phasmid posted:

If it's who I think it is, about a year ago he was supposed to do a book tour in Australia and they declined his visa.

A whole continent told him to gently caress off for being a disgusting human being.

Curdy Lemonstan posted:

Lmao I was out drinking with friends yesterday and a guy came up to us and started talking the whole nice guy talk (a tinder date apparently never showed up, which is apparently not at all just normal flaky behaviour, no its a societal conspiracy that only happens to him).
We told him to relax and that he looks fine (he was attractive in a cute way) but he just kept on talking about how women are stupid and society places his looks on one part of the 'never getting laid'-ladder and so on and he started getting kinda creepy, wanted to stroke my friends beard and told him 'you get laid all day because you have a beard and muscles and can beat me any day of the week'and started getting into some really weird, vioent kind of talk so we just left him and changed bars.
His final words was to say something like 'you see, everybody hates me!'.

Its like he didnt get laid and instead of reviewing his own extremely creepy behaviour he only blamed society. I tried my best to reason with him but it was impossible. loving weirdo creepy gently caress ruining our night.

Benny Harvey posted:

Imagine being too disgusting for Australia.

Moon Atari posted:

We've nation-blocked multiple pua. It seems cool until you realise that the only reason the immigration minister has earned the power to do so at his own discretion is so that he can do the same thing to refugees.

P-Mack posted:

send roosh to nauru

P-Mack posted:

send roosh to nauru

phasmid posted:

If you're just screwed in looks/smarts/stature, just be the one night stand that she regrets.

tater_salad posted:

Nice Guys like me: I'm texting a real woman I think on okc, her and I seem like we would hit it off and even though she's like a 5 or 6 she's a cool person and I'm glad I messaged her. She didn't respond when I asked her if she wanted to grab a coffee and she didn't respond for 2 days. how long till I remind her she's a short fat pig who is probably not ever going to get a nice guy like me who is like a 7 or 8?


Another girl I have been texting today and she said she was going to bed. I feel like should probably capitalize on this ask for her address and let her know I'd like to join her. Maybe send her a dick pic so she sees what she is missing?

Help I really need advice here.

MikeyLikesIt posted:

Pick posted:

My friend in particular, whose disability is very visible (one leg), hates it because she thinks it's more of a "I'm a good person!" fetish than anything. Like how excited they are to be a savior when she's totally competent on her own and would just like a partner like everyone else, not a live-in caretaker who fucks her pussy.

MikeyLikesIt posted:

MikeyLikesIt posted:

CharlestonJew posted:

that 2nd guy got totally friendzoned

Kiryen posted:

Not jumping to the conclusion that it's some sort of weird fetish, or some sort of condescending need to gently caress her and be her caretaker, might be a good place to start for both you and her.

You're doing an awful lot of lecturing here, but how much of this is you being overly protective of your disabled friend?

Kiryen posted:

Not jumping to the conclusion that it's some sort of weird fetish, or some sort of condescending need to gently caress her and be her caretaker, might be a good place to start for both you and her.

You're doing an awful lot of lecturing here, but how much of this is you being overly protective of your disabled friend?

Tequila Sunrise posted:

Pick already admitted that she lies about stuff and uses SA as her fantasy world, so I wouldn't go to hard about arguing with her probably make-believe disabled friend.

Pick posted:

Dude just listen to the poo poo moon Atari posted. There are tons of guys who love the idea of a woman they think neeeeeeds them and can't live without them, soon feeding and all, and it comes from a place of possessiveness and deep insecurity

Facebook Aunt posted:

Groovelord Neato posted:

it's the guy uhhw hat's his name roosh. he writes actual travel guide books about getting laid in certain countries and admits to rape a bunch.

from hisbook "Bang Ukraine":


"Bang Iceland":


"Bang Poland":

Dinosaurmageddon posted:

Me, I only date autists.

Dreddout posted:

Salutations.

