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Veni Vidi Ameche! posted:Yeah. You can forgive your best friend Lucas's guinea pig Danger Mouse for biting your finger hard enough to draw blood, but that doesn't mean you have to shove your finger back into her habitat. I mean, with a name like Danger Mouse, you're really taking your life in your hands anyway.
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Veni Vidi Ameche! posted:Yeah. You can forgive your best friend Lucas's guinea pig Danger Mouse for biting your finger hard enough to draw blood, but that doesn't mean you have to shove your finger back into her habitat. I hope the lawsuit settled in your favor for a ton of greenbacks
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BrigadierSensible posted:What annoys me about this is the daughter is 34. That's plenty old enough to be living an independent life away from a bad mother that she doesn't like. Here's a weird one. Second post is recent, first one is about nine months earlier. Either this woman didn't bother mentioning her fifth child at first, there's some mental illness at play, or she had a baby in the past 9 months (and there's some mental illness at play, my guess is hoarding). Or a troll. quote:You all know the pain that I’m feeling – it’s nice to not have to try and explain it. People who haven’t been through it don’t really understand, do they? I hope I belong here. quote:I am living what I believe would be considered a worst nightmare for many. Trying to come up with the words to describe it is difficult. I can’t really blame my EC (four, two girls, two boys) for how they see me. They learned to seem me in a very warped way from how my abusive ex treated me – I was always to blame for family problems, and I allowed that scapegoating to happen for a long time. By the time I had realized how bad things were, my children had already learned that when something went wrong, it was mom’s fault. It’s not really their fault – to them it is the only way things were for a long time, and it is their normal. I have accepted that to them I will always be the reason Dad was so mean, the reason their childhoods were so difficult and rife with cruelty from their father. With some things, people have to see for themselves. No amount of explaining his cruelty or abusiveness, or talking badly about him will change their view of him, or me. That is their journey.
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# ? Dec 10, 2019 20:19 |
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Lmao sure grammy
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trickybiscuits posted:They immediately called CPS on me, despite having never even met their half-sister. I don’t know what they said, but the workers that showed up were very aggressive and dismissive, criticizing my home and even my attire. They determined that my home was not safe for an infant and removed her from my custody – and they placed her with my oldest ED! hoarder house?
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# ? Dec 10, 2019 21:24 |
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Based on the last poster’s CPS-involvement, weight, and age, there’s no way that house can’t be described as having a smell to it. I have seen the type. I’ve been on-site w a coworker where the client had a “bad back” and 2 cats. So the whole house reeked of cat poo poo and piss. This coworker had been USMC and went into Fallujah (I think it was Fallujah.) to recover those contractors’ bodies. He’d seen some poo poo in his life is what I’m getting at. When we got back in the car he raised his voice and stated “that was the grossest loving place I’ve been in.” That’s the memory that comes to mind reading this woman’s diatribe. A baby at 55. GTFO. You’d have to be 73 to see them graduate high school. Insane.
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# ? Dec 10, 2019 21:32 |
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That woman definitely cut that baby out of a pregnant woman in a best buy parking lot.
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# ? Dec 10, 2019 21:53 |
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It's extremely hard to believe she got pregnant at 55, it's also extremely hard to believe CPS took her child away as they really hate taking kids. It's much more believable to me that she is a crazy person and had imagined this entire thing.
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Natural pregnancy over 50 is *extremely* rare, to the point that a case would result in a news story or at the very least be written up in medical texts. Wikipedia has all of three cases of natural pregnancy in 55 year old women, two of them from the 1930s. This lady is Full Of poo poo or straight up doesn't exist and is a creative writing exercise.
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# ? Dec 11, 2019 00:28 |
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Royal W posted:I mean, with a name like Danger Mouse, you're really taking your life in your hands anyway.
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# ? Dec 11, 2019 00:31 |
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SpaceViking posted:That woman definitely cut that baby out of a pregnant woman in a best buy parking lot. Don't be such a pessimist! I'm sure she just bought a baby from some junkie like a normal human being.
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# ? Dec 11, 2019 00:31 |
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trickybiscuits posted:Issendai.com suggested that this is the parents thinking about how wonderful things were before their children hit about 6 or 8 years old- old enough to have their own ideas and preferences and to say no and stand up to their parents. Check the last paragraph quote:It has been three years since the cut off, and for a while I did think of ending my life. But I know that would only complicate things for my youngest even further, even if we never meet, as adopted children often have questions about their origins and whether they were wanted. If the story were true that would mean that in the first post the child was already at least 2 years old. She also talks about being in contact with the oldest "yesterday" but in the second post the oldest is the one who took the baby 3 years ago. Troll or total break from reality?
