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spiritual bypass
Feb 19, 2008

Grimey Drawer
Put a guard on the clippers and give your self/friend a buzzcut

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Scott Baculum
Oct 20, 2007

Venerado, intrepido, y lagomorfo periodista de primera clase

spiritual bypass posted:

Put a guard on the clippers and give your self/friend a buzzcut

I do that for most of the hair downstairs, but I have a bunch of erstwhile whiskers on the balls themselves that are tough to hit with clippers.

sebzilla
Mar 17, 2009

Kid's blasting everything in sight with that new-fangled musket.


Tweezers

spiritual bypass
Feb 19, 2008

Grimey Drawer
Mustache scissors

RFC2324
Jun 7, 2012

http 418

Dip your sack in a vat of acid

whydirt
Apr 18, 2001


Gaz Posting Brigade :c00lbert:
I will say that once your balls are shorn that shaving them again to keep them smooth goes much easier. The initial shave when the hair is long is where it’s easy to run into trouble.

RFC2324
Jun 7, 2012

http 418

If you want something more long term than shaving, get an epliator

Vicious Panda
Sep 15, 2023

Subjunctive
Sep 12, 2006

ask me about nix or tailscale

trilobite terror posted:

I do that for most of the hair downstairs, but I have a bunch of erstwhile whiskers on the balls themselves that are tough to hit with clippers.

erstwhile whiskers sound like what you’re after

D-Pad
Jun 28, 2006

So recently I have occasionally had this thing where I will ejaculate a decent amount without an orgasm and then have a normal orgasm with a normal amount of ejaculate about a minute later. This is not pre-ejaculate it's the real stuff and it shoots out the same and everything. I've only noticed it during masturbation but it could be happening during sex without me noticing. It's kind of annoying because it will happen with no warning without me being prepared for cleanup and I haven't finished and don't want to stop. It doesn't cause me to lose my erection or interfere with my ability to keep going to orgasm but nonetheless annoying.

Is this a thing, I haven't heard of it before? Google just gives me results about premature ejactulation and this is different. I think, maybe I misunderstood what premature ejaculation is because I always thought it was having an actual orgasm before you wanted to and thus the fun stops. Should I be worried? I don't think I should but want to check just in case. I did start testosterone about 5 months ago so maybe it's related to that? I dunno it's just weird and I want more info.

Xand_Man
Mar 2, 2004

If what you say is true
Wutang might be dangerous


D-Pad posted:

So recently I have occasionally had this thing where I will ejaculate a decent amount without an orgasm and then have a normal orgasm with a normal amount of ejaculate about a minute later. This is not pre-ejaculate it's the real stuff

What does it feel like? Some guys can be multi-orgasmic, but it sounds like it's just muscular contractions?

D-Pad
Jun 28, 2006

Xand_Man posted:

What does it feel like? Some guys can be multi-orgasmic, but it sounds like it's just muscular contractions?

It doesn't feel like anything. There is a bit of muscular contractions but otherwise nothing.

Xand_Man
Mar 2, 2004

If what you say is true
Wutang might be dangerous


D-Pad posted:

It doesn't feel like anything. There is a bit of muscular contractions but otherwise nothing.

I'd talk to a doctor. Might be nothing but I've had something similar enough; there are some legit medical complications you might be dealing with.

D-Pad
Jun 28, 2006

Xand_Man posted:

I'd talk to a doctor. Might be nothing but I've had something similar enough; there are some legit medical complications you might be dealing with.

I will but can you give me more info on what they are? Google is not helpful for searching this type of thing.

Aexo
May 16, 2007
Don't ask, I don't know how to pronounce my name either.
I've done that before, when stopping too close to orgasm. For me it very clearly feels like I'm about to orgasm and I stopped too late to prevent the mess and too early to get the spasm. The spasm is what I'd call the orgasm, and that's what starts the refractory period for me. Never done it in any other way though so I figured I just hit a Goldilocks timing.

Lead out in cuffs
Sep 18, 2012

"That's right. We've evolved."

"I can see that. Cool mutations."




Yeah at some level this is (one reason) why pulling out isn't super effective as birth control.

D-Pad
Jun 28, 2006

Aexo posted:

I've done that before, when stopping too close to orgasm. For me it very clearly feels like I'm about to orgasm and I stopped too late to prevent the mess and too early to get the spasm. The spasm is what I'd call the orgasm, and that's what starts the refractory period for me. Never done it in any other way though so I figured I just hit a Goldilocks timing.

