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Invisible Clergy posted:Tragically too long for a username. Fully justified in sending the tacos back but still the bigger rear end in a top hat for being a picky eater.
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Grape posted:I'm thinking bullet dodged here. Yeah. Among other things this sounds like that classic finding-out-someone-is-a-narcissist situation where the person blows up because of a dumb misunderstanding, then keeps doubling down indefinitely because the idea that they might have been mistaken about something is worse than any other consequences. There are some people who are willing to die rather than admit that they might have mistaken a lens-wipe wrapper for a condom wrapper. A shockingly large number of people.
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MarcusSA posted:Ok but where is she gonna get the stick?? She already has a baby in her hands. Get the baby to poke him with the stick.
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Feb 22, 2022 03:53
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Lady, the best case scenario is your fiancée is dumb as a rock
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Feb 22, 2022 03:54
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Sounds like cold feet, perhaps? The op says "He's seen me use them many times. They have been in my bathroom for as long as he's known me and the wrappers have regularly been in the trash can. Definitely possible he's having cold feet and doesn't have the guts to just sit down and talk to me about his reservations." And also "BonBonDee posted Is he embarrassed because he confused a lens wipe with a condom? And now he’s doubling down?! Either that or there’s some underlying resentment and/or insecurity. BTW I know the type of lens wipe you’re referring to. They are the exact size and shape of a condom. But how has he never noticed you using one before?! You’ve been together 3 years! It just seems like there has to be more going on. ThrowRAwrapperdrama posted He definitely did notice before or at least have the ability to - the box of lens wipes is on the bathroom counter because I use them so frequently, and there are almost always wrappers in the trash. So it's not like there was something new and jarring that caught his eye."
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Fully justified in sending the tacos back but still the bigger rear end in a top hat for being a picky eater. That was my thought as well, there's probably just no good outcome if you're at the point where you're trying to order tacos with the specification of "chicken...no, I mean only chicken"
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I'm a 27 YO Female trying to ghost a male friendquote:I've been trying to ghost a friend for almost a year. I find him toxic and he doesn't seem to have any sense of boundaries. Although, every single time I manage to distance myself from him, he's struck with a grave tragedy. His mother passed away, he lost his job, and now he has been diagnosed with an untreatable disease. Even though I don't hate him, I cannot stand his company. I wish well for him, but from a distance. I've tried being straight forward with him, but he still doesn't seem to get it. He constantly tries to call me and I feel extremely guilty. What should I do?
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you don't need his approval to cut him off, dipshit decorum poisoned idiot. if it sucks hit da bricks
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Mr. Grapes! posted:My parents preferred to weaponize sleepovers for whatever reason. They could never articulate why, and even as an adult I am unsure of what their issue was. We were not some strict religious fundie house - I could play videogames, eat junk food, watch movies with gore and boobs in them, have girls over, and was otherwise pretty unrestricted at home. But if I asked to go sleepover somewhere, they would open the great book of excuses and start launching them. That reminds me of a thing that happened to me once in high school. It usually was no big deal doing whatever I wanted because I was a pretty straight laced kid (and they knew it) and I called them, really just to inform them, saying “hey the whole gang is staying at $OTHER_TEEN’s house tonight” and suddenly I couldn’t and it was a big deal that I leave. I was mad about it but until I got home and they explained to me that the dad in that house had a huge well know coke problem and had called up our house a few years ago while super high on cocaine and said a bunch of really weird sex poo poo.
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Me (F28) with my ace partner (F26) of five years. Should I remove my nudity game modificationsquote:My life partner and I are in a loving committed relationship, and have been for nearly 5 years now. We're planning to get married and live the rest of our lives together, and honestly I love it. I love her, and I just want her to be happy. We live together, and we have a set-up in the living room with a KVM switch and keep our PCs in the bedroom. I like moddifying my games for a bit of T&A nothing super egregious, but I'm careful not to play it on the TV in the living room, and since I'm at school most of the day, I play video games normally late at night in our room. The other day, my partner woke up and saw me playing the newest monster hunter, and got upset that I had a micro bikini modification. I generally keep two user accounts on the PC. I switch between them when I play games so that I don't blast a bunch of TnA onto the home screen. (Sometimes she'll pull up my game in the living room to see if I'm playing something she'd like to watch along with.)