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Facebook Aunt posted:Troll or total break from reality? The latter, imo. I don't think anyone would go that far for a frankly unamusing and bizarre troll that almost no one would see
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trickybiscuits posted:All the same poster. This woman sounds exactly like my mother, gently caress
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The part where she talks about having her kid taken away is way too sane. I would expect the whole diatribe to be about how her perfect angel got taken away from her and what that's doing to her. Though talking about being *blessed* with a child and then never changing that child's diapers or feeding or holding it right is on point.
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# ? Dec 11, 2019 00:50 |
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I mean. That there's some delusion going on is inevitable. But do you think there actually was a child? Is it her daughter's child that she's decided is actually hers or did she find a baby somewhere? This story is terrifying.
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# ? Dec 11, 2019 00:53 |
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"They are brainwashed by society I think, into being self absorbed, sefish and selfcentered beings without respect for their parents. They only see their point of view." "Prayers, and tread cautiously. I don’t know why our grown children turn against us, but it seems to be an epidemic. I blame society and yes, some of their friends. I don’t think it was anything you or your husband did. We raised a generation of spoiled, disrespectful children who don’t know how to love and have an unearned sense of entitlement. I would never have treated my parents this way. They cut us out of their lives and then feel proud of doing it." Must be anybody's fault but their own right? Can't be any other explanation for how their children seem to get along fine with pretty much everyone else but them. They really think their kids WANT to not like them don't they? Like holy poo poo I'd absolutely love it if I enjoyed talking to my mom or being around her because it'd make life that much less stressful. I envy people I've known who look forward to calling their mom every week to check in and talk about life. I could literally go months without talking to mine and I'd be okay with that. Conversely, she's tried calling me 6 out of 7 days this last week after I already answered a question she had via text about the holidays. Yes, I've seen the missed calls. No, you apparently don't care that I don't feel like talking right now. Ffs we talked like a week and a half ago. Grimdude fucked around with this message at 01:15 on Dec 11, 2019 |
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RoboRodent posted:I mean. That there's some delusion going on is inevitable. But do you think there actually was a child? Is it her daughter's child that she's decided is actually hers or did she find a baby somewhere?
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Grimdude posted:"They are brainwashed by society I think, into being self absorbed, sefish and selfcentered beings without respect for their parents. They only see their point of view." i love that this (presumably) boomer op accuses her millennial daughter of being 'selfish, entitled, self-centered'.
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Grimdude posted:Must be anybody's fault but their own right? Can't be any other explanation for how their children seem to get along fine with pretty much everyone else but them. They really think their kids WANT to not like them don't they? I can guarantee you there are people out there that sincerely believe this and think it's okay. quote:We raised a generation of spoiled, disrespectful children who don’t know how to love and have an unearned sense of entitlement. So maybe apologize for your failure rather than holding it against your victims, Janice.
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Hey, you like reading something that makes you want to bleed out your eyes? quote:Hello everyone! I need some advice on a general situation with my ex in-laws (for lack of a better term) and I want to know if I’m overreacting/ under reacting/ what is best for my children and all parties involved. quote:Her whole family calls my son “baby (name)” which was his dads name. And my son just doesn’t really like it quote:Last year she said she wanted to do “their Christmas” and asked if he could sleep over the week before Christmas so he could do Christmas with them. I said okay, but then when they picked him up my husband said, “he’s not opening presents and having Santa go there right?” So I called her and told her I don’t want him opening presents, because it was before our own Christmas and we didn’t have a lot of money that year so we didn’t go overboard like they do. They usually go crazy and he comes home with like 20 presents from their whole family. quote:I would say my son loves them and overall does like spending time with them. It’s not like he dreads going over there. quote:She enabled her son till his death. She would give him money, bail him out, let her stay with him, all sorts of enabling behavior. I actually worked with her when I met her son, and when I would break up with him (for relapsing) she would give me letters from him, tell him things about me, etc. I always told her she was going to “love him to death” and that’s exactly what she did quote:I have talked with a therapist about how to set healthy boundaries with her and how to say no. I’ve also talked with family counselors and they have even spoken directly with her about certain aspects such as gluten free diets that we were trying to implement to help with my sons terrible stomach issues. I had to have the family counselor sit all the grandparents down and say “look- DS needs this diet and there are no exceptions”. If you can believe it, certain things have actually gotten better over the past few years, but the babying and pushing for more time with him has gotten worse now that he’s older. quote:Also, you are right about every time I have tried to cut back contact she has gotten more possessive over her