Yeah I've had that before but this isn't the same. It's just sudden ejaculate with none of the type of spasm you get with orgasm, no feeling of orgasm, and I don't enter the refractory period because I can keep going and do and then have a regular orgasm a minute or two later. It's just weird and messy.

bowmore
Oct 6, 2008



D-Pad posted:

So recently I have occasionally had this thing where I will ejaculate a decent amount without an orgasm and then have a normal orgasm with a normal amount of ejaculate about a minute later. This is not pre-ejaculate it's the real stuff and it shoots out the same and everything. I've only noticed it during masturbation but it could be happening during sex without me noticing. It's kind of annoying because it will happen with no warning without me being prepared for cleanup and I haven't finished and don't want to stop. It doesn't cause me to lose my erection or interfere with my ability to keep going to orgasm but nonetheless annoying.

Is this a thing, I haven't heard of it before? Google just gives me results about premature ejactulation and this is different. I think, maybe I misunderstood what premature ejaculation is because I always thought it was having an actual orgasm before you wanted to and thus the fun stops. Should I be worried? I don't think I should but want to check just in case. I did start testosterone about 5 months ago so maybe it's related to that? I dunno it's just weird and I want more info.
Are you taking antidepressants?

D-Pad
Jun 28, 2006

bowmore posted:

Are you taking antidepressants?

Nope

bowmore
Oct 6, 2008



Alright well that's my guess out the window

kalel
Jun 19, 2012


go see a doctor because I am not one. but it's possible (unlikely but possible) that there's an issue with your prostate or urethra.

D-Pad
Jun 28, 2006

kalel posted:

go see a doctor because I am not one. but it's possible (unlikely but possible) that there's an issue with your prostate or urethra.

I just recently had blood work done and my PSA was fine. I don't see how it could be the urethra that would cause this and I don't have any pain or other issues with urinating. I'll ask my doctor next time I'm in but I'm pretty sure it's just one of those weird things about bodies I just wanted to check with the thread if they had ever heard about it or knew anything I might not. I do appreciate all the replies.

Vicious Panda
Sep 15, 2023


I agree with kalel! from a quick google I read that ejaculating without orgasm could be caused by elevated amounts of prolactin and that in turn could be caused by receiving testosterone.
Really it’s something you should talk to your doctor about, having something change like this seems very worth bringing up. It could mean nothing but i personally would not want to risk my orgasms

D-Pad
Jun 28, 2006

Vicious Panda posted:

I agree with kalel! from a quick google I read that ejaculating without orgasm could be caused by elevated amounts of prolactin and that in turn could be caused by receiving testosterone.
Really it’s something you should talk to your doctor about, having something change like this seems very worth bringing up. It could mean nothing but i personally would not want to risk my orgasms

Yeah I definitely am going to. My prolactin is fine though so :shrug:

Xand_Man
Mar 2, 2004

If what you say is true
Wutang might be dangerous


D-Pad posted:

I will but can you give me more info on what they are? Google is not helpful for searching this type of thing.

BTW the thing I was checked for was retrograde ejaculation (basically, cum up the wrong pipe) and that may not apply in your case

kalel
Jun 19, 2012

D-Pad posted:

Yeah I definitely am going to. My prolactin is fine though so :shrug:

it's not necessarily prostate cancer. acute or chronic prostatitis can be caused by bacterial infection, hyperplasia, or trauma. (again just googling here)

The Door Frame
Dec 5, 2011

I don't know man everytime I go to the gym here there are like two huge dudes with raging high and tights snorting Nitro-tech off of each other's rock hard abs.
I got BPH in my early 20's from pushing too hard while lifting weights. Sometimes weird stuff just happens

Helianthus Annuus
Feb 21, 2006

can i touch your hand
Grimey Drawer

Xand_Man posted:

BTW the thing I was checked for was retrograde ejaculation (basically, cum up the wrong pipe) and that may not apply in your case

reading this post about retrograde ejaculation reminded me that i have an update to share with the tread. a while ago, i posted about my experiences with it, and i got a lot of helpful replies, but nothing i didn't already know. since then, i've mostly solved the problem, and i wanted to share my findings.

my problem seemed to be with inappropriate breathing rhythm before and during ejaculation. i've gotten consistently better results by making sure to always exhale hard against a partially closed glottis while busting. loud vocalization seems to help, and trying to stifle it or keep quiet seems to invite problems. i compare it to holding in a sneeze, which can be a bad idea.

for me, the most consequential change was making sure to have enough breath before actually busting, because holding my breath or getting too winded before busting invites problems. i try to inhale as slowly and deeply as i can right before busting occurs, and there's a sensation of "charging up" during this breath that seems to enhance the experience.

i got these insights from practicing yoga, where we learn that certain movements pair better with exhalation, and others with inhalation. i hope this helps someone reading this thread!