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Boba Pearl posted:Me (F28) with my ace partner (F26) of five years. Should I remove my nudity game modifications This is one of philosophy's famously unsolvable problems
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Boba Pearl posted:Me (F28) with my ace partner (F26) of five years. Should I remove my nudity game modifications I thought ace meant you just lack any real interest in physical intimacy, not that you make a scene any time you are exposed to the idea that people can be physically affectionate.
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Feb 22, 2022 04:25
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Pretty sure it means you're a really good defense attorney
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Barudak posted:Pretty sure it means you're a really good defense attorney 
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for sending my food back right before the restaurant closed When I was a small child and ate burgers plain my parents would always specify "meat and bun" instead of trying to list off the things that shouldn't go on it. Otherwise somebody messes something up or somebody decides that you must want something on it.
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Boba Pearl posted:Me (F28) with my ace partner (F26) of five years. Should I remove my nudity game modifications i don't know what's wrong with the asexual partner but im pretty sure it's not their sexuality lmfao.
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value-brand cereal posted:Sounds like cold feet, perhaps? The op says "He's seen me use them many times. They have been in my bathroom for as long as he's known me and the wrappers have regularly been in the trash can. He was looking for an excuse to end things, but wanted to make it look like it wasn't his fault. So he decided to live out a scene from a poorly written romcom.
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Am I the only one whose thinking that it was what the mods were rather then the mods themselves? Then again most /r/relationships posters aren't smart enough to hide that stuff.
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As someone who titty mods all the time, you can get some seriously hosed up stuff in Fallout and Skyrim, not to mention what's available in the porn game sphere.
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Boba Pearl posted:Am I the only one whose thinking that it was what the mods were rather then the mods themselves? Then again most /r/relationships posters aren't smart enough to hide that stuff. On the one hand, I know weird aces exist and are weird. On the other hand, you can get some hosed UP poo poo for Skyrim and Fallout. Boba Pearl posted:As someone who titty mods all the time, you can get some seriously hosed up stuff in Fallout and Skyrim, not to mention what's available in the porn game sphere. Imagining him doing some of the MLP mods or poo poo like the slavery mods "for immersion." New Vegas had some mod I remember that billed itself as an "immersion" mod that made the Legion camp seem bigger and more populated. What it did not mention is that it also added a ton of nude, suffering slaves.
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The op said it started with a sexy bikini mod for monster hunter
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Yeah but then followed up with a laundry list of other games, Skyrim, both fallouts, final fantasy XIV and others. e: And 2 fighting games
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Our kittens kept turning on the stove burners by climbing up on the counter. They don’t light the burners but they’ve definitely turned on the gas. I have an electric stove and I think my cat did the same thing, she bumped the burner on while we were getting ready for bed, we didn't notice. Added bonus is I kept a steelmade griddle on top of the stove w/ a wooden cutting board on it - when my spouse woke me up (Are you cooking something?) the kitchen was full of smoke, and the cutting board lit up when I picked it up off the griddle. Almost set the kitchen on fire. Now we have child resistant covers for the knobs and a fire extinguisher in the kitchen along w/ new smoke alarms.
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Boba Pearl posted:e: And 2 fighting games Can't play Tekken without my Sexy Heihachi Thong mod.
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Uh, am I the only one thinking that if an asexual person is having that sort of reactions to nudity and sex then it might be that they are asexual due to some sort of awful sexual trauma, because that does not seem like the response of someone uninterested in sex, it seems like the response of someone with an aversion to it.
