purple death ray posted:

Fortunately, it's just a matter of practice. If she seems to prefer fingers vs tongue lean into whichever she likes but otherwise just do it a lot and you'll get used to it.

As an aside is there a pithy phrase on the level of "sucking dick" or "eating pussy" for manual stimulation on a vulva? Does it count as fingerbanging if you don't go inside at any time. Asking the hard questions on Friday afternoon.