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Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Zil posted:

Pornhub has a female friendly section also there is Bellesa.co as well.

XHamster also has a female friendly section.

Can't speak for specifically softcore though.

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Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




cnut posted:

WHAT GRIT

69 lol

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Ashex posted:

Anyone used remote control vibrators? After reading a whole lot of reviews I got the Lovense Lush for my partner but it seems that all vibrators of these type suffer from bluetooth connectivity issues.

It should have come with a dongle, are you using that?
Alternatively
Have you tried turning them off and on again?

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




silvergoose posted:

Poly works for some folks, monogamy works for others, and of course even that is super oversimplified. Anyone who tells you there's only one way to be happy and it works for everyone is a liar.

Sir, this is a McDonald's drive-thru

Not that this makes it any less correct, I just wanted to chime in

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Secondhand, but I have a cis guy friend who's chronically been unlucky with women (poor social skills, he's not a misogynist or anything), who's a big fan of fleshlights, I think he just bought his third one, and he's making some good points in making me consider one for when I have the privacy. That said, unless there's a good sale on or something, you're maybe better off using your money in more long-term solutions for the issue, since they don't come cheap (but I think there's a return period, if you're okay with it getting destroyed afterwards).

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




John Lee posted:

but then she relatively suddenly lost interest and started having the vaginismus issue to boot.

I don't want to armchair-diagnose or anything, but these seem potentially related.

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Since thread is on lube chat, and I recently came into a situation where I (hope to) need it, how much should I worry when it comes to the specific brand/product for butt stuff? There's a pretty wide selection of "water-based, anal" stuff, including with warming/cooling/numbing admixtures.

My initial thought was to get the best value/quantity plain water-based anal, but as the non-receiving of the two in this situation, it also feels like a decision that shouldn't be made unilaterally

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Spikes32 posted:

No extra effects, that can make it harder for the receiving partner to feel pain or discomfort. I recommend silicone instead of water based, you'll need to reapply much less often and thus your partner will have a better experience.

I'm worried about the difficulty to clean re: silicone, and I'm pretty sure the one we used (that she provided) was water-based, which is why I was looking more "basic" like that.

That was my thinking re: extra effects too, seems just as likely to be an issue than it is to be fun, so glad to hear my head was in the right place.

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




spiritual bypass posted:

How do I learn to stop getting distracted during sex? My mind wanders, then my penis goes soft. It only happens with less frequent partners, probably because I wonder more about them, eg "wait, she has TWO sword tattoos?"

I haven't had sex since starting it, but Hydrochloric Methylphenidate has helped me with similar sentiment :v:

Sorry I got nothing, I just remembered the time I had to turn a TV off cause it was distracting in my peripheral vision

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




trilobite terror posted:

IDK why anybody would want to replace a normal retailer/customer relationship with yet another subpar subscription service

Doing a YouTube unboxing of my CondomCrate and it comes with a funkopop, ensuring the condoms retain their Mint In Sealed Wrapper value

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Discendo Vox posted:

Definitely a thread title here somewhere.

sebzilla posted:

At least two out of three people really enjoy it

Sex Questions Megathread: At least two out of three people really enjoy it

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




more falafel please posted:

This has probably changed, but from an interview I read about 20 years ago, most of the big studios wouldn't work with any white women who had ever worked with Black men, like at all. Pretty hosed but the whole industry is pretty hosed.

Can't speak for studios, but I've definitely heard about ladies being "ruined" in the eyes of the public after they do a scene like that, although it wasn't too recent. Not that porn is where one goes for nuanced takes on race, but the fact that I don't remember hearing the same about degradation stuff with a white dude does sadly reflect on certain things.

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




two fish posted:

Has there been a single human culture where incest was not taboo? It seems to be one of those universal things that triggers revulsion, so I don't get why our society is so fascinated with it.

Do the Habsburgs count as a human culture?

Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




Mad Hamish posted:

Buddy, they're not flogging that dead horse.

What, they can't be into BDSM too?

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Serperoth
Feb 21, 2013




w4ddl3d33 posted:

back in here with a concerning sex question. i don't have haemorrhoids - what could be causing the new sharp pain i feel every time i have anal sex?

Giving or receiving?

You already mentioned going to the doctor, I don't have anything to add, but I don't want to miss the opportunity for the joke.

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