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Many years ago now, in a chapter of my life that I have since closed and moved on from, I worked as a rent boy in Vancouver. It has taken me some time to come to terms with my feelings aboot it all. I feel that I should feel ashamed, rather than having any real regret. A sort of reverse social scorn. The truth is, I look back fondly on some of my client "interactions". Of course, not every john was someone special - it was a job after all - but in any job, enjoyment can be found. So my feelings about this period of my youth are still complex. I've never really spoken about them before, except to my psychiatrist. Not even to my wife. I have trouble organising them into any real order. That's why I wanted to respond to your questions, to guide my recount of my experiences. I don't know where to begin, but if I take it question by question, I should be able to make some coherent sense of it. And yes, I did mention this idea to my shrink, and she thought it could be helpful. If my feelings about this change, just to warn you, I might close the thread. So - ask me about glory holes, pensioners in hotel suites, and running the gauntlet of trying to find business by the toilets in the park. Or anything else you care to.
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# ? Feb 24, 2018 10:26 |
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# ? Apr 19, 2024 23:29 |
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1. how did you start. 2. Why didn't you make an alt for this?
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# ? Feb 24, 2018 15:50 |
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Is it possible that if you weren't that boy someone else would have been forced to do it? And that someone may have not had the fortitude you have? Did your burden spare someone else?
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# ? Feb 25, 2018 00:11 |
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How much is your anus for the night?
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# ? Feb 25, 2018 02:36 |
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Did you end up with any STD's/herpes/HIV?
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# ? Feb 25, 2018 04:40 |
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Was it because you're so cute?
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# ? Feb 25, 2018 05:02 |
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caberham posted:So - ask me about glory holes, pensioners in hotel suites, and running the gauntlet of trying to find business by the toilets in the park. Or anything else you care to. Still suspicious about why you decided to go for this without an alt but color me intrigued...
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# ? Feb 25, 2018 05:33 |
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What did you think about the movie Cruising?
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# ? Feb 25, 2018 06:54 |
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Why escorting and not porn?
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# ? Feb 25, 2018 09:08 |
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What's the freakiest thing you were paid to do?
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# ? Feb 26, 2018 16:52 |
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Lord Windy posted:Why escorting and not porn? OP hasn't replied so I'll comment on this. When I was living in LA I had three friends who did porn and they made a ton more money from gogo-dancing and escorting. Unless you're a superstar, you'll get paid $500-1,000 per porn scene and even fairly popular porn actors are going to have a hard time booking more than a dozen or so total per year. It's not something you can make a living doing unless you're absolute top-tier and in high demand. However, it does get you a lot of publicity and social media attention. A few decent porn scenes gets your name out there and all of a sudden you can book a lot more escort jobs and gogo dancing at clubs. Dancing and escorting is a lot more reliable, steady work than porn. Of course, it's way easier to get into porn if you're near a major filming location. OP is in Vancouver and afaik that's not really a porn production hub. If you're in Los Angeles or San Diego it's very easy to do some local porn shoots and that will kickstart your escort/dancing career.
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# ? Feb 26, 2018 20:37 |
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I'm not too familiar with the terminology here, perhaps it's implied. Did you only do dudes? Why/why not? I see you're married apparently.
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# ? Feb 26, 2018 20:41 |
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is op going to come back ever? or was this a drunken late night indiscretion?
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# ? Feb 28, 2018 13:59 |
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Op, do you know Mickey Avalon?
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# ? Mar 10, 2018 20:14 |
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this is the most disappointing thread I can remember
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# ? Mar 11, 2018 04:54 |
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# ? Apr 19, 2024 23:29 |
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My only question: Have you learned your lesson now about leaving your SA account logged in at the Apple Store?
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