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Black August posted:experience and try many different styles and modes of self. chip away the stone to find which one you know is your true self in that respect. commit to self-honesty about why you get the moods you do, what past events or experiences or traumas might color those reactions and patterns. figure out the patterns of confidence, calm, and self-love with the assurance and honesty of knowing how you work, and thinking about how you WANT to work well said. if there's only one TRUE version of yourself then you're an exceedingly simple person. rather, the self is constantly in flux
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I'm going into work in an hour and I don't wanna, but I've gotta make money. God drat though, I'd love to be able to just sit around for the rest of the day and free my mind, vegging out. I'm tired of poo poo. Atleast I have Friday and Saturday off this week.Fleetwood Crack posted:Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez 
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I associate with very few people, and yet I am continually surprised by the large percentage that think that they know/understand me, and then expect things that are wildly out of character from me, or make assumptions about my own wants and needs based on their misconceptions. They either fail to notice that I'm showing them who I am, or mistrust it as a guise or act, or just misremember whole swaths of my actions to fit their own narratives. It's frustrating. I don't exist when you don't see me.
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Obsidianheart posted:I associate with very few people, and yet I am continually surprised by the large percentage that think that they know/understand me, and then expect things that are wildly out of character from me, or make assumptions about my own wants and needs based on their misconceptions. They either fail to notice that I'm showing them who I am, or mistrust it as a guise or act, or just misremember whole swaths of my actions to fit their own narratives. It's frustrating. Perhaps this is a failing with your associates?
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Literally A Person posted:Perhaps this is a failing with your associates? "If the only constant in all your failed associations is you..."
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Obsidianheart posted:I associate with very few people, and yet I am continually surprised by the large percentage that think that they know/understand me, and then expect things that are wildly out of character from me, or make assumptions about my own wants and needs based on their misconceptions. They either fail to notice that I'm showing them who I am, or mistrust it as a guise or act, or just misremember whole swaths of my actions to fit their own narratives. It's frustrating. In this world of Donald Trumps and Harvey Weinsteins everyone expects the worst out of everyone. There is no benefit of the doubt. If you like your alone time you are obviously some ax murderer that has sex with his victims bodies.
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Feb 13, 2020 02:29
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gently caress you all.
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Feb 13, 2020 02:31
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Burt Sexual posted:gently caress you all. Don't be such an old bittie. Obsidianheart posted:"If the only constant in all your failed associations is you..." I like to think of it as so far I am better than everyone else I've associated with..
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Feb 13, 2020 02:33
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Burt Sexual posted:gently caress you all. Yeah, that makes sense.
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Obsidianheart posted:"If the only constant in all your failed associations is you..." Hey sometimes you put yourself out there and you just aren't other people's cup of tea. It's not that you ain't trying it's just that no one wants what you got.
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