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Binary Badger posted:What also sucks is the Zyrtec losing its effectiveness after a while and then you have to switch to something else because your body has built up a tolerance to it. you should start lifting weights
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lol
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# ? May 20, 2022 03:46 |
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i don’t understand. ive been overweight and sedentary for nearly 35 years already without any major problems, why would problems appear now?
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# ? May 20, 2022 03:54 |
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drat just found out dads got bowel cancer no idea of stage or anything
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# ? May 20, 2022 07:19 |
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sorry about your dad, echi. if they catch't it early, it's very curable. bowel cancer runs in my family, and I know I shouldn't hestitate to see a doc if I'm starting to have weird stomach problems. also ready for uncomfortable screenings starting in my 50s.
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# ? May 20, 2022 08:10 |
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thanks dude turns out he had lymphoma in 2019 and didn’t tell anyone wtf. this is actually a relapse and it’s not bowel cancer but a tumour on his bowel from the lymphoma at least that’s what I know now. need to find out more. it’s an awful situation mostly because of how poorly my dad has treated everyone in his life and the amount of disdain everyone carrys for him. apparently my mum just told me he left her for other women five times . idk why she let him back tbh. he’s an awful granddad. my son said he didn’t feel sad because he doesn’t have an emotional connection with him.. a man he sees 4-5 times per week. im about the only person left who has any patience for him at all. anyway. it’s friday night
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# ? May 20, 2022 08:30 |
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my old man bought it from lymphoma. wife managed to fly in from japan with our 1 month old son the day he died. probably the last lucid moment he had was telling my mom to gently caress off when she tried to pose him for a photo with the baby, lol. miss the grouchy old bastard all the time.
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# ? May 20, 2022 10:19 |
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that sucks echi, even if you're not terribly close my dad died almost ten years ago now from esophageal cancer (gently caress cancer)
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# ? May 20, 2022 12:37 |
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thanks :/ gonna go visit today and find out more. try to find out about this hiding lymphoma from us but also how the heck he managed to do that lol
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# ? May 20, 2022 20:50 |
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everybody remember to get your butthole scoped, it ain't fun but it's important
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# ? May 20, 2022 23:06 |
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Trig Discipline posted:everybody remember to get your butthole scoped, it ain't fun but it's important last time i did i woke up near the end so i got to feel 100% of them removing it.
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# ? May 20, 2022 23:15 |
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i did the whole thing wide awake because the "sedatives" they give you in japan are basically just tic tacs literally didn't even feel sleepy or relaxed, just wide awake while being spelunked
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# ? May 21, 2022 00:32 |
did they find any treasure or lost cavers
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# ? May 21, 2022 00:52 |
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no but they found his head
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# ? May 21, 2022 01:30 |
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PokeJoe posted:did they find any treasure or lost cavers just your mom's wedding ring
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# ? May 21, 2022 05:09 |
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Trig Discipline posted:just your mom's wedding ring Why was his mom's wedding ring up your rear end in a top hat?
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# ? May 21, 2022 05:19 |
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:Why was his mom's wedding ring up your rear end in a top hat?
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# ? May 21, 2022 05:23 |
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hosed up
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# ? May 21, 2022 05:25 |
Trig Discipline posted:just your mom's wedding ring im glad she's still getting out there
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# ? May 21, 2022 05:40 |
I'll let her know you found her ring
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# ? May 21, 2022 05:41 |
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Another caper solved by the yospos posting crew. good job!
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# ? May 21, 2022 05:48 |
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echinopsis posted:thanks :/ gonna go visit today and find out more. try to find out about this hiding lymphoma from us but also how the heck he managed to do that lol turns out he’s got three weeks. dunno what to think tbh. welp
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# ? May 21, 2022 07:14 |
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Oh God echi I'm so sorry
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# ? May 21, 2022 07:29 |
That sucks, sorry to hear that friend
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# ? May 21, 2022 07:30 |
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sry m8, take care of yourself
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# ? May 21, 2022 07:33 |
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poo poo echi, im sorry to hear that. sucks real bad man
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# ? May 21, 2022 07:45 |
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thanks friends kinda surreal tbh, because while I am unsure how I will feel after he leaves, at the moment he is still here. defo limbo feeling. appreciate the support
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# ? May 21, 2022 07:53 |
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one love echi. condolences
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# ? May 21, 2022 07:55 |
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echinopsis posted:thanks friends i had dreams for months and months after my dad died that he was still alive, that he'd faked his death because of some kind of tax dodge or something (he never dodged taxes or anything remotely like it) i don't have any regrets about things i wish i'd said to him or anything like that, but i do regret that like my mom and everyone that was around weren't more up front about the fact that he was dying. everyone was in a weird kind of denial about it which queered things in a certain way. although honestly i don't know how much of that was on him, he never really brought it up either. i do hope when i die i've got the capacity and opportunity address it directly with everyone around me, but maybe i'll feel different at the moment of truth. i think it would make the transition a lot easier on everyone involved.
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# ? May 21, 2022 08:05 |
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Stringent posted:i had dreams for months and months after my dad died that he was still alive, that he'd faked his death because of some kind of tax dodge or something (he never dodged taxes or anything remotely like it)
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# ? May 21, 2022 08:15 |
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sorry about your dad, Echi. both my folks are gone. life will derail for a while. axolotl farmer fucked around with this message at 10:08 on May 21, 2022 |
# ? May 21, 2022 10:05 |
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sorry to hear that echi
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# ? May 21, 2022 11:15 |
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echinopsis posted:turns out he’s got three weeks. dunno what to think tbh. welp Oof, sorry to hear!
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echinopsis posted:thanks friends sorry dude. these liminal emotional moments are hard to navigate. be kind to yourself.
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# ? May 21, 2022 18:02 |
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Awful news, sorry to hear it echi
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# ? May 21, 2022 18:31 |
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Ellie Trashcakes posted:I still have dreams my father is alive and being a shithead to me and he's been dead nigh on 15 years yeah they do hang around a while, don't they? i lost my dad almost thirty years ago. we weren't close, and he was in many ways a giant rear end in a top hat, but i still find myself having one-sided conversations with him in my head. mostly of the "why the gently caress were you like this" variety
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# ? May 21, 2022 22:28 |
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Trig Discipline posted:yeah they do hang around a while, don't they? i lost my dad almost thirty years ago. we weren't close, and he was in many ways a giant rear end in a top hat, but i still find myself having one-sided conversations with him in my head. mostly of the "why the gently caress were you like this" variety
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# ? May 22, 2022 02:23 |
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my dad was enough of a dick that i didn’t cry when he died or anything but i sort of regretted the fact that i never had good parents still threw me for a loop three years after his death to be looking at the farm in google maps vr and (completely unexpectedly) see him looking at the road as mapvan drove by
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# ? May 22, 2022 05:30 |
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I got lucky in that regard because my mom is fuckin awesome, although I do feel really bad that he was able to so effectively drive a wedge between me and her with his mindfucks once she finally loving left him.
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ah shot sorry echi
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