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Origami Dali
Jan 7, 2005

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Most popular water based lubes contain glycerin, which can cause varying degrees of irritation, especially if she's sensitive or easily gets yeast infections. If you don't want to go the silicone route, which can ruin toys and stain fabrics, try a water based lube that doesn't contain glycerin, like Sliquid.

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Origami Dali
Jan 7, 2005

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Sorry about your new fingerbabies.

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Is there a pill that makes it easier to orgasm? Asking for a friend.


The friend is my penis.

Origami Dali
Jan 7, 2005

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Oh yeah, I'm familiar with the joys of the weedbutts, which is great but requires prep, can have adverse effects if I smoke too much, and sometimes I just want a nice normal gently caress.

I'm talking about during intercourse. I cum about 20% of the time when having sex, and never the first time I'm with a new partner. I haven't been on any antidepressants in over a decade, fyi. I think it's got to do with the type of stimulation and level/type of arousal. I would think it's strictly a mental thing, but even at my most comfortable the actual physical sensation usually never feels right to get me there. I've gone without masturbating/porn and it doesn't help much, and I usually end up getting excruciating blue balls during foreplay/sex instead which destroys any possibility of orgasm (this happened to me on a first date recently and was quite awkward, pretty sure she didn't believe me when I said I had to stop loving her because I felt like I had a railroad spike in my scrotum).

Basically at this point, I'm looking for a magic bullet that I can use to cum on command because this poo poo is a hassle. If I'm alone, it's fairly easy to orgasm with the right combination of sensation and porn. Hopefully I haven't been DonJonning myself out of being able to enjoy sex.

hoobajoo posted:

L-arginine is supposed to be good for making sex feel more intense I think.

I thought l-arginine/lysine/lecithin was just for increasing semen volume/ejaculate intensity. I've done that before and it did increase that to some extent but it wasn't any easier to get to climax.

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Jan 7, 2005

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hoobajoo posted:

It sounds like performance anxiety more than a physical issue, so I don't think there's a magic bullet available.

hoobajoo posted:

It sounds like performance anxiety more than a physical issue, so I don't think there's a magic bullet available.

Eh, my last relationship lasted about two years and I can say after the first year, I didn't have much in the way of performance anxiety and was pretty much given license to do whatever I wanted during sex (she was super sub). It was hot as gently caress, but even then, it took a lot of work to even get close (I'm talking like at least an hour of continuous thrusting), and by that point I'm just too tired and frustrated to give a poo poo about cumming except on principle.

But I am a generally anxious person, and have always had plenty of anxiety/stress about other poo poo ever since I was a kid. I'm also not in great shape physically (too much beer), which I'm sure matters. Maybe I should just get on some anti anxiety meds that don't affect libido and exercise more? *shrug*

the littlest prince posted:

Blue balls can be extremely painful.

Word.

Origami Dali
Jan 7, 2005

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If there's more in there, it feels better during ejaculation, for me anyway. And some girls are turned on by the idea of being rained on. But lol at dude comparing himself to Peter North or whoever.

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Jan 7, 2005

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Wait, ssri's can gently caress up your cumming permanently???

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I wonder if being on ssri's during a large part of your teens has any effect on sexual development. I was on prozac daily from age 15-19.

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ChlamydiaJones posted:

"sex on cannabis is friggin' awesome, but why?"

I'm no scientist man, but I'd imagine it's the same reason for any vasodilator, like poppers or viagara. Increase of blood flow, hence easier and longer arousal, more intense headrush, etc., also with the decreased inhibition factor.

As for weed and butt stuff, I know that butt stuff increases my orgasm intensity. I also know that weed increases my orgasm intensity. Used together, my orgasms feel like my brain is on fire and my soul is flying out of my dick, hth.

Origami Dali
Jan 7, 2005

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Now do that plus butt stuff and reach a higher plane of existence.

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Violet_Sky posted:

My inability to have PiV sex due to my tightness down there which is caused by my cerebral palsy is giving me bad anxiety. I'm worried people are going to leave me over this. How disappointed would penis-havers be if they couldn't have PiV sex?

I imagine it depends on your thoughts concerning PiA.

Origami Dali
Jan 7, 2005

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I was under the impression that precum is only potent if you've previously ejaculated the same day without taking a piss in between, so it's basically the residual sperm left in your junk after ejaculation that hasn't been flushed out. That been debunked?

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I had to learn how to do oral when I was a teen from a girl who drew a diagram for me in loving Palace chat.

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Whatever happened to the allure of the backseat of whatever lovely car/rented limo you drove there?

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Shower sex is fun until you nearly pass out from heat exhaustion

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Tell that to my buddy. His wife encouraged him to get a vasectomy after 3 kids, so he did. Turns out, she had been cheating on him for at least a year before that. He's divorced and lost now. She retained custody and is remarried to the other guy now. And that's my married w/ vasectomy story.

Origami Dali
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As someone who orgasms from sex maybe 25% of the time, I feel dude's pain.

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goon answer: do you have access to horses?

real answer: daily lecithin supplements and water

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Anecdotal, but every dom woman I've known, which aren't many, have either been into women or little scrawny girly dudes.

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purple death ray posted:

Porn has about as much in common with normal sex lives as Fast and Furious has with driving to work in the morning. It's artifice designed to be entertaining and show off as much eye candy as possible and should not be taken as a road map to bone town

That used to be true, but it feels like now people of both sexes have been totally raised on internet porn to the point where everybody is trying to recapture it in the sack. At what point does it just becomes what sex is?

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Pornhub pays them

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Beard condom.

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Sliquid organics natural lube is good and is glycerin and paraben free, so it isn't sickly sweet and tacky, though it doesn't last as long as normal water based stuff. Shibari hemp is another one I like.

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BirdOfPlay posted:

I tried playing with a dom aspect, and just got laughter response.

Lol, that's harsh.

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Jan 7, 2005

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Every study of precum has concluded that any sperm in it is dead. The only time it's a risk is if you've cum beforehand and decide to have a second round.

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Jan 7, 2005

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Is everyone in here circumcised or something? I don't know about this cock sock poo poo, but by god I know dicks, and circumcised and uncircumcised dick heads are very different in terms of sensitivity and smoothness. It's why uncircumcised dudes jack off using the foreskin as a sleeve. The exposed head is way too sensitive for most friction that would seem normal for a circumcised dude. That ain't news.

That being said, check with a doctor dude to make sure that using a plastic dick coffin won't give you a fuckin infection.

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