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Smirking_Serpent posted:I (20f) have a really weird problem where I can’t call my boyfriend (21m) by his name. My husband and I are kind of like this. We mostly call each other by our last name or "baby". I do call him by his name sometimes but it's weird as hell when he calls me by mine. I wouldn't care if he started doing it but it would take a bit to get used to.
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How the hell does one meet and date someone without calling them their first name
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May 27, 2020 01:32
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I don't like when anyone says my name, unless it's necessary. Sometimes you'll be talking just one-on-one with someone and they'll keep saying your name, not like to stress or highlight something, just something they include in normal conversation. Feels weird, no need to identify me or specify you're speaking to me, I can figure that much out from the way that we are having a conversation already.
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May 27, 2020 01:33
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therobit posted:The twist is going to be that it actually is the SIL's kid, and OP has concocted a different reality where she believes it's her and her husband's child. Or the husband is in on it and had a baby with OP specifically to steal it for his sister.
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May 27, 2020 01:34
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CharlestheHammer posted:I mean yeah seeing a person get what is essentially a free pass while you had to struggle is a major source of resentment. This is fairly common among humans Except the "free pass" is her parents paid for her college. That's it. All the other stuff is jealously and anger that someone else is successful in life. The OP shits all over the work promotion by calling her a mediocre employee only getting the job because companies promoting internally don't care about work quality I guess? Julie is happily married? It's bullshit because she was a whore with a reputation and found a guy desperate enough to marry her Julie has 2 kids? It's bullshit because she didn't have any fertility problems or traumatic medical issues while pregnant Julie got a promotion? It's bullshit because she's probably a lovely employee who just got lucky because her boss likes her OP is a toxic fuckbag and probably the source of a lot of her own problems if that's her mentality to other people's success. pentyne fucked around with this message at 01:46 on May 27, 2020 |
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May 27, 2020 01:40
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AITA For not apologizing to my roommate after she walked in on me masturbating?quote:I know the title sounds weird but it is pretty drat literal.
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May 27, 2020 01:40
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Khanstant posted:I don't like when anyone says my name, unless it's necessary. Sometimes you'll be talking just one-on-one with someone and they'll keep saying your name, not like to stress or highlight something, just something they include in normal conversation. Feels weird, no need to identify me or specify you're speaking to me, I can figure that much out from the way that we are having a conversation already. me either, because when I was growing up being called by my name meant that I was in some sort of poo poo. and I do the same when I'm involved with people too. which I guess is a little screwed up but there ya go.
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May 27, 2020 01:42
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA For not apologizing to my roommate after she walked in on me masturbating? For some reason I read "masturbating" as "menstruating" in the title and got very confused when the OP said he was 23M.
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May 27, 2020 01:46
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Khanstant posted:I don't like when anyone says my name, unless it's necessary. Sometimes you'll be talking just one-on-one with someone and they'll keep saying your name, not like to stress or highlight something, just something they include in normal conversation. Feels weird, no need to identify me or specify you're speaking to me, I can figure that much out from the way that we are having a conversation already. I do this as a crutch to help me associate you with your name. Sorry in advance, Khanstant.
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May 27, 2020 01:46
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pentyne posted:Except the "free pass" is her parents paid for her college. That's it. Doesn’t matter if it’s valid or not it’s fairly common.
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May 27, 2020 01:46
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA For not apologizing to my roommate after she walked in on me masturbating? lmao she wants you to apologize for scaring her with your huge hog. Do it. In front of her boyfriend.
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May 27, 2020 01:49
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CharlestheHammer posted:Doesn’t matter if it’s valid or not it’s fairly common. "Free pass" is something like getting hired by a family friend and given a higher salary. All of the things the OP hated were all things she felt Julie didn't deserve, like a happy marriage, kids, and a work promotion, all of which only the work thing could possibly be unearned. The rest is just the rantings of an angry and broken human being.
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May 27, 2020 01:50
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pentyne posted:"Free pass" is something like getting hired by a family friend and given a higher salary. All of the things the OP hated were all things she felt Julie didn't deserve, like a happy marriage, kids, and a work promotion, all of which only the work thing could possibly be unearned. Ignoring the overly strict definition of free pass like I said doesn’t matter
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May 27, 2020 01:55
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CharlestheHammer posted:I mean yeah seeing a person get what is essentially a free pass while you had to struggle is a major source of resentment. This is fairly common among humans Okay cool. So should I also be valuing my friendships primarily based on how many sexual partners someone had in high school? I evidently don't have a lot of experience with humans.
