lofi posted:

That's what fedoras are for.

twistedmentat posted:

He also has bad trigger discipline as his finger is on it.

Even the floor shitter knows not to do that

Sponge Baathist posted:

Zipperelli. posted:

PassengerShaming on IG is an entire account of poo poo like this, but on airplanes. It's honestly shameful that people could be so self-absorbed that they don't realize when they're being dickheads.

queserasera posted:

There was someone in the previous thread talking about their neighbor's hoarding tendencies that kicked off a discussion of hoarders and hoarding, complete with photos. No other thing on this failure of a planet convinces me to do chores more than photos of people choosing to live in filth. I can understand ceasing to give a gently caress due to despression and the like. Deliberately being lazy? I don't get it.

Chef Bourgeoisie posted:

Mr. Snickerdoodles posted:

That neck jiggle is horrifyingly hypnotic.

Mr. Snickerdoodles posted:

That neck jiggle is horrifyingly hypnotic.

Sandwich Anarchist posted:

I work in an airport, and it has taught me that the FIRST thing I'm teaching my soon to be born son is to NOT WALK BACKWARDS IN CROWDED PUBLIC SPACES AND THEN WHIRL AROUND AND DASH FORWARD BLINDLY.

SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:

Hording seems to be a symptom of depression or some other mental disorder or trauma. Deliberate laziness though I’ve come to associate with toxic masculinity and other failures to parent and/or learned helplessness lest we forget the Reddit posts about young adult men who don’t wipe properly or wash their assholes. Apologies I don’t have a picture but a twitter post went viral in the last day where a young guy purposely left his kitchen messy and brought his girlfriend over for the first time. After she left he publically lamented she wasn’t wife material because she didn’t touch a single piece of the filth. She found the post and dumped him, good on her.

SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:

Hording seems to be a symptom of depression or some other mental disorder or trauma. Deliberate laziness though I’ve come to associate with toxic masculinity and other failures to parent and/or learned helplessness lest we forget the Reddit posts about young adult men who don’t wipe properly or wash their assholes. Apologies I don’t have a picture but a twitter post went viral in the last day where a young guy purposely left his kitchen messy and brought his girlfriend over for the first time. After she left he publically lamented she wasn’t wife material because she didn’t touch a single piece of the filth. She found the post and dumped him, good on her.

SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:

Hording seems to be a symptom of depression or some other mental disorder or trauma. Deliberate laziness though I’ve come to associate with toxic masculinity and other failures to parent and/or learned helplessness lest we forget the Reddit posts about young adult men who don’t wipe properly or wash their assholes. Apologies I don’t have a picture but a twitter post went viral in the last day where a young guy purposely left his kitchen messy and brought his girlfriend over for the first time. After she left he publically lamented she wasn’t wife material because she didn’t touch a single piece of the filth. She found the post and dumped him, good on her.

Pastry of the Year posted:

I'm the Ernest Cline cosplayer on the right in the spiffy "I'm blogging" t-shirt he made an actual point of ordering off the internet

Panfilo posted:

At some point though we have to hold some of their mothers at least partially responsible, because I seriously doubt boys that are raised to clean up after themselves in their parents households suddenly become Uber slobs when they are alone.

It's possible they'll be more forgetful if they don't have someone in their life cracking the whip about it, but even then there will be catalysts (partner, roommates, etc) that indirectly remind them to get up off their rear end. But the boys whose parents modeled hyper traditional gender roles, seeing their fathers blow off their moms about parenting and cleaning by claiming "it's not my job" inevitably end up with boys that grow up convinced they never have to bother, and probably girls that grow up resigned to their fate.

Inzombiac posted:

One of my first roommates grew up poor but his mom ensured that he always had a clean apartment to live in.
When we moved in together, he became a huge slob, close to hoarder status. It was his grand act of defiance against her... for some reason.
I knew that family for 15 years and he had no reason to rebel like that except his lovely view of masculinity.

JEEVES420 posted:

Laziness knows no gender, plenty of disgusting women out there too.

SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:

But that’s not what we’re discussing. That said, I believe the same Reddit post included an empathetic response from a young man who lived with an adult sister who did not work nor had good hygiene to the point of stinking of old blood. However I maintain there are some differing mechanisms from the “nurture” side of things when it comes to expectations of cisgender men and women when it comes to cleanliness (of self and the home).

And now I realize this is toeing too close to debating what is/n’t AUG so I’ll leave off on this line of discussion.

Small story: at one point I lived with roommates in a poorly-built house (newer, but built on the cheap right before the artificially inflated housing bubble burst) where we discovered during deep cleaning upon preparing for moveout that the master bedroom tub had a crack where the tub met the tile that mushrooms grew from. A couple lived in that room and there was nothing obvious by way of odor, but they were first to leave and only afterward did we realize they were poor cleaners to put it kindly. Imagine showering and having these very thin mushrooms sprouting inches from where you stood, an inch high. I wish I’d taken pics because I’ve never found anything like them before or since.

SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:

But that’s not what we’re discussing. That said, I believe the same Reddit post included an empathetic response from a young man who lived with an adult sister who did not work nor had good hygiene to the point of stinking of old blood. However I maintain there are some differing mechanisms from the “nurture” side of things when it comes to expectations of cisgender men and women when it comes to cleanliness (of self and the home).

And now I realize this is toeing too close to debating what is/n’t AUG so I’ll leave off on this line of discussion.

Small story: at one point I lived with roommates in a poorly-built house (newer, but built on the cheap right before the artificially inflated housing bubble burst) where we discovered during deep cleaning upon preparing for moveout that the master bedroom tub had a crack where the tub met the tile that mushrooms grew from. A couple lived in that room and there was nothing obvious by way of odor, but they were first to leave and only afterward did we realize they were poor cleaners to put it kindly. Imagine showering and having these very thin mushrooms sprouting inches from where you stood, an inch high. I wish I’d taken pics because I’ve never found anything like them before or since.

Picnic Princess posted:

I was reminded of a story for you guys today.

Way back I had a roommate who I had been friends with in high school. His hygiene was horrendous. He had his own bar of soap that he kept in the shower soap dish, my husband and I kept ours in a corner of the tub. This guy's soap developed drainage basins from erosion and no use. It looked like an aerial photo of an eroded slope. We eventually called him out which was so awkward but he started showering more frequently.

A few months later we were all up drinking together and my husband went to pee. Our friend asked if he could have a hug because he just thought I was cool and he liked hugging people. I said sure. This was a mistake. He wouldn't let me go and started saying I should leave my husband for him and that we'd be perfect together. After I steadfastly refused things got extremely awkward between us all and we weren't friends or roommates for much longer after that.

cash crab posted:

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MageMage posted:

Look at this horrible poo poo stain.

Oh wow and he crapped his pants, too!

Chef Bourgeoisie posted:

And a classic (?)

Chef Bourgeoisie posted:

And a classic (?)

Wheat Loaf posted:

Did someone say "classic"? Don't forget to grab a snack and glass of orange juice, because heeeeere weeeeee goooooooo!

lofi posted:

how could you go wrong with a girl who looks like this

Wheat Loaf posted:

Did someone say "classic"? Don't forget to grab a snack and glass of orange juice, because heeeeere weeeeee goooooooo!