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GulagDolls posted:theres a city in kansas.....o_o; lol, here is the crazy thing, the good part is in missouri
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Snooze Cruise posted:gulagdolls and pintrestmom i assume you will be at my birthday party as well in kanas city??? let me know when it is, i'll put on a white sheet and be there in spirit
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Feb 1, 2017 22:20
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Feb 1, 2017 22:21
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its the 18th tho my actual birthday is the 15th
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Congratulations, on your 15th birthday
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Feb 1, 2017 22:23
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Cross posting for anyone who doesn't regularly check discord. I will be testing my worker placement player combat game tonight at 7pm est if you're interested in play testing PM me!
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Feb 1, 2017 22:29
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I have never played a video game.
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Feb 1, 2017 23:34
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Ugh Sara it would have been easier just to say the situation. Your interpretation of the situation isn't necessarily the true one. Basically she's saying I should do something I'm scared to do bc it has the potential to make me happy but if it doesn't go well it also has the potential to destroy numerous friendships
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Feb 1, 2017 23:43
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destroying friendships sounds like an exaggeration. i can't imagine doing anything that would piss off my friends to that extent apart from murdering their dogs or something. if murdering dogs will make you happy probably dont do that imo
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Feb 1, 2017 23:55
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Well, now that you've been thrust into the open you might as well elucidate
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Feb 1, 2017 23:55
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busb posted:destroying friendships sounds like an exaggeration. i can't imagine doing anything that would piss off my friends to that extent apart from murdering their dogs or something. I fell in love with my best friend, or whatever I thought was love at the time, and it nearly destroyed all my friendships, but not because my friends wanted nothing to do with me, but that I retreated so far from them to avoid the pain of that unrequited love that it's been difficult to integrate back in to that circle. I still talk to the BF that I fell in love with, on occasion and it took a few years for that to get better. Just don't make yourself unavailable should things end up unfavorably.
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Feb 1, 2017 23:58
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Anomalous Amalgam posted:I fell in love with my best friend, or whatever I thought was love at the time, and it nearly destroyed all my friendships, but not because my friends wanted nothing to do with me, but that I retreated so far from them to avoid the pain of that unrequited love that it's been difficult to integrate back in to that circle. Does s/he know?
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Feb 2, 2017 00:04
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Poque posted:Does s/he know? Yep, I told them that I had fallen in love with them and they didn't feel the same way. Glad I told them though, because I found out it wouldn't work between us, and even though it wasn't immediate, addressing it gave me strength to make myself available again. I detonated my friendships because of my own biz and that just happens sometimes I guess, but all in all it worked out for better or worse. No raegrets.
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Feb 2, 2017 00:17
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AnonymousNarcotics posted:Ugh Sara it would have been easier just to say the situation. Your interpretation of the situation isn't necessarily the true one. do it.... kill keane
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Feb 2, 2017 00:28
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Anomalous Amalgam posted:I fell in love with my best friend, or whatever I thought was love at the time, and it nearly destroyed all my friendships, but not because my friends wanted nothing to do with me, but that I retreated so far from them to avoid the pain of that unrequited love that it's been difficult to integrate back in to that circle. This is a fairly common thing to happen in friendship groups i reckon. happened in mine at the end of high school. The infatuation was real and everyone know about it but didn't judge either party. in our case, my friend just didn't like the girl that way, but they were friends first and foremost. I'm sure there were tears on her end early on, but the kicker was she found someone really kicking rad and awesome that returned her affection and they got married 2 years ago and they're all super good friends now and they asked the original dude (and me) to MC their wedding. I have no ideas about the particular dynamics in your situation but peramene seems to think you have a shot with the other party, but honestly if the friends are actually decent people nobody will judge you poorly if things go well or go poorly for you, they'll just care if you and the other person are happy and treat the situation kindly. then murder all their pets
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Feb 2, 2017 00:29
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busb posted:This is a fairly common thing to happen in friendship groups i reckon. happened in mine at the end of high school. The infatuation was real and everyone know about it but didn't judge either party. Whoops, peramene was talking about rarity. I was just chiming in about my own experience with something I felt might be similar. So whatever happens Rarity, you're not alone. I do hope things get better in the months to come.
