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I once read a very gory description of an injury in a book I was reading at work and passed out in the bathroom due to my phobia of blood. I came to before anyone found me with what I suspect was a light concussion and spent the next 24 hours with a headache and nauseous, not telling anyone about it.
i also have a phobia of blood! i passed out when i was mountain biking with a friend because he fel and cut his legs up and he was riding in front of me.
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Oct 17, 2014 06:04
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Holy gently caress, where do I start.
I'm married.
My husband is carrying on a full blown affair. Got angry at me for finding out.
I have only just obtained a job after being in this country for... three and a half years.
My mother is insane and my husband is acting exactly like her.
That seems like... pretty much the gist of it, actually. Details, hopefully scrubbed of identifying bits:
My husband essentially saved my life, I'm not going to deny it. This was before we were involved - he came and helped me get out, paid a couple of months' rent for me, helped me furnish the place since I'd had to leave all my possessions behind - and then we got together, moved in together way too fast, and got married after being together for a little less than a year. I immigrated to his country (I don't regret that part, I like it here.) Got some money left to me by my grandmother, have been going to school. Hoping to go into medical school, but my grades are mediocre because I don't study enough. I'm working on that; I don't know how to study efficiently (I always sort of did well effortlessly when I was younger; we're talking low 2000s on the SAT without studying ever although I know that's irrelevant standardized testing) so I'm trying to learn.
That was irrelevant, but if I delete one thing I'm liable to delete it all, so... yeah.
Husband thought that, since I had no job, I should essentially be a perfect housewife. I am terrible at cleaning, I grew up with a hoarder, but I did and do try - it's not enough. He's screamed at me for being a 'modern woman' (read: lazy cow) before. Also admitted to using, uh. Wife-training videos? Was confused by my being angry at this admission too, because, quote, "if you won't do what I want, what other recourse do I have?"
This got no better when I got into school. Hence mediocre grades - if it's on the computer, it must be less important than sweeping!
He got a vasectomy last year. We haven't had sex since before that.
Related: he's boning a younger woman. Carrying on a full-blown affair, in fact - I found out when I was turning off his eight alarms on his cell phone; he left his text messages up. Related: I read about a thousand words per minute. I literally couldn't help seeing the stupid pet names. Or the fact that he was "definitely looking forward to sex."
Made the mistake of confronting him. Now I can't even turn off the alarms.
Hate everything right now. (Yes, I know, get the gently caress out. Can't afford to just yet, but I've opened a separate checking account. Once I have enough money saved for a couple months, I'll do my best.)
I still haven't told anyone in my real life besides my in-laws, who... are kind of hoping we'll reconcile and are gently pushing me towards trying. I don't really want to but I'll make a superficial effort for their sake. (I could probably devote eight thousand words to how amazing they are, honestly - suffice to say that my mother-in-law is the first sane female influence I've had in my life since my grandmother died a decade ago and my father-in-law is the sweetest man in creation.)
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Oct 17, 2014 06:07
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- Tsinava
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by Ralp
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wow i feel really bad for whoever that is.
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Oct 17, 2014 06:09
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- H.H
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August is the Cruelest Month
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Holy gently caress, where do I start.
I'm married.
My husband is carrying on a full blown affair. Got angry at me for finding out.
I have only just obtained a job after being in this country for... three and a half years.
My mother is insane and my husband is acting exactly like her.
That seems like... pretty much the gist of it, actually. Details, hopefully scrubbed of identifying bits:
My husband essentially saved my life, I'm not going to deny it. This was before we were involved - he came and helped me get out, paid a couple of months' rent for me, helped me furnish the place since I'd had to leave all my possessions behind - and then we got together, moved in together way too fast, and got married after being together for a little less than a year. I immigrated to his country (I don't regret that part, I like it here.) Got some money left to me by my grandmother, have been going to school. Hoping to go into medical school, but my grades are mediocre because I don't study enough. I'm working on that; I don't know how to study efficiently (I always sort of did well effortlessly when I was younger; we're talking low 2000s on the SAT without studying ever although I know that's irrelevant standardized testing) so I'm trying to learn.
That was irrelevant, but if I delete one thing I'm liable to delete it all, so... yeah.
Husband thought that, since I had no job, I should essentially be a perfect housewife. I am terrible at cleaning, I grew up with a hoarder, but I did and do try - it's not enough. He's screamed at me for being a 'modern woman' (read: lazy cow) before. Also admitted to using, uh. Wife-training videos? Was confused by my being angry at this admission too, because, quote, "if you won't do what I want, what other recourse do I have?"
