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OwlFancier posted:Is there a large constituency for "I just want to gently caress children, I haven't actually done it" ? There are people that are that and want to get help for it These people are not that
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ultrafilter posted:I'm really impressed with how quickly the whole thing is falling apart. The whole internet loves NFT, a lovely blockchain that burns rain forests *five seconds later* We regret to inform you that NFT is bad actually
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Mar 15, 2021 16:18
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CharlestheHammer posted:There are people that are that and want to get help for it
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Mar 15, 2021 16:28
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https://twitter.com/intrnetdaughter/status/1371210405838733314 
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Mar 15, 2021 16:40
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Eet eez non deefficeault zu leauearn Frauncheux, heuoneestleux!
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Mar 15, 2021 16:47
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One kwassoint please
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Mar 15, 2021 16:50
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Lol someone in the replies made fun of French for nouns having gender and a French person got real mad about it. Granted they were right about English having no consistent pronunciation but I thought it was funny they literally went “you DARE complain about gendered nouns?”
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Mar 15, 2021 16:55
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The real crime isn't having gendered nouns, it's how there's no consistency between languages whatsoever (since gender is arbitrary). The gender of German and French nouns is often flipped entirely.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:02
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ultrafilter posted:I'm really impressed with how quickly the whole thing is falling apart. Same, I was expecting to have to wait at least a few months lol
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Mar 15, 2021 17:03
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I really hope this makes most people stop buying NFT, but I know they'll just move to something equally as stupid and environmentally destructive.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:05
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I just assume it’s based on whatever the old dude codifying the language was trying to gently caress at the time, hence une voiture
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Mar 15, 2021 17:06
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They're doing it wrong, refuse to learn French and then you won't have to deal with Parisians.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:07
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EL BROMANCE posted:They're doing it wrong, refuse to learn French and then you won't have to deal with Parisians. Yes, but then: https://twitter.com/intrnetdaughter/status/1371213512907878401 It sounds like she doesn't really want to live in France at all.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:13
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Turns out you need to learn the local language if you go to a different country or getting a job and finding housing is going to be difficult. And if you want to live in the expensive parts of a country it's going to be harder. Huh.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:16
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OwlFancier posted:Is there a large constituency for "I just want to gently caress children, I haven't actually done it" ? Yes, the majority of pedophiles know acting on the impulse would be terrible and so they don't do it, instead indulging in it through media and roleplaying with other adults. As much as it sucks, it's likely that sexual attraction to prepubescents is a hardcoded sexuality the way hetero and homosexuality are, in which case the proshippers have a point that having that sort of content serves a social good, providing an outlet for desires that cannot be actually realized. But thats one part of what would be a complex argument even for reasonable adults. In fandom it's a loving nightmare sucking in a whole whole host of toxic behaviors that have been normalized in that space. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST) (USER WAS PERMABANNED FOR THIS POST)
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Mar 15, 2021 17:26
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there wolf posted:As much as it sucks, it's likely that sexual attraction to prepubescents is a hardcoded sexuality the way hetero and homosexuality are citation needed
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Mar 15, 2021 17:36
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Also a bit odd given that I specifically don't experience sexuality as being hardcoded.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:37
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there wolf posted:Yes, the majority of pedophiles know acting on the impulse would be terrible and so they don't do it, instead indulging in it through media and roleplaying with other adults. As much as it sucks, it's likely that sexual attraction to prepubescents is a hardcoded sexuality the way hetero and homosexuality are, in which case the proshippers have a point that having that sort of content serves a social good, providing an outlet for desires that cannot be actually realized. If looking at porn prevented rape, there would be no such thing as rape. Based on literally all human experience throughout the entirety of history, we already know this is false.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:48
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GreenMetalSun posted:If looking at porn prevented rape, there would be no such thing as rape. I don't think just indulging your fantasies without seeking out other help is going to be the thing that stops you, but I don't know if there's a safe amount of fantasizing in conjunction with therapy that can help. I also know people who were molested as kids that have found, at their therapist's suggestion, that indulging in certain fictional scenarios help them obtain emotional catharsis. Other people who have been through similar things would only be harmed by trying to do the same thing, because people aren't all the same. As a survivor of CSA, this is an issue I take extremely seriously.
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Mar 15, 2021 17:54
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christmas boots posted:I just assume it’s based on whatever the old dude codifying the language was trying to gently caress at the time, hence une voiture Worse, it's because linguists arbitrarily decided to call that particular grammatical feature "gender" when it's not actually all that connected to it, especially in languages with more than two. See: Der Mann, das Frau, das Mädchen, die Wolke (male man, neuter woman, neuter girl, female cloud)
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Mar 15, 2021 18:01
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1stGear posted:citation needed I can't imagine funding for this type of study is easy to come by. Or groups that are looking to do genuinely unbiased research.
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Mar 15, 2021 18:03
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OwlFancier posted:Also a bit odd given that I specifically don't experience sexuality as being hardcoded. You mean you’re asexual or you chose your sexual orientation or it shifted over time on its own or what? Platystemon has a new favorite as of 18:32 on Mar 15, 2021 |
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Mar 15, 2021 18:04
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Anyway this probably isn't the thread to be doing a deep dive discussion on child molestation and pedophilia.
