Pelvic Floor Wax posted:

she responded by screaming and turning up the volume of the porn, so I took that as her needing time to herself and left

Pelvic Floor Wax posted:

Here you go, first post:


Second post:

A Wizard of Goatse posted:

the old thread title's had a good run imo

ArbitraryC posted:

Dude missed an amazing opportunity to invite her friends/family over after work and walk in on that.

ArbitraryC posted:

Dude missed an amazing opportunity to invite her friends/family over after work and walk in on that.

Chicken Doodle posted:

R/relationships: she responded by screaming and turning up the porn

Pick posted:

Pvt.Scott posted:

Was she having dissociative episodes or something while schlicking it, or was she trying to show him the evils of porn by making him super jealous or something? Both?

Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:

This was posted in an older thread and is pretty much the saddest thing ever. He lost the woman he loved on his wedding day for no discernible reason, and there's a good chance that he won't be able to fix it even armed with the knowledge of what's been going through her head. indeed.

ArbitraryC posted:

Tho I gotta say are asexual people just like repulsed by sex or do they just not have a drive?

DragQueenofAngmar posted:

Did he ever come back with an update?

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She has been depressed for as long as we have known each other, and she, after lots of convincing from me, took depression pills for about a month before she deemed they made her feel worse and swore never to use them again. Since then, we have just tried to deal with it. We have tried lots of little things to bring some sort of happiness to her view on life, to no avail.
Yesterday we got arguing because she was saying that she no longer wanted to live any more, and that her life was horrid. I replied to that with "Even the part with me and our puppies in it?" "Everything. You wanted the truth". This, quite understandably, crushed me. Crushed me enough to issue her an ultimatum. Get professional help, or I will have to leave. I can't allow myself to become depressed, I have already battled it once, and gotten out of it, and I outright refuse to let it take me again.
She refuses pills, she refuses therapy, and refuses to look for other ways. She said she doesn't want help. After reading online, I've come to the conclusion that you can lead a horse to water, but you can't force it to drink. She simply sees my ultimatum as her "bowing down to me" and "doing my bidding".
After another argument at lunch today, and me saying "Well, this relationship doesnt seem to be working, and it wont get any worse from you trying to get help", she retaliated with "Well maybe you're the reason this relationship isn't working. You're the one who hasn't managed to keep your other relationships going before!!". I put the phone down there.
I feel that she crossed a line with that comment, and that it's gone too far, but I'm unsure as to whether I'm being melodramatic.
Any advice on what to do, or how to deal with this situation would be greatly appreciated. Thankyou.
TL:DR: Depressed girlfriend doesn't want to live any more, refuses help, uses my past relationships as a reason why we wont work, instead of addressing her own suicidal-ness(?).

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My bf wants a baby in the year of the dragon (this year)

submitted 5 years ago * by MisaMisa21

We've been together for 9 months. He is 26, and I'm 21. He has a chinese background and I have a Russian background, but we always try to compromise our differences. For example I started to learn Cantonese, so I can talk a bit to his family. We have plans to travel to our home countries later this year.

However, all of a sudden he said he wants a child this year~ now there's not much time left and chances of me actually getting pregnant this month are low, but there's still a chance.

He has a large house (with a large mortgage on it), his parents live there and offer to help raise the child. I guess my question to you fellow redditors is this - is it too early for a child? How do we know when we're ready? I don't want him to regret it later because we missed out on the chance to have a dragon baby. If we fail, then we will try in the year of the horse.

We sometimes go clubbing, but we've cut down and become more mature since getting together, he quit smoking, and we're both very commited and reliable. However, I'm still a student and don't have financial security like he does. I don't want to end up a single mother, but this was his idea and he is very dependable so I know he will take care of the baby. Am I jumping to conclusions or should I re-consider this?

EDIT: Thanks for the feedback guys! Well I was on my way to his place last night to tell him to reconsider this and wait until the year of the horse when we have given this more thought, and he said it to me first before I had the chance to tell him. So after thinking it over looks like we were both on the same page. It might seem like a good idea to have a kid now because both his siblings have kids and if we had ours now they will be similar age and his parents would love a dragon grand child but that all will have to wait and we will have a child when we are more prepared and sure about this. Again, thanks for the feedback!

