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I will admit, while unemployed and depressed a couple years ago, I did go about a week and a half without bathing... or eating... or pooping, now that I think about it. I guess I'm lucky that I didn't die.
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PallasAthene posted:Sometimes it's just the end stage of being lazy as gently caress. Imagine being so sedentary and unmotivated that you don't feel like getting up and spending 10 minutes cleaning and drying yourself. it's a pretty common symptom of depression too; not taking care of yourself right
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Aug 25, 2016 17:08
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SneakyFrog posted:jeez you dont need an excuse for that poo poo i guess less of an excuse, rather than utilising the water to enhance the sensuousness with which i can glide my hands.
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Aug 25, 2016 17:21
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I hate shaving because I have to do it every morning and sometimes I'm pretty tired and dont wanna bother. Not showering is pretty unforgivable though.
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Aug 25, 2016 17:28
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Tumble posted:The most I ever made a girl 'melt' (and gently caress the haters it's totally the right word) was just after moving back to my home state, and then losing my job while I was dating this great woman. We were just kind of walking around a nature reserve and she asked me if I was doing alright. 
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Aug 25, 2016 17:37
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my mom thinks that there's some big conspiracy and reasoning behind why I don't shave my legs very often but the truth is I'm just lazy
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Aug 25, 2016 17:39
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Re: nice guys working out and getting as many people as possible, I get it. Like, if you know that the entire reason women aren't giving you the time of day is because you aren't physically attractive enough, that puts a massive chip on your shoulder when you do lose the weight and the same people that turned you down start pining for your attention I'm p sure that's what all ugly ducklings go through though
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Aug 25, 2016 17:44
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Goddamn. I mean I go through periods where I'll skip a shower because gently caress it, I'm not doing anything or going anywhere tomorrow, I probably always stink from my dog's perspective, and that means more time for videogames. I usually don't even make it 12 hours before I can't stand it and take a shower. I can't imagine going weeks at a time without bathing.
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Aug 25, 2016 17:47
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sometimes if I had a slow day and didn't do anything but sit on my butt I won't take a shower that day. if you're not doing anything to make you stinky like sweating or whatever it's fine. there's no need to shower every 12 hours lol
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Aug 25, 2016 17:49
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I recently hung out with an old college friend of mine I haven't seen in a couple years who shut me down hard back in the day but now I've been losing weight and she's put on at least 40 pounds and she was definitely interested The old nice guy in me got super bitter about it and frankly it was kind of surprising. (i was nothing but nice to her and we had a nice time as friends)
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Aug 25, 2016 17:52
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People that shower twice a day every day are loving neurotic. They're as bad as people who shower once a week but just from the opposite end of the obsessive-depressive scale.
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Aug 25, 2016 17:54
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King Vidiot posted:People that shower twice a day every day are loving neurotic. They're as bad as people who shower once a week but just from the opposite end of the obsessive-depressive scale. yeah for real
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Aug 25, 2016 17:55
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I shower twice in a day if I'm going on a date. Once to get clean before work and then once to get the blood off haha. I'm a murderer!! hahaha
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Aug 25, 2016 17:58
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Business Gorillas posted:I recently hung out with an old college friend of mine I haven't seen in a couple years who shut me down hard back in the day but now I've been losing weight and she's put on at least 40 pounds and she was definitely interested Actually once I lost weight and got fitter (and I moved out and therefore was not required to wear hand-me-downs from male family members  ) I became way more interested in the people who had been interested in me, or at least courteous to me, before. It absolutely puts a weird chip on your shoulder. That woman who is a bitch to you might very well be taking that out on you, I've done it before sorryI mean not that I'm a 10/10 but I do all right these days.
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Aug 25, 2016 18:01
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Business Gorillas posted:I recently hung out with an old college friend of mine I haven't seen in a couple years who shut me down hard back in the day but now I've been losing weight and she's put on at least 40 pounds and she was definitely interested I think everybody who gets in shape wants to settle old scores. It can be very satisfying when the pendulum swings the other way. It can be hard to swallow that you're the same guy but people treat you better and the same women who shot your down (or 'friendzoned' or w.e) are suddenly interested now that you're fit.