Helianthus Annuus
Feb 21, 2006

can i touch your hand
Grimey Drawer

D-Pad posted:

So recently I have occasionally had this thing where I will ejaculate a decent amount without an orgasm and then have a normal orgasm with a normal amount of ejaculate about a minute later. This is not pre-ejaculate it's the real stuff and it shoots out the same and everything. I've only noticed it during masturbation but it could be happening during sex without me noticing. It's kind of annoying because it will happen with no warning without me being prepared for cleanup and I haven't finished and don't want to stop. It doesn't cause me to lose my erection or interfere with my ability to keep going to orgasm but nonetheless annoying.

Is this a thing, I haven't heard of it before? Google just gives me results about premature ejactulation and this is different. I think, maybe I misunderstood what premature ejaculation is because I always thought it was having an actual orgasm before you wanted to and thus the fun stops. Should I be worried? I don't think I should but want to check just in case. I did start testosterone about 5 months ago so maybe it's related to that? I dunno it's just weird and I want more info.

i've experienced something like a long time ago as very young man experimenting with edging. it sometimes happened when unsuccessfully trying to forestall busting. then again, maybe this isn't the same experience you had, because it sounds like it's sneaking up on you. and in my experience, the 2nd ejaculation was underwhelming and took more effort to achieve, and the orgasm was of lower quality than usual.

now, before busting, i have this feeling of "charging up." do you feel yourself charging up before the first ejaculation? how about between the first and the second? sounds like you might somehow be going into it "already charged up", but i have no idea what this could mean clinically. the association with exogenous testosterone seems plausible to me, but i'm a layman. curious if your doc had anything interesting to say on this matter.

two fish
Jun 13, 2023

How common is cuckolding in reality? You would think it was extremely commonplace, given the repeated references and insults and jokes about it in modern internet culture. Has anyone studied this?

PittTheElder
Feb 13, 2012

:geno: Yes, it's like a lava lamp.

If you believe the internet then 110% of people are banging their step sibling.

After The War
Apr 12, 2005

to all of my Architects
let me be traitor
Cucking is in that weird position where it's thrown around as an insult, but also the people into it can't shut the gently caress up about it, which just emboldens the first group more.

Source: too many years of listening to the Dan Savage podcast (and reading the column before that)

Scott Baculum
Oct 20, 2007

Venerado, intrepido, y lagomorfo periodista de primera clase
A lot of cucks are dudes who are uncomfortable with some aspect of their masculinity (they’re insecure or they’re a bit bi and coming to terms with it, etc) and they process it through a humiliation and submission kink in a very similar way to how many women gravitate towards bodice-ripping and CNC to process the way sexual agency and forwardness are discouraged in women, etc

And a lot of cucks are huge racists who get off on the idea of their white wife being defiled by (insert minority bull here)

In either case they’re often more conservative than not. Libs/leftists are much more likely to just swing or do poly, etc.

sebzilla
Mar 17, 2009

Kid's blasting everything in sight with that new-fangled musket.


two fish posted:

How common is cuckolding in reality? You would think it was extremely commonplace, given the repeated references and insults and jokes about it in modern internet culture. Has anyone studied this?

At least two out of three people really enjoy it

whydirt
Apr 18, 2001


Gaz Posting Brigade :c00lbert:

sebzilla posted:

At least two out of three people really enjoy it

:golfclap:

Discendo Vox
Mar 21, 2013

Definitely a thread title here somewhere.

Shine
Feb 26, 2007

No Muscles For The Majority

sebzilla posted:

At least two out of three people really enjoy it

lol

Lord Zedd-Repulsa
Jul 21, 2007

Devour a good book.


Discendo Vox posted:

Definitely a thread title here somewhere.

Sex Questions Megathread: 2 out of 3 really enjoy cuckolding

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Discendo Vox posted:

Definitely a thread title here somewhere.

sebzilla posted:

At least two out of three people really enjoy it

Sex Questions Megathread: At least two out of three people really enjoy it

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VictualSquid
Feb 29, 2012

Gently enveloping the target with indiscriminate love.
The graphs thread recently looked at this. It is about interest, not actually doing things. But cucking seems to be pretty boring and in the middle.

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