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Before I begin I wanna be upfront here, I'm not here to debate anything about the way this business and its operations relate to Covid safety. And it's a place I'm no longer going to so I dunno. But hey if your only response is "lol they should be shut down regardless" then, you know, go hog wild. Partly venting here, but also this may be a space for interesting slash disturbing stories. I live near a college bar with a dancefloor that gets pretty crowded. I'm in my early 30s, and I understand that potentially makes me the "old creepy guy" in that environment, but I make serious efforts to just be a dude dancing and having fun, and if women want to talk to me they can. I'm sure someone can try to do a goon callout on me or something but you know, whatever. But as a result of being pretty extremely self-conscious in that kind of place, I tend to kind of notice everyone and keep an eye on things. And the last three times I went there there was this loving creepy as hell guy in a hoodie, hood up, along with his mask, making him so covered up that basically all you can see of him is an oval around the eyes. I would guess he is at least in his mid 40s or 50s. He basically spends the whole time lurking around the dancefloor, barely dancing, obviously just finding places to stand near young dancing ladies. These young people mostly don't seem to notice figures like that, but also I really wonder how much of it is women feeling like they're just not allowed to address that kind of thing. Apparently he noticed that I was looking at him suspiciously, and since witnesses might threaten his creepy behaviors he started randomly swinging elbows at me and jabbing at me and stuff, even eventually kinda lunging at me and throwing a light elbow at the chest. I'm like..... mega non-confrontational, at least when it comes to physical altercations, but I yelled at him to leave me the gently caress alone and not touch me and he yelled back at me as if I was the one causing the problem. The next time I went there he was there again, surprise! And this time I actually witnessed him groping a girl who was right in front of me. She was backing up, I was thinking "hmm I wonder if this girl or her friends are trying to get near me to dance," then I look down and see this dude is reaching from a few feet a way and just straight up pushing his hand palm up right into her middle butt area. I'm not just uncomfortable and frustrated for her but at this point I'm pissed because she probably thought it was me molesting her. Once again he was kind of lunging at me later in the night and I had to tell him to gently caress off. I tried to talk to security, and they said "just point us out to him and we'll deal with it." I was super hesitant because... of course if I go tattle to security and bring him to them he'll just deny anything happened. And then he'll be even more mad at me. But hey, third time's a charm. All the same poo poo is happening, I'm noticing him standing behind women in mega obviously suspicious ways where he's basically not moving at all and just reaching his hands around their asses while they dance, and he's looking at me like he's loving pissed any time he notices me. This time he actually comes up to me and says "What's up, bitch?!" and tries to act like I'm the one starting beef, and tells me to gently caress off or something when I stand my ground and say he's hit me and started poo poo every time he's seen me. I've finally had enough, so I get the resolve to drag security over to him because gently caress it...... and, you know, stop me if you've heard this one before: Security guy: "No he couldn't have done that stuff, he's with me bro!" And suddenly the old guy acts all nice and humble and says some poo poo like "hey he kept bumping into me, I'm just trying to tell him to stop." I protest again, security guy says something like "hey man it's a bar, people bump into each other, what can I do??" I make it super clear that that's not what's happening and he's attacking me every time he sees me but, you know, I also make it clear that I'm not surprised he's doing this so comfortably because he's friends with them. At the end of the day I just... can't go to this place anymore, and the whole thing feels super shady and hosed up. I don't even think I would be safe defending myself physically because of his connection to security. I'm getting this tiny glimpse of how hopeless it can feel to make accusations about someone, when a big chunk of his bad behavior isn't even affecting me, and it makes me realize how absolutely horrifying it must be to be a woman in spaces where criminal loving creepy dudes are just empowered 24/7 to do their thing. And the image of him is like a loving horror movie villain, given how little I can see of him except his rage eyes. Does anyone have any stories of encounters with weird creepy fuckos like this? Would be especially awesome if anyone has stories of kicking the asses of guys like that. Martman fucked around with this message at 11:43 on Sep 18, 2021 |
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I think you should hook up with the old creepy dude, you two sound perfect for each other.
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Sep 18, 2021 11:46
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i shoot them in the face over and over until the magazine is empty
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Sep 18, 2021 11:48
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Mega64 posted:I think you should hook up with the old creepy dude, you two sound perfect for each other. Hell Yeah posted:i shoot them in the face over and over until the magazine is empty
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Sep 18, 2021 11:49
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God drat Op I just took a poo poo and it was rank asf hoo lord. Anyway, the thing you gotta do is tell the bartender and/or bouncer there's a weirdo
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Sep 18, 2021 11:53
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Tldr
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Sep 18, 2021 12:09
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OP saw a creepy dude to suck off
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Sep 18, 2021 12:09
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tl;dr: creepy old man hangs out at bar groping girls, shoving me around and acting very threatening because I've noticed him doing this stuff, turns out he's friends with security, and I wish I was badass enough to kill him
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Sep 18, 2021 12:11
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Sounds like reporting the old geezer to staff is all you really can do. Is there a local social media thing you can use to warn about him? In my area I know they used to do that on jodel and whatsapp a few years back. Worst case scenario they kick you out and tell you not to come again.
