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Not a personal experience, but test that poo poo somewhere else first before applying liberally to sensitive areas. Some people are allergic.
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poo poo's growing on your ballsack. Go see a drat doctor. 
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Anne Whateley posted:This is a mess. Some of the choices read "click to type choice 3," there are options missing from other questions . . . you should have someone go over it. That is a drastically terrible survey. So many leading answers and questions with implied correct answers that the author is obviously fishing for. I can't believe they got a professor to sign off on it in any way.
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Mar 13, 2014 03:28
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Turtlicious posted:I was trying to say that I was upset my girlfriend went three years being squicked out, rather then being hung up on my own stuff. Still, this is a pretty big communication oversight. Something you should probably talk about to avoid any more large surprises in the future.
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Mar 15, 2014 21:52
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As far as why guys aren't expected to go both ways, it's pretty simple. Attractiveness has nothing to do with how guys are cast for straight porn. Most of them are ugly as gently caress, but get gigs because they have a decent-looking dick and can keep it up on command. There's a crossover between attractive hetero porn stars and gay porn roles, enough that 'gay for pay' is a thing in the industry for both genders.
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Mar 28, 2014 18:18
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Pinball posted:There's musical porn? There is Scooby Doo parody porn. Different strokes for different folks.
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Mar 29, 2014 23:20
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What the gently caress.
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Filboid Studge posted:Conditioner? Merkin? Some people just can't call loving loving.
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May 8, 2014 17:31
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sweetbeets posted:And this is exactly what I thought. I went to my doctor after we started having sex, because there were other issues, and his response was that he would do exams and the like until there was something serious enough that a referral was needed. Your doctor's an rear end in a top hat. Get rid of him.
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May 14, 2014 20:45
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It's not weird at all. They're actually suggested as a way to strengthen your pelvic muscles for slightly better erections, and to develop some conscious control to resist premature ejaculation or incontinence.
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May 16, 2014 06:48
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Masonity posted:Wouldn't trauma shears be a tad overkill for velcro straps? I can't imagine a scenario where you can't immediately release someone who's velcro strapped down without shears. Trauma shears are nice because they'll cut pretty much anything, and are very, very safe for cutting right against skin to get tightly wrapped things off right loving now if something goes wrong. They're not much more expensive than a pair of regular scissors, so they're nice to have around as a just in case.
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Jun 18, 2014 21:02
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Rotten Red Rod posted:So, Tuesday's Savage Love started with a diatribe against this: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/the-galactic-cap I'm with you on the Crowns. They work well, are tight without pinching so they feel fine, and come in bulk from Amazon for really good prices.
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Jun 27, 2014 04:40
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seriously, it's a thing in straight porn. You can google it.
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Aug 2, 2014 19:42
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Butt stuff? 
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Sep 2, 2014 17:09
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Turtlicious posted:You all just got trolled. Yeah, but for all that it might be a troll saying it, you know some goony motherfucker here's being insecure about it, so hopefully it helped them.
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Sep 28, 2014 22:36
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Masonity posted:That sounds like precum. It's your bodies natural way of lubing up ready for some action. Hydration will affect it, especially if you're very dehydrated. Other than that, nah, business as usual.
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Skutter posted:If you use anything like scarves, ties, rope, etc., make sure to have a pair of these handy in case things go south. I like these cuffs; they are easy to put on and take off, they're durable, and they're not too expensive. You could also check to see if you have a fetish group in your area, sometimes they have bondage workshops where they'll teach you how to do rope-tying. Bondage tape is good for this too. It only sticks to itself, so it doesn't pull hair and skin like duct tape would. Get the trauma shears, though. If someone panics, or has a medical emergency, the very first thing you want is an easy and safe way to get them loose immediately.
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Yeah, ~60% of the US population has Herpes Simplex I, which generally manifests as oral herpes aka cold sores.
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Sociopastry posted:Nope, that's really the long (hur) and short of it. It's not so much a problem in missionary because I actually like very light tapping on my cervix, but in any other position it's like a battering ram knocking on my hermetically sealed shame basket. It's gotten worse since I've lost a bunch of weight, too, because there's not as much padding so he goes deeper. Instead of full on doggy, lean forward more. That way you can change the angle and control depth by how close you keep your thighs together, even if he is going to be an asshat with no self control.
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gently caress da Mods posted:my gf wants anal but i dont want to use lube, is there compromise Yeah, the compromise is she gets out the strapon and you try taking it dry first.  Once the screaming stops, you can reconsider your position on lube.
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89 posted:I'm dating a girl right now and she's on birth control. She never misses a pill and is very adamant about staying on top of it. She says she's more worried about getting pregnant than I am. I always use the pull out method (I've tried different kind of condoms countless times and can't maintain an erection with them). She says that it would be fine to ejaculate in her and she's not worried about it. I've talked to a couple of friends and from their experiences they also back that statement up. That as long as the girl doesn't miss a pill, cream pie away. Just get yourself a cockring or something to keep you hard through those first few times with a condom and quit being a giant baby if you're still worried about it.
