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echinopsis posted:he just had a cardiac arrest and passed away 😓 i'm so sorry <3
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sounds like he went pretty fast without a lot of pain and frankly that's the most any of us can hope for. Rest in peace, echis dad.
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# ? May 24, 2022 01:25 |
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echinopsis posted:he just had a cardiac arrest and passed away 😓 im sorry to hear this
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# ? May 24, 2022 01:25 |
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sorry echi.
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# ? May 24, 2022 01:26 |
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echinopsis posted:he just had a cardiac arrest and passed away 😓 rotor posted:sounds like he went pretty fast without a lot of pain and frankly that's the most any of us can hope for. Rest in peace, echis dad.
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# ? May 24, 2022 01:31 |
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i think you're going to be ok echi. hug your boys. how you play the next couple weeks is up to you and there's no wrong ways to go about it as long as you hug your boys
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# ? May 24, 2022 01:33 |
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༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ 〜 do your best echi
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# ? May 24, 2022 01:36 |
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echinopsis posted:he just had a cardiac arrest and passed away 😓 So sorry.
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# ? May 24, 2022 01:40 |
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poo poo echi, sorry to hear it hug those boys
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# ? May 24, 2022 02:07 |
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echinopsis posted:it's a complicated thing with my dad. don't mind the ramble this is really similar to my dad in a lot of ways. since having kids of my own i've realized that my dad was just doing as much as he could with what he had, and the rest of the time he was just getting himself out of the way for his sake and for ours. his father was a physically abusive alcoholic, and i think he was trying to find any way he could to not reproduce that behavior. which to his credit he managed. the important bit is that he left us better off than he was, which i don't really know how much else he could have done. anyhow, sincere condolences, take care of yourself.
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# ? May 24, 2022 04:00 |
sorry to hear that dude, take care of yourself
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# ? May 24, 2022 04:09 |
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sorry echi
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# ? May 24, 2022 04:20 |
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sorry echi
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# ? May 24, 2022 04:24 |
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fart simpson posted:im sorry echi
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# ? May 24, 2022 04:31 |
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my condolences fellow yosposter
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# ? May 24, 2022 04:46 |
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so sorry to hear about your dad, Echi. take care of the kids and take care of yourself.
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# ? May 24, 2022 05:22 |
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big loves to you echi. and your whanau. Kia kaha ki a koe
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# ? May 24, 2022 05:49 |
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condolences echi, take care of yourself and yours
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# ? May 24, 2022 06:05 |
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one love echi, hope you and your family are holding up ok. don’t get hung up on how you ‘should’ feel, and be kind to yourself and others
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# ? May 24, 2022 08:42 |
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really sorry to hear it. condolences mate.
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# ? May 24, 2022 11:21 |
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Sorry echi, RIP echi's dad..
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# ? May 24, 2022 18:02 |
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hey echinopsis buddy, how are you doing today. just checking in
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# ? May 25, 2022 01:24 |
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Jonny 290 posted:hey echinopsis buddy, how are you doing today. just checking in been digging thru his hoards of poo poo, check out what this mother fucker did lol thanks for asking, it means a lot. but I’m ok. weird times. dunno what to say, I mean, my dad was a grumpy mother fucker who made most situations worse with his presence, and so don’t know how things will feel as time goes on. we’re all glad we got a chance to say some nice things and he passed away quickly, so all things considered it’s a lot better than it could be. my kids were shocked, but not terrible upset. I think missing him might come a bit more in the future. for now, just making the most of a few days off work and seeing my brother more than usual. the support here has been really touching, and I am thankful to everyone who posted in support. it’s a good thing we’ve got here.
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# ? May 25, 2022 02:31 |
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# ? May 25, 2022 02:44 |
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not quite sure what this means lol feel guilty as because feel like I should care more, or should be more sad or distraught, and feel guilty because works been scrambling to cover me for bereavement leave when I could kind of just do it. just don’t feel good about anything. maybe that’s to be expected.
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# ? May 25, 2022 07:45 |
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took me months before it even started to seem real. just take care of yourself. if staying busy makes you feel better then stay busy, or whatever works for you.
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# ? May 25, 2022 08:04 |
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echinopsis posted:feel guilty because works been scrambling to cover me for bereavement leave when I could kind of just do it. what you're doing instead is a different kind of work. if not on you, then for your family who will appreciate it both soon and later.
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# ? May 25, 2022 11:32 |
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echinopsis posted:feel guilty as because feel like I should care more, or should be more sad or distraught, and feel guilty because works been scrambling to cover me for bereavement leave when I could kind of just do it. just don’t feel good about anything. maybe that’s to be expected. grief is a personal thing and everyone deals with it differently. don't let anyone else tell you you're doing it wrong, and don't feel bad about feeling bad or not. Sweevo fucked around with this message at 15:58 on Dec 3, 2022 |
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Sweevo posted:grief is a personal thing and everyone deals with it differently. don't let anyone else tell you you're doing it wrong, and don't feel bad about felling bad or not. +1
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# ? May 25, 2022 14:00 |
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Sweevo posted:grief is a personal thing and everyone deals with it differently. don't let anyone else tell you you're doing it wrong, and don't feel bad about felling bad or not. yeah this 100% I’m sorry, echi
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# ? May 25, 2022 14:14 |
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Sweevo posted:grief is a personal thing and everyone deals with it differently. don't let anyone else tell you you're doing it wrong, and don't feel bad about felling bad or not. +1 sorry you’re going through this, fellow goon. i nearly lost my dad to the rona. it isn’t fun.
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# ? May 25, 2022 20:51 |
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sorry echi, take care of yourself and the kids.
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# ? May 27, 2022 13:20 |
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wearing my rodtronics shirt today for echi
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# ? May 28, 2022 22:14 |
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wow.. literally honoured 😌 I wear one most days because I ended up getting so many samples over the years, trying out designs and t-shirt stock. probably half my t-shirts at least are rodtronics ones lol
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# ? May 29, 2022 00:09 |
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Sorry to see your father passed away echi, I hope you have great memories to remember him by.
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# ? May 29, 2022 03:47 |
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https://twitter.com/agoddamnhorse/status/1530886693846392833?s=21&t=Aa7mEIeQzhn5ZgWnq42slQ
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# ? May 29, 2022 14:35 |
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I understood that reference.
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lol
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