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Question in the title. Have you ever cheated on an S.O.?
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Sep 20, 2020 08:27
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No, but I've had two long-term partners cheat on me. I've had 3 women cheat on their partners with me before later telling me that that had been what they were doing and were just using me, too. So yeah I have some rad conversations with my therapist now.
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Sep 20, 2020 08:34
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Nope. I've done lots of other bad things but I haven't cheated.
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Sep 20, 2020 08:40
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Haha as if there was more than one person in the world willing to sleep with me
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Sep 20, 2020 08:44
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Nope and anyone that does it is a huge pile of poo poo. I don't think there is anything you can do worse to someone. Just break up with them you piece of poo poo?
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Sep 20, 2020 08:49
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Not really but I guess that depends I was talking to other women when I knew I was going be breaking up with someone but the living or work circumstances timing wasn't very good, but it was never ever not the right decision because each time I got rid of a crazy and got together with a normie. A bit like being Mario and hopping off of one of those falling platforms that drops if you're on it too long and getting onto solid ground.
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Sep 20, 2020 08:49
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Wendigee posted:Just break up with them you piece of poo poo? Yeah so my wife left me over 2 years ago and has since disappeared. She didn't "break up" with me per se but just kind of went away suddenly. Don't know where she lives, what she's doing, how she is, if she's with another dude, why basic life tasks are now impossible for her, etc. I've tried to contact her about getting a divorce but it seems she has built a new life elsewhere from what I've been told and won't communicate anymore. So, yes, just break up with me and divorce me already. It has been 2 years and where the gently caress ARE you??? My therapist and I have fun conversations.
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Sep 20, 2020 08:56
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No, op. You may add that to the spreadsheet.
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Sep 20, 2020 09:04
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Similar to a poster above, an ex girlfriend of mine was cheating on her long term girlfriend with me. And I didn't know about it, (or even that she was bi), for the longest time. We are no longer together, and she eventually grew a pair and left her girlfriend. Last I heard she was happy, and had moved back to Newcastle with her new partner.
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Sep 20, 2020 09:10
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we just have threesomes, being gay owns
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Sep 20, 2020 09:21
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idkfa
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Sep 20, 2020 09:21
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I cheated... at video games! Up up down down etc.
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Sep 20, 2020 10:02
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Jesus would say so but not like really
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Sep 20, 2020 11:18
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- hi
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I would do anything for love, but I won’t do that. No, I won’t do that.
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Sep 20, 2020 11:30
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I have sex with everyone at all times I found a loophole
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Sep 20, 2020 11:32
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I've cheated in Star Ocean 2.
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Sep 20, 2020 12:20
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No, not only is it extremely Haram, it's also a lovely thing to do.
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Sep 20, 2020 12:22
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OP cheated on me with myself.
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Sep 20, 2020 12:24
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Wendigee posted:Nope and anyone that does it is a huge pile of poo poo.  It's real lovely thing to do OP
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Sep 20, 2020 12:26
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I've been cheated on to an absurd degree and in such extreme and insulting ways that any time I have described my experiences online people assume I am either an incel writing woman hate bait or a cuck fetishist writing out their fantasies, rather than my equally pathetic but more truthful brand of broken internet person. As for cheating myself, I barely have the time or energy for even one relationship let alone trying to pull off multiple, and also as the getting cheated on to the extreme part would suggest am too much of a loser to even be presented with—let alone succumb to—such temptations.
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Sep 20, 2020 12:29
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Catastrophe posted:Yeah so my wife left me over 2 years ago and has since disappeared. She didn't "break up" with me per se but just kind of went away suddenly. Don't know where she lives, what she's doing, how she is, if she's with another dude, why basic life tasks are now impossible for her, etc. I've tried to contact her about getting a divorce but it seems she has built a new life elsewhere from what I've been told and won't communicate anymore. it honestly seems people have sex with you, just to get you to shut the gently caress up good strategy
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Sep 20, 2020 12:45
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Idk might be just easier to walk out of the room? Will save you a few minutes.
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Sep 20, 2020 12:46
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Only in persona 5. Totally worth it.
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Sep 20, 2020 13:05
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I used to be a serial cheater because I was broken inside and still obsessed with my first love. Once I truly resolved that bullshit (and we're still friends; I was broken, she wasn't), I was MUCH healthier in relationships. Been married 7 years now, haven't cheated or even thought about it. Edit: and yes, I completely agree with the fact that I was a piece of poo poo. I also truly believe that people can change because I know I have.
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Sep 20, 2020 13:13
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I had this one boyfriend where we just cheated on each other nonstop. The relationship lasted 2 years. Then like a year after we broke up for good I helped his gf cheat on him with me. Then we all did a threesome. That was like 15 years ago though. Now we are all with different people and are on friendly terms. I have not cheated on anyone since that relationship.
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Sep 20, 2020 13:21
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No I haven't, have some god drat self respect and also respect for your SO you fuckin animal 
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Sep 20, 2020 13:28
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With this said I am also a 46 year old virgin and my SO is an anime doll,
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Sep 20, 2020 13:29
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It's pretty easy to not cheat when women aren't interested in you. Pro-tip.
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Sep 20, 2020 13:35
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Colonel Cancer posted:Idk might be just easier to walk out of the room? Will save you a few minutes. that only works in theory, in practice they just follow you around and be annoying in other rooms as well
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Sep 20, 2020 13:42
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Collapsing Farts posted:It's pretty easy to not cheat when women aren't interested in you. Pro-tip. That's cheating!
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Sep 20, 2020 13:43
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Nope, never!
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Sep 20, 2020 13:44
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I honked a different ladies boob once does that count?
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Sep 20, 2020 13:49
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I cheated on all of my girlfriends when I was younger. I wasn’t a good boyfriend. I haven’t cheated on my wife at any stage of our relationship and avoid the activities that led to my past cheating. My wife was pretty disgusted when I told her I’d cheated in the past though
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Sep 20, 2020 13:56
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Who What Now posted:I honked a different ladies boob once does that count? no your mom doesn't count
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Sep 20, 2020 14:40
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Whew!
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Sep 20, 2020 14:55
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yes i've cheated on two girls i was dating and also i have a secret therapist that my main therapist doesn't know about.
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Sep 20, 2020 15:06
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The connections I have made with people are what I am going to remember as what was most important to me at the end of my life. The way I see it, people change people. I have never cheated. If I decide to be with someone monogamously, it is because I love them, and I would hope my relationship with them changes them in a positive way. I believe in love, and if you love someone and are monogamous with them, you have an emotional responsibility to that person. Because I love that person, I would want both of us to grow together and become better people together. So I would never want to do anything to them that would scar and/or hurt them emotionally...I would never do anything that would change them in a negative way.
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Sep 20, 2020 15:39
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Never once, OP. But it seems normalized, and about 'living your best life'. It sucks, I guess, but society says otherwise. It's upsetting and I won't participate.
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Sep 20, 2020 15:52
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hell astro course posted:Never once, OP. But it seems normalized, and about 'living your best life'. It sucks, I guess, but society says otherwise. It's upsetting and I won't participate. It is normalized! That is such a good point. I think some people have a very skewed understanding of "love" these days.
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Sep 20, 2020 16:01
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Hell Yeah posted:yes i've cheated on two girls i was dating and also i have a secret therapist that my main therapist doesn't know about. drat, that part with a secret therapist is actually good
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Sep 20, 2020 16:20
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