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May 27, 2020 01:56
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fight fight fight
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May 27, 2020 01:58
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Droyer posted:For some reason I read "masturbating" as "menstruating" in the title and got very confused when the OP said he was 23M. men can menstruate if they want and it's misandry to imply otherwise.
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May 27, 2020 01:59
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:Okay cool. So should I also be valuing my friendships primarily based on how many sexual partners someone had in high school? I evidently don't have a lot of experience with humans. I feel like you should get friends first. Don’t put the cart before the horse here
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May 27, 2020 02:00
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I find that people who don't think they have a role in their own life outcomes tend to be the same people who describe everything in life as "happening to" them rather than what they did or how they reacted to a situation to influence the outcome, and coincidentally they also tend to be the same people who complain about how unfair life is and how people who enjoy success are just lucky.
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May 27, 2020 02:09
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defensive computer touchers ahoy
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May 27, 2020 02:11
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CharlestheHammer posted:Doesn’t matter if it’s valid or not it’s fairly common. First off, it's not that common. There are people who are able to feel happiness for their friends' successes without immediately grousing about their own circumstances (for example, all of the other people in that conversation, who the OP claims are also less fortunate, but were all at least able to keep a lid on their jealousy). More to the point, though, "Doesn't matter if its valid or not" -- wtf? It doesn't matter if her friend is being self centred and immature by immediately thinking of herself when Julie tells her something good that happened to her, it's still wrong of Julie do to it?
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May 27, 2020 02:17
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SoftNum posted:I do this as a crutch to help me associate you with your name. Sorry in advance, Khanstant. you know that makes sense when you're talking to someone "new," i'm really terrible at names. i've worked closely with people for months without remembering their names. i worked in a restaurant once for like half a year and only on my last few days learned someone's real name, i just called them by what their ticket said and that was a joke name a manager set before my time there i wonder how many people i've blown off as friends because they weirded me out with their attempts to be dutiful name-rememberers
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May 27, 2020 02:18
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therobit posted:I find that people who don't think they have a role in their own life outcomes tend to be the same people who describe everything in life as "happening to" them rather than what they did or how they reacted to a situation to influence the outcome, and coincidentally they also tend to be the same people who complain about how unfair life is and how people who enjoy success are just lucky. Moreso that anyone who makes a statement like this quote:Despite how she acted in high school and college and the reputation she developed, she still found someone who was willing to marry her. is not just some normal human resentment its being a toxic piece of poo poo. It's a step from away from how mra's and incels talk about women, only in this case its why does that dumb whore get to have a husband when I can't? Like she's owed a happy marriage by the world for her life choices.
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May 27, 2020 02:22
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CharlestheHammer posted:I feel like you should get friends first. Don’t put the cart before the horse here Oh, I have plenty of friends, but they're apparently not human because I and they are happy when one of them succeeds, regardless of our personal circumstances. Sometimes we even get together to celebrate.
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May 27, 2020 02:30
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Lots of people telling on themselves in resentchat
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May 27, 2020 02:34
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pentyne posted:is not just some normal human resentment its being a toxic piece of poo poo. I know htis is probably just some slut shaming piece of poo poo but I tried to come up with alternates like "wanted to talk about pie a little to much" or "posted on somethingawful"
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May 27, 2020 02:36
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SoftNum posted:I know htis is probably just some slut shaming piece of poo poo but I tried to come up with alternates like "wanted to talk about pie a little to much" or "posted on somethingawful" Of course if you're a SA forums legacy you're guaranteed admission so it's not like you have to work for it.
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May 27, 2020 02:39
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SoftNum posted:Like I know this is a minor nitpick but how much time do people realistically think you can spend applying to jobs? ESPECIALLY now, but even 6 months ago showing up in person doesn't give you poo poo, and so you spend a couple hours once a week blasting out resumes and waiting for a response. It's mentally exhausting too. I keep at it, I've got to, but since every system wants me to fill out their form I can't just attach a resume and need to keep spelling out exactly how little I have to offer. Covid's been a relief in that respect because when people don't respond I can pretend it's not my fault.