Sjs00 posted:

dating is bad and holy poo poo guys where is everyone dinner or something? /r/ is on the second page I thought it got gassed for sure

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Hey everyone This is my first post here, so be easy on me :p If I left things out, please ask questions, I'll answer as soon as I can Sorry for the relatively long post.
We've only been together for about 4 months, we haven't gone a day without talking since we first met. It started off as a semi-distanced relationship (I was living ~60 minutes away and we attend different schools, it made it difficult to see eachother.) However, now I only live about 10 minutes away (No, I didn't move because of her), and I hoped this would allow us to spend more time together.
Now, she is a busy girl. On top of the loads of homework she gets from school she has a part-time job and a horse to take care of every night. I understand she has other things to do, but about 50% of the time we make plans she cancels them, and we only get to see each other once every one or two weeks. Maybe I'm being too clingy, but having to wait two weeks to see her seems like an awfully long time, especially when we only live 10 minutes apart.
The thing that gets me the most are her reasons for cancelling our plans. For example, she has to take care of her horse every night. If she has something like a family get-together, or she has to work, or she has excessive homework – she'll simply call one of her friends and ask them to take care of her horse for that night. But if we have plans and she doesn't have time to take care of her horse earlier in the day, she'll cancel our plans rather than asking someone else to take care of her horse for her. Then, half of the time on the nights she cancels our plans, I'll text her or call her later in the night and she'll already be done everything and just be chilling in her house, and if I ask if she'd be interested in getting together even just for a couple hours, she'll say it's too late in the night.
When we finally do get to be together, it's like she's a completely different person. Things always go great, and she always goes on about how she wants to see me more often – but it seems like within a day or two after seeing eachother she just loses interest and forgets how great things are when we're together.
So, I need some advice. Am I being too clingy? Is it wrong of me to expect her to dedicate more time towards me? Should I talk to her about it? I've briefly brought it up in the past, and she mentioned how she always feels nervous before we get together, but all those feelings go away when I'm there ..perhaps she's scared to spend more time with me? Should I just wait it out and see what happens? Should I end it now before we get too far?
TL;DR My girlfriend prioritizes things such as her horse before me and we often go 2 weeks without seeing eachother even though I live only 10 minutes away

Nazzadan posted:

I thought I killed the thread with my story.

Here's another!

I [18m] feel like I am the last thing on her [18f] list of priorities



I could have sworn I already posted this one but I checked and its just an almost identical situation. Horsegirls, if you are this into your horses, please don't date. Nothing against you horsegirls, you just clearly can't give someone romantic attention they want when you like your pone this much

Pvt.Scott posted:

Yeah, I was having dinner. Stir fry and hot tea. You?

Mirthless posted:

This quote just pops out to me.


It sounds like they frequently reminded him.

He literally calls his penis Evil.

Pvt.Scott posted:

Was she having dissociative episodes or something while schlicking it, or was she trying to show him the evils of porn by making him super jealous or something? Both?

54 40 or gently caress posted:

All dicks are evil, the devil made them look like the snake that tempted Eve into the ruin of humankind!

Psycho Society posted:

What did they look like before that

Smirking_Serpent posted:

13 twins? I don't know if he means 26 kids or like 13 pairs with one extra? No comments, nothing else to the post.

WampaLord posted:

He means the kids are 13. There's two kids.

Smirking_Serpent posted:

I cheated on my wife and I'm living with the other woman. The kids won't talk to me at all.

I'm male, 38, father of 13 male and female twins.
I cheated on my wife with a co worker. My wife kicked me out of the house and we're in mid divorce. I'm staying with the other woman because I really don't have any choice. The kids are not talking to me at all. They've blocked me on Facebook, they don't answer my calls.
does anyone know how to correct this?


13 twins? I don't know if he means 26 kids or like 13 pairs with one extra? No comments, nothing else to the post.

Smirking_Serpent posted:

I cheated on my wife and I'm living with the other woman. The kids won't talk to me at all.

I'm male, 38, father of 13 male and female twins.
I cheated on my wife with a co worker. My wife kicked me out of the house and we're in mid divorce. I'm staying with the other woman because I really don't have any choice. The kids are not talking to me at all. They've blocked me on Facebook, they don't answer my calls.
does anyone know how to correct this?


13 twins? I don't know if he means 26 kids or like 13 pairs with one extra? No comments, nothing else to the post.