shower but with babies instead of piss
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Jul 14, 2016 21:14
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Enfield posted:related question: i got invited to a baby shower but i have no idea what it is could use a heads up on this as well
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Jul 14, 2016 21:15
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go, because they might have rare pokemon to catch there
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Jul 14, 2016 21:16
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if the couple ate heavy drinkers then go otherwise maybe not. ive had some really great times at weddinds! im a huge prick
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Jul 14, 2016 21:16
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Enfield posted:related question: i got invited to a baby shower but i have no idea what it is an excuse to drink for the women close to the future mom. i guess they usually "shower" the mom with gifts since she can't drink too haha
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Jul 14, 2016 21:16
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ANIME IS BLOOD posted:go, because they might have rare pokemon to catch there If they don't drop like 10 lures then it would be extremely rude to the guests giving up their pokemon hunting time to attend.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:17
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go and get really drunk then dance with your friend's grandma if it's a dry wedding then feel free to skip it cause the dude isnt worth being friends with anyway
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Jul 14, 2016 21:19
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client posted:dry wedding 
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Jul 14, 2016 21:21
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OP you can make it into a big deal if you want
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Jul 14, 2016 21:23
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if its got booze, food, and cake then it's worth it
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Jul 14, 2016 21:23
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CISMALES DID 9-11 posted:OP you can make it into a big deal if you want hey nooner
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Jul 14, 2016 21:25
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dad gay. so what posted:hey nooner im not nooner i just glide
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Jul 14, 2016 21:26
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glide in, POST glide out
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Jul 14, 2016 21:29
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CISMALES DID 9-11 posted:glide in, calm down nooner
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Jul 14, 2016 21:29
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BIG-DICK-BUTT-gently caress posted:A friend from a former job is getting married in a few weeks and I dont really want to go. It'll kill a whole goddamn weekend and I'll probably have to buy some bullshit wedding gift. it depends how good a friend and how good an excuse you have
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Jul 14, 2016 21:31
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im about to rsvp for a wedding 2000 miles away OP stfu
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Jul 14, 2016 21:32
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dad gay. so what posted:calm down nooner >:| |:< thats my angry head spinning all the way around
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Jul 14, 2016 21:34
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CISMALES DID 9-11 posted:>:| oh sorry i was talking about you in another thread that nooner started so i assumed he was you. p8
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Jul 14, 2016 21:36
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Pawn 17 posted:Did you RSVP? Cause if you did and you bail, doesn't the overpriced food they paid for you go to waste? Yeah it's expensive and you're basically hosed when people bail on an RSVP. If you pull that poo poo you need to follow up with at least a $100 check for a wedding gift.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:37
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client posted:go and get really drunk then dance with your friend's grandma I'm guilty of this except it was his aunt and not grandma. It was fun but I know I made a big rear end of myself.
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Jul 14, 2016 21:38
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dad gay. so what posted:oh sorry i was talking about you in another thread that nooner started so i assumed he was you. p8 nah i just stopped posting for a while because ppl talked about bernie sanders too much
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Jul 14, 2016 21:40
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CISMALES DID 9-11 posted:nah i just stopped posting for a while because ppl talked about bernie sanders too much ah well wb
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Jul 14, 2016 21:41
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dad gay. so what posted:ah well wb thx OP are you going to update this thread with whether or not you are going to this wedding ?
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Jul 14, 2016 21:49
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THE DOG HOUSE posted:im about to rsvp for a wedding 2000 miles away OP See this is what Im talking about ... you always hear about having to attend inconvenient weddings because it seems like skipping it is just not an option I suspect that not attending weddings is a bigger faux pas than anyone is willing to admit
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Jul 14, 2016 21:55
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CISMALES DID 9-11 posted:thx Of course friend ... I'm leaning towards not going and I think "work" will be my excuse
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Jul 14, 2016 21:56
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