time with him. She will drop him off later than expected, pout and make sad faces when dropping him off, telling me “he was *almost in tears* and he told me I can never sleep at your house again Nana!” (Even though I asked him and he told her his parents told him when school starts there will be no more sleepovers). So there is definitely guilt trips and she always loves to tell me “how close Jeremy (Bio-dad) was with his grandma- how they were best friends and he saw her all the time!” She says that’s the kind of relationship she wants with her grandchild. quote:If I did that I 100% think she would open a GPR case against me, and assume my husband has become soo controlling that he forced me to block her. quote:I did show him (husband) some comments and he said “if your not going to listen to me, then please listen to these women who have been through similar situations who know what their talking about” quote:My husband and I always discuss everything 50/50. This particular situation is a work in progress, but he understands that. He is not going to leave me over this! We are very happy! And usually communicate really well. This situation is complicated because my son was staying over their house every Sunday before I met my husband. That was fine with me because my son was almost a year old and it worked, and I appreciated it because those were my date nights. After we began to get more serious and got married, my sons grandparents slowly wanted more time and it has been slowly morphing into something I haven’t realized until this past weekend when I saw how much they baby him and how uncomfortable he was. He has always loved going over there and I had never questioned it being unhealthy for him. Were there red flags? Yes. Did they overstep boundaries? Yes. But I would never just purposely allow my son to be uncomfortable and I don’t believe I have failed him. I have realized many things in this post and I am going to change. quote:My husband would like us all to go get dinner with them once a month as a family. And as far as all the bullshit they say, it used to affect him but he says now he’s just over it and that he will always be the bad guy in their eyes. No matter what he says or does. quote:You guys are acting like I’m sending my son off with someone who is is an abusive, alcoholic, crazy person! I know her. She is smothering and has high anxiety. She should go to grief counseling as well. As should I go to therapy. But for you guys to say I’m not taking any advice is just not true! To go from him going with them every Wednesday and seeing them every few weekends, and a couple sleepovers every few months- to only seeing them once a month for a few hours to go to the park is absolutely making big changes!! I said I will allow him to go with them on Wednesday’s after I have a talk with her. I have a 7 month old baby, am running my own business from home, and am going back to school to get my masters! I don’t have time to go with them for a couple of hours just to watch them play if I don’t have to. She keeps him safe while they are out. I trust he will be kept safe. And when I have asked him flat out if he wants to continue going with them he said “yes, but maybe not every Wednesday.” After 36 pages of discussion: quote:Guys she just texted me saying she set up an appointment for pictures for him at Jc Penny next week.... so she would really like to get him. I feel sick I am so angry. That is completely unnecessary! Especially since I just told her on Saturday that I wanted to get professional pics done with both of my kids because I tried for Christmas pics and failed. What do I say back? I’m really struggling here. I would always just say okay but I really want to say no. Who does that?? quote:You guys are all so right about everything how I put my DH last. He just said the same thing how he’s felt like his voice was never heard about this situation but said he’s not going to let her do this. He said “look at yourself, you’re pacing the whole house about to cry over a situation that should just be a simple text and done!” It shouldn’t be this hard! quote:She just called me and I answered and fell for her guilt trip. She acted like she didn’t see the text I sent her asking why she would make a photography appointment without asking me and she started sending me pictures of the outfit she got him and how excited she was, and I literally was silent. Like a loving idiot. I had no words. So now my husbands upset and left the house and I’m just so mad at myself. quote:I’m writing a letter with all the talking points I want to say to her and what I need in the future. That way I’m not taken off guard and forget important details when she inevitably calls me a few times after I text her about no more Wednesday’s and no pictures. I’m rereading all of your guys comments to remind myself of important things that need to happen. Then I’ll either take a picture and send it to her or tell it to her. She really needs to be put in her place and remember who mom is. My husband and I just had a long talk and it really sank in how much damage is being done not only to him but our kids. He said he is not saying these things for himself but for the kids sake. It just hit me like, “what the gently caress am I doing?” So many of your comments make so much sense as far as why I am more worried about what she thinks of me then my own husband. And none of this is good for my son. To take a picture with his grandparents at a studio like their some happy family that she can send all of her friends and say “look how amazing of a nana I am!” Makes me sick. The next day: quote:“Hey Ex MIL, after hanging up the phone with you earlier I decided I’m really not comfortable with Son taking Christmas photos with you. We are actually planning on going next week sometime to get pics of him and Daughter, and will send those to you when we get them back also, Husband and I discussed this every Wednesday picking up schedule and it’s become a lot. Right now we’re just going to focus on hanging out as a family and taking a break from all the craziness lol. I will let you know when a good time for all of us to maybe go get dinner is. But until then, I would appreciate some space. Love you and hope you guys have a great Christmas!!”