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Aug 25, 2016 18:03
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Frosted Flake posted:It can be hard to swallow that you're the same guy but people treat you better and the same women who shot your down (or 'friendzoned' or w.e) are suddenly interested now that you're fit. Maybe I'm the weird one here but I'd just be happy to have such confirmation that my work/whatever was having an effect.
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Aug 25, 2016 18:07
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Moridin920 posted:Maybe I'm the weird one here but I'd just be happy to have such confirmation that my work/whatever was having an effect. Yeah. That's how I see it, but I can get how people can see that as going against everything they were raised to believe about looks not mattering. A guy I met in basic started working out with me and once he started seeing changes in people's behavior it made him really angry. He would start to rant about how all women were whores and only interested in him now that he was fit. Which, technically was true, but not really the point. He was kinda despondent that nothing else about him would have attracted these women. 
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Moridin920 posted:Maybe I'm the weird one here but I'd just be happy to have such confirmation that my work/whatever was having an effect. It's this at first and then you realize "wait, the only thing different about me from when I got rejected is how I look. I'm still the same person" and then you get on the express train for massive resentment Edit: if you already think that women are shallow and then a change in your physical appearance makes people more interested in you that's some pretty concrete reinforcement in that belief Business Gorillas fucked around with this message at 18:14 on Aug 25, 2016 |
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Aug 25, 2016 18:12
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Frosted Flake posted:A guy I met in basic started working out with me and once he started seeing changes in people's behavior it made him really angry. He would start to rant about how all women were whores and only interested in him now that he was fit. Which, technically was true, but not really the point. He was kinda despondent that nothing else about him would have attracted these women. I mean... it's not just a woman thing though. Humans are just preprogrammed to be biased towards more attractive people. I mean sure that sucks objectively maybe but it's just the way the world is because we're ultimately dumb monkeys. I've seen psych papers talking about how more attractive people are more likely to be trusted by strangers even though they are no more likely than anyone else to be trustworthy people, for example. Idk I think people get a little too self centered. Put yourself in other people's shoes; they don't know you're a good person or whatever. They just see some chubby schlub who doesn't care enough about himself to take better care of himself (kinda signals how much effort he'd put into the relationship, too). I bet your friend never gave an equal shot to chubby plain girls versus tall skinny models with big boobs so why should he get special treatment from the world? Kinda sounds like instead of thinking about it he just decided to feed his rage and resentment towards women. Business Gorillas posted:It's this at first and then you realize "wait, the only thing different about me from when I got rejected is how I look. I'm still the same person" and then you get on the express train for massive resentment But how does anyone know what's in your head? Seems silly to be angry at everyone for not being mind readers.
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Aug 25, 2016 18:16
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Frosted Flake posted:A guy I met in basic started working out with me and once he started seeing changes in people's behavior it made him really angry. He would start to rant about how all women were whores and only interested in him now that he was fit. Which, technically was true, but not really the point. He was kinda despondent that nothing else about him would have attracted these women. It's almost like women don't like psychotically angry misogynists or something.
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Aug 25, 2016 18:16
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King Vidiot posted:It's almost like women don't like psychotically angry misogynists or something. yeah I feel like there's an underlying resentment that gets fed and it's not just as simple as 'I'm mad because I'm still me but suddenly everyone treats me better.' I mean you're not really still you are you, the you that eats whatever and doesn't take care of himself? Your thoughts and personality might not be much different but your habits and personal discipline are still part of who you are.
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Troposphere posted:my mom thinks that there's some big conspiracy and reasoning behind why I don't shave my legs very often but the truth is I'm just lazy there actually is a big conspiracy behind why i don't shave mine. it goes all the way to the top. On a completely unrelated note, which i am taking great pains to declare is a purely hypothetical question, can you imagine if Obama had some weird-rear end fetishes that he used his presidential powers and natural charisma to coerce people into indulging? but for real, showering feels really dang good so i do it often even if i plan on isolating myself in my goon cave. maybe i am slightly ocd about it, but who cares? It makes me feel good, and this butthole is clean enough to eat off of.
