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People I hardly know are constantly telling me that they're cheating on their wives. It comes up in casual conversation often and its approached without any shame or anything and I just don't understand how so many people can think its ok. At work or at a pub or on the golf course men who are casual acquaintances speak openly about screwing other chicks on the side as if its nothing to them. I sometimes say awkwardly that I don't cheat on my wife and never have and they just nod soberly and say that's good of me or something. Its also important to note that these same people are the ones that claim that if their wives cheated on them they'd literally murder the guy she was with.
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I've been married for ten years, and I've thought about other women sometimes, but nothing serious. Generally speaking, I'm pretty happy with my marriage and I wouldn't want to jeopardize it. But then I read something like this: http://www.salon.com/2011/06/12/infidelity_3/ And I start to question my understanding of "monogamy." Seriously, 40-76% of marriages experience infidelity? That's... a lot. That's enough to say that it's just kind of what people do. And then I see SA posters talking about how they sleep with married women and I begin to wonder, is this just a normal thing? So, married goons, I have some questions for you: Have you or your partner had an affair or a one-night stand? How did it turn out? Did your partner know/did they find out? Are you still married?
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Jul 21, 2014 03:30
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Believe in the power of cuck.
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We'll be dead soon and it doesn't make any difference at all
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Whirlwind Jones posted:I've been married for ten years, and I've thought about other women sometimes, but nothing serious. Generally speaking, I'm pretty happy with my marriage and I wouldn't want to jeopardize it. But then I read something like this: http://www.salon.com/2011/06/12/infidelity_3/ And I start to question my understanding of "monogamy." that's a big rear end margin of error, thats a red flag for faulty research
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Jul 21, 2014 03:32
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Dio cucked so hard he invented a hand sign to tell people he just had a conjugal visit with their significant other.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:32
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mookface posted:Its also important to note that these same people are the ones that claim that if their wives cheated on them they'd literally murder the guy she was with. they are idiots, and their wives are probably already loving someone on the side too. Trying to control a woman or act like she is your property ---> woman will burn you sooo hard.
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Pagan/poly friendly counselors in town? Looking for a counselor in town, preferably in the West End area, that is pagan friendly or at least non denominational, and is at least familiar with polyamory.
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Whirlwind Jones posted:I've been married for ten years, and I've thought about other women sometimes, but nothing serious. Generally speaking, I'm pretty happy with my marriage and I wouldn't want to jeopardize it. But then I read something like this: http://www.salon.com/2011/06/12/infidelity_3/ And I start to question my understanding of "monogamy." I've read similar statistics and I believe those numbers. angerbot posted:We'll be dead soon and it doesn't make any difference at all By that logic I can do all sorts of heinous poo poo and who cares
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Bip Roberts posted:Believe in the power of cuck.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:33
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cucking is often harder on cuckee than it is on the cucker.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:33
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mookface posted:I've read similar statistics and I believe those numbers. Who cares indeed?
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Jul 21, 2014 03:34
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mookface posted:By that logic I can do all sorts of heinous poo poo and who cares are you talking about your posting?
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Jul 21, 2014 03:34
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James Polk posted:are you talking about your posting? Maybe a little bit
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Jul 21, 2014 03:35
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loving is really cool and some people like to do a lot of it its a shame they don't consider the feelings of their partners and try to live their lives honestly though.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:36
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A lot of people are lovely, that doesn't mean you should be lovely also.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:37
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Tweet Me Balls posted:loving is really cool and some people like to do a lot of it Yeah but honestly if casual sex is that important to you then why have you committed to someone in the first place? Open relationships would be out of the question for most of these people because the thought of their wife with another man makes them visibly angry. How can they live with themselves they seem like really nice and decent people otherwise
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Tweet Me Balls posted:loving is really cool and some people like to do a lot of it Pick posted:A lot of people are lovely, that doesn't mean you should be lovely also. both of these things are true.