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Mar 15, 2021 18:07
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Platystemon posted:You mean you’re asexual of you chose your sexual orientation or it shifted over time on its own or what? It changed as I got older, not that I realised I had always had that attraction but that it literally didn't occur until my understanding of sex and gender changed with exposure to new ways of thinking about it. Seems more environmental to me, exposure to the right ideas changed it.
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EL BROMANCE posted:They're doing it wrong, refuse to learn French and then you won't have to deal with Parisians. Hon hon hon baguette omlette du fromage le petit chofleur
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Mar 15, 2021 18:12
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OwlFancier posted:It changed as I got older, not that I realised I had always had that attraction but that it literally didn't occur until my understanding of sex and gender changed with exposure to new ways of thinking about it. Seems more environmental to me, exposure to the right ideas changed it.
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Mar 15, 2021 18:12
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Kenning posted:Fanfiction should be illegal.
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Mar 15, 2021 18:29
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there wolf posted:Yes, the majority of pedophiles know acting on the impulse would be terrible and so they don't do it, instead indulging in it through media and roleplaying with other adults. As much as it sucks, it's likely that sexual attraction to prepubescents is a hardcoded sexuality the way hetero and homosexuality are, in which case the proshippers have a point that having that sort of content serves a social good, providing an outlet for desires that cannot be actually realized. Source your quote
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Mar 15, 2021 18:34
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https://twitter.com/Clayburn/status/1371268469145079809
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Mar 15, 2021 18:35
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Woozie66 posted:https://twitter.com/chaykak/status/1371433331762552832?s=19 reaping, sowing etc
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Mar 15, 2021 18:36
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As dumb as they managed to say this, it's not entirely wrong that racists can be in relationships with non-white people and still be racist. Like misogynists marry women all the time.
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Mar 15, 2021 18:39
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While that is phrased insanely bad, being romantically involved with people outside your race doesn't automatically make you not racist. Strom Thurmond had at least one child with an African-American woman. You think every Vietnam vet who married a Vietnamese woman was a paragon of anti-racist virtues? Sort of a twofer there, an idiot responding to another idiot.
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Mar 15, 2021 18:45
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Yeah that was the goofiest most awkward way to make a valid point (he doesnt magically become immune to accusations of racism because he has a BLACK WIFE)
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Mar 15, 2021 18:45
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Whatever their issues they still dont have to expose unwilling participants on twitter to their poo poo (then harass them for not liking it), gleefully attempt to associate lgbtq with it oldschool gay panic style(to own the antis), or write giant public callout posts on actual minors because their brains are too smooth to see the difference between a child liking a child character and an adult fetishizing child characters They should have the decency to be ashamed of it and shut up Their behavior is like running someone over in a golf cart then getting out to beat them with a club because they dared scratch the paint
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That whole thread is an ecosystem full of many different kinds of idiot https://twitter.com/RazerPi/status/1371467483127934976?s=20 https://twitter.com/RazerPi/status/1371470940459167744?s=20 Just the most basic loving people with the most tired rear end jokes/takes...boomer brain. https://twitter.com/coalminds/status/1371193839424212994?s=20
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Bismuth posted:Their behavior is like running someone over in a golf cart then getting out to beat them with a club because they dared scratch the paint That's how you play GTA, yes.
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The second most openly racist guy I knew (which is saying alot considering I grew up in Wyoming) was married to a black woman. There was tons of mutual domestic abuse going on in that relationship because they were out of their minds on drugs most of the time. I actually ended up at his house once and saw a conversation that started with 'I'm going to the store do you want anything?' quickly evolve into a two way screaming match while his kid hid behind the couch and watched me. Anyway aside from racist jokes he once told me that when New Year 2000 hit the race war was going to start and I better be ready to come with him when he knocked on my door. I told him I would be ready but it would be to shoot him. I don't think he thought I was serious but I was. If that rear end in a top hat would have shown up that's exactly what I would have done. I asked a few times what he was going to do about his children/wife during said war but he never answered me. I think he planned to hide them away he was very clear he loved his kids at least. BTW I worked graveyards with this guy so I was stuck being around him for 8 hours a day. 4 of those hours it was pretty much just us. I guess what I'm saying is I don't buy anyone isn't racist just because they're married to a black woman.
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Bismuth posted:twitter pedos trying to reinvent oldschool homophobia to own the non-pedos (sigh) Antis practice purity culture. They harass people. They pop into people's Tumblrs/AO3 comments/mentions to call them pedos and terrible people. Things people have been harassed by antis for: * Shipping characters who are of legal age but have a large age gap * Shipping characters who are high-schoolers, but aging them up in the fiction * Shipping characters that are canon abusive (Rey & Kylo in Star Wars being the commonest example) * Writing stories that contain sexual or physical abuse "because you're just glorifying it" * Writing YA fic about high-schoolers having sex (Welp, there went much/most of the (e: published) YA fic of the last decade) Antis have one reasonable cause that they use to camouflage many, many unreasonable causes. They're the Qanon of critics. I don't know anybody who's anti-anti who calls themselves "proship". That's like "pro-death" as a label. Arsenic Lupin has a new favorite as of 19:09 on Mar 15, 2021 |
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That's called the VHEMT and I think they're generally relatively cool.
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Darkhold posted:I guess what I'm saying is I don't buy anyone isn't racist just because they're married to a black woman. If anything it makes them feel comfortable ("how could I be racist?"  ) and once a white dude is too comfortable you've got some problems incoming.
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