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It doesn't matter what your (or his) opinion might be in the future. That's a mighty big roll of the dice to gamble on. What matters is that you're in a relationship right now with a guy who wants kids someday, and he's in a relationship with someone who doesn't. That's a pretty big deal, and I'd advise making him talk with you about it no matter how much he'd rather ignore the problem until it goes away. Shoe of all Cosmos posted:I hate that this kind of thing has the potential to be a dealbreaker when we enjoy everything else about each other... This is the best, healthiest relationship I've ever had. There is nothing wrong with how you feel about having kids, and there's nothing wrong with how he feels either. But the fact that you guys are on opposite sides of the issue make it way more than "one stupid thing". If it makes you feel better, I broke up with the most awesome and compatible woman I ever dated because she wanted me to stop riding motorcycles. Sure it sounds stupid on the surface, but I knew myself well enough to know I'd be a slowly simmering pot of resentment. Dealbreakers don't have to make sense to be dealbreakers.
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Jul 29, 2011 13:49
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Except for this one stupid thing.
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