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Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est

Academician Nomad posted:

Nothing quite like working a 60 hour week while going back and forth between a sick, miserable toddler who’s only doing so-so at potty training and a sick, miserable, pregnant wife who has no patience for potty training and is upset he isn’t done after 6 days

I feel like your wife should probably be potty trained by now but ymmv

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Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est
It's galling when my toddler gags at the smell of poop during a diaper change. Yeah of course it stinks, and you're not even the one who has to clean it up!

Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est

Chip McFuck posted:

My wife and I have a one-month old at home now, and it's become really hard. Every day around 9 pm, he will, without fail, start wailing so long and loudly that he goes hoarse. We have no idea why he does this as his sleeping, eating, and diapers have all been normal. Swaddling him, rocking him, nothing seems to calm him down. He'll eventually go to sleep after midnight, and then the whole process starts again the next night.

I'm at my wits end here. I knew my wife and I getting sleep was going to be a challenge, but this screaming is driving me insane.

This is textbook "Purple crying" and it loving sucks, but it will get better. A lot of babies do this, peaking around two months of age and stopping around 3-4 months. That will seem like an eternity away right now, but it will end.
By all means, get them checked out just in case but chances are there's nothing physically wrong with them, they just need to work through it. Focus on caring for yourself and your partner - take a break, block out the sound, whatever helps.

Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est
Flipping this on its head, Are there any widely-loved shows that you hate? Personally I can't stand Daniel Tiger; something about the animation and the way they keep breaking into little sing-along sentences that sound like different voice actors.

And this should go without saying but gently caress Blippi

Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est

hallo spacedog posted:

I feel you, my kiddo never ever spat up as a little baby or anything but now after a family wide bout with gastro I am trying to find a cleaner for my nice wool hallway runner that got puked upon suddenly, copiously.

Edit - drat what a stupid snipe.

Parenting Megathread: suddenly, copiously

Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est
Yeah, someone once said there will come a day where you pick them up and put them down for the last time, but you won't even realize it at the time :(

Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est

IceG posted:

Anyone have any good toy recommendations for plane toys on a....4 hour then a ten hour flight? This is for a 3.5 yo boy that loves cars and lego etc.

We will have the tablet stocked with cartoons and have got him special new headphones and even an adapter to plug into his plane seat if he wants. Just thinking he will probably only have his tray as play space really so quite limiting on fun things to do.

Got a colouring book, lego, cars. Just have to make it through 18 hours total of pain, then the grandparents take over haha

Get a goodie bag and fill it with little toys, books etc. Take out a new one every half hour, or when the novelty wears off. Even try giving him a roll of masking tape and letting him occupy himself wrapping things

Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est
Purple parenting

Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est
Bribery. A sticker on a big chart for every time they use the potty. A prize for completing a row or the whole thing. Our kid also got a smartie for every pee and a gummy bear for every poop. It might seem like spoiling them, but it's not for forever and it's about finding something that motivates them. One of my friends bought a bunch of cheap matchbox cars which were doled out as rewards.

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Grumio
Sep 20, 2001

in culina est

Slaan posted:

4 year old is happy to go to the potty and sit there for ten to twenty minutes. She just won't go. She has bowel control because we can see her hold out until a new pull up is put on. How do we break the diaper to pee/poo connection and switch to potty to pee and poo.

My suggestion once again is bribery. It might take a little while, but once they associate using the potty with reward, it becomes a lot faster. Our kid took a long time to tell us she needed to per/poop, but long before that we could just take her and she'd go once she sat down

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