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A lot of people are really self conscious about it too, worried about sounding like bad porn actors.
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Nov 17, 2015 22:18
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You wanna feel really old, there are people with drivers' licenses these days who were born to people I graduated highschool with.
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Madbullogna posted:His viral load is actually why he's seeing his Dr tomorrow, he hasn't been on meds since his diagnosis a couple of years ago. He told me he didn't see the point in it, and apparently it's been a tough couple of years for him. Thankfully, he has decided he wants to be around for a long time and take care of himself, so his Dr is going to consider whatever AV meds are appropriate for where he's at right now. Jesus Christ sever. Being HIV+ is not something that a good person lies about, even by omission, to people they're loving. Especially when they're not even being treated to reduce the chances of spreading it. The fact that you've slept with him several times, and know of multiple other partners, and just now found out means that this is not a person you can trust. Period. End of story. If he'll lie about this, what else will he lie about? Get tested, repeatedly and religiously, and run the gently caress away. Liquid Communism fucked around with this message at 22:42 on Dec 7, 2015 |
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bobula posted:I had an iud put in and about a year later someone called my parents house asking for me, saying they were collecting info from people who may have had complications from the iud. They said this to my dad. It was way weird. That seems like it should be actionable under HIPAA. Someone let your medical information out.
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Suing people who release confidential medical information to just anyone is a way to make sure they don't loving do it again, and hence why HIPAA is a thing.
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Faerunner posted:Many men also think that pee comes out of the vagina, and don't know what/where the clit is. It's pretty terrifying asking the average American male about basic female anatomy. Abstinence based sex ed is a thing. A lovely, lovely thing.
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True story. Condoms kinda suck until you get used to them. HIV, the clap, and kids suck on a much longer term. Get used to the idea.
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EB Nulshit posted:My girlfriend hasn't had sex with any men before me and is super self-conscious about it. She wants me to point out ways that she can "improve" at it and I'm like, I don't think sex is a skill. I don't think you just get "better" at it. How do I explain that properly? Because "no, really, I don't think there's anything for you to do differently to 'improve' and also it's two-person thing. it's not something you're supposed to just worry about on your own" is met with "well, just think about it more and find something for me to do better". Why no, you can never get better at satisfying your partner, as you are blessed at conception with a Sexual Prowess Stat that defines your sex skills irrevocably for life. Sounds like she wants you to reroll, you might need to  .Or switch to dudes, I hear they are currently theorizing that there are separate stats for the 'Cum Guzzling Cock Slut' minigame.
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Ask over here : http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3170218 Effexor's common enough that the side effects are pretty well known. No advice to give you though!
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Ogmius815 posted:I'm in grad school bro, things that are dirt cheap for real people create unnecessary budget strains for me. But I guess if I stop buying them at Duane Reade and get them on Amazon or something they'll be cheaper. You're in grad school, bro. Just walk into Student Death, there's probably a fishbowl full of the drat things. They couldn't give them away fast enough when I was in school, and it's not like you're relying on them for pregnancy protection.
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I guess if she's into geldings...
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Just a pro-tip man, you've got thumbs, or at least palms if you're a flipper baby. They can manage weighted blunt contact fairly well.
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KillHour posted:Alternately, sleep with other people. At that point, what's the point of the relationship as opposed to friendship? It's a trainwreck looking for a moment to happen.
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Hazzard posted:Definitely not for everyone, but maybe an open relationship? That happened with two friends of mine. One was bi/pan and the other was asexual. The bi person has explicit permission to sleep with other people, but no falling in love or dating. I haven't spoken to them in 6 months, but I don't think this could work long term. That sounds like a special kind of hell, and the fastest recipe for resentment I can possibly think of.
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OwlFancier posted:I'm not sure a vow of celibacy means "jack off all the time" That's a really weird definition of celibacy, I'd agree. I mean, it's like you're giving up all the parts of sex that religion actually supports, pair bonding and procreation, but keeping all the endorphin-y bits our brain chemistry really likes.
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oliveoil posted:Why not? It seems you missed out on some major bits of Sex Ed, and should seek remedial instruction.
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Look into flavored lubes? Sugary things should not be on your donger, especially if you're going to go for PiV later, as yeast love that poo poo.
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viral spiral posted:What kind of sex are you referring to? Have you considered butt stuff?
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Honestly, it's a good thing for anyone, no matter their gender preferences, to take a minute to explore how they can get their partner off. It's a rewarding bit of effort for everyone involved.
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Kaninrail posted:I've been thinking about it for a while. While I no longer run/own the venue, there's some legal stuff that is in the middle of being finalized. Once that's done and I don't have to watch my words quite so much, I may well do an A/T thread on the business of kink communities. Please do, it sounds very interesting.
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