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Entorwellian posted:If a person writes fantasy/sci-fi, regardless if they are making a living off it or not. Deep Boomer Energy here
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Pick posted:an unhappy cat or dog that they clearly can't communicate with There's a definite correlation of people's mood and attitude with their dysfunctional pets. Like the house is overrun with dogs, that tear up furniture, or their cat keeps crapping on the carpet, or snarls and scratches visitors. And their owner shrugs and says "what can you do, it's just the way they are"
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Twitch posted:Is incapable of doing anything without posting about it on social media, or even worse livestreaming it. I've found this is a huge tell. If their social media feed reads like a sales pitch for their life, that speaks volumes for insecurity, superficiality, and being over-concerned about other people's opinions and external appearances.
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a dick in the hand is better than two in the bush
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Entorwellian posted:If a person is in debt by more than $10,000.  Nice place you've got here. How could you afford this? Oh I took out a mortgage ***************** Nice place you've got here. How could you afford this? I have a good job. How'd you get that? I went to university and got a good degree. How could you afford that? Stundent loan.Entorwellian posted:I think the big one though for me would be "if a person has a lot of money but no obvious clues or explanations as to how they got it." Nice place you've got here. How could you afford this? What kind of question is that for a first date?
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The_Continental posted:. Or yourself for that matter. Its surprising how common I've run into that kind of nonsense.
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Icochet posted:
Yeah you just wait 'till Common Law marriage kicks in and half of that debt magically becomes your debt!
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My green flag is some people are *always* nice. Like even when people are being rude to them or doing offensive things they handle it in a civil way. Whereas a LOT of people, especially over-emotional and impulsive people, are just looking for any reason to take their anger out and will be rude back or escalate things. So if you see someone handling confrontations in a calm way and without getting angry then they are probably emotionally intelligent people who are good to be around.
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Schweinhund posted:My green flag is some people are *always* nice I never thought I'd have a green flag! If I'm getting frustrated with someone 99% of the time I just politely extract myself from the situation but it happens maybe once every few years, generally if someone is angry it's not because of anything I did and listening to them vent can help them cool down The one exception was when I was getting constant daily harassment from a supervisor and eventually I just stopped everything, leaned towards him bracing myself on a scaffold tube and glared at him with a serious expression until he left, no verbal escalation or anything and he quit a couple of days later so the harassment stopped without having to actually be rude. I feel like if I actually fought back it wouldn't have done either of us any good and also apparently my glaring-game is on point, plus I would have felt bad if I said mean things
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ChubbyChecker posted:a dick in the hand is better than two in the bush strong volcel energy
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