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mookface posted:Yeah but honestly if casual sex is that important to you then why have you committed to someone in the first place? Open relationships would be out of the question for most of these people because the thought of their wife with another man makes them visibly angry. How can they live with themselves they seem like really nice and decent people otherwise a lot of people don't care about others' feelings, op
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Jul 21, 2014 03:39
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Smoking Crow posted:a lot of people don't care about others' feelings, op But at the same time they apparently love their wives and never want them to find out because not only would the party be over but because it would devastate them as well. It's a bunch of weird doublethink going on in there and a lot of people do it
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mookface posted:Yeah but honestly if casual sex is that important to you then why have you committed to someone in the first place? Open relationships would be out of the question for most of these people because the thought of their wife with another man makes them visibly angry. How can they live with themselves they seem like really nice and decent people otherwise people are hypocrites, generally
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Whirlwind Jones posted:I've been married for ten years, and I've thought about other women sometimes, but nothing serious. Generally speaking, I'm pretty happy with my marriage and I wouldn't want to jeopardize it. But then I read something like this: http://www.salon.com/2011/06/12/infidelity_3/ And I start to question my understanding of "monogamy." Does kissing Jenna Jameson about 15 years ago at a buddy's bachelor party count as cheating? Only came close to cheating once. It's not unhealthy to daydream about it.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:42
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mookface posted:By that logic I can do all sorts of heinous poo poo and who cares and religion was born
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Jul 21, 2014 03:43
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mookface posted:But at the same time they apparently love their wives and never want them to find out because not only would the party be over but because it would devastate them as well. It's a bunch of weird doublethink going on in there and a lot of people do it 
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To quote Adam Gopnik: I think the French view of sex and life is essentially right and ought to be universally applicable: Sex with children or by force is wrong, and the rest is just the human comedy, unfolding, as it will.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:45
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mookface posted:Yeah but honestly if casual sex is that important to you then why have you committed to someone in the first place? Open relationships would be out of the question for most of these people because the thought of their wife with another man makes them visibly angry. How can they live with themselves they seem like really nice and decent people otherwise A married guy is a turn on to some women. Couple that with guys who got married because they weren't getting laid all over the place and figured having a wife would be at least one guaranteed sex partner...
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joxxuh posted:To quote Adam Gopnik: I think the French view of sex and life is essentially right and ought to be universally applicable: Sex with children or by force is wrong, and the rest is just the human comedy, unfolding, as it will. I can get behind that.
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mookface posted:But at the same time they apparently love their wives and never want them to find out because not only would the party be over but because it would devastate them as well. It's a bunch of weird doublethink going on in there and a lot of people do it people are tragic and can't control their passions
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Jul 21, 2014 03:47
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Smoking Crow posted:people are tragic and can't control their passions the good thing is that because of this we have a lot of cool things to watch and read
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Jul 21, 2014 03:49
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most people are scum and being a good person is an exception, not a rule.
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mookface posted:People I hardly know are constantly telling me that they're cheating on their wives. It comes up in casual conversation often and its approached without any shame or anything and I just don't understand how so many people can think its ok. At work or at a pub or on the golf course men who are casual acquaintances speak openly about screwing other chicks on the side as if its nothing to them. I sometimes say awkwardly that I don't cheat on my wife and never have and they just nod soberly and say that's good of me or something.
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Whirlwind Jones posted:people are weird. It's gotten I into my head now and I really notice it a lot and its bugging me. Trust is important in any relationship and without it what do you have really other than a lie that you live with total dedication? I'm not a paragon of virtue by any means and i do stupid poo poo and sometimes go off the deep end but it's making me sick. Its just so classless. Your wife just had a baby and you're banging prostitutes when she's visiting her sister? Wow man thats loving awesome
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100% of marriages start in marriage. I just made that stat up but it seems pretty legit. Please include it in a salon article. Also anyone who shares that poo poo with you. I'd just get up and walk away from them and not associate with that person. They're probably really scummy in a lot of other things too. Watch your poo poo around em.
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Jul 21, 2014 03:52
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Secks Cauldron posted:It's because you look too friendly. Practice your bitchface. I don't look that friendly and this is often in groups
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mookface posted:But at the same time they apparently love their wives and never want them to find out because not only would the party be over but because it would devastate them as well. It's a bunch of weird doublethink going on in there and a lot of people do it A lot of people are legitimately terrible op.
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mookface posted:a lie that you live with total dedication This is like 99% of marriages. Seriously. It's like society tells people to marry so most people who marry, marry because it is expected of them to form a family. So they do it half-assedly. That's why I'm not getting married ever.
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Pochoclo posted:This is like 99% of marriages. Seriously. It's like society tells people to marry so most people who marry, marry because it is expected of them to form a family. So they do it half-assedly. source? (not the hip-hop magazine)
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Pochoclo posted:This is like 99% of marriages. Seriously. It's like society tells people to marry so most people who marry, marry because it is expected of them to form a family. So they do it half-assedly. yeah that's the reason why you're not getting married haha
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Pochoclo posted:This is like 99% of marriages. Seriously. It's like society tells people to marry so most people who marry, marry because it is expected of them to form a family. So they do it half-assedly. I'm actually not even married but we have three kids and are very much in love. Society hasn't told me to do poo poo and if society is the reason you need to be in a monogamous long term relationship that you hate then I guess you're an idiot but thats no excuse
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mookface posted:I'm actually not even married but we have three kids and are very much in love. Society hasn't told me to do poo poo and if society is the reason you need to be in a monogamous long term relationship that you hate then I guess you're an idiot but thats no excuse
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