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Aug 25, 2016 18:19
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Moon Atari posted:can you imagine if Obama had some weird-rear end fetishes that he used his presidential powers and natural charisma to coerce people into indulging? Personally I've been wondering where all this cvck popularity is coming from. Yeah yeah Shakepeare invented the word but let's not pretend 'Cvckold' was always its own genre on the porn streaming sites. OBAMAAA
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Aug 25, 2016 18:21
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Moridin920 posted:But how does anyone know what's in your head? Seems silly to be angry at everyone for not being mind readers. i mean youre asking me to rationally explain an obviously irrational thought so idk what you want from me here
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Aug 25, 2016 18:26
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Business Gorillas posted:i mean youre asking me to rationally explain an obviously irrational thought so idk what you want from me here I want you to say that humans are stupid idiots 
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Moridin920 posted:Personally I've been wondering where all this cvck popularity is coming from. Yeah yeah Shakepeare invented the word but let's not pretend 'Cvckold' was always its own genre on the porn streaming sites. I hate that all black guy on white girl porn gets a little back story attached about cvcking now, when it didn't in the past. Why can't the black guy and white girl be in a loving relationship? Why do we need to think some wimpy white dude is getting hurt by it in order to get off? Why can't the fifteen black guys be gangbanging the blonde chick purely out of love and camaraderie? Why do we need to think about some loser being tortured by mixed feelings of arousal and crushed self-esteem?
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Aug 25, 2016 18:28
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Business Gorillas posted:It's this at first and then you realize "wait, the only thing different about me from when I got rejected is how I look. I'm still the same person" and then you get on the express train for massive resentment Actually the embittering thing is that everyone treats you far better, including teachers, parents, coworkers, basically everybody. At my last residence, the guy who worked at the corner store gave me free coffee at all times. And it's like, ok, add that to my list of free drinks I get now I guess, definitely the kind of thing that happened when I was borderline overweight (as if)
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Moon Atari posted:I hate that all black guy on white girl porn gets a little back story attached about cvcking now, when it didn't in the past. Why can't the black guy and white girl be in a loving relationship? Why do we need to think some wimpy white dude is getting hurt by it in order to get off? Why can't the fifteen black guys be gangbanging the blonde chick purely out of love and camaraderie? Why do we need to think about some loser being tortured by mixed feelings of arousal and crushed self-esteem? Similarly I hate that I'm trying to watch some femdom/humiliation stuff and it is now inundated with oddly racist porn. Why can't a girl make fun of a dude's tiny peepee without having to get all 'and the n-----rs gently caress me way better with their n------r cocks?' goddamn cvcks Pick posted:Actually the embittering thing is that everyone treats you far better, including teachers, parents, coworkers, basically everybody. At my last residence, the guy who worked at the corner store gave me free coffee at all times. And it's like, ok, add that to my list of free drinks I get now I guess, definitely the kind of thing that happened when I was borderline overweight (as if) It's just important to remember that is isn't women, it isn't men, it's just humans being dumb monkeys. Accept the free thing and move on don't let it make you upset somehow. Yeah it's dumb but what are you gonna do. Even heterosexual people interacting with the same sex are nicer to the 'more attractive' ones. There's a reason most successful scam artists are also good looking. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 18:40 on Aug 25, 2016 |
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Aug 25, 2016 18:36
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Moon Atari posted:I hate that all black guy on white girl porn gets a little back story attached about cvcking now, when it didn't in the past. Why can't the black guy and white girl be in a loving relationship? Why do we need to think some wimpy white dude is getting hurt by it in order to get off? Why can't the fifteen black guys be gangbanging the blonde chick purely out of love and camaraderie? Why do we need to think about some loser being tortured by mixed feelings of arousal and crushed self-esteem? Or what about bi-curious guys who don't need all that racism baggage in their sexual experimentation fantasies?