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Midnight Voyager posted:Imagining him Me (F28) with my ace partner (F26)
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Elissimpark posted:Can't play Tekken without my Sexy Heihachi Thong mod. My fist isn't the only thing thats iron
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Kenshin posted:Uh, am I the only one thinking that if an asexual person is having that sort of reactions to nudity and sex then it might be that they are asexual due to some sort of awful sexual trauma, because that does not seem like the response of someone uninterested in sex, it seems like the response of someone with an aversion to it. I don't know, it's sortof a thing with some asexuals, making a point of talking about how gross and awful sex is. It can be very performative. (She also could be having some sort of self-conscious "I don't feel good enough, they want sex and I can't deliver" feelings and getting them out in a bad way.) InediblePenguin posted:Me (F28) with my ace partner (F26) You are correct, I missed that, her.
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Midnight Voyager posted:I don't know, it's sortof a thing with some asexuals, making a point of talking about how gross and awful sex is. It can be very performative. (She also could be having some sort of self-conscious "I don't feel good enough, they want sex and I can't deliver" feelings and getting them out in a bad way.)
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I don't know if we can or should armchair therapist sexual trauma onto people when many cultures regarding healthy sexual relationships is deeply hosed up. That's not to say there isn't sexual fuckeduppery when it comes to usamerican culture alone because wow what the gently caress is purity balls and purity pledges people are making 11 yos do? Assuming they're from the usa, anyways. Wtihout more details, it's a crapshoot. That lady loving sucks though. It's her sexuality alone, not anyone elses. It's not unlike people who aren't asexual making their partners give up porn and control their sex drives. Lousy.
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Asexuality and sexual trauma are not incompatible, to say the least.
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Kenshin posted:Uh, am I the only one thinking that if an asexual person is having that sort of reactions to nudity and sex then it might be that they are asexual due to some sort of awful sexual trauma, because that does not seem like the response of someone uninterested in sex, it seems like the response of someone with an aversion to it. That said, I don't think it should be something where someone's non-asexual partner is never ever allowed to look at a tit in the house because that's inherently repulsive to them, or whatever. If it's not happening in front of her I don't see why it matters?
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I feel like the big question here is what the other mods are like. Are we talking "tiny bikinis on your character" or are we talking "your fighting-game finisher is now a sex crime"? Definitely getting the vibe that sexuality mismatch in this relationship is a bigger issue than either of them are admitting. I suspect it may be Long, Sad Conversation time.
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Antivehicular posted:Definitely getting the vibe that sexuality mismatch in this relationship is a bigger issue than either of them are admitting. I suspect it may be Long, Sad Conversation time.
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Antivehicular posted:I feel like the big question here is what the other mods are like. Are we talking "tiny bikinis on your character" or are we talking "your fighting-game finisher is now a sex crime"? I mean even if it is freak poo poo like that, the OP doesn't advertise it or spend all day blasting it on the main TV or whatever. Who gives a poo poo.
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Apparently the Ace Person is rich.OP posted:I'm happy with her, and I know she loves me because she buys me whatever I want, and I don't really want to give that up I just want to have both the games and stuff and her undivided attention. She shows she cares in other ways, and I'm happy with that. Yeah, she says in the comments that it's not Every mod, just some of them and doesn't specify more. quote:I’m asexual and have had non-ace partners-this is just run of the mill sexuality shaming. If she’s willing to discuss her own boundaries or other feelings on eroge, that’s fine, but huffing away and telling you to remove all your mods and games is not. Nor is apparently sitting on this for five years, in my opinion- but I am admittedly over-communicative in relationships, so your mileage my vary. OP posted:She didn't want all of them removed just some of them
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oh, I see, OP is trying not to piss off her sugar mommy
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It's sort of like the opposite of sex work, accepting paydays for never having sex.
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This sounds like the plot of a really depressing drama. Or a hilarious comedy. My [20F] boyfriend [19M] is focused on chasing a boxing career and no other goals quote:My boyfriend arrived in Finland from Africa last year and I met him in a nightclub two months ago. He speaks English as a first language, and still hardly any Finnish. He is not a high school graduate. I'm in university myself.
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Mr. Lobe posted:It's sort of like the opposite of sex work, accepting paydays for never having sex. Celibacy work is work
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