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May 27, 2020 02:44
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hawowanlawow posted:maybe he has a really hairy rear end, like cleaning peanut butter out of shag carpet quote:also, yeah it's pretty much guaranteed that if a vet bill is $1k+ it's better to just put the pet down HMS Beagle posted:I don't know if you can microchip a baby like you can a pet but this lady needs to look into it.
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May 27, 2020 02:44
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I (25F) laughed at my BF’s (23M) fetish how do I make it right? Me and my bf have been dating for a year now, we tried to spice it up by adding our kinks to the bedroom. For me it was BDSM and he was very willing to try it and listen to what I liked and didn’t like. So it makes it all the worse that I laughed at him not once but twice. After a week or two of asking him what his kink was he finally shared it with me. He’s into giantesses and being tiny. Like super tiny. I laughed like, barrel chest laughed the first time. He got red and left the room. The next day I tried to make it up to him by trying to play with his fetish, but I couldn’t help it and laughed and made a comment about how silly it was. How do I make it up to him because he’s otherwise a terrific guy and I don’t want him to break up with me because he feels insecure about it but I also feel like it’s just a matter of time until I get the “we need to talk” text TLDR: see title If this isn’t the right subreddit lmk which one is
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May 27, 2020 03:06
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LadyPictureShow posted:I (26F) had my BF’s (32M) baby. Husband (26M) was involved. Bf’s Gf(28F) was not involved. I feel bad for any kids born to these dumbass parents.
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May 27, 2020 03:06
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Mustang posted:I feel bad for any kids born to these dumbass parents. quote:I 100% did not think this through. He says he wants to but can’t. I don’t believe he wants to in the way he says. I tried being her friend in hopes that we could make it all work, and so I could get a better idea of what I was actually dealing with. These are all questions I need help with. Idk what I’m doing. You don't say...
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May 27, 2020 03:11
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I (25F) laughed at my BF’s (23M) fetish how do I make it right? Well I mean if you didn't laugh in his face twice maybe it could work but lol RIP lady.
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May 27, 2020 03:22
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Invisible Clergy posted:Healthcare for animals should be free. I'll pay more taxes so people don't have to do this kind of calculus. Honestly I think we should probably focus on free healthcare for humans until all of us are covered, and then feed and house everyone before working on affordable healthcare for fluffy.
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May 27, 2020 03:33
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I (25F) laughed at my BF’s (23M) fetish how do I make it right? I mean I'd laugh too but she's got a lot nerve doing so after starting up kink chicken
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May 27, 2020 03:33
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I (25F) laughed at my BF’s (23M) fetish how do I make it right? Beachcomber posted:More content like this please. It's pleasantly pedestrian, like a warm pair of mittens. TIFU by shattering my son's belief in the tooth fairy. quote:nsfw
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May 27, 2020 03:33
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Invisible Clergy posted:
gently caress that pets are incredibly stupid as a concept
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May 27, 2020 03:33
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therobit posted:Honestly I think we should probably focus on free healthcare for humans until all of us are covered, and then feed and house everyone before working on affordable healthcare for fluffy. TIFU by writing my birth date wrong in a job application quote:2020 is a bitch. The pandemic started and people lost their jobs. I am one of those unfortunates who lost their job in the blink of an eye. Ever since I’ve been looking for a job with no luck. But today I came across one that actually is perfect for me. Finally, a job where my qualification and experience match and something I am passionate about. Invisible Clergy fucked around with this message at 03:49 on May 27, 2020 |
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May 27, 2020 03:40
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Sjs00 posted:gently caress that pets are incredibly stupid as a concept "Pets"? You mean animal slaves, right?
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May 27, 2020 03:41
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therobit posted:Honestly I think we should probably focus on free healthcare for humans until all of us are covered, and then feed and house everyone before working on affordable healthcare for fluffy. It's probably easier to do it the other way around though. People care about cute animals in a way they don't care about other humans, and once we've got universal petcare established we can use it as a lever to get universal care for humans.
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Chocobo posted:"Pets"? You mean animal slaves, right? If anything we're slaves to pets. E yeah I am insanely jealous of my Uncle's dog and how easy it's life is whatever
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