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endlessmonotony posted:Ya know, I can't help but to flash back to a million times of being told I was lazy because my disease wouldn't get better, because I didn't put in the work. yeah that’s the other thing if your problem is organic or environmental then what’s therapy gonna do?
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PIZZA.BAT posted:the key is focusing on the positives that will result from the changes rather than the current experienced negatives that are from not addressing whatever the issue is. if you focus on the positives anyone with two brain cells to rub together will be able to infer the current suckiness, and by dragging it out you can make people defensive or feel like they’re being judged without realizing it. even people who agree with you may feel like they want to avoid working with you because what if your critical eye turns towards them next good post, i should be applying many of these things
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neither "get into dialectical therapy" nor "no, see a psychiatrist and get drugs" as a single solution to mental health are ever going to work, in the same way that "talk to a gastroenterologist" is not the universal correct answer to "my insides hurt." some people don't have a chemical imbalance in their head, and just need a professional talker to help them talk through their situation. some people don't need to figure anything out, and just have a chemical brain situation that needs to be balanced in order to get better. some people need both, or some of each in variable amounts. the existence of one of these situations does not invalidate the experiences of people in the others!
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fwiw my mental health journey started with a psychiatrist, who then more or less explained why a therapist would make perfect sense for me too. so just take the plunge into mental health if you're mentally unwell, and figure things out from there, and DEFINITELY do NOT be afraid to bail ASAP if either the psych or therapist is unsupportive (or you just dont mesh with them, it's a two-way street)
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Jan 14, 2022 06:18
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I saw a psych and wasn't a risk to myself or anyone so I got shunted onto disability instead of long term care
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Jan 14, 2022 06:19
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idk i just got given sertraline that i keep forgetting to take
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Jan 14, 2022 06:24
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I've been in the lovely cracks of the system for awhile so I need to see how to get HRT. it's informed consent here, but that doesn't matter when I don't know who to talk to and everyone is dying of covid
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Sagebrush posted:the existence of one of these situations does not invalidate the experiences of people in the others! but... what if it did? makes you think.
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Jan 14, 2022 06:33
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Not all that hard, no.
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Sagebrush posted:neither "get into dialectical therapy" nor "no, see a psychiatrist and get drugs" as a single solution to mental health are ever going to work, in the same way that "talk to a gastroenterologist" is not the universal correct answer to "my insides hurt."
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Sagebrush posted:neither "get into dialectical therapy" nor "no, see a psychiatrist and get drugs" as a single solution to mental health are ever going to work, in the same way that "talk to a gastroenterologist" is not the universal correct answer to "my insides hurt." sagebrush tell me what dialectical means I am literally gatekeeping you here
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Hopefully it's Marxist therapy because that would be cool
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mystes posted:Hopefully it's Marxist therapy because that would be cool sagebrush is a smart boy who can fly planes and explain to me what that means, I'm sure
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Jan 14, 2022 06:57
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this is hegel erasure
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also is it true I can't have nicotine on HRT
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i don't know smoka you should ask someone else
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Achmed Jones posted:i don't know smoka you should ask someone else I'll ask the forum where people are on HRT
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i always remember that the stated goal of freudian therapy is something like "to transform unbearable despair into commonplace unhappiness" or something like that therapy doesn't make you all better it just sorta helps you cope better. At least thats the way it was with me. I went from "I am seriously gonna loving lose it" to "yeah work sucks but whatcha gonna do" and i think that's probably about the best you can hope for.
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SmokaDustbowl posted:I'll ask the forum where people are on HRT Okay! Thing 1 is an increased risk of blood clots which absolutely does not apply to the estradiol you'll get Thing 2 is that it might—might—block estrogen receptors and slow feminization, but my tits and nuts and butt disagree.
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Ellie Trashcakes posted:Bitch you already in the 'pos we run this place I'm literally mormon style except nicotine and weed, so I was wondering lol
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GRblYfKwa88
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alright this apartment is loving cursed holy poo poo
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I turned off my music to do something and heard someone loving the plastic outside, and it wasn't a crackhead there's nobody
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SmokaDustbowl posted:sagebrush tell me what dialectical means dialectical means having to do with the discussion of ideas in a logical framework.  i.e. "dialectical therapy" means "therapy where you talk about why things are happening the way they are." dialectical behavioral therapy is a specific therapeutic technique, but in my earlier post i meant to describe all forms of therapy that involve talking with someone and reasoning through your experiences, not just DBT specifically.
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SmokaDustbowl posted:I turned off my music to do something and heard someone loving the plastic outside, and it wasn't a crackhead there's nobody  what the gently caress someone was on that plastic
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Jan 14, 2022 07:47
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someone was loving with that plastic, lifting it up or something
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Jan 14, 2022 07:49
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no, you right the first time. probably ghosts
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Sagebrush posted:no, you right the first time. probably ghosts that's fuckin freaky, I just went and checked and there are no crackheads in the stairway
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it sounded like someone shook that plastic like a sheet, and I'm very aware of crackheads in this building
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if you didnt see any crackheads in the stairway, maybe its you?
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fart simpson posted:if you didnt see any crackheads in the stairway, maybe its you? I've been living here for years, I know all the noises this place can make
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Jan 14, 2022 07:57
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could be just paranoia, it happens when you are stressed out
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it's midnight so it was either a crackhead or a ghost and I just went and looked for crackheads lmao
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the ghost of a crackhead, perhaps
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Sagebrush posted:the ghost of a crackhead, perhaps that plastic is like shopping bag plastic, it makes a big noise lmao. my neighbors apartment is loving cursed no wonder the pipes burst
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Sagebrush posted:the ghost of a crackhead, perhaps spectral hands all trying to steal the pipes and failing because they just phase right through when they try to get a grip
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYs87-kDXwg when I go get my mail lmao
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Am I a ghost? Or am I a crackhead? (am I a crackhead) If I'm a crackhead, Then I'm a very ghosty crackhead
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SmokaDustbowl posted:that plastic is like shopping bag plastic, it makes a big noise lmao. some dipshit down the hall from me put his lunch box on a hot stove element when he was making breakfast one morning and set off the sprinklers. they had to rip out the walls in there and in the apartment below his and there's still that same fuckin plastic floor covering all through the halls right now two months later
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Kazinsal posted:some dipshit down the hall from me put his lunch box on a hot stove element when he was making breakfast one morning and set off the sprinklers. they had to rip out the walls in there and in the apartment below his and there's still that same fuckin plastic floor covering all through the halls right now two months later a couple years ago I posted about a guy dying in that apartment next to me, and now that apartment had a pipe flooding.poo poo is cursed forever
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