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it just feels so transactional to me. But i'm old and out of the game, so my opinion doesn't count for anything here.
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jesus WEP posted:her parents are divorced, also one set of her grandparents. she has a less-than-romantic view of marriage as a concept tell her fart simpson said practically everyone he knows on both sides is divorced and he still managed it. that should clear things up i guess
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you're common law at that point anyways - its all the same i think we have a friend who doesn't want to get married but same thing, own a house, been together for a decade+ weddings are dumb anyways
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common law marriage does not exist here
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Jonny 290 posted:it just feels so transactional to me. But i'm old and out of the game, so my opinion doesn't count for anything here. i'm also jealous
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the l;atest divorce in the fart simpson extended universe is my wife's cousin, who is going through it right now and taking the kids to a new city because she caught her husband visiting prostitutes
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Pile Of Garbage posted:i'm also jealous i have low self-esteem so i do really stupid poo poo when i start getting laid. i look forward to never loving again in my mortal life. It's for the young folks and the successful and yeah just let me play my games and pet my cat
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jesus WEP posted:common law marriage does not exist here I really lucked out on this front
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fart simpson posted:the l;atest divorce in the fart simpson extended universe is my wife's cousin, who is going through it right now and taking the kids to a new city because she caught her husband visiting prostitutes thinking about it my parents getting divorced is an outlier. on my mum's side of the family there's no one and on my dad's side it's full boomer so he has 5 sisters and 2 brothers. from that an unfortunate number died from cancer but the rest just went estranged. like i dont think they formally filed, they just separated and poo poo. perhaps things are diff in AU re divorce law and stuff idk.
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Jonny 290 posted:i have low self-esteem so i do really stupid poo poo when i start getting laid. i look forward to never loving again in my mortal life. It's for the young folks and the successful and yeah just let me play my games and pet my cat post the cat tia
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also we're meeting up on the same weekend as 9/11 which we didn't realize until after we decided on a date
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Pile Of Garbage posted:post the cat tia i actually took a pic of her like 20 mins ago. she's sleepin in her box on the end of the couch 
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also using the jetbrains rider debugger makes me feel incredibly smart
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Pile Of Garbage posted:thinking about it my parents getting divorced is an outlier. on my mum's side of the family there's no one and on my dad's side it's full boomer so he has 5 sisters and 2 brothers. from that an unfortunate number died from cancer but the rest just went estranged. like i dont think they formally filed, they just separated and poo poo. perhaps things are diff in AU re divorce law and stuff idk. my parents are divorced, and then my mom got remarried and divorced again, 4 out of 4 of moms siblings are divorced at least once, and 2 out of 3 of my dads siblings are divorced. ive got several high school and college friends my age who are divorced, and most of my friends growing up had divorced parents. my wifes parents are divorced, so are several of her aunts and uncles, a few of her friends too, and now her cousin. we dont even know what a successful marriage looks like!
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hbag posted:also we're meeting up on the same weekend as 9/11 which we didn't realize until after we decided on a date now youll never forget
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getting laid was my own personal 9/11
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jesus WEP posted:yeah lol i still get this one a lot when we had been dating for two years all my aunts and uncles were like SO WHEN YA GROWIN A PAIR LAD mate I’m in uni and can’t afford rent what do you want??
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rider is a much nicer debugging experience than vs, especially if you need to step into unmanaged code
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my parents waited until right after i got engaged to get divorced. that was so nice!
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Jonny 290 posted:i actually took a pic of her like 20 mins ago. she's sleepin in her box on the end of the couch so fluffy!!!
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jesus WEP posted:rider is a much nicer debugging experience than vs, especially if you need to step into unmanaged code i was having a bug that wasn't causing any log messages or anything so i just used a single breakpoint and immediately fixed it. incredibly based
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fr fr ong 💯😤😤
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fart simpson posted:my parents are divorced, and then my mom got remarried and divorced again, 4 out of 4 of moms siblings are divorced at least once, and 2 out of 3 of my dads siblings are divorced. ive got several high school and college friends my age who are divorced, and most of my friends growing up had divorced parents. my wifes parents are divorced, so are several of her aunts and uncles, a few of her friends too, and now her cousin. my experience was that when i was in year 7 of primary school (about to start high-school) my dad moved out of the house and me and my siblings would go to dad's place after school and on weekends, then one day i noticed the divorce papers my dad had pinned to the fridge and was like "oh lol so they are divorce." it was weird like not at all disruptive to myself or my siblings, just a weird period but also not a big deal? very different to how the media likes to make it look.
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yall ever know anybody that got divorced and then remarried each other? my best friends parents did that across 20 years. so weird. just the absolute peak of "eh, it's a living"
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ive never known anyone like that
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Jonny 290 posted:yall ever know anybody that got divorced and then remarried each other? my best friends parents did that across 20 years. so weird. just the absolute peak of "eh, it's a living" yeah that's extremely cooked
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unrelated: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yeh9Fw3q3Iw
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ive been getting a lot more work done since i got a vertical monitor at work. coincidence??????
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before i got married, my dad told me "dont worry about getting divorced. it sucks for a while but you figure it out and move on so you shouldnt let fears of that stop you"
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hbag posted:ive been getting a lot more work done since i got a vertical monitor at work. coincidence?????? what app do you put in the vert monitor? if it's outlook then ugh 
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hey i have this on wax  well, i did. When i moved from AR i gave my brother my crates. Digital is like 10000000% easier on the back. Now i just collect kpop and MMORPG vinyl
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Pile Of Garbage posted:what app do you put in the vert monitor? if it's outlook then ugh rider
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Jonny 290 posted:hey i have this on wax *adds jonny290 to movingshadow-crew on yospos.xlsx*
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Pile Of Garbage posted:*adds jonny290 to movingshadow-crew on yospos.xlsx*  that floppy is one of the original sample disks from Dom & Roland's Sandgun, one of my favorite tracks off that LP. They ebayed a bunch of their old swag a few years back and my brother bought me that for my birthday bonus elvira titty
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holy poo poo!!!
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Jonny 290 posted:yall ever know anybody that got divorced and then remarried each other? my best friends parents did that across 20 years. so weird. just the absolute peak of "eh, it's a living" my paternal grandparents got divorced and remarried twice though knowing my grandfather it was probably an emotionally abusive power move
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Pile Of Garbage posted:holy poo poo!!! calm down it's just a boob
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Jonny 290 posted:that floppy is one of the original sample disks from Dom & Roland's Sandgun, one of my favorite tracks off that LP. They ebayed a bunch of their old swag a few years back and my brother bought me that for my birthday that's extremely cool how your bro bought that for you. i did a similar thing for my dad a while ago only i got him a copy of "Recycled" by Merzbow on cassette. every copy of that release is unique as Merzbow recorded it onto used cassettes! https://www.discogs.com/release/520014-Merzbow-Recycled Pile Of Garbage fucked around with this message at 16:30 on Aug 30, 2022 |
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