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# ? Dec 12, 2019 23:33 |
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There really is no such thing as free babysitting
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Follow-up: quote:I just asked my son if they go in the bathroom with him while he’s over there and he said yes. So I told him not to ever let anyone in the bathroom with him and he should let them know he’s a big boy and can go alone. He responds “nana said we’re family so it’s okay” quote:Sigh.... she called 3 times and then texted me asking to call her when I’m free. I never called or texted back and she asked if everything’s okay.
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# ? Dec 13, 2019 03:54 |
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Recently i posted a big rant on Twitter about my narcissistic mother and, like clockwork, some estranged boomer that i didn't know in the slightest responded:
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# ? Dec 15, 2019 03:09 |
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Utterly perfect. It doesn't matter what she did. It doesn't matter what she said. You're wrong because of how she feels. Expressed by a person who has never met your mother.
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# ? Dec 15, 2019 04:59 |
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It's nice when narcissists self-identify
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# ? Dec 15, 2019 05:42 |
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Wow When you not only see Karma but get to deliver it posted:Daughter-in-law’s mother decided to approach us while drunk….. She crashed a celebratory event we were having for my son and DIL on a big step in their lives…… seems that she always wants to ruin big life events for them and boy did she deliver on this one.
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# ? Dec 18, 2019 23:25 |
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lol look at this manipulative bullshit:
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 08:37 |
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That child barely looks old enough to understand object permanence...
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 16:57 |
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Lamebot posted:lol look at this manipulative bullshit: Absolutely doesn't make a person look weird when they unironically post this abomination. A naked, crying child (and, y'know, a real human being that exists somewhere) telling the entire world how sorry they should be feeling for you is a very good look and is sure to make everything less weird and tense. Maybe I've just seen too many versions of it but the only feeling this elicits in me is revulsion.
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 17:21 |
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Honestly that picture gives me some serious uncanny valley vibes.
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 17:26 |
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Lamebot posted:lol look at this manipulative bullshit: That is some TOP-TIER crying white child. Edit: ^^ For sure. At the very least, it’s manipulated like crazy. She looks like a doll with plastic tears on her face.
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 17:27 |
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Please, Mommy and Daddy, Google flat Earth
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 17:28 |
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Lamebot posted:lol look at this manipulative bullshit: Phone posting, so I'm seeing this on a small screen, but this looks like it's photoshopped with the same techniques used to make ad models look horny. It makes sense, since these types of grandparents fetishise their grandkids more than they love them.
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 17:30 |
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That's the look of a child who's devastated that you didn't invest in Eastern Poland
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Clitch posted:Phone posting, so I'm seeing this on a small screen, but this looks like it's photoshopped with the same techniques used to make ad models look horny. It makes sense, since these types of grandparents fetishise their grandkids more than they love them. Child pageantry photos. Like, if you don't have your kid's photos photoshopped correctly you lose points.
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Lamebot posted:lol look at this manipulative bullshit: As someone who hosted a sleepover for several nieces and nephews this weekend, let me fill you in on some other things that can elicit a 4 or 5 year old tearing off an article of clothing and full on blubber crying: Their gummies having too many green ones. Not getting to sleep in the dog crate. Getting to sleep in the dog crate. A cousin eating their 3 hour old chicken nugget. Not getting to drink out of the dog water bowl. Their brother not sharing the controller. Getting the controller and not knowing how to play Untitled Goose Game. Missing their mom. Their mom showing up to take them home. Exaggerated pretending to stub their toe for attention after their sister walked into a doorway cuz she was staring at her tablet. The dog looked at them funny. Apparently ripping off your socks/shirt/pants shows that they're really sad and mean it this time, and after not going to be fine in about 1.5 minutes. This is not true. Most people with a kid are going to see that and immediately assume the real cause was "ran out of goldfish crackers" or "the sun went down".
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Relentless posted:As someone who hosted a sleepover for several nieces and nephews this weekend, let me fill you in on some other things that can elicit a 4 or 5 year old tearing off an article of clothing and full on blubber crying: When I was that age I'd cry when Mr. Rogers was over. Every day. For months. Still stand by it tho. Your day is only gonna get worse once Mr. Rogers is over.
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# ? Dec 23, 2019 19:24 |
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It's from a series of photos by Jill Greenberg called End Timesquote:Greenberg's End Times, a series of photographs featuring toddlers, was the subject of controversy in 2006 (April 22 – July 8). The work featured stylized hyper-real closeups of children's faces contorted by various emotional distresses. The pieces were titled to reflect Greenberg's frustration with both the Bush administration and Christian Fundamentalism in the United States.
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hyperhazard posted:It's from a series of photos by Jill Greenberg called End Times "Bush? Why's everything got to be political these days, I just want to use her silly pictures to get my ungrateful son and his monster wife to let me see my grandchild, as is my right as an American..."
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