This got no better when I got into school. Hence mediocre grades - if it's on the computer, it must be less important than sweeping!
He got a vasectomy last year. We haven't had sex since before that.
Related: he's boning a younger woman. Carrying on a full-blown affair, in fact - I found out when I was turning off his eight alarms on his cell phone; he left his text messages up. Related: I read about a thousand words per minute. I literally couldn't help seeing the stupid pet names. Or the fact that he was "definitely looking forward to sex."
Made the mistake of confronting him. Now I can't even turn off the alarms.
Hate everything right now. (Yes, I know, get the gently caress out. Can't afford to just yet, but I've opened a separate checking account. Once I have enough money saved for a couple months, I'll do my best.)
I still haven't told anyone in my real life besides my in-laws, who... are kind of hoping we'll reconcile and are gently pushing me towards trying. I don't really want to but I'll make a superficial effort for their sake. (I could probably devote eight thousand words to how amazing they are, honestly - suffice to say that my mother-in-law is the first sane female influence I've had in my life since my grandmother died a decade ago and my father-in-law is the sweetest man in creation.)
This is a repost of an old e/n thread, so either it's fake, or a cry for help I guess?
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Oct 17, 2014 06:10
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- Machai
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This is a repost of an old e/n thread, so either it's fake, or a cry for help I guess?
deffo an old e/n op
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Oct 17, 2014 06:26
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- Machai
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guys I just realized...sid will say whatever we tell him to
he has no way to tell if it is true or not
sid, my secret is "I'm a pretty princess. A pretty, pretty princess"
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Oct 17, 2014 06:27
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- Gone Fashing
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KEEP POSTIN
I'M STILL LAFFIN
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guys I just realized...sid will say whatever we tell him to
he has no way to tell if it is true or not
sid, my secret is "I'm a pretty princess. A pretty, pretty princess"
your supposed to pm it dumbass
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Oct 17, 2014 06:29
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- tao of lmao
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sid here: i'm a dumb gay loser nerd
sid, bro, this is for the others' secrets
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Oct 17, 2014 12:25
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- tao of lmao
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also none of that is secret
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Oct 17, 2014 12:26
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- Machai
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someone signed me up for like a loving lot of mailings lists haha
lol @ whoever's secret this is
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Oct 17, 2014 18:26
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- my new dog
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by Nyc_Tattoo
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you didnt post my secret
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Oct 17, 2014 20:33
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- my new dog
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by Nyc_Tattoo
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ididnt actually send one xD
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Oct 17, 2014 20:43
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- Rick
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When I was 17, my father was so stupid, I didn't want to be seen with him in public. When I was 24, I was amazed at how much the old man had learned in just 7 years.
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Wow an anonmous secret came to me and I don't know why but it says, "I'm fluffyduckie and I killed several drifters just to watch them die."
Strange. Not sure why that happened but I figured the OP would want to know.
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Oct 17, 2014 21:26
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- dogcrash truther
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Wow an anonmous secret came to me and I don't know why but it says, "I'm fluffyduckie and I killed several drifters just to watch them die."
Strange. Not sure why that happened but I figured the OP would want to know.
she sent that to everybody
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Oct 18, 2014 01:45
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- Bloodfart McCoy
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That's a high quality avatar right there.
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I like it when I cum blood.
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Oct 18, 2014 04:38
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- Bloodfart McCoy
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That's a high quality avatar right there.
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oops.
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Oct 18, 2014 04:39
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she sent that to everybody
classic fluffs
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Oct 18, 2014 05:19
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- FluffieDuckie
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this doesn't sound right
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Oct 18, 2014 05:29
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- smoobles
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i bought 4 robin avatars
edit: oops this isn't pm
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Oct 18, 2014 05:50
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- Pizzatime
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funny how secrets work
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Oct 18, 2014 09:25
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- tao of lmao
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i bought 4 robin avatars
edit: oops this isn't pm
I respect you for coming forward.
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Oct 18, 2014 14:51
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i switched accounts with air julio and ever since the name change it's been me posting, thus why he's good now
wait, what?
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Oct 18, 2014 19:09
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Apr 29, 2024 15:50
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- FluffieDuckie
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i switched accounts with air julio and ever since the name change it's been me posting, thus why he's good now
this makes so much more sense now
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