No.44 posted:

That sounds eerily similar to what happened to a co-worker of mine back when I worked in retail. He was helping this guy carry a coach out to his truck and the dude suddenly grabbed his arm and started rubbing his muscles and was like: "I always find black guys so intimidating, you're all so tall and athletic". My co-worker couldn't figure out whether the dude was being racist or just really awkwardly hitting on him.

KomodoWagon posted:

1) unapologetic rapists
2) pussies who wish they had the strength and courage to go through with a rape, but won't due to fear and insecurity
3) a teeny tiny minority of decent people.

KomodoWagon posted:

Rapes aren't reported and when they are they're not investigated because the majority of police are men, and men fall into three categories:

1) unapologetic rapists
2) pussies who wish they had the strength and courage to go through with a rape, but won't due to fear and insecurity
3) a teeny tiny minority of decent people.

The problem with solving the problem is that in almost all circumstances, men will claim to be in category 3, which leads to the misleading idea that only a tiny minority would ever rape someone permeating society. We've progressed so far as to technically make rape a crime, but there's a long way to go before even a majority of men find it morally objectionable (even when you think the victim is a slut). It's funny how you can get every man in the world to blurt out "oh, rape is one of the worst things you can do to a person!" but when it comes to actually assessing cases of reported rapes, the discussion immediately takes a turn towards "well, why did she let that happen/what did she do to deserve this?" not to mention "don't ruin a man's life because of one tiny mistake!"

In other words, the only thing seperating Roosh from most men is that he is more blatant and ballsy about the whole deal.

KomodoWagon posted:

KomodoWagon posted:

Rapes aren't reported and when they are they're not investigated because the majority of police are men, and men fall into three categories:

1) unapologetic rapists
2) pussies who wish they had the strength and courage to go through with a rape, but won't due to fear and insecurity
3) a teeny tiny minority of decent people.

The problem with solving the problem is that in almost all circumstances, men will claim to be in category 3, which leads to the misleading idea that only a tiny minority would ever rape someone permeating society. We've progressed so far as to technically make rape a crime, but there's a long way to go before even a majority of men find it morally objectionable (even when you think the victim is a slut). It's funny how you can get every man in the world to blurt out "oh, rape is one of the worst things you can do to a person!" but when it comes to actually assessing cases of reported rapes, the discussion immediately takes a turn towards "well, why did she let that happen/what did she do to deserve this?" not to mention "don't ruin a man's life because of one tiny mistake!"

In other words, the only thing seperating Roosh from most men is that he is more blatant and ballsy about the whole deal.

Moon Atari posted:

I was basing my theory on a talk by the late Stella Young who would have layed an osteogenenis imperfecta handed bitchslap on you for dismissing my idea but also me for being a nondisabled person suggesting it. As to your response to it, you took the most negative possible interpretation, and your post about me being 'one of those guys' explicitly connected it to my gender (with some terf style trans hate oddly thrown in). Now, what sort of person do we, in this here nice guy thread, know of who always assumes the worst of the other gender's intentions and angrily requires them to prove they are the exception to the rule when it comes to their otherwise lovely gender? I like you Pick, you have cool opinions on cartoons and cute animals, but there is a reason people were saying you have overshared in this thread. You've revealed you have some of the same problems with men as the bitter dudes this thread is about mocking have with women. Like continuously suggesting men don't know how to or are possibly incapable of friendship is an exact mirror of what some dudes say about women's friendship.

It's good to want to support a partner, and to be supported back. I would say that is pretty much the definition of having a partner rather than a fuckbuddy or other transient sort of relationship. Assuming I am belittling a partner by wanting to support them is like the thing mra's say about women getting angry about you holding the door for them, I just didn't think that was a real thing. As to the specific context of people with disabilities, if they require care but have a long-term romantic partner the romantic partner nearly always becomes their primary carer, excepting the few lucky people well off enough to afford good quality in home care staff. It's unfortunate, but it would be good if the romantic partner actually enjoys providing care.