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Anomalous Amalgam posted:Whoops, peramene was talking about rarity. I was just chiming in about my own experience with something I felt might be similar. Not rarity anarc
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Whoops, the sentiment remains true.
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Feb 2, 2017 00:57
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hmm lets just go with gulag's solution. then nobody will pretend to be better than me at sports
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Tl;dr Basically AA's situation. I like somebody but don't want to put myself out there and possibly ruin a friendship.
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Feb 2, 2017 01:20
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If what you'd be ruining is hanging around someone you care deeply for without ever being able to express it, the loss would probably do you good if it's just a crush it's probably not worth rocking the boat chances are you already have an inkling of how person feels tho
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Feb 2, 2017 01:26
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with that said I'd hope that someone you like in that way is understanding enough to not blow up a friendship if it was just awkward
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Feb 2, 2017 01:27
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Anomalous Amalgam posted:Yep, I told them that I had fallen in love with them and they didn't feel the same way. Glad I told them though, because I found out it wouldn't work between us, and even though it wasn't immediate, addressing it gave me strength to make myself available again. I had a similar situation except I wasn't out at the time so I never admitted it and it went to garbageshit, but the frustration manifested in other ways and I ended up finding a different friend group and they're still my main friend group today soooooooooooooooooooo no raegrets
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Feb 2, 2017 01:53
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Speaking of relationships my girlfriend of three years and I broke up. I am doing OK but either in pretty major denial or have been processing the breakup for the 6 months our relationship has been dying and will be totally fine. I am not sure which yet. I am taking a lot of me time though and I want more distractions right now so play mafia! You!
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Feb 2, 2017 02:16
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im getting married in june
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Feb 2, 2017 02:18
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i bought a new tv last week
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Dang, getting dramatic in the SA Mafia thread. IMO, I'd always rather regret than wonder. Make your choice, adventurous stranger Ring the bell and bide the danger Or wonder til it drives you mad What would have happened if you had It's an even more apt metaphor because the situation starts by getting worse but it's the catalyst for much greater things.
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Feb 2, 2017 02:37
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I babysat a puppy this week  
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Feb 2, 2017 02:38
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Ecco is snubbing me.
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Feb 2, 2017 02:41
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Amoeba102 posted:Ecco is snubbing me. I missed your name sorry! podima just pointed it out he can confirm.
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Feb 2, 2017 02:47
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No worries. But now I need to find a new life confession.
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Feb 2, 2017 02:51
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I have nothing to confess, my life is an open book containing neither secrets nor scandals.
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I can name at least four friends where I went through a phase of embarrassingly crushing on them (and not having it be returned). In every case, it made the friendship better for me to just put it out there because once I was rejected, it freed me up to look elsewhere for someone who would actually return my feelings.AnonymousNarcotics posted:Ugh Sara it would have been easier just to say the situation. Your interpretation of the situation isn't necessarily the true one. For the most part, I believe that if a friendship is grounded in something genuine it will usually survive something like this if both parties are willing. (obviously these are all just my opinions and not meant as Factual Truths)
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EccoRaven posted:I missed your name sorry! podima just pointed it out he can confirm. Confirmed. Or is it? 
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In my limited relationship experience, I found that being in that confusing situation was less fun than just being straight up and asking if the feelings were mutual. I also said right away that I was fine being friends and continuing our relationship in the way it already existed if they were not. This worked out well for me, but everybody is different. I imagine that a situation where you have feelings that you're hiding from somebody is more awkward than a situation where you you have clarified the situation. That's not to say things won't be weird at all, but if it's a friendship worth protecting, I doubt it will get that messed up. To put another perspective on this: I have good relationships to this day with friends who previously had a crush on me, told me, and were subsequently rejected. My one negative experience in this department comes from a girl who continued to pursue me afterwards and repeatedly put pressure on me to be in a relationship I didn't want to be in. Our relationship soured completely. So don't do that. In other news, I just celebrated my 4th year of being in a relationship last weekend, so that's swell.
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Feb 2, 2017 04:07
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Need a replacement for katamari mafia it's d2 Asking for replacements what have I become 
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Kashuno posted:Need a replacement for katamari mafia it's d2 
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There's another part of this story that makes it not quite as simple as "just tell him how you feel" but I'm bad at explaining things so pera is gonna do it
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The solution seems to be electing peramene to handle your affairs
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