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Sep 18, 2021 12:14
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Dumb Sex-Parrot posted:Sounds like reporting the old geezer to staff is all you really can do. Is there a local social media thing you can use to warn about him? In my area I know they used to do that on jodel and whatsapp a few years back.
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Sep 18, 2021 12:20
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Sounds like you two need to settle this like men—In the men’s room. Stick your tongue down each other’s throat and first one to bust a nut has to leave the bar (but can stay in the other’s heart forever).
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Sep 18, 2021 12:39
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Also not sure why I read that whole boring story, but I kept picturing the weirdo as the gently caress Her Right In The Pussy Guy.
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Sep 18, 2021 12:41
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Why y'all clubbing during the pandemic? This a poz my neg rear end sorta gig?
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Sep 18, 2021 12:44
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Das Boo posted:Why y'all clubbing during the pandemic? This a poz my neg rear end sorta gig? It's the only place you can whiff the global rear end scent.
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Lil Swamp Booger Baby posted:It's the only place you can whiff the global rear end scent. I see, I see. A man has needs.
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Sep 18, 2021 12:47
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op i think you are probably a serial killer
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Sep 18, 2021 12:51
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Mimesweeper posted:op i think you are probably a serial killer
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Sep 18, 2021 12:54
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Mimesweeper posted:op i think you are probably a serial killer  It's covid out, binch, stop clubbing
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Sep 18, 2021 12:55
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Colonel Cancer posted:
 talking about covid 19 when it’s almost 2022
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Sep 18, 2021 13:01
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that guy was jacking off his unit op. you ask him 'did you cum yet?'
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Sep 18, 2021 14:14
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If you take the creepy guy home op you will save all the "ladies" your 30 year old rear end is creeping on lol
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Sep 18, 2021 14:15
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Have you tried talking to him? He might just be trying to be found in the club, bottle full of bub, he's in there having sex he's not into making love, so come give him a hug.
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Sep 18, 2021 14:16
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the solution is to dress as a beautiful women and dance at the bar like your life depended on it. creepy guy will grope you and thats your in, thats when you lay the heavy moves on him. seduce this sick pervert and marry him effectively ending his molestation rampage. you will be a hero.
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Sep 18, 2021 14:19
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That’s cool how you are a boyfriend and a dad to all those helpless women, like you should just cut in and show them how to do a little waltz, a little tango, a little salsa merengue. They’re gonna like that poo poo better than daggering because you’ll give them the warm comfort of their father up until the slow dance (which is obviously off limits even for the high school sock hop chaperone) when they get to pick their dance partner from the bashful wall flowers. Also yeah that guy needs to know he’s gayer than he thinks. Definitely get close enough for him to brush up against your dick if he moves in any direction in the slightest. 
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Sep 18, 2021 15:01
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Lil Swamp Booger Baby posted:OP saw a creepy dude to suck off Ah, well then proceed with my blessing op
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:That’s cool how you are a boyfriend and a dad to all those helpless women, like you should just cut in and show them how to do a little waltz, a little tango, a little salsa merengue. They’re gonna like that poo poo better than daggering because you’ll give them the warm comfort of their father up until the slow dance (which is obviously off limits even for the high school sock hop chaperone) when they get to pick their dance partner from the bashful wall flowers. lmao
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Sep 18, 2021 15:06
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Is this like creepy guy Highlander, there can be only one?
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Sep 18, 2021 15:07
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my two cents from managing a club is......go to the actual bartender or a bar manager that is there when they dont seem too busy. those security guys are basically just furniture in most cases.
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Sep 18, 2021 15:07
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sharknado slashfic posted:Ah, well then proceed with my blessing op Yeah it's crazy waht luck
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Sep 18, 2021 15:12
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The Mirrored Wall, a new M Knight Slam a Man screenplay
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Sep 18, 2021 15:12
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You should bang the other weirdo
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Sep 18, 2021 15:22
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tonight's the night
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Sep 18, 2021 15:32
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am exgf of mine made me go clubbing with her a lot, lots of standing around in a crowded space kinda sorta bouncing in place
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Sep 18, 2021 15:34
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I hate to be the one to tell you this, but you’ve seen those movies right? The one where there is a dangerous person doing dangerous things but our hero can’t convince anyone of this dangerous person. Because in reality that dangerous person just doesn’t exist It’s you Op You are the old weirdo groper in the club
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Sep 18, 2021 15:36
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I am the spooky creepy dude.
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Sep 18, 2021 15:38
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clubbing utterly sucks complete rear end
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Sep 18, 2021 15:38
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I am the creepy dude to protect myself from the other creepy dudes
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Doctor Dogballs posted:clubbing utterly sucks complete rear end It's true.
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Sep 18, 2021 16:11
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Yaldabaoth posted:I am the spooky creepy dude. specifically the one in the club or just in general?
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I turn on my monitor, op.
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