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King Vidiot posted:Or what about bi-curious guys who don't need all that racism baggage in their sexual experimentation fantasies? Also this.
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Moon Atari posted:I hate that all black guy on white girl porn gets a little back story attached about cvcking now, when it didn't in the past. Why can't the black guy and white girl be in a loving relationship? Why do we need to think some wimpy white dude is getting hurt by it in order to get off? Why can't the fifteen black guys be gangbanging the blonde chick purely out of love and camaraderie? Why do we need to think about some loser being tortured by mixed feelings of arousal and crushed self-esteem? because the only people that pay for porn these days are old people and they don't have the same views on interracial relationships as you do
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also people should stop re-uploading perfectly vanilla porn so that it has a title that suggests incest. cut back on the incest in general. i don't need that in my life. i'm trying to have a good time and some motherfucker's daddy stepdaughter fetish comes along and makes me involuntarily think about how that is probably the most common child-abuse scenario and suddenly i'm donating to a women's charity rather than beating off like a had planned.
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Moon Atari posted:I hate that all black guy on white girl porn gets a little back story attached about cvcking now, when it didn't in the past. Why can't the black guy and white girl be in a loving relationship? Why do we need to think some wimpy white dude is getting hurt by it in order to get off? Why can't the fifteen black guys be gangbanging the blonde chick purely out of love and camaraderie? Why do we need to think about some loser being tortured by mixed feelings of arousal and crushed self-esteem? the person jacking off is inserting himself as the hurt loser
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Moon Atari posted:also people should stop re-uploading perfectly vanilla porn so that it has a title that suggests incest. cut back on the incest in general. i don't need that in my life. i'm trying to have a good time and some motherfucker's daddy stepdaughter fetish comes along and makes me involuntarily think about how that is probably the most common child-abuse scenario and suddenly i'm donating to a women's charity rather than beating off like a had planned. poo poo, try digging through tumblr porn sites. You'll find so many porn pictures that have really badly-written captions detailing the blogger's own personal fetishes and applying them to the pictures.
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Business Gorillas posted:because the only people that pay for porn these days are old people and they don't have the same views on interracial relationships as you do Looks like someone has never heard of blacked.
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This guy contacted me through okc, we went on a date, and he hosed it all up by agreeing to wearing a condom and then trying to gently caress me bareback. When I got pissed and said I was leaving, because that poo poo doesn't fly with me, he started wagging his finger in my face and told me he wouldn't "tolerate childish behaviour". I got the hell out of there. A few months later he contacted me through okc again and tried to convince me to get an std test with him so we could just "get nasty" together. Turned that down, too, he'd already shown that he didn't respect me. Several years later he google searched my name and found me through a post on the okc sub on Reddit and decided to contact me. After awhile I decided to return the favor and found massive amount of the most disgusting redpilly/pua poo poo I have ever seen. He's gone back and deleted most of it, but here is the initial message he sent me as well as some of the things he's posted in various MRA/PUA/redpill sites. I have all of the worst ones he deleted saved, but they are on another phone. I seriously dodged a bullet and the way he is online vs. in person has really cemented the idea of what the vast majority of these dudes are like.         
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The weird side-effect of the era of teaching kids "just be you and things will work out" is that if you improve yourself in any way you'll be wary of or even irritated by the benefits that come with it
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King Vidiot posted:People that shower twice a day every day are loving neurotic. They're as bad as people who shower once a week but just from the opposite end of the obsessive-depressive scale. As someone who showers twice a day I can confirm this. But then again I have severe OCD so YMMV. Also this, Moon Atari posted:but for real, showering feels really dang good so i do it often even if i plan on isolating myself in my goon cave. maybe i am slightly ocd about it, but who cares? It makes me feel good, and this butthole is clean enough to eat off of. Dreddout fucked around with this message at 19:03 on Aug 25, 2016 |
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in a moment of beta anger i slipped the condom off without saying anything and she freaked out on me, entitled urban feminist that she is! lol good for you for ditching him re the condom thing